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[QUOTE=AcknowledgeMe;6867731]Why do you him to share girls he sees on seeking. Join the site and message woman yourself and get dates. Man if you people are to cheap to pay for a month to fuck hot woman then you couldn't afford to see them anyway.[/QUOTE]I'm a paid member of the site. I'm not asking for numbers just to point us to the girls he's found for 200-300. Isn't that what this forum is for? Chill my brother.
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6868080]I'm a paid member of the site. I'm not asking for numbers just to point us to the girls he's found for 200-300. Isn't that what this forum is for? Chill my brother.[/QUOTE]Sorry thought you weren't a member. All I get in my inbox and dudes wanting numbers from seeking chicks because there to cheap to pay for the site. It annoys me.
[QUOTE=AcknowledgeMe;6867731]Why do you him to share girls he sees on seeking. Join the site and message woman yourself and get dates. Man if you people are to cheap to pay for a month to fuck hot woman then you couldn't afford to see them anyway.[/QUOTE]Makes me think you're not having what you say you're having. Share with the group or stop hate talking in general.
[QUOTE=Papa2314;6868424]Makes me think you're not having what you say you're having. Share with the group or stop hate talking in general.[/QUOTE]Share so they mess it up? Naw. Most of these girls aren't escort like and want a situationship type deal too not just paid to give it up which floats my boat. You'll see the escort like ones posted I'm sure of that so no need to be flustered.
[QUOTE=EmvLa;6868978]Share so they mess it up? Naw. Most of these girls aren't escort like and want a situationship type deal too not just paid to give it up which floats my boat. You'll see the escort like ones posted I'm sure of that so no need to be flustered.[/QUOTE]He is not asking for numbers (which are not going to work anyway). Just a profile name or link. They will still have to work for it. The aholes that will mess it up are not going to get the time of day from these SBs anyway.
[QUOTE=Spill;6871295]He is not asking for numbers (which are not going to work anyway). Just a profile name or link. They will still have to work for it. The aholes that will mess it up are not going to get the time of day from these SBs anyway.[/QUOTE]No mention of asking for a profile link or name but ok bud.
[QUOTE=EmvLa;6871335]No mention of asking for a profile link or name but ok bud.[/QUOTE]Putting aside the typically poor communication on this site, knowledge of the sugar bowl should imply a profile name / link. Of course, I can certainly understand given this site, that there is a lot of room for interpretation.
SA is certainly a numbers game, whether it is knowing who to avoid (which info is frequently shared) or who is legit, helps reduce the numbers. Now, I am not suggesting guys provide profile links to current SBs, but if you moved on, why not?
So?
I've seen a lot of yall not happy with the demographic of the site / game as of late and I have to say I'm with you and plan on not renewing my membership. I've struck gold over the past three years but as of late things seem to be getting worse. Women over valuing themselves, scammers, AI, and people not expecting meeting up being a requirement. The final straw for me recently was the last girl I connected with on there (very hot goth in her early 20's from the north shore) after seeing her two-three times a week for a month she randomly hits me up to complain that I've been lowballing her and there's been men offering 6 just for head from her! She bumped it from 1 to 3 for me which I basically told her absolutely not since we agreed on our pricing which she had no problem with at the time and unfortunately we haven't spoken since (though she still follows me on insta), it was good while it lasted but to whoever that dude is thanks for ruining my streak with a unicorn.
Was also going to pull the trigger with a young lady from Norwood but she wanted two 50 for head and said her commute was an hour (it's 20 minutes I make the drive everyday to my job) she got really angry when I pointed out that was bs and got blocked.
Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.
[QUOTE=HankChinanski;6872046]I've seen a lot of yall not happy with the demographic of the site / game as of late and I have to say I'm with you and plan on not renewing my membership. I've struck gold over the past three years but as of late things seem to be getting worse. Women over valuing themselves, scammers, AI, and people not expecting meeting up being a requirement. The final straw for me recently was the last girl I connected with on there (very hot goth in her early 20's from the north shore) after seeing her two-three times a week for a month she randomly hits me up to complain that I've been lowballing her and there's been men offering 6 just for head from her! She bumped it from 1 to 3 for me which I basically told her absolutely not since we agreed on our pricing which she had no problem with at the time and unfortunately we haven't spoken since (though she still follows me on insta), it was good while it lasted but to whoever that dude is thanks for ruining my streak with a unicorn.
Was also going to pull the trigger with a young lady from Norwood but she wanted two 50 for head and said her commute was an hour (it's 20 minutes I make the drive everyday to my job) she got really angry when I pointed out that was bs and got blocked.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HankChinanski;6872046]I've seen a lot of yall not happy with the demographic of the site / game as of late and I have to say I'm with you and plan on not renewing my membership. I've struck gold over the past three years but as of late things seem to be getting worse. Women over valuing themselves, scammers, AI, and people not expecting meeting up being a requirement. The final straw for me recently was the last girl I connected with on there (very hot goth in her early 20's from the north shore) after seeing her two-three times a week for a month she randomly hits me up to complain that I've been lowballing her and there's been men offering 6 just for head from her! She bumped it from 1 to 3 for me which I basically told her absolutely not since we agreed on our pricing which she had no problem with at the time and unfortunately we haven't spoken since (though she still follows me on insta), it was good while it lasted but to whoever that dude is thanks for ruining my streak with a unicorn.
Was also going to pull the trigger with a young lady from Norwood but she wanted two 50 for head and said her commute was an hour (it's 20 minutes I make the drive everyday to my job) she got really angry when I pointed out that was bs and got blocked.[/QUOTE]You could be hooking up with these girls for 300 $ a week. Every month at $1200. Be reliable and safe income. They rather go back to seeking and risk finding a new random stranger for $600 and get ghosted by the guy.
Oddly, Secret Benefits has become definitely more productive than Seeking for me. Seeking has some higher class women, perhaps, but more fakes and flakes at this point. That being said, it's a bit like fishing out a lake. Just let the fish repopolulate the lake. It may take a little time, but the lake is sure to be productive again.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6872101]Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.[/QUOTE]
Has anyone partaken? - definitely my type. DM is you prefer.
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[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6872101]Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.[/QUOTE]I think the frustration is that it is much more harder to find good, consistent fun at a reasonable price, the site does nothing about scammers, and the most concerning thing I see more on here and the news: I feel as if robberies and setups on up from SA meetings. So now there's a safety issue.
Is there fun to be had? Sure! Emv La makes a good point the good price to performance is found in RI (also hear FL is goldmine); just too much competition and PPS in MA. DC and JClear show that you probably need to be on the site multiple months to find consistent fun (I usually did mth at a time for various reasons). But prices are up from the girls thanks to inflation, reddit, and how to SB content, and girls are doing less "work" thanks to expectation of mobile pay apps and selling content as well as the fact they don't consider themselves SW, but if you ask any SW, they absolutely are and that gap in understanding creates the disconnect which makes the site suck more than it did in 2017-2019.
I'm no longer on seeking. It was fun when you find one. I played around with it for 3 months. It was a lot of work to find the one you want to hook up with. A lot of flakes. The most memorable one I had is a crazy blonde chick where we fucked all night. A lot of them, they're asking ridiculous money. Even a fat emo girl with color hair wants $500! One girl I talked to for a few months and when we she finally ready to meeet, she want $650. Some guys here complaining they're paying 250 or 300, I wish I had those. Thinking back some convo I had was with 18 year old where she just ghosted on me, I never hook up with her. Nowadays, I rather spend money going to a bar and find one there.
I think that you just have to play the law of large numbers. When I am looking I send the same message basically, making it clear that I'm not looking for anything serious but would love to discuss a ppm thing if she's into that. I get a lot of bites and often from girls you definitely wouldn't suspect some of them straight say they're not into it in their profile but they really are and the PPM is always reasonable. I get 400 the most frequently which can always be widdled down to 300 or even 250. I have had a couple say 1000 and I just blocked them and I've had some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck. 80% of the time they come down. I don't play with small talk. I get them off site asap and explain what I am looking for and ask what kinda allowance would work of they're game. This is as difficult as you make it. My advice is cast a wide net, see what bites negotiate with several then choose. It will take a few hours, but in the end you'll have at least a fist full of hopefuls.
[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6873887]I think the frustration is that it is much more harder to find good, consistent fun at a reasonable price, the site does nothing about scammers, and the most concerning thing I see more on here and the news: I feel as if robberies and setups on up from SA meetings. So now there's a safety issue.
Is there fun to be had? Sure! Emv La makes a good point the good price to performance is found in RI (also hear FL is goldmine); just too much competition and PPS in MA. DC and JClear show that you probably need to be on the site multiple months to find consistent fun (I usually did mth at a time for various reasons). But prices are up from the girls thanks to inflation, reddit, and how to SB content, and girls are doing less "work" thanks to expectation of mobile pay apps and selling content as well as the fact they don't consider themselves SW, but if you ask any SW, they absolutely are and that gap in understanding creates the disconnect which makes the site suck more than it did in 2017-2019.[/QUOTE]