Why I visited Sonja a second time
[QUOTE=CaryMike;6504798]Just curious man, but why did you go back? I read your earlier reviews where you called it a lackluster massage. It's also been well documented that she's not offering anything more. Seems like a lot of effort and money chasing a HJ. Your money / your time, so not trying to tell you what to do, but I'm surprised that you're surprised about the outcome. We've all been guilty of doing irrational things in this hobby so I'm not judging. I've done my share of letting the little head think for me! But if you need reinforcement. Much better options out there my friend, leave this one in the rear view mirror for good.[/QUOTE]I think you'll find most of the answers to your questions in my post about her in April, but I'll summarize some of the points here. The time I called her massage lackluster was just a reply to someone asking about her and it was based on what she posted in her ads, what other reviewers have stated about her, and my own experience with one of her former employees back in 2015 or 2016. I actually didn't get a massage from her directly until about 3 months ago and the main reason she piqued my interest that time around was because she advertised that she offered undraped Esalen massages, which she didn't do before. Instead, she previously stated herself that she would require draping with a towel that could cover you from below the neck to your feet! I remember that experience with her ex-employee and I wasn't pleased, so I didn't bother trying to book a session with Sonja until a few months ago because she did away with the draping requirement yet still posted on these kind of erotic rub sites. When I finally had my first massage with her officially, I actually enjoyed it despite it being overpriced and not getting an HE right away, which is understandable since she's an LMT and doesn't know me enough yet. I was completely naked in front of her, undraped, and she might have done a bit of teasing on me down below.
Why did I see her for a second and most likely final time? Here's why:
1. Like I mentioned earlier, I did actually enjoy my first massage despite it being overpriced and not getting an HE the first time.
2. I understand why she may be cautious about giving an HE right away since she's an LMT and doesn't want to risk losing her license. At the same time, she's still advertising on these kinds of sites yet loosening her previous restrictions a bit, which is why I thought building her trust through a few visits would get her to open up. My experiences with AMPs in the past showed that you sometimes have to build trust with the provider before the menu opens up. Her "accidentally" grazing my privates multiple times that day also made me believe that there may be more to her.
Now, you're probably wondering why I don't seek out providers who make it more obvious that they provide HE? Well, there's your answer! I tend to go for providers who look like every day women and aren't overtly sexual, yet will give you a nice rub and more. Nancy is a great example of this. While she appears to be your average woman in her posts, you're pretty much guaranteed to receive a good massage and an HJ from her every visit. I guess I tend to go for these types because it's my way of coping with the shame of this activity by making it seem less like I'm visiting a sex worker, hence the reason why I've never visited an actual escort. I was more active in 2014-2016, but have toned down considerably since then. The number of times I've gotten an erotic rub each year since then can be counted on one hand and some years that hand would form a fat goose egg! Unfortunately, I may be wrong about Sonja. And it's not just that she doesn't give me an HE, but it's just that she was less friendly in the last visit and the number of financial hoops I'd probably have to jump through to get something more. I guess it's like the old saying, "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. " But you're right, it's time to move on.
I will also send you a PM about this post by the way. There's other details I don't want to post publicly. Peace.
