Over here. Trans Topic and a question on reviews
[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3362411]What if a man has sex with someone who has undergone sexual reassignment surgery and doesn't know they weren't born as a woman? Does it still make that person gay? How do you know that you've never had sex with someone who has undergone that surgery? There are many out there where not even I could tell the difference.[/QUOTE]I don't think it makes the person gay at all. But that's just me. I, personally, want a woman that was born a woman and get annoyed when I see post on BP of chicks who've undergone reassignment surgery or chicks with a sausage. Again, that's just me. However, I really try my best to not share an opinion on the subject because everyone should be able to have sex with who they want to have sex with. Just felt compelled to comment because there has been so many post on the topic.
What I do wonder about is if anyone has seen any of the new girls that have been posting on BP? The review thread has been relatively stale. I haven't seen a girl in months. I'm kind of over the risk but do like living vicariously through you guys.
We are not in Mayberry anymore toto
[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3366424]Sorry but you didn't answer my question. My question was if someone is unknowingly having sex with a TS how does that make them gay? If a man was in fact gay why would he be having sex with a TS at all? Wouldn't he rather get it for free from another man? I think the male population's interest in post surgical TS women says more about society's beauty standards (thin with large breasts) than it does about a man's sexual orientation. Your analogy is kinda silly as human sexuality is complicated.
[blue]You might not know when you start but you will know soon after you get moving. Aftermarket cooters don't get wet. Not making a stand either way here, what other grown ups do is none of my business and I don't judge but you can't got, as Chris Berman used to say "All, The, Way" with a post op and not know.
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]A lot of people in the world are trying to come up with a quick easy answer to this question, gay are not if you have sex with a TS which is a complicated question or topic in general. But there are those that say wait a minute it's not that complicated the definition of GAY intercourse is if you do it with the same gender. Some will debate if a girl gets plastic surgery, boob job and calls herself Dolly because she now feels and has always felt that she was born to be Dolly but in REALITY she's still the same Cindy. If Donald gets a vagina via surgery and calls himself Hillary he's still Donald. Question is if you have sex with Donallry are you gay even if you are aware of the surgery or not. Remember the definition of gay! Some will argue bi-sexual is definitely gay based on the definition of gay. It comes down to the MIND which controls your sexuality, desires your moral beliefs / upbringing your religion many many factors. So the question is, is it right or wrong? I personally think it's going to take as much time to figure out as it did in the 50's & 60's should a black person date or marry a white person and OMG have a mixed race child it's the end of the world!! Well we all know we as a society moved on it's a common thing in our society now. This Bruce / Caitlin thing although has a lot of people uncomfortable is probably a close analogy to the movie with Sidney Poitier movie in "1967" guess who's coming to dinner. That movie started a lot of conversation at the dinner table at my house back when people actually had dinner at the same time every night together LOL. So if you have sex with a TS are you gay based on the gay definition? If you choose not to have sex with the opposite race does that make you racist? LGBT rights is more in the mainstream now but we are early early in this Transgender debate, then there's should weed be legalized, immigration topic. The reason I mentioned these 2 is because these are also deeply rooted in our mind / our upbringing. Some will debate no no these 2 are controlled by law, well not being able to vote at one time because of your gender or the color of your skin was controlled by the law but the majority of MINDS changed that. And the word MAJORITY is really the key to everything we accept isn't it? If the majority says fine with me if a black and white person are together then it's a common sight wherever you go. So are you gay if you do it with a TS? Depends on your definition of gay "in your mind". Remember in 1950 if a white woman loved a black guy was she "wrong" based on society then, depended on her definition of "love" in HER mind! THE MIND it's what starts the situation being debated and the MIND's of the majority is what will resolve the situation for society to accept or reject. That's my 2 cents. But I agree with the guys post about not pissing off a TS remember the doctor didn't remove his / her strength. I'm sure Caitlin Jenner can still give a major beotch SLAP!