Revealing personal details
I agree. You never know who they are and when they change their mind.
I had an experience that I saw a lady a few times in a hotel, and she was awesome, however, after a few months, she sent a threatening message that she have some pics and vids, will send to my wife, if I don't pay her some dollars. I am pretty sure that she doesn't have such a thing, I ignored her. Worst case scenario, what if have some pics and stopped by my home one fine morning? It is always a chance to give others to know our personal information. If you are careful enough to use a burner phone, then we must careful to not reveal any personal information, at least for the first few meets. Meeting outside the home is always better.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=JustMikey;5649697]I would not bring a girl from SA to my house on the first date. I'm an older guy who typically bangs single moms or neglected housewives who are in their 30's. A relatively safe demographic compared to some. But I still believe that the first encounter or two needs to happen on neutral ground. A decent hotel. That offers security. How do I know that a new woman won't come back to my house later when I'm gone to steal from me? How do I know that some jealous husband or boyfriend won't come looking for an ass beating from me? How do I know that she's not a psycho that will come stalking while I'm banging someone else? I strongly suggest at least two intimate encounters on neutral ground first. By then you should know if she's normal and safe. Once that happens, bringing her home can be awesome. Home has all your shit like your music, your booze, your sex toys and lube, your shower, and of course privacy. Home is also good if you enjoy very submissive women as I do. No curious hotel staff or guests in the next room worrying about the noise from a good flogging or belt spanking.[/QUOTE]