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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;6983653]This is like finding a needle in a haystack. You're welcome to try but I don't recommend it. Tiktok is just like any other social platform like IG, Twitter, FB, etc. The reason is that the girls did not express interest in dating or meeting someone. Most often times, they will not respond to your messages unless of course, you're a young-looking model or someone famous or of importance. Also, they might think you're a stalker or a creep. Plus thousands of guys have already flooded their inbox. How will your one message stand out from the rest?[/QUOTE]
Finding them in general is not that hard. Finding one locally will be harder. But lots of guys here travel and I am sure there are those that fly girls in (another hot topic on tiktok, girls love flying to cool places like L.A., Vegas, Miami or NY) . But anyway if it worked for me it can work for anyone as I may be charming but my means are very limited. And this is especially useful to guys that only date in the 18-21 range as those girls profiles have dropped 90% on seeking. And as far as creepy or being a stalker. Don't act like one and they wont see you as one. Recently an 18 y.o. I liked was like dude you are too old. But after a bit she said well if there was some money in it I could be interested as I did not lead with the $. It's an option. But if you only date 25-40 girls on seeking you have unlimited options.
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Make a profile that has a leading user name. Like LosAngelesSugarDaddy or not. Then just start scrolling the videos that hit your FYP. Once you see a girl that is your type, follow her and like maybe 3 of her videos. Leave a brief comment like you look amazing or love your outfit. Try to leave your comments on posts that have as few comments as possible so it gets noticed.
Only follow girls that are right in your demographic. Do this until you are following at least 100 girls. BTW you do not need to leave any content of your own. At the bottom of most of the videos you will see a hashtag # that will say something like #asiangirls or #yogagirls or #prettyblackgirls. Search that and find some more girls in your demographic.
At this point tiktok will recognize your preferences and start delivering more similar content to your FYP. If you get sidetracked and start watching a lot of videos about politics or food you will also start seeing more of those videos. Have a real pic or at least one that shows you are older.
Girls will start to follow you back. You can only DM girls that follow you back. Never ask a girl to follow you, this is considered lame. You can add some text to your profile that may give a hint of your intentions. Just add a little. Sometimes random people will leave a comment on your comment. Never reply to those. In fact I don't even read mine (unless it is the creator). But if it is a hot girl I will start to like a few more of her videos. But never like more than 3 at a time. Doing that is like love bombing and also considered simping. Which may or may not work for you. I advise against it.
If a girl really wants to talk to you she will follow you and then DM you. Or you can DM her once she starts following. Also you will get a ton of bots and scammers following you even if you have no content posted. Remove all the followers that do not meet your demographic. Mostly the DM's will start out very brief like hi or how are you or where are you located. Then just go from there.
The girl I am seeing now and who is officially my GF lives in another state. I flew her in for a 3 day weekend after about 2 months of txting and some facetime. It just happened to go really well. But she is in my demographic and we are a personality match on a deep level. I will be seeing her again later this month or next month. This particular girl is not an SB (although she told me she has only dated older guys since she was 17). She has a good job and is still in school. Aside from the ticket, some meals and a sexy outfit I got in advance on shein to fuck her in, no other money was spent.
One of the downsides is that many times they will not be in your area. The investment in time is a lot. So if that's not on your agenda this will never work for you. Admittedly I got lucky, but I put in the work. I was not on there looking to meet girls but as I gained experience I could see the potential. Girls in the 18-28 range meet most of their dates on social media these days. So for them it is pretty natural. And I have turned down more than a few pro SB's as well. Mostly because they were not in my area.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6984215]Finding them in general is not that hard. Finding one locally will be harder. But lots of guys here travel and I am sure there are those that fly girls in (another hot topic on tiktok, girls love flying to cool places like L.A., Vegas, Miami or NY) . But anyway if it worked for me it can work for anyone as I may be charming but my means are very limited. And this is especially useful to guys that only date in the 18-21 range as those girls profiles have dropped 90% on seeking. And as far as creepy or being a stalker. Don't act like one and they wont see you as one. Recently an 18 y.o. I liked was like dude you are too old. But after a bit she said well if there was some money in it I could be interested as I did not lead with the $. It's an option. But if you only date 25-40 girls on seeking you have unlimited options.
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Make a profile that has a leading user name. Like LosAngelesSugarDaddy or not. Then just start scrolling the videos that hit your FYP. Once you see a girl that is your type, follow her and like maybe 3 of her videos. Leave a brief comment like you look amazing or love your outfit. Try to leave your comments on posts that have as few comments as possible so it gets noticed.[/QUOTE]This is very good detailed information you've provided here. Anyone can give it a try by following these steps. I'm just surprised Tiktok doesn't block your account if your username or any info you posted contains Sugar Daddy or anything related to Sugaring. Other dating platforms such as Tinder or Bumble will ban you right away, I guess it's an China app and it's very loose on the policies.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6983588]For all the petite AA lovers out there. Anybody meet up with her yet? Just started messaging with her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c307b569-c5f4-4f70-a91f-7455de2e1350[/URL][/QUOTE]How much is she asking for?
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[QUOTE=SeanTime53;6985021]How much is she asking for?[/QUOTE]Didn't get to talking about rates. But IMHO this is one of those get her while you can situations, she is hot, horny (probably smoked out) and going to be a lot of fun. Also conveniently located between DTLA and the beach. Not in redondo. Most likely reasonable but YMMV depending on your approach. For me this is a kind of girl I could hang with if she was down for it. She is def in the romanticization stage of being a SB. You can bet she has no car and lives with her aunt/uncle. Most likely pick her up somewhere nearby. I am dying that I cant get to see her. Not that many skinny crazy young AA girls on seeking anymore like in the good old days. What she may lack in skills I get the feeling she will make up for in enthusiasm. lol
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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;6984342]This is very good detailed information you've provided here. Anyone can give it a try by following these steps. I'm just surprised Tiktok doesn't block your account if your username or any info you posted contains Sugar Daddy or anything related to Sugaring. Other dating platforms such as Tinder or Bumble will ban you right away, I guess it's an China app and it's very loose on the policies.[/QUOTE]My tiktok handle does not elude to sugaring (although the word daddy is a part of my handle) and I have no posts at all. But I do allow users to see my followers which are 90% hot young AA girls. Also I do not have my pic in my profile.
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WTF is this?
And I can't figure out a way to turn it off.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6985729]And I can't figure out a way to turn it off.[/QUOTE]Just allow it so you can see the push notifications when you receive a message. You can easily turn it off in the browser settings.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6985729]And I can't figure out a way to turn it off.[/QUOTE]I think you can just select No and that should clear it. They basically want to keep sending pop-ups that tell you everytime someone on the site messages / looks at profile / etc.
Lots of site do this now, it's f-ing annoying.
If you're viewing in incognito / private mode you might have to click No every time you come back to the site as those modes aren't meant to save too much information.
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Anyone seen her
She was on seeking for years. Seems to have moved one. She was an excellent experience. Saw her twice. Smart, great skills. Curious about other's experiences.
L.
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Elle
Elle ,19.
Temecula.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26d379be-50ce-42de-9cf6-23fe77ad1c9b[/URL]
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[QUOTE=XJakeRobertsx;6986907]Elle ,19.
Temecula.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26d379be-50ce-42de-9cf6-23fe77ad1c9b[/URL][/QUOTE]Not bad. Is she real? Did you verify?
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6985153]My tiktok handle does not elude to sugaring (although the word daddy is a part of my handle) and I have no posts at all. But I do allow users to see my followers which are 90% hot young AA girls. Also I do not have my pic in my profile.[/QUOTE]I see. That's good. It keeps your account from being blocked. So how many messages do you need to send out on TikTok to get a response?
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[QUOTE=XJakeRobertsx;6986907]Elle ,19.
Temecula.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26d379be-50ce-42de-9cf6-23fe77ad1c9b[/URL][/QUOTE]Usually, when they have the tags marriage-minded, long-term, and true love selected on their profile, there's a 99.9% chance that it's a fake profile.
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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;6987612]I see. That's good. It keeps your account from being blocked. So how many messages do you need to send out on TikTok to get a response?[/QUOTE]To get a response? Not a lot. To find someone local enough to date. A lot.
Now I have my follows set to public so if any girl looks all she is going to see are a bunch of young hot AA and mixed girls. One thing no black girl (or maybe any girl) really wants is a guy that they are not sure is really into dark or darker skinned girls. So they can feel comfortable right away that I am not new to dating their race. Although I do not have my pic posted so they can only guess at mine.