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[QUOTE=TucsonRaider;6930947]This girl looks cute [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/697d80d3-2c78-4171-99d8-dbb4941f2e2f[/URL] check out her pics 20 yr old apparently has a full time job and sugaring to pay for her gym membership (LOL).
I've been texting back and forth with her for over a week, every time she seems to busy to meet, to busy to video call, seems to want $ for m&g which I decline.
A week later she still hits me up for "lets do dinner" at close to 9 pm. I write back saying I just had dinner, am tired but also that because we are both busy and our schedules never seem to match I think we should pass and find a better match for each other. I made the mistake of explaining the reasons I'm on seeking is because I have tight schedules and need someone to meet my schedules and don't think she is a match for me because of her own busy schedule.
So the girl writes back how rude I am (LOL). These narc bitches think they are the shit, when in reality yes they are full of shit. What SD in his right mind would want a SB with a shitty attitude like that?
Anyway she proceeds to send me "reviews" other SB have left for me (the reviews are basically I blocked a flakey SB who admitted to her own flakeyness, the other reviews were that I didn't offer 1 k ppm to average looking SBs). So nothing too bad but she uses it to call me rude and throws a hissy fit over text..[/QUOTE]I endorse the course of action recommended by the mod of this thread, HG. When you reach the logical end of communication w / a POT, the best thing to say to their requests, however crazy, it "I'll keep that in mind". There's little upside to venting to the object of derision.
However, you do bring up a point. Where did this girl get info about you in reviews?
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Reddit
Reviews of us as sugardaddies by sugarbabies are most likely on reddit. That's their version of our site. Has been discussed here before.
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[QUOTE=TucsonRaider;6930930]Dudes from LA / Cali.
I'm from AZ but have recently spent time in CA and been writing to and meeting up with potential SBs. It seems there is a private FB, discord or reddit type of forum where SBs leave comments by SD and I suspect it is searchable by phone number or seeking username.
I've had multiple SBs send me screenshots of some user comments left by other SBs that tie back to my number or username.
Kind of like we do here on these forums but it seems to be much more organized and better managed.
Have you guys come across this and how do you manage it?[/QUOTE]It's an app that SBs use to lookup SDs by phone number. This app allows SBs to leave reviews of SDs by phone number. Just change your phone number and username on SA and they cannot look you up.
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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;6931555]It's an app that SBs use to lookup SDs by phone number. This app allows SBs to leave reviews of SDs by phone number. Just change your phone number and username on SA and they cannot look you up.[/QUOTE]Think you're referring to MrNumber. I contacted them and requested both my numbers and any other pertinent info be removed from their database.
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Hunting
Got back on to see what's out there on seeking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ba419a1-a0f2-416a-ab60-0e8732915171[/URL]
3 Franklins and Ulysses S. Grant.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ad0a4b89-8680-4cb0-b2be-18e1a68b174c[/URL]
5 Franklins.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f705f7-e8a2-4b00-aaa5-cf56d78a2177[/URL]
2 or 3 Franklins.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/41139039-cebd-4a28-b020-92c6d983f453[/URL]
I believe 5 Franklins.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1391ccec-d425-43f2-8814-b82d896ad198[/URL]
5 Franklins or 3 Franklins for a massage I'm sure you get more than that.
All I got for now.
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[QUOTE=Lexx1;6931595]Think you're referring to MrNumber. I contacted them and requested both my numbers and any other pertinent info be removed from their database.[/QUOTE]I thought it was MrNumber but it's not. The interface is different. I asked the SB but she wouldn't tell me what app it was. Anyways, the SBs that use this app are not considered SBs. They're pro escorts and should be avoided.
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Content Denied
So I made a new account and the payment went through just fine. I sent a bunch of messages out and a couple days later I noticed all of the message are unread and no one has viewed my new profile. I went to my account and noticed a "content denied" message under the username thing. I can't seem to figure it out and I've submitted a ticket. The username is a generic RJ.
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[QUOTE=SugaFoot;6932516]So I made a new account and the payment went through just fine. I sent a bunch of messages out and a couple days later I noticed all of the message are unread and no one has viewed my new profile. I went to my account and noticed a "content denied" message under the username thing. I can't seem to figure it out and I've submitted a ticket. The username is a generic RJ.[/QUOTE]Is this Seeking? Most of the profiles are fake so that's why it's unread. "Content denied" is for the content you wrote on your profile. It doesn't have to do with the content of the messages you send.
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You're missing the point
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6914232]IDK, the 'I am a lonely guy' approach is not helping you here. Your being the sub here, she came onto SA to be the sub, she wants a guy who is going to take charge.[/QUOTE]The point I was trying to make was that she wanted, $5 k for an overnight. She didn't mention that she was into dom / sub lifestyle which I'm always the dom. , but anyway if you feel that it's fair to give a 50+ yo sub lady $5 k for an overnight, lmk how that goes.
Also, the "I'm a lonely guy" was not my approach. If you read the text, she asked why I'm on SA and I just gave her a basic general answer. This is not a traditional dating site, everyone has their agenda, myself including.
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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;6931991]I thought it was MrNumber but it's not. The interface is different. I asked the SB but she wouldn't tell me what app it was. Anyways, the SBs that use this app are not considered SBs. They're pro escorts and should be avoided.[/QUOTE]OMG I would love to know what app that is. Just to see what my own number comes up as.
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[QUOTE=BigBear818;6932611]The point I was trying to make was that she wanted, $5 k for an overnight. She didn't mention that she was into dom / sub lifestyle which I'm always the dom. , but anyway if you feel that it's fair to give a 50+ yo sub lady $5 k for an overnight, lmk how that goes.
Also, the "I'm a lonely guy" was not my approach. If you read the text, she asked why I'm on SA and I just gave her a basic general answer. This is not a traditional dating site, everyone has their agenda, myself including.[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's what you said, but you posted your chat w / her, and I thought it was a big mistake to say what you did to any girl you were trying to bed, including one who turned out to have GPS. Saying she usually get 5 K for overnight could just be a different way to blow you off than saying "I don't want to go out w / guys who aren't alphas". I think a significant # of girls are on seeking because they like the flattery of all the messages, but they aren't really up to bang guys for cash, so they ask ridiculous sums.
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[QUOTE=Murrican;6932843]OMG I would love to know what app that is. Just to see what my own number comes up as.[/QUOTE]Me too. If anyone knows, please share.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6932944]Yeah, that's what you said, but you posted your chat w / her, and I thought it was a big mistake to say what you did to any girl you were trying to bed, including one who turned out to have GPS. Saying she usually get 5 K for overnight could just be a different way to blow you off than saying "I don't want to go out w / guys who aren't alphas". I think a significant # of girls are on seeking because they like the flattery of all the messages, but they aren't really up to bang guys for cash, so they ask ridiculous sums.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I understand that part about the inflated rate but she has no clue who's alpha and who's not and no I'm not a beta male.
Also it doesn't matter what you say to a UTR pro, SB or SW because the overall bottom line is how much money they can get from you.
So that doesn't really matter unless you're looking for a traditional relationship, which I'm not looking for any western chick on a serious level like that tbh because they're not serious or even worth that time or effort.
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Happy Father's Day
If she calls you daddy it counts.
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Inflation
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/75d075af-2ab7-46fe-9ca3-9b496390a65b[/URL]
5 Franklins.
Looks like prices have went up on here. Remember when like 2 was achievable. I'm sure it still is, depending what you find.
Had two meet and greets no talks about money but one went ghost after that and the other still pending. Will follow up if I can get through the pending one. Might have to release some funds with her. She mentioned it but not a set price. Seems low key and doesn't give me pro vibes or even like just trying to make a career out of it. I could be wrong can't trust these woman on the site now and days. Who knows what they got going on especially if they understand what the site is about and the potential to make a professional career of having a rotation of pay per meets.