Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6941980]Pretty sure she's up to no good.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b21f46ab-c9dd-4146-8684-c2a0d77d0779[/URL][/QUOTE]Why do you say that?

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6936419]I work in Copley. I wonder if she's around today and if I could make this happen before the end of the work day.[/QUOTE]Forgot to update: she wasn't in Copley, but I did see her later that day in Waltham. $300 ppm, bbj, bbfscip. Probably won't repeat.

[QUOTE=Wockser;6934602]Super dud. Currently like six months pregnant too. Got a lot of her content though but was taken for a ride overall.[/QUOTE]Got her number? In spite of the warning LOL.

I'm seeing gals (seem like pros) mention stuff like, ". Spontaneous event night. Seeking members preferably. " It's always a heart emoji followed by events. And the gals have multiple higher-end locations, Miami, LA, etc. Tried Googling. Inconclusive. Anyone?

[QUOTE=BostonAmpFan;6945895]I'm seeing gals (seem like pros) mention stuff like, ". Spontaneous event night. Seeking members preferably. " It's always a heart emoji followed by events. And the gals have multiple higher-end locations, Miami, LA, etc. Tried Googling. Inconclusive. Anyone?[/QUOTE]It's a scam, they change the name on it every few months. They claim you have to join some club to meet sugar babies and, well, you won't.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/02a54806-9519-4b1d-a044-56fa8a632100[/URL]

I have had more than enough of my share of scammers. We arranged to meet for 4. She came to hotel, asked me for the money. She put money in her pocket. Asked if I have latex free protection. When I showed it to her, she said it was not latex free, she would get it from her car. I told her to leave the money and she could get it. She started walking out of door, she said I tried to put my hands on her and she's recording everything. I let her get out. I saw someone was waiting outside in the car and they drove off. She called me saying she was so scared that I tried to hit her. I didn't even touch her.

[QUOTE=Np36781;6950496][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/02a54806-9519-4b1d-a044-56fa8a632100[/URL]

I have had more than enough of my share of scammers. We arranged to meet for 4. She came to hotel, asked me for the money. She put money in her pocket. Asked if I have latex free protection. When I showed it to her, she said it was not latex free, she would get it from her car. I told her to leave the money and she could get it. She started walking out of door, she said I tried to put my hands on her and she's recording everything. I let her get out. I saw someone was waiting outside in the car and they drove off. She called me saying she was so scared that I tried to hit her. I didn't even touch her.[/QUOTE]It takes a lot for me to get upset even when I sound upset I'm really not. Sneaky girls really tick me off! should have told her get a job don't steal

I messaged you. I think I know her real identity. And if it's who I think it is, then she's a real bad actor. You obviously did many things wrong in your approach to meeting her.

[QUOTE=Np36781;6950496][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/02a54806-9519-4b1d-a044-56fa8a632100[/URL]

I have had more than enough of my share of scammers. We arranged to meet for 4. She came to hotel, asked me for the money. She put money in her pocket. Asked if I have latex free protection. When I showed it to her, she said it was not latex free, she would get it from her car. I told her to leave the money and she could get it. She started walking out of door, she said I tried to put my hands on her and she's recording everything. I let her get out. I saw someone was waiting outside in the car and they drove off. She called me saying she was so scared that I tried to hit her. I didn't even touch her.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Np36781;6950496][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/02a54806-9519-4b1d-a044-56fa8a632100[/URL]

I have had more than enough of my share of scammers. We arranged to meet for 4. She came to hotel, asked me for the money. She put money in her pocket. Asked if I have latex free protection. When I showed it to her, she said it was not latex free, she would get it from her car. I told her to leave the money and she could get it. She started walking out of door, she said I tried to put my hands on her and she's recording everything. I let her get out. I saw someone was waiting outside in the car and they drove off. She called me saying she was so scared that I tried to hit her. I didn't even touch her.[/QUOTE]When you people ever going to learn to stop acting like a simp and hand your money over to these woman the second they walk in the door.

Be better guys. These things need to be negotiated before hand. You got played and although I empathize with you think next time.

[QUOTE=AcknowledgeMe;6950845]When you people ever going to learn to stop acting like a simp and hand your money over to these woman the second they walk in the door.[/QUOTE]

Is she really from Attleboro?

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6950670]I messaged you. I think I know her real identity. And if it's who I think it is, then she's a real bad actor. You obviously did many things wrong in your approach to meeting her.[/QUOTE]

I will say that most of them (actually all of them) change their behavior depending on what's in front of them. So, if they sense that you're a pushover or inexperienced, then they will definitely try to take advantage. It's really no different from parenting. There's a lot you can sense from the interaction before you even decide to meet. And then how you structure the meeting has a lot to do with success or failure of the meeting. I've been through my set of bad experiences and have the scars to prove it. Any monger on this forum who talks down to you and suggests that it was your fault is just being arrogant. Anyone who has mongered has had both good and bad experiences. Experience does matter. That's how you learn. You're not at an Apple store at the mall where everyone gets the same deal. This is the unregulated world. You have to fend for yourself. Finally, not everyone is cut out for this. So, sometimes you have to come to terms with your limitations and quit this lifestyle and choose a different path like a relationship with one trusted person. But even then, as we know, how well do you ever really know the person you're with? Life isn't easy.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6950670]I messaged you. I think I know her real identity. And if it's who I think it is, then she's a real bad actor. You obviously did many things wrong in your approach to meeting her.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6950914]Is she really from Attleboro?[/QUOTE]She said she lives in Randolph.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6951135]I will say that most of them (actually all of them) change their behavior depending on what's in front of them. So, if they sense that you're a pushover or inexperienced, then they will definitely try to take advantage. It's really no different from parenting. There's a lot you can sense from the interaction before you even decide to meet. And then how you structure the meeting has a lot to do with success or failure of the meeting. I've been through my set of bad experiences and have the scars to prove it. Any monger on this forum who talks down to you and suggests that it was your fault is just being arrogant. Anyone who has mongered has had both good and bad experiences. Experience does matter. That's how you learn. You're not at an Apple store at the mall where everyone gets the same deal. This is the unregulated world. You have to fend for yourself. Finally, not everyone is cut out for this. So, sometimes you have to come to terms with your limitations and quit this lifestyle and choose a different path like a relationship with one trusted person. But even then, as we know, how well do you ever really know the person you're with? Life isn't easy.[/QUOTE]You don't give money upfront to anyone and then this doesn't happen. Not hard stuff.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6951135]I will say that most of them (actually all of them) change their behavior depending on what's in front of them. So, if they sense that you're a pushover or inexperienced, then they will definitely try to take advantage. It's really no different from parenting. There's a lot you can sense from the interaction before you even decide to meet. And then how you structure the meeting has a lot to do with success or failure of the meeting. I've been through my set of bad experiences and have the scars to prove it. Any monger on this forum who talks down to you and suggests that it was your fault is just being arrogant. Anyone who has mongered has had both good and bad experiences. Experience does matter. That's how you learn. You're not at an Apple store at the mall where everyone gets the same deal. This is the unregulated world. You have to fend for yourself. Finally, not everyone is cut out for this. So, sometimes you have to come to terms with your limitations and quit this lifestyle and choose a different path like a relationship with one trusted person. But even then, as we know, how well do you ever really know the person you're with? Life isn't easy.[/QUOTE]I will also add that this is a "numbers game" meaning statistically speaking, if you meet enough people, you'll meet some bad ones.

Now as DC says, there are many things you can do to improve your odds -- things that help weed out the scammers and worse before you meet them. But in the end. . . It can still happen despite objectively doing everything "right. ".

I never, ever, meet someone from Seeking for the first time in a hotel room. Never. It's not just risk reduction, it's also about the "type" I seek.