Misslissa, IDK WTF is going on with this one.
This one texts like she's goddamned chatgpt. Long winded responses that rephrase what I said to her and don't get to any point or answer any questions. After multiple back and forth attempts to come to an arrangement it got down to something about wanting clear expectations and asking her pretty bluntly what she wanted for ppm. Her response was another paragraph of 'active listening' with no substance.
Paranoid brain says she's trying to get me to put a number out first but she's probably just too stupid to understand her game of playing coy has worn too thin. Maybe one of you can stomach her.
At least I remembered to get the link before I blocked her this time. Baby steps.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1b1cd934-e033-4e2b-9394-1b6861ddad83[/URL]
Happy and Fun AKA Missy. Turned into drama
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c595825a-5182-4578-b60f-54d66d2475b3[/URL]
She literally just changed her name on the site as I refreshed the page. Used to be "Happy and Fun" and not it's "Missy" which is not the name she used with me in person.
She starts super sweet and accommodating but I caught multiple little contradictions and comments that indicated she isn't what she says. At one point she says she will spend whatever time with me I want and then it becomes 'I can't spend all my time with you' when it was only a bit over an hour. She claims to be looking for a single person but is on the site all day long. She's constantly making last minute changes to her schedule. She says she works all night so can only meet midday, which she does mention in her profile, which is super challenging for most of us but she claims it's worked well with others. Sure. She's also always making 'appointments' of an unspecified nature. Fairly sure it's other dudes she's playing the game with.
She legitimately cute and attractive but she started pushing back on what she thought the agreement was and got super pissy about it, saying she said things she hadn't said and so forth and gaslighting me for being whatever she was claiming. I'd only seen her a couple times, it was super fun at first but her attitude ruined it. Gut says she's just trying to find a simp that will pay her for existing.
I definitely saw it coming, though, so no surprise. Next.
August / September Research
Preface.
I'm on Seeking mostly, but have a few credits left on Secret Benefits, so made some attempts there, too. I've done a lot of Favoriting, sent a lot of messages, sent some follow-ups, moved to text with several people, did some M&Gs, got ghosted, fucked some, probably overpaid in some cases. All in the name of research. Others have posted about some of these women, but keeping them in here because they were part of my research and overlapped with their commentary while I was in touch with them.
Women I've Met.
LusciousVenus.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd31298e-c094-4bb9-ad01-9139217b53e0[/URL]
MILF. Hotter than pics. 600 PPM. BB. MSOG. Can't host. Great BBBJ. Her mouth got the big guy going again after a couple of rounds and after I thought I was done.
Sarah.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc3bcdbd-03bb-4f37-bb2e-42e606232ff4[/URL]
Hot petite MILF. 400 PPM. Covered. Can't host. No anal, nothing violent / super rough. Will send pics / teaser videos before a meet. Energetic and fun. Tiny little thing. Loves it from behind and her on top is a joy.
Theresa.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4082535d-91db-4e50-a728-9d32fb97a9af[/URL]
Hot 20 something co-ed. Accurate pics. Sexier in person. Asks 500-800 PPM (up to you to decide). BB (no CIP). Can't host. Great conversation, super fun.
Still Texting / Haven't Yet Met (Any insight welcome).
Jada.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e1d44ebd43d22bb1[/URL]
She's on Seeking, too.
Asking 500 PPM. Didn't object when I said I could provide test results and had vasectomy, so assuming BB. Can't host. No anal.
Kelly.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/026a65d7-6323-4940-b71b-30a7a084f6ed[/URL]
Asking 400-500 PPM. BB. Can host. No anal (at least at first). Weekends are best.
Launy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eba47820-7ee5-4a6c-abd0-ce8868f12899[/URL]
Asking 500 PPM. Covered. Can't host. No anal.
Renee.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e8b5fd78-af21-4319-90f4-24e13768955c[/URL]
Asking for 500 PPM. BB. Can't host. Coming from Olympia. Had something scheduled with her and then she had to beg off at the last minute due to a sitter issue. Seems kinda legit, but also kind of scarred me. Have not yet rescheduled.
Had a M&G / Nothing More.
Misty.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2e8156a5-1b26-42be-9136-1430511ebd8d[/URL]
Asking 300 PPM. BB. Prefers not to host. Seems very much like the cute small town girl that she is. Didn't vibe with her.
Texted But Never Met And Won't.
Apt803.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0321e897-8878-45b8-8971-529b030c3433[/URL]
Looking for someone closer to her age (32).
Diamond.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/sent/5de90435-e2ac-4f8a-bef6-c83c8c64d292[/URL]
Literally DMd me a menu: 200 qv, 40 min /400,1 hr /600, cash only. Can host. Gets a room in Tukwila.
Emma (formerly Heidi).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/29a16fa8-e4eb-4be5-be3a-4f215afa1a0b[/URL]
Asked for 800 PPM, dropped to 650. BB. Can host in downtown Seattle. Not a fan of anal. Profile name changed randomly. Something seems off.
Gia.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9d6d39d3-38f0-4ac9-8bd4-ad2872c3d577[/URL]
Asked for 600 PPM, dropped to 500, said would go lower if we became regular. BB. Can't host right now but will be able to in the future. No anal the first time but open to it if it's something I like. Will send a few pics to entice you. But did the opposite for me.
Jessica.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eba733e5-f17f-4cc0-9cd4-cac16ff0fe87[/URL]
Asked for 1600 PPM with weekly meetings. LOL. Wants 2 K for overnight. Didn't balk when I mentioned recent test results and a vasectomy.
Kerri.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd7d491e-10dc-4198-a70e-c5f27999a3f3[/URL]
Asked for 1000 PPM. Would not budge on condoms. Cannot host. No anal.
Natalie.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/192aca78-9b0c-7638-2338-43cd3b4bbf8b[/URL]
Asking 500 PPM. BB. No specific rules / restrictions. Cannot host at the moment. Seen other reports that have turned me off of her.
Rose.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26203e09-b0c9-4f56-a56c-c4022b7b1f69[/URL]
Claims last two arragements were PPMs of 750-1000. Covered. No overnights, no marks / hickeys. Can bring a friend (shared a pic, meh) for another 1 K.
Savannah.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c11b203-dc73-4b11-8f77-2c29ed431c13[/URL]
She's only on the list because I started texting before she updated her profile and that pissed me off. When we started texting, profile only had her main, smiling face pic. Super cute. Next thing I know, we're chatting and then I see other pics showing a fucking face tat! Nope. Not going there. Have no idea about pricing and rules.
Skye.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/73f166cd-7808-49c5-aefc-b0ba263f1034[/URL]
Wants a traditional SD / SB relationship. "People try to use this as a hooker site or something idk. Like geez at least give time and space for us to learn one another! People don't allow things to grow organically. " Didn't discuss any details.
Summer.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dcc36f07-e865-4c2b-bc7f-f7154cc7e56c[/URL]
Says typical PPM is 750-1500. Said we have to wear protection, but once I said I could provide test results and have had a vasectomy she felt comfortable going without. Has to be home by 10:30 on weekdays because she has a kid, but can stay out as long as we want on weekends. Curfew vibes much?
Ghosted / Other.
Amanda.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/77c64257b4d114e1[/URL]
Asked for 500. Ghosted on unpaid coffee M&G.
Britt.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb0804cf-7c69-4edd-9311-b95bf75bd59d[/URL]
Sent me to an OF site with literally zero content. WTF?
Lacie.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc68606b-9e27-45d1-846a-5c2350fb786d[/URL]
Been chatting her up multiple times via text, but any time we start talking about getting together and the conversation turns to what would an arrangement look like, she goes silent. Literally have no idea about anything because she refuses to talk about particulars.
Lyla.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e7cbb0816bd962c5[/URL]
500. BB. Can host. No kissing, no DATYSet up something, went on a weekend trip, texted to confirm upon return and then nothing.
Other Randomness.
Literally texting with Next Door Cutie ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e5d830e2-8c36-42e6-be2d-8756effb3d98[/URL]) now after like a year of trying to get her to even read a message. Fingers crossed.
In a VERY slow dialogue with SpoiledSugarBaby ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2df98a4d-6a07-4b26-b20b-54924d63e283[/URL]) No idea where it'll lead.