Eden and "The whole YMMV should not apply to any provider. "
[QUOTE=RogueOne1977;5783839] The whole YMMV should not apply to any provider. If you offer a service, you should give the same to ever customer as long as they are respectful and clean. [/QUOTE]Regarding Eden, let me make this perfectly clear right up front: She is by far one of the best providers in town. Few come even close. All the positives mentioned in recent posts are basically true and accurate now and have been for the years she's been around. She's gorgeous, in great shape, extremely reliable, safe, and provides top service. So I don't want this to be understood as piling on or criticism. Go see her. She's great!
But I've always been curious that this has been mentioned only rarely before, because I have to agree with the couple of recent posts that note she's a bit cold and mechanical. I've seen her several times over the past years, and while it's great, it's always lacking that little something special. It feels like she's got a routine that she knows works and she's just checking all the boxes. I keep waiting to feel the 'connection' with her that I've gotten from the other few top providers in town. As far as the snippy response, I have to agree there as well. Again, while she's fine, and again a personality miles and miles better than 99% of the others, I've always detected a kind of defensive, ever so slightly hostile, snippy tone. Not a big deal, I'm just really careful about what I say with her. Again, while I have these little nit picks about her that I feel worth expressing in light of the years and years of endless praise of her, I encourage anyone who hasn't seen her to do so.
I feel it necessary to add that I'm a good client. I'm extremely polite, respectful, not demanding, in good shape, good looking, groomed, well dressed, with impeccable hygiene, punctual, and tip very well. Which leads me to my next point, the. "The YMMV should not apply to any provider."
Of course it should! Of course a provider should be able to provide whatever service she wishes, with whatever enthusiasm she cares to exert, to whichever guy she prefers on a case by case basis. The guy who treats a provider well, tips well, and is someone the provider would be willing to date IRL should of course receive better treatment than a slob who treats her like shelling out a few hundred $ entitles him to be whatever kind of a-hole he wants. And it's more than just being respectful and clean. Of course that's true, but there's more to it than that: like being fit and lucky enough to be good looking. (After all, that matters to us; it of course should matter to them.) I've heard the countless stories of how these hard working women are treated and it's no wonder so many of them are jaded. It's a two way street: expect to get treated in kind to the way you treat them.