Hey Everyone. I am back, Baby !! LOL Been a long time but after some successful networking on the swinger's web sites, I decided to get back into some Belvidere action. Truth be told, I have been to Belvidere about 4 times this year. So, I guess I am not really so far gone. But not nearly as much as I used to be.
First off, I have read the last five pages of the forum and have been very entertained. Thanks for the nice welcome back! More in a bit...
I was visiting Nancy at CLV every time I had been there this past year with the exception of the last time. She is, in my eyes, hot, hot, hot perfect MILF. However, the last time I saw her, she rushed me because my appointment was scheduled too close to another appointment she was about to have. I usually tip $60 in advance (she does a good job!), so I hope she reads this and realizes she made a mistake. I don't have the heart to look her in the eye and tell her. The last time I went to CLV I selected a new lady from the floor.
My usual routine in Belvidere is to find someone who is good and reliable and take good care of her. Finding "the one" requires first time appointments, so, it's not a perfect system. However, from day one, I never picked from the lineup (with the exception of this last time). I would read the forum, backchannel some of the senior members who were active posters and make an appointment in advance. I was never willing to waste my hard earned dollars on a chance, so that's how I rolled. When I am there, I am all eyes, looking for someone I may like for a future session. Once in the room, the girl sometimes pretends to remember me (which is funny) or sometimes is honest and asks if we've been together before. Making the appointment, telling her I was referred by a friend goes a long way toward warming her up.
If I get everything I want in a session (it's a lot) I will tip $60. When I have a regular girl, she remembers me and we have good times. Then she usually f***s up and I move on. But even the f***ed up session is better than most average first time sessions.
A new girl will see me put $30 on the table in advance (before she asks) and she's told I will tip more at the end if she "rocks my world". This prevents her having to wonder about the tip and me having to wonder if I am getting her best. If I don't like her, I'll put down nothing more at the end, or maybe $5. If she's good, $30.
For those of you who do not like being asked for a tip, it's all in your control. Put down half the tip in advance, tell her she'll get more if you have a good time and see where it goes. If you think you will get everything I get by putting down $5 with the promise of another $5, you are delusional. Most of you guys who complain about lack of access are cheap and don't like being told you are cheap by virtue of the limited access. If you can't afford the fees + a decent tip, get out of the hobby OR be satisfied with the services you get. It's so simple.
For the bartenders in the group, When at weddings, parties, etc., If I give you a $5 or $10 tip on my first order you will see me at the bar when my glass is empty much quicker that the cheap asses. Don't deny it!!! I do it all the time.
If you want a good massage (funny), you are at the wrong place. You are there for a hand job. Don't complicate matters. I have started sessions by saying "let's jump to the good stuff", and had 45 minute hand jobs. It's not magic.
If you hate the money aspect and want the door charge raised, pay the tip when paying the door fee. Voluntarily pay the higher door fee yourself. This eliminates the conversation for you. We can't eliminate tipping. Tipping is what allows us to motivate the SPs. Pay $130 at the door and tell the desk girl you want the change to go to the SP.
