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If it is the sensitivity that is getting you off then try Baby Oragel on your dick just a little before you start fucking it desensitizes the feeling in your dick so you last longer. Also Viagra will make you last longer before you shoot.
[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I know this isn't the place for this but the reason I even found this site is because of my premature ejaculation. I am married middle aged and cum within seconds. I am on paxil and it only give me about 5 strokes, (prior to 20mg of paxil it was always prior to entry) started to see SW's for advice and everyone has told me I am the quickest they have ever seen. I hate this and it is killing me. Help[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I know this isn't the place for this but the reason I even found this site is because of my premature ejaculation. I am married middle aged and cum within seconds. I am on paxil and it only give me about 5 strokes, (prior to 20mg of paxil it was always prior to entry) started to see SW's for advice and everyone has told me I am the quickest they have ever seen. I hate this and it is killing me. Help[/QUOTE]
If you can masturbate and last longer, it's probably mental. I find smoking a little 420 seems to make me think about it less and I last a little longer. I know antidepressants are also supposed to help control that. So if the paxil is working, maybe a little uppage in the dosage might help. Have you chatted with the doc that gave you paxil about this problem?
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I use lidocaine to desensitize. And if I am sure of sex I use a extra paxil 40mg.
The doctor said no to viagra it wouldn't help and have no other source. I heard porn stars use it with sucess. The hobby is expensive so I go for the SW and it is one time only same as with the half hour. Any ideas also I am sure this is not a mental issue they just don't research enough. I was thinking of asking doc for RX grade numbing stuff.
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Ask your doc to let you just try viagra just the same some docs know less than the person being treated.
[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I use lidocaine to desensitize. And if I am sure of sex I use a extra paxil 40mg.
The doctor said no to viagra it wouldn't help and have no other source. I heard porn stars use it with sucess. The hobby is expensive so I go for the SW and it is one time only same as with the half hour. Any ideas also I am sure this is not a mental issue they just don't research enough. I was thinking of asking doc for RX grade numbing stuff.[/QUOTE]
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John R - Michelle
This was one of those great coincidences. A long time ago (2000-2002, if I had to guess) I got takeout from a stripper at La Chambre and the Vert. She danced as Kelly, Simone, and Britney.
She would provide FS in the VIP, and anything you wanted. For takeout, I had all I wanted and more, including greek and videotaping.
Anyways, years go by, and I spot her on John R; she's now working the stroll.
You'll find her near 8 Mile, in the early afternoon, I'd guess.
If you can identify who she had a tattoo of on her thigh (it was widely known, and easily identifiable), I have digits. Other than that, no digits for this one. She doesn't really want her digits shared with unknowns. Sorry, respecting her wishes, though.
Oh, by the way, BJ for $25, and FS for $35 is what I scored over multiple encounters.
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Amber Update
Amber is still around, but she's constantly discussing going to rehab (smoking heroin, crack).
If you're interested in a great fuckdoll for $20, she's the one, though. Anything and everything is on the menu, and she'll take it as aggressively as you can dish it out. All while doing the patented Amber whimper.
A few new pics I took this week:
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[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I know this isn't the place for this but the reason I even found this site is because of my premature ejaculation. I am married middle aged and cum within seconds. I am on paxil and it only give me about 5 strokes, (prior to 20mg of paxil it was always prior to entry) started to see SW's for advice and everyone has told me I am the quickest they have ever seen. I hate this and it is killing me. Help[/QUOTE]Are you wearing a condom to reduce the stimulus? I would think that anyone can learn to control when they ejaculate as long as they have a cooperative partner. You say you can go "5 strokes" so what happens if you go 3 or 4 and back off, do another 3 or 4 and back off? The same muscles that control the flow of urine help control ejaculating semen so practice controlling it.
Have your partner jack you and practice controlling it. If that partner causes problems get one who does what shes told. You will also notice that your balls are drawn up before ejaculation so have her manually (gently) put her fingers around the sac and pull them down to pull you back.
Not busting a nut until you want to is one of the more enjoyable things in life to practice. Practice makes perfect.
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Viagra
[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I use lidocaine to desensitize. And if I am sure of sex I use a extra paxil 40mg.
The doctor said no to viagra it wouldn't help and have no other source. I heard porn stars use it with sucess. The hobby is expensive so I go for the SW and it is one time only same as with the half hour. Any ideas also I am sure this is not a mental issue they just don't research enough. I was thinking of asking doc for RX grade numbing stuff.[/QUOTE]It is obvious your doc doesn't know what he is talking about. Viagra will help get you hard and definitely last longer but also try some of the other control methods offered previously. Do you have trouble getting an erection too because the anxiety of getting hard can also make you come quicker. It's the fear of losing the erection that pushes for the climax.
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[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I know this isn't the place for this but the reason I even found this site is because of my premature ejaculation. I am married middle aged and cum within seconds. I am on paxil and it only give me about 5 strokes, (prior to 20mg of paxil it was always prior to entry) started to see SW's for advice and everyone has told me I am the quickest they have ever seen. I hate this and it is killing me. Help[/QUOTE]Hmm, how about this. When you're almost ready, take a quick bathroom break and whack it real quick. You don't cum real fast the second time, do you?
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Thanks
Thank you for all the advice.
Seeing doc soon and will report back.
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That is the BEST sentence ever written on this site and it is so damn truthful and accurate. You really couldn't have said it any better.
[QUOTE=Mister Slate] Not busting a nut until you want to is one of the more enjoyable things in life to practice. Practice makes perfect.[/QUOTE]
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A good approach
[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]Thank you for all the advice.
Seeing doc soon and will report back.[/QUOTE]
I understand you want to get this fixed, but if i were you i would use it to my advantage in the meanwhile. i would go to h8, offer them 20 a dance for full service, which i am sure they would take, thinking you are gonna need 5 or 6 dances. bam, hit em with the load first dance and come back and brag to us about getting fs for 20.
I do hope you get your problem fixed though. I can understand your frustration.
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Blondie
I had a dream that she and I drove a little. After a quick LE check, we may drove thru the area of 6 1/2 and john R.. 2 was great. Wrong time of the month for more, would see her again for more. The video link is very good.
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[QUOTE=Ken Terrell]I know this isn't the place for this but the reason I even found this site is because of my premature ejaculation. I am married middle aged and cum within seconds. I am on paxil and it only give me about 5 strokes, (prior to 20mg of paxil it was always prior to entry) started to see SW's for advice and everyone has told me I am the quickest they have ever seen. I hate this and it is killing me. Help[/QUOTE]What if you had my probleam I can't cum just pound it until it goes down Is there something I can eat to build up sperm.
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Paxil
[QUOTE=Jooop]What if you had my probleam I can't cum just pound it until it goes down Is there something I can eat to build up sperm.[/QUOTE]SSRI's like Paxil or Prosac have significant sexual side effects and can make it very difficult to cum.
Other than tapering off the Paxil/ trying another SSRI or an antidepressant with different effects like Wellbutrin I don't know of anything. Trying googling increasing semen if that's what you're going for.
Your post though brings up the idea that taking both an SSRI (that makes it hard to ejaculate - but reduces sexual performance) along with Prosac or another erectile drug might treat premature ejaculation. You need a doctor who has actually read the literature about this stuff not just anybody.