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[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6862781]How does an allowance even work? Let's say you agree on an amount. Are they expecting you to pay the full amount upfront each month or at the end of the month? Has anyone ever done it and how did it go? Feel free to PM.[/QUOTE]The allowance works for the SB, I can see if you have been seeing someone for a while and want to make them permanent or your mistress, etc.

You would pay them up front for the month. Anytime you pay in advance you lose control and power of the situation.

Have talked with guys who have done allowance after seeing someone for an amount of time and what usually happens is they seem to get busy and.

Have less time to see you, even though you have paid her already and or set parameters of the deal.

I have seen some SB's for a year or two and it was always ppm, as I am busy with things and really did not know how much time I would have.

Month to month to meet up. Never had any issue with them, the long term one's, had some short term SB's who pushed for it and I just dropped them.

Also this was mostly before covid, one was after. Now things have seemed to change for the most part and how the women were on there is not how they are now.

You could find good women there much more easily, now lots of them looking for online / text only and want to be paid LOL.

Want to sell you pics / vids only, want allowance only no ppm, want you to pay them for a meet and greet thinking their time is more valuable than yours.

The whole attitude of most women on there truly sucks to be honest, add in lots of GPS also. A 6 thinks they are a 9 and wants 600 LOL.

There are some good one's there just much more difficult to find and there are many guys on there who pay whatever so they inflate the price of all SB's.

By paying a 6 like a 9.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6862781]How does an allowance even work? Let's say you agree on an amount. Are they expecting you to pay the full amount upfront each month or at the end of the month? Has anyone ever done it and how did it go? Feel free to PM.[/QUOTE]No, it does not work. And you will need to explain to the SB why it does not. The SB feel ripped off if you visit too much and the SD feels ripped off if he cannot visit enough.

Tell her it is an allowance per visit or something. Some acceptably worded version of PPM. Tell her the reason is fairness.

[QUOTE=Spill;6863448]No, it does not work. And you will need to explain to the SB why it does not. The SB feel ripped off if you visit too much and the SD feels ripped off if he cannot visit enough.

Tell her it is an allowance per visit or something. Some acceptably worded version of PPM. Tell her the reason is fairness.[/QUOTE]Agree with everyone saying an allowance doesn't work and just want to emphasize a key point that Spill touched on when he said "acceptably worded", some girls just use the term "allowance" because it feels less transactional or to translate, it helps them feel less like a prostitute, so sure, girls can use the word "allowance" with me but I always make it clear that I want to meet once a week and if we don't meet they don't get paid.

[QUOTE=FrogPilot;6863648]Agree with everyone saying an allowance doesn't work and just want to emphasize a key point that Spill touched on when he said "acceptably worded", some girls just use the term "allowance" because it feels less transactional or to translate, it helps them feel less like a prostitute, so sure, girls can use the word "allowance" with me but I always make it clear that I want to meet once a week and if we don't meet they don't get paid.[/QUOTE]Yeah I think they use to term to emphasize getting dough for fun; when I use PPM with some girls they have no idea what it means. I think some use it as a blanket term; others of course do have the PPS and actually except the monthly stipend.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6864498]Yeah I think they use to term to emphasize getting dough for fun; when I use PPM with some girls they have no idea what it means. I think some use it as a blanket term; others of course do have the PPS and actually except the monthly stipend.[/QUOTE]I always use "gift" as the introduction especially with the very young or "newbies" as they are not always aware of PPM. I typically follow up with the gift can be cash or can be other things depending on what they prefer. 99% of my experiences they always take the cash LOL.

I've always been lucky here on SA. The well has dried up. Every 1 girl you legitimately meet is covered by 10 scam accounts. Girls asking for money half up and half later (scam), and just absolutely asking for insane allowance. I've been lucky to have been with women here that I haven't even had to gift anything for, but this has gotten terrible. The well has dried up. People paying 600 1 k, you've dried it up. BTW, if you can even find a real person now.

[QUOTE=Papa2314;6865608]I've always been lucky here on SA. The well has dried up. Every 1 girl you legitimately meet is covered by 10 scam accounts. Girls asking for money half up and half later (scam), and just absolutely asking for insane allowance. I've been lucky to have been with women here that I haven't even had to gift anything for, but this has gotten terrible. The well has dried up. People paying 600 1 k, you've dried it up. BTW, if you can even find a real person now.[/QUOTE]I'm feeling the same. It is soooo much work just to find anything at all. Probably won't renew.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6865620]I'm feeling the same. It is soooo much work just to find anything at all. Probably won't renew.[/QUOTE]I feel that we should join up, and go out to a place and just do pickup. I confidentially have a pickup coaching course for men, and I do it. It's just seeking and this lifestyle was simple before, now it's just bullshri. Even women when you go out now, here they're entitled so it's been a learning curve for me and my students. It's been difficult but hey, we still have success.

[QUOTE=Spill;6863448]No, it does not work. And you will need to explain to the SB why it does not. The SB feel ripped off if you visit too much and the SD feels ripped off if he cannot visit enough.

Tell her it is an allowance per visit or something. Some acceptably worded version of PPM. Tell her the reason is fairness.[/QUOTE]Can confirm the time I tried it got ghosted. Was seeing one SB for around 8 months and she asked for an allowance. Told me we were exclusive BBFS etc. Saw her 1 time after that which also had me giving some money for the holiday and then ghosted. We were at 500 ppm 1-2 times a week so you can guess what the allowance equated to. Painful lesson but deep down I kind of figured it would happen.

I have been perusing the offerings on SA, and have decided that this is what I am looking for:

I need to find an entrepreneur, preferably one who knows her worth and gives great advice. Ideally this person would be seeking mentorship.

Any leads?

Lololololololol.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6865620]I'm feeling the same. It is soooo much work just to find anything at all. Probably won't renew.[/QUOTE]It's the Boston or MA area. RI and TX I've had great success with woman on here ranging from 2 to 400 PPM. 5 ish with hotel and dinner sometimes for the ones I want to treat but to each their own I suppose. There is a lot of scammers and a few I've talked with that are GPS but you just move on. LOL To the guy selling his course on here, talking with some of my SB's most of these guys are old and creepy so don't think the course will benefit but hey got to hustle so more power to you too.

[QUOTE=Papa2314;6865608]I've always been lucky here on SA. The well has dried up. Every 1 girl you legitimately meet is covered by 10 scam accounts. Girls asking for money half up and half later (scam), and just absolutely asking for insane allowance. I've been lucky to have been with women here that I haven't even had to gift anything for, but this has gotten terrible. The well has dried up. People paying 600 1 k, you've dried it up. BTW, if you can even find a real person now.[/QUOTE]Naw, I'm swamped right now. Paying $200-$300 per date, several times a week to different gals I've lined up recently. It's becoming a hassle, but my dick demands it.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;6864740]I always use "gift" as the introduction especially with the very young or "newbies" as they are not always aware of PPM. I typically follow up with the gift can be cash or can be other things depending on what they prefer. 99% of my experiences they always take the cash LOL.[/QUOTE]Same here, I use "gift", as in: "I will give you a $_ gift every time we meet, which is hopefully once a week, every week. " That has never been met with a negative response.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6867588]Naw, I'm swamped right now. Paying $200-$300 per date, several times a week to different gals I've lined up recently. It's becoming a hassle, but my dick demands it.[/QUOTE]We need you to share some of your throwaways with us 🙂.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6867658]We need you to share some of your throwaways with us 🙂.[/QUOTE]Why do you him to share girls he sees on seeking. Join the site and message woman yourself and get dates. Man if you people are to cheap to pay for a month to fuck hot woman then you couldn't afford to see them anyway.