"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=JoyDrop;5696440]The main thing he's doing "wrong" is using a VPN and anonymous email addresses. Don't get me wrong, that's not a criticism, but from their perspective that's 2 strikes right off the bat. SA has a huge problem with foreign scammers convincing girls to send them bank account info (ostensibly so they can make a deposit in their accounts, but of course they drain the accounts instead). Those scammers are using the same VPN services and anonymous email addresses, so you can be sure that SA flags anyone using an IP address associated with a VPN service, just the same as they do someone who uses a protonmail address.

As for the gmail approach, I've been using the same Gmail account for years and have signed up for SA multiple times using different variations of that address using the plus sign. Never had a problem.

If it were me and I was having problems creating an account, I would take a laptop to a business with free wifi. Use that connection to create my account using a gmail address and purchase my subscription. I wouldn't attempt to use the VPN until after the premium subscription was successfully purchased. I would use the same location to renew my subscription as well. Good luck![/QUOTE]FWIW I use both a protonmail and a VPN, and I haven't had any issues with the site. But I also never talk $ or details other than standard pleasantries on the site. As soon as someone wants to talk about that stuff, or if I'm ready to talk about that, I immediately ask them if we can talk on text or snap, and any conversation regarding $, requests for pics / nudes or details on what they like sexually are done over text, never the site.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;5696811][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/12e2e2cd-9215-41ef-99c4-a395ceb324b3[/URL]

Talking to this one a couple of days and she seemed cool. Quickly moved over to messaging on Signal, and send me some additional nude pics. We were talking about getting together and I asked her what she usually gets, and she said 4. 5 to 7. 5. That is out of my price range and I said I usually do 2. 5 to 3. She was polite, but pretty much crickets after that. She lost all her enthusiasm. That's fine, and she's not really my type anyway....3. 0 would have already been more than was it was worth, but just passing along the info.[/QUOTE]God I hope no one is dumb enough to pay her those rates, and she's just throwing out numbers because that what tiktok or twitter told her she could get. Like maybe, and it's a big maybe, if you're a 18-25 year old super hottie, MAYBE you can ask those rates. But a 30+ built like an NFL linebacker? No, nu-uh, no way, no how.

Hey guys,

I'll be in Atlanta this week and would love to meet with some girls.

I normally play in Raleigh and Charlotte and would be happy to exchange fun contacts if anyone is interested! Let me know. .

Mike.

The 3 of them messaged me on my real profile talking about they can come see me right now for ppm. I never trust chic's who want to meet right away. They want to come to me tonight for ppm. Link 1 wants 400 ppm. First 2 pics. Link 2 wants $350 ppm 3rd and 4 pic. Link 3 wants $250 ppm. Last 2 pics. Any info??

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4ff19816-5adb-4fea-9541-d8b93dee3837[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c882c9aa-c682-4b69-82fd-9c2712174427[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec055110-84dc-4f87-9775-517b409ce732[/URL]

[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;5699542]The 3 of them messaged me on my real profile talking about they can come see me right now for ppm. I never trust chic's who want to meet right away. They want to come to me tonight for ppm. Link 1 wants 400 ppm. First 2 pics. Link 2 wants $350 ppm 3rd and 4 pic. Link 3 wants $250 ppm. Last 2 pics. Any info??

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4ff19816-5adb-4fea-9541-d8b93dee3837[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c882c9aa-c682-4b69-82fd-9c2712174427[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec055110-84dc-4f87-9775-517b409ce732[/URL][/QUOTE]I think she is a pro, she said I had to pick her up on Tara and get a room.

I hit the ground running, now that I'm finally back on seeking. I got together with a 25 y/o in Athens a couple of days ago, and have a date with one from Nashville on Sunday and one in NC on Monday (planning on driving up there anyway). I forgot how you can find these girls in different towns so easily, and then go on a sex vacation.

Well I'll review the 25 y/o sometime in the future, once I'm done with her, but very sweet girl and great in bed. It reminded me of the true potential of SA girls. And this one is not hot. Def chunk / fat and avg face but I had an amazing time with her. She said I could give her whatever I wanted, so I said 200 beforehand, and then ended up giving her 260, plus I bought her another $140 worth of stuff on Amazon. She deserved it all. Sorry to not be able to give the details now, but sometime later.

And I have some more prospects in the ATL area. I tend to like the avg girls who are more conversational and don't have such an attitude. And of course $200 (or less) and not $600 like some of the 8's ask for. But I will have to go with a more pricey option, at some point, as long as she isn't too c&nty. I suppose I will start at $300 for anyone who is genuinely pretty.

But all these homely girls are fine with BFS and CIP. One says I can take all the pics and video I want. And they seem happy to get together and tell me I look handsome from my pics....of course $$$ is buying all of that, but that's what I'm paying for, so I'll take it. I just can't deal with any attitude from any women at this point, not or not.

Another one today sent me her # and I asked her to share some pics and she sent me her OnlyFans. Then I politely said I didn't have an acct and wasn't interested in that, and she said it was for "verification". Then she really went off on me with the FUs and calling me a loser, etc. I blocked her quickly but hope she didn't report me on the site for something or other. I suppose there's no way to avoid that, as they can report you, even if you block them.

I finally got a pic to upload, via the phone app, but it isn't showing as my main pic and no one can see it but me. I don't get how they make everything so difficult. I contacted customer service but who knows if they will fix it or not. But I just had a friend take one of me and blurred out my face.

Miss420love

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1f3eb2e-b58a-4aa5-827d-eec475d8388f[/URL]

I so wanted to work something out with this one, because she is near me and says she can host sometimes. Natural breasts and natural unshaved pussy, and seems very cool. She only does CFS, which I get, but she also doesn't allow DATY until she gets to know you. She says she gives BJ, but not even sure it is BBBJ. I didn't ask her that. She says she usually gets 2. 0 to 3. 0, but I can't see paying 2, with those restrictions.

Anyway she was very polite and might be fun, and not her fault that she and I are not on the same page. Maybe one of you gents want to go there, but I guess I am holding off.

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SharpCutie

https://members.seeking.com/member/a2265501-c77d-4674-bfd3-5bedf8199bd6

21 y/o cute blonde

Has boyfriend, no sex with any SD'ers. Fail.

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I like how I can get 90% of these women to get on Signal. Bumble women are a pain in the ass and won't use it. But these SB's want that $$$.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;5702503]Miss420love

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1f3eb2e-b58a-4aa5-827d-eec475d8388f[/URL]

I so wanted to work something out with this one, because she is near me and says she can host sometimes. Natural breasts and natural unshaved pussy, and seems very cool. She only does CFS, which I get, but she also doesn't allow DATY until she gets to know you. She says she gives BJ, but not even sure it is BBBJ. I didn't ask her that. She says she usually gets 2. 0 to 3. 0, but I can't see paying 2, with those restrictions.

Anyway she was very polite and might be fun, and not her fault that she and I are not on the same page. Maybe one of you gents want to go there, but I guess I am holding off.[/QUOTE]Yeah, chatted with her briefly about a month ago. Too many no's to even make it worth my time even if she is on my way to and from job sites. Hopefully she will loosen up that no-go list in 2022, when she realizes all the lost opportunities.

I'm exploring the SA option now that my financial situation has improved and my hobbying budget has increased. I have been on the board for a while and know that the best info is from reading the forum. Has anyone posted a "best practices" post for SA? I have some basic questions I don't want to litter the thread with if there is a how to already out there.

[QUOTE=PeoplePleasur;5702583]I'm exploring the SA option now that my financial situation has improved and my hobbying budget has increased. I have been on the board for a while and know that the best info is from reading the forum. Has anyone posted a "best practices" post for SA? I have some basic questions I don't want to litter the thread with if there is a how to already out there.[/QUOTE]There have been many "Best Practices" posts, but I already forgot what they were. I should have copied and pasted, and saved somewhere. But it's good to be repetitive about some things and fee l free to ask whatever questions you would like.

And yes, I lost so much money in crypto lately, that somehow it made me willing to spend a few thousand on these SBs n the next few months. I just don't care, and this is really opening up the possibilities. Although still can't seem to get the hotter ones, as they want you to buy them gifts before you even meet or some such nonsense. I still am not going to throw money away, and also not going to give anyone anything up front, out of principle.

The homely and chunky ones are so polite, and some are DTF, but of course you don't get the same value sometimes as someone who is hotter. Although other times you do. I still haven't figured it out but a steady stream of new pussy, at the 6 or 7 level is not terrible, and maybe I can mix a few 8s in there somehow.

BeautifulMa4u

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/4c5f82f6-ceb9-4a5a-a125-6ed6ea34d031[/URL]

Wants all her bills paid and all her clothes bought. Profile says Sandy Springs, but then she says she lives 45 min from there. She says I'm "so handsome" before she has seen my pics. Then she wanted me to send her money for gas to come meet me. Most likely fake, but very dumb, at the very least.

You guys may need to set up an intervention on me.

I got back on SA, after being off it for two years and I am just revved up and a bit out of control. I may have up to 4 dates today. All probably BBFS. The first two can come to my place and going to get a hotel room for the 2nd two. And the 4th one would have to drive down from SC so probably won't show up. Or others may flake.

And I'm not young, so not going to get off with the first three, if I can resist. If I do, I won't enjoy the others. Ok, will report later if anything good happens. And none of these girls are super hot. Maybe a couple of 6's, and a chunky 7, and another 6. But my dick likes and I don't argue with him (obviously).

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;5703530]You guys may need to set up an intervention on me.

I got back on SA, after being off it for two years and I am just revved up and a bit out of control. I may have up to 4 dates today. All probably BBFS. The first two can come to my place and going to get a hotel room for the 2nd two. And the 4th one would have to drive down from SC so probably won't show up. Or others may flake.

And I'm not young, so not going to get off with the first three, if I can resist. If I do, I won't enjoy the others. Ok, will report later if anything good happens. And none of these girls are super hot. Maybe a couple of 6's, and a chunky 7, and another 6. But my dick likes and I don't argue with him (obviously).[/QUOTE]Darn shame you have to pace yourself. Maybe you should call up a few friends to share this burden.

Hi! The Richmond, VA thread is the defacto national SD / SB thread with lots of common interests. It's turned into more of a regional board again, but still has a lot of general info. A member named "FarAway" took the time to collect a bunch of common threads on techniques, FAQ, etc. He even made an index! Here's the link:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ[/URL]

Enjoy, and good luck!

[QUOTE=PeoplePleasur;5702583]I'm exploring the SA option now that my financial situation has improved and my hobbying budget has increased. I have been on the board for a while and know that the best info is from reading the forum. Has anyone posted a "best practices" post for SA? I have some basic questions I don't want to litter the thread with if there is a how to already out there.[/QUOTE]

Wanted to end the year with a few reviews of "sugar babies" I've met this year. Most I learned about from this site so active users will see some repeats. I felt I owed the board some reviews since I got them all from here.

SavageBabyDoll: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/feb661f3-563a-42a9-8b27-a014b2a4761a[/URL].

- she's a thick and young PAWG with one of the phattest natural asses I've seen, no matter the ethnicity. Getting in touch wasn't too difficult, just a few messages then moved to text. Did ask to meet in public first but we went right from the restaurant to a hotel so you can get to the fun stuff pretty quickly. DFK, BBJ, CFS are what's available. PROS: really great curves if you like them a little thick; down for just about anything except anal in bed; she's a loud moaner so you get really good sounds that you're hitting it right; definitely understands her role is to please you in these arrangements. CONS: she's a little pricey, wants 400 per week as an allowance; can't host so either got to do a hotel unless you can host at your place; not the cutest face, she looks ok with makeup but a very average face; only will do CFS.

Sweetsexyclassy99: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/81ba8e26-ae32-46b2-922f-fdf403f8cb0e[/URL].

- she's been reviewed before, including by me. Thick girl that's bordering on bbw status. Probably the quickest and easiest to get from the site to bed, literally after a few messages we were setting up a meet at a hotel. PROS: not overly expensive, was ok with 200 per after doing 250 the first meet; DFK, BBBJCIM, BBFS, CIP all available; has a pretty face in my opinion; real easy to talk too. CONS: can't host and lives kinda far out; doesn't really have a round ass, its more wide if you know what I mean; can only meet during a small window each day.

Katy: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40d5fefc-d3b3-463e-8e6f-28e0460d5f4[/URL].

- the link goes to both KatyandSierra, but I have only meet with Katy. Sierra was reviewed before by someone else. Katy is another thick girl, this one I would call a BBW. Was a very similar experience to that of SweetSexyClassy reviewed just above, in fact I almost got them mixed up one time smh. Wants 250 a meet. PROS: easy to connect; open to just about anything; willing to meet just about anywhere; has a pretty face; DFK, BBFS, CIP, all on the table CONS: only has a limited window to meet; she's a big girl, and it shows in the gut.

ThickandClassy: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/de237fa6-6ca4-44db-96dd-7ec0aa1dd0cf[/URL].

- this one is a little older than the other ones I've reviewed, probably late 30's. Her site lists both ATL and St. Louis so just have to watch when she's in town. She's a bit arrogant, during our meet she bragged a lot about her businesses and her career. Part of me was like ok then why are you on seeking but I guess its just another stream of income so I ain't mad at that. Also knows she's attractive and talks about how guys always try to hit on her. While classy is in her name, I've learned over the years that every girl that calls themselves classy has a good amount of ghetto and / or country in them and you can tell that from her hair and nails and even the way she talks. DFK, BBJ, CFS (I think BBFS is available but I wrapped up) PROS: attractive face and nice body with curves; very open sexually and would be a great date to like a swingers club; didn't really give a price, just said whatever you feel like so you could probably get away without a donation if you're. CONS: can't host (seems to be an issue for me LOL); can be difficult to nail down a time, took a lot of messages and texts to finally meet; loves to talk about herself; is a little thick in the middle with some slight baby damage but nothing to bad.

Lanibae22: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/08a87ce0-776a-4fd0-8b09-f7f7fbaf8b19[/URL].

- last report is on Lani, she's a young, short, and thick ebony with a great round peach of an ass. She was mentioned before, works as a dancer at one of the strip clubs in town. Haven't had a chance to dive in as she was talking like 500 to hit but she's definitely willing to negotiate. I got a very personal lap dance with a lot of stick shifting and bbj for like 150/200. PROS: very attractive with a great body; open to negotiation on prices CONS: expensive; difficult to schedule.