Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[QUOTE=Assaholic;6775775]So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?[/QUOTE]How do you know you are also her side piece?

In any case, just like any stale relationship, one qould say you need some time away. And then not respond to her messages.

People can tell and will just move on.

At least in my experience. Happens to me too. Goea both ways. You may feel a little hurt. But next! LOL!

[QUOTE=Caribe;6791776]Are your visits routine. Is she the only one servicing you at that level? Or, do you have a wide rotation so that you see her every 2 or three weeks? Or maybe you need an enhancer.[/QUOTE]II see her every couple of weeks. Nothing's off the table. I'm not into meds. She's very persistent with messaging. I do see others, and I'm sure she does too, although I've never asked her point blank who or how many. She doesn't advertise and hasn't been in the 'business' since long before Covid. She has her own non-AMP business now and drives a nicer car than I do. There is no romance or anything like that. It's just boom boom and we go our separate ways, so it's more like I'm her booty call, LOL. I just want a nice, clean break, but I want to do it nicely, as I'm sure I'll be running into her in restaurants or markets at some point. I don't want that awkward situation or having to look over my shoulder. Not responding to her messages is not an option if I want a 'nice" break. And to top if off, another character flaw of mine, I'm not a good liar.

[QUOTE=Assaholic;6793040]II see her every couple of weeks. Nothing's off the table. I'm not into meds. She's very persistent with messaging. I do see others, and I'm sure she does too, although I've never asked her point blank who or how many. She doesn't advertise and hasn't been in the 'business' since long before Covid. She has her own non-AMP business now and drives a nicer car than I do. There is no romance or anything like that. It's just boom boom and we go our separate ways, so it's more like I'm her booty call, LOL. I just want a nice, clean break, but I want to do it nicely, as I'm sure I'll be running into her in restaurants or markets at some point. I don't want that awkward situation or having to look over my shoulder. Not responding to her messages is not an option if I want a 'nice" break. And to top if off, another character flaw of mine, I'm not a good liar.[/QUOTE]Don't see the value in making up a story, especially if lying isn't your forte. Just tell her the truth, gently. You really like her but the spark is gone and it's time to move on.

[QUOTE=Assaholic;6775775]So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?[/QUOTE]You want to cut her off 100%? Why? Sounds like you have a good thing going on. Every couple of weeks should be fine. Does your pecker do the same thing with other women or just her? Getting a flat tire for me is if I smoke a couple of city's I make sure if I want smash that pussy I don't smoke. I was texting back and forth with a provider like you but would respond back 2-4 hours later. Then it became less frequent. The plus with your friend is she has her own business so she's not going to ask you for money she has her own.

Hitting 60 shouldn't be an issue. As long as I know that smoking caused me running out of gas that's easily decision to make.

[QUOTE=SaltyDog;6793334]You want to cut her off 100%? Why? Sounds like you have a good thing going on. Every couple of weeks should be fine. Does your pecker do the same thing with other women or just her? Getting a flat tire for me is if I smoke a couple of city's I make sure if I want smash that pussy I don't smoke. I was texting back and forth with a provider like you but would respond back 2-4 hours later. Then it became less frequent. The plus with your friend is she has her own business so she's not going to ask you for money she has her own.

Hitting 60 shouldn't be an issue. As long as I know that smoking caused me running out of gas that's easily decision to make.[/QUOTE]Eh. Yeah, I've been a long time smoker. But I don't think that's the problem because everything worked fine up until a couple years ago, and It's just with her. Last week with another hottie, I couldn't last more than a minute or so. I think it might be the familiarity factor. I think junior wants variety and he doesn't take orders from the big head.

[QUOTE=Assaholic;6793763]Eh. Yeah, I've been a long time smoker. But I don't think that's the problem because everything worked fine up until a couple years ago, and It's just with her. Last week with another hottie, I couldn't last more than a minute or so. I think it might be the familiarity factor. I think junior wants variety and he doesn't take orders from the big head.[/QUOTE]Sounds like your missing something more than just a physical connection. Maybe she isn't as fired up to see you, or vice versa because the thrill is gone (insert BB King). It's too familiar. Regardless that's ok that you want to call it off, but I'd keep it cordial because you never know if the well runs dry, elsewhere.

Maybe ask yourself why you aren't as thrilled to see her anymore, and why it is seeing other women. I'm sure it's our natural male instinct to search and conquer; thrill of the chase.

Or maybe she's just boring. I don't know her so it could be simpler than that. Anyway. Happy hunting my friend.

But all the women on dating apps my age are fat, single moms, or narsasstic. I get laid more than my married friends and I get action whenever I want. How does the sugaring thing work? I want to take a girl around my age and just blow her back out every night. I make enough to do this semi-regulalry but I want to go 3-4 rounds sometimes and its PRICEY.

[QUOTE=DronePilot;6794168]But all the women on dating apps my age are fat, single moms, or narsasstic. I get laid more than my married friends and I get action whenever I want. How does the sugaring thing work? I want to take a girl around my age and just blow her back out every night. I make enough to do this semi-regulalry but I want to go 3-4 rounds sometimes and its PRICEY.[/QUOTE]Go to South America or Asia and stop wasting your money here.

I've been getting generic cialis from a Canadian pharmacy for a few years. 36,10-mg pills are about $60. I take 2 at a time so I thought it was a decent price.

I just looked at Costco web page. If I remember correctly, 30,20 mg pills are less than $20. Is that for real? That's a great price if it's true. Anyone get these meds at Costco?

[QUOTE=SkinnyDugan;6797595]I've been getting generic cialis from a Canadian pharmacy for a few years. 36,10-mg pills are about $60. I take 2 at a time so I thought it was a decent price.

I just looked at Costco web page. If I remember correctly, 30,20 mg pills are less than $20. Is that for real? That's a great price if it's true. Anyone get these meds at Costco?[/QUOTE]I have been buying my generic Cialis & Viagra from Costco for several years. I trust the potency more than those from other countries.

Ya, the price for both are around $20.00 ±.

I am a Costco member & use a Doctors Rx but not my Med insurance.

[QUOTE=SkinnyDugan;6797595]I've been getting generic cialis from a Canadian pharmacy for a few years. 36,10-mg pills are about $60. I take 2 at a time so I thought it was a decent price.

I just looked at Costco web page. If I remember correctly, 30,20 mg pills are less than $20. Is that for real? That's a great price if it's true. Anyone get these meds at Costco?[/QUOTE]I have a local guy IK who gets his from India and will sell for cash. If you are concerned about the warden finding out you need them.

[QUOTE=SkinnyDugan;6797595]I've been getting generic cialis from a Canadian pharmacy for a few years. 36,10-mg pills are about $60. I take 2 at a time so I thought it was a decent price.

I just looked at Costco web page. If I remember correctly, 30,20 mg pills are less than $20. Is that for real? That's a great price if it's true. Anyone get these meds at Costco?[/QUOTE]I got a prescription from my urologist (30 at 100 mg w / 3 refills), took it to Costo, paid $19.99. The doctor had recommended going through GoodRX to get a discount coupon, but the straight Costco price was better. I think I could have used GoodRX for an even (slightly) better price at either Target or Walmart, but I would have had to sign up for something or other, so I didn't.

I have filled RX for generic V and C at Costco's pharmacy. I would recommend Costco RX. There's the convenience, the competative price and the confidence in who you are dealing with. I could maybe buy from one of the online services that are popping up (Roman, etc); but I'm saving $0.10 a pill?

[QUOTE=LooksLikeGreg;6800088]I got a prescription from my urologist (30 at 100 mg w / 3 refills), took it to Costo, paid $19.99. The doctor had recommended going through GoodRX to get a discount coupon, but the straight Costco price was better. I think I could have used GoodRX for an even (slightly) better price at either Target or Walmart, but I would have had to sign up for something or other, so I didn't.[/QUOTE]GoodRX,

Nothing to sign up for, just to to the website, enter the med name, it will give you the discount codes. Walmart, price was pretty cheap after GoodRX discount. Like 14 bux, for 30 pills.