Seeking Arrangements

I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL]

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6930038]Tried to Change up My Game a little to get faster responses, faster deal closings. Struck out big time.

Witty Venus - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89a99caf-06c5-4751-a0e0-0b0fe37a9ccb?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL].

I struck out. I changed up my typical message & focus on asking JUST for a lunch or dinner. Waited 4 days. No reply. I sent a follow-up on day 6, cause I saw the message was actually read.

She stated she was looking for something different. I responded to thank for the follow-up, & did ask to explain exactly what she's looking for. Hopefully, she'll respond.

Seriously, feel like it's a damn Job Interview nowadays. LOL.[/QUOTE]Was chatting to her last weekend, she's only looking for online at the moment. Shame, seems cute.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]I've had my share of duds. I'm pretty picky about who I'll even meet, so for me a dud is unlikely to be a drug addict / filthy apartment situation as I'm very likely to filter those out well before meeting.

So my "duds" are just not-very-compelling sex.

Same for you DClouds?

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]

Originally asked: "What made her a dud?"

And then realized I misread your post. So feel free to ignore this

Makes me want to quit SA. You can see silly little things like the lack of a period after sentences. Or the status as "Divorced".

Alyssa 36.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6d7bcc83-95c6-4a6e-98e8-bd4e8ad49f03[/URL]

Angel 38.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/02f7bf08-78f0-4dea-a5a5-c3ac900da270[/URL]

Jeremina 35.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff936ce2-a47e-4510-8e52-f8f2998e81d7[/URL]

Elena 36.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a70bf5d4-3e58-4ad1-8c63-8ccebe881687[/URL]

Pretty Sweet 35.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/379ecdbf-0655-4f4d-8083-75c4f35cf34e[/URL]

Duds are gals who are real, they will meet, they passed my vetting, but for various reasons they are not worth it. For example, too focused on the gift, poor performers, drama queens, addicts (some of them hide it really well. And I don't mind functional addicts), novices (I like amateurs but novices are those who think this lifestyle is a great idea but get cold feet at the last minute and ghost you), don't look anything like their pics, etc. For the most part I weed them out prior to meeting and my success ratio is pretty good, but in some cases I've found out during the meeting. Those are the ones I will list on this thread so that others don't get taken for a ride. In this particular case, I would avoid her crazy sister Charli as well.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]

Another one bites the dust. Obsessed with eating and her father-daughter fantasy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ad889b5f-d3ed-4c80-911e-89e20250a0f3[/URL]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]Looks kinda manly.

I never got to find out, but I don't think that's the issue. The problem I had with her is that she was very unfriendly (no smile, no kiss), had tons of lipstick on and was touching up in the bathroom (so likely wasn't going to be interested in any kissing), and wanted the gift upfront. If the other factors had been in her favor I might have offered half upfront. In my experience anyone who asks for the gift upfront is either jaded or a pro or both and isn't worth your time. So, I decided to cut my losses and let her leave. But at least she left quietly. (One time I had a girl who refused to leave without the upfront gift (for doing nothing) and threatened to break the TV and pour water on my laptop. Whew.) Jade was also impossible to schedule, constantly shuffling between hosting and not hosting, with a lot of haggling about the gift amount. There were plenty of red flags so I probably should never have bothered to meet her.

[QUOTE=Rome400;6932085]Looks kinda manly.[/QUOTE]

I've been seeing mixed reports here about WittyVenus. DarkClouds met her but others report she wants "online only. ".

She's pushing me hard to purchase "content" but I stick to my rules -- I have cash for her but ONLY after an in-person meeting. We'll see if it happens. . .

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6931886]Duds are gals who are real, they will meet, they passed my vetting, but for various reasons they are not worth it. For example, too focused on the gift, poor performers, drama queens, addicts (some of them hide it really well. And I don't mind functional addicts), novices (I like amateurs but novices are those who think this lifestyle is a great idea but get cold feet at the last minute and ghost you), don't look anything like their pics, etc. For the most part I weed them out prior to meeting and my success ratio is pretty good, but in some cases I've found out during the meeting. Those are the ones I will list on this thread so that others don't get taken for a ride. In this particular case, I would avoid her crazy sister Charli as well.[/QUOTE]"Fifth Element" (sorry her profile has disappeared again; it comes and goes) is a bit of a dud. Not a great performer, sadly, and a borderline annoying personality in person. But a good person at heart for sure.

[QUOTE=Bran2025;6932891]"Fifth Element" (sorry her profile has disappeared again; it comes and goes) is a bit of a dud. Not a great performer, sadly, and a borderline annoying personality in person. But a good person at heart for sure.[/QUOTE]What was the damage? I follow her on insta but she isn't super active.

[QUOTE=MrPete;6933601]What was the damage? I follow her on insta but she isn't super active.[/QUOTE]4 or 5 I forget tbh!

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6931886]Duds are gals who are real, they will meet, they passed my vetting, but for various reasons they are not worth it. For example, too focused on the gift, poor performers, drama queens, addicts (some of them hide it really well. And I don't mind functional addicts), novices (I like amateurs but novices are those who think this lifestyle is a great idea but get cold feet at the last minute and ghost you), don't look anything like their pics, etc. For the most part I weed them out prior to meeting and my success ratio is pretty good, but in some cases I've found out during the meeting. Those are the ones I will list on this thread so that others don't get taken for a ride. In this particular case, I would avoid her crazy sister Charli as well.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a2bdb21a-3157-4079-9896-470ebcfd77cb[/URL]

Beautiful, great tiny body Asked for 500, agreed on 350. No kissing. She wouldn't allow anything other than covered sex. She told me at the end hope that was not a deal breaker and I would see her again. I told her what I liked. She texted me again two weeks later. I told her, she knew what I wanted. If she's not willing, I won't see her.

Sweet Angel has me blocked. Enough said.

This one is another big time dud. Been discussed here before.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/37a5a4bc-818b-4d3f-8ab5-cec24cb99254[/URL]

[QUOTE=Np36781;6934127][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a2bdb21a-3157-4079-9896-470ebcfd77cb[/URL]

Beautiful, great tiny body Asked for 500, agreed on 350. No kissing. She wouldn't allow anything other than covered sex. She told me at the end hope that was not a deal breaker and I would see her again. I told her what I liked. She texted me again two weeks later. I told her, she knew what I wanted. If she's not willing, I won't see her.[/QUOTE]