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[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3662451]Unless you know about a hidden treasure that I have hidden somewhere, then there's nothing she can get from me. Some dick a sandwich maybe a couple bucks here and there, and that's no problem I buy pussy all the time. It's not like I'm some big time CEO. This girl is 27 years old I have no future with her and she knows that. We work in a very public place some young guy who has some sense will eventually scoop her up and we will move on. Painting a picture of gloom and doom because we decided to rub toes is crazy. If this girl goes crazy over me then she is crazy cause I ain't all that. HL29.[/QUOTE]HL,
I have followed your posts for years and would have never thought you would be so much of a horn dog to shit in your own doghouse.
As someone who was once accused of harassment, I know it ain't fun. Like in your case, the lady was not a subordinate. She got offended by things I said in a public bar. I did realize that I had overstepped the bounds and did apologize the next day. She still filed a complaint.
The fact that she:
1.) could have left the bar.
2.) was accepting drinks that I purchased for her and others.
3.) was not someone that I directly supervised and had no influence on her possible career.
4.) she never complained about the activity while it was happening.
5.) did accept, though she said under duress, my apology, gave her no leg to stand on.
I have had over the years one or two mistresses at work. Never were they subordinate to me. Never could I have affected their career. All were and are now after MANY years women who actually like / love me even to this day. The BCD activities happened after a lot of back and forth, kidding, flirting and knowing each other as friends first, lovers second.
Good luck to you. May the force be with you and hopefully you won't get a light saber up your ass, which could cut off your dick for the future.
Dude, more power to you if you can maintain an adult, sexual, non-vindictive relationship with a 20 something, but the odds are against it really lasting.