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[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2464381]
As soon as she leaves town, the switch is back on and it's just like I was a horny teenager again. Then "the game" tends to become meet and bang as many SBs as possible before she gets back, just to satisfy the need for variety. A need that, oddly enough, I probably won't even feel once she returns.Weird, I know. I don't even understand it myself.[/QUOTE]It's called being happily married.
JL:
As soon as she leaves town, the switch is back on and it's just like I was a horny teenager again. Then "the game" tends to become meet and bang as many SBs as possible before she gets back, just to satisfy the need for variety. A need that, oddly enough, I probably won't even feel once she returns. Weird, I know. I don't even understand it myself.
When is she leaving? We look forward to the frenetic activity and reportage.
Zcochran00.
So since I seem to be getting involved in this thread, might as well introduce myself. In my mid 30's, and spent most of my life here in SW Ohio. Blissfully single. Been hobbying the last few years, and now looking to try out the Sugar Bowl.
Welcome Z,it sounds like your OCD nature will result in some good reports. Again, young SDs like you and several others here can appeal to the girls more as peers, so the BF attraction is there and makes capturing a lot easier. At 30 yrs old you guys should have aa super high retention rate.
SmellyFish:
I generally agree with the position that SBs ate sweeter and more fun. A few months ago I also thought I was done with mongering. This is no longer the case. Don't get me wrong, but the bowl does have its downsides.
Mongering has a risk of LE capture --the ultimate life ruiner. I agree that a couple of HOs are easy but there is always the spectre that the girl is compromised and is a sting set up to save her ass.
Stale sex: always comes after a set period of time. If you love your partner in every other way and have not been exposed to the Bowl you can forgo strange sex. Once you have experienced strange there is no going back.
Hoya: Question? Are any of you guys banging your SB's raw dog?
Absolutely! Covered sex is a nonstarter for me. Can't feel anything even with ultra thins. If the girl won't go bare I won't take her.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2464438]It's called being happily married.[/QUOTE]Much like it I suppose, without the actual legal spousal obligations, and with the intermittent lapse in personal integrity when she travels.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;2464633]JL:
When is she leaving? We look forward to the frenetic activity and reportage.
[/QUOTE]Wish I could accurately project. The more notice / lead time I have, the better I can prepare. It's one of those things I can't predict or influence, just take it when it comes and make the most of it.
It reminds me of online dating back in the 90's.
NEVER just say "Hi, I think you are interesting / cute / hot, lets meet" You have to chat them up, show them you are paying attention to their profile, their responses -- just like LISTENING to them on a date and asking questions about them, not just talking about yourself. Use complete sentences -- show that you aren't some text driven illiterate.
Even the girls who make it abundantly clear they just want to bang decent guys who have disposable income want to be "romanced" a little.
I would always offer a hotel for first FC visit, and let them offer to host, if they can. Many gals won't come to your place on first meeting for safety reasons. Should be neutral or their ground to make them feel a little more comfortable.
I had a business trip to PHL in my future, so I started contacting local SB candidates, letting them know I am a bi-monthly or even quarterly visitor to PHL and was looking for an SB for infrequent NSA fun. Being honest helped me weed out many, yet I still had a dozen hotties willing to visit the FC if meeting for drinks worked for them. Focued in on 3 or 4, but only one put in the time to message me regularly. Few emails a day for two weeks really got her comfortable and she fully opened up to me.
When we finally met, it was amazing. Barely made it through an appetizer and bottle of wine before she was asking for the check. She spent the night, 4 rounds of all access intense fucking with a self-proclaimed freak. $500. Bargain of the century. Guarantee it was all the playful lead up phone calls and emails -- she told me as much. Seeing her again as soon as I can arrange another trip -- even if that means having her meet me in another city. So much better than the pros.
Be honest, but not blunt.
Take the time to chat them up, make them feel like you will be going on a date.
[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2464677]Much like it I suppose, without the actual legal spousal obligations, and with the intermittent lapse in personal integrity when she travels.[/QUOTE]Happily Married. Only play when the cats away.
Unhappily Married. Throws it in her face or sneaks around when she (or you) is at work or on a "boys night out" thinking she doesn't know, but trust me she does.
And no paperwork, that is a plus. That paper will strangle you. I watch the "king of queens" just to remind myself. I only want to fuck pussy not be one.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2464813]Happily Married. Only play when the cats away.
Unhappily Married. Throws it in her face or sneaks around when she (or you) is at work or on a "boys night out" thinking she doesn't know, but trust me she does.
And no paperwork, that is a plus. That paper will strangle you. I watch the "king of queens" just to remind myself. I only want to fuck pussy not be one.[/QUOTE]My idea of true marital bliss would be not only to be able to play while she's away, but to be able to play with her endorsement. Ideal situation is I have a clause in the prenuptials that says she has to bring home a minimum of 2 hot friends to me for bedroom play per week, else monetary fines accrue (interest compounded daily until my needs are met).
I know, not happening, but until it's a possibility I'll remain unmarried.
I can't remember the last time the wife went somewhere overnight without me. Even when her geezing parents need attention, we BOTH have to go to Gods waiting room to check on them.
My only saving grace is my occasional business trips, though many are just day trips. But I always budget in a couple or 3 hours of open time in my destination. When I do overnight, I can expect a couple of "checking up on me calls". If I don't answer my cell, she will call the hotel room to make sure I am there.
Funny thing is, she is worried about the wrong thing. I am NOT down at the bar or out to dinner trying to pick up some chick. Was NEVER good at that and am probably so out of practice and so obviously horny that only a pro at a bar would give me the time of day!
If she only knew. But only twice has she called when I was actually with some one -- one provider and my only SB experience, both of whom handled it perfectly. I know I have a few hours between the dinner call and the going to be call, then after 10 PM I am un-supervised if I choose to stay up late.
[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2464862]My idea of true marital bliss would be not only to be able to play while she's away, but to be able to play with her endorsement. Ideal situation is I have a clause in the prenuptials that says she has to bring home a minimum of 2 hot friends to me for bedroom play per week, else monetary fines accrue (interest compounded daily until my needs are met).
I know, not happening, but until it's a possibility I'll remain unmarried.[/QUOTE]My current requirement is a pre-nup on both our assets. But she must deposit 1 MM in after tax cash in my account and another in my daughters account. Whatever happens after that, who cares. And I can find my own pussy. And with all that cash I wouldn't have to look to far. LOL.
We can all dream.
Archer:"When we finally met, it was amazing. Barely made it through an appetizer and bottle of wine before she was asking for the check. She spent the night, 4 rounds of all access intense fucking with a self-proclaimed freak. $500. Bargain of the century. ".
Sounds like a great time but at $500/ session it should be. We could all get 20 SBs / week for that price. Not hating, but just stating the obvious. It all boils down to how much money you have to spend on this hobby. The more you have the better it goes. Hollywood has the cost effectiveness down to a science.
OTOH, if you only can screw around 4 times / year, a $500 investment for that level of service is well worth the price.
[QUOTE=Zcochran00;2464326]So since I seem to be getting involved in this thread, might as well introduce myself. In my mid 30's, and spent most of my life here in SW Ohio. Blissfully single. Been hobbying the last few years, and now looking to try out the Sugar Bowl.
Joined SA back at the start of the year and bookmarked an initial list of favorites. Paid up for one month, let it lapse, and decided to get serious about things last week. At this point I've got a pretty lengthy list of favorites, as well as a number who have favorited or contacted me.
So, as I prepare to dive in, here's the current situation. There's a couple girls in particular I really want to get to know (one I could actually see a chance to mentor a bit based on her profile). Another girl was actually recommended to me as a possibility. There's also a few who have messaged me recently and definitely expressed NSA-type interest, and finally others who listed NSA in their profiles.
There's no lack of possibilities as I start out. The real question is who do I contact first. Part of me wants to contact the mentor POT and the recommended POT, but the rest of me is thinking I should probably hold off on that, and respond to the girls who have contacted me already. Get some experience, see how those pan out, then contact the actual top possibilities once I've got more game.
Will try to post some occasional progress updates for you guys as I go along. Comments and suggestions are always welcome, of course, including thoughts on initial targets.[/QUOTE]I play in the same general area as you. Your budget is not unreasonable. If you don't need to pay for a hotel (summer rates here are double winter rates.) As you read through the old posts, you will hear a common theme: this is a numbers game. Contact all your POT's and propose a meet if they seem congenial. Be friendly but don't try to be "nice. ' You have to have some 'game' and if you don't know what that means, you need to do more research. Never get too interested in any one POT. It kills your game. You need to work large numbers at the beginning both to increase your odds of success and to get practice. Don't worry, never worry, about losing a POT. There are new women showing up every day. That bears repeating: there is a steady stream of new women on the site every day! Once you gain success with a few, you continue the hunt because eventually you or she will decide to move on. This is an ongoing thing not one with an end state. Unless you make a mistake. Feel free to PM me if you have specific questions about the SWO bowl.
BAM.
[QUOTE=FredMoore;2465023]Archer:"When we finally met, it was amazing. Barely made it through an appetizer and bottle of wine before she was asking for the check. She spent the night, 4 rounds of all access intense fucking with a self-proclaimed freak. $500. Bargain of the century. ".
Sounds like a great time but at $500/ session it should be. We could all get 20 SBs / week for that price. Not hating, but just stating the obvious. It all boils down to how much money you have to spend on this hobby. The more you have the better it goes. Hollywood has the cost effectiveness down to a science.
OTOH, if you only can screw around 4 times / year, a $500 investment for that level of service is well worth the price.[/QUOTE]I spent 12 hours with her. I'd say at $500 for an all access hottie is well worth it compared to $300 for an hour with a pro.
I have found plenty who will go $300 for a 2-3 hour session. I like the math of $200 more to wake up in the middle of the night and first thing in the AM with a boner to be fully serviced.
[QUOTE=BradAM;2465137]That bears repeating: there is a steady stream of new women on the site every day![/QUOTE]I repeat this to myself every time I lose a hottie to a better offer.
Or I could just do this.
[URL]http://bentleybeverlyhills.com/lease-specials/[/URL]
Just drive around town and see what happens. I wonder what the results would be like?. But I can only afford one or the other. Sugar or Car? Sugar or Car? I think I,ll take the sugar. At this price I could bang my regulars 20 times a month. Or bang a 10 quality hottie 4-8 times a month.or stay home and jerk off but look really cool when I go to the store. MILF's take notice. LOL. They would probably love doing it in the backseat. But then I would be stuck banging horny MILF's in the suburbs as opposed to a 19 year old that wouldn't really give a shit.
"Hello I would love to meet & fuck for money. Let me kno if your interested. ".
Did she just offer to pay me to fuck her? It would have to be a lot.
As I developed a bad case of GCS after seeing her profile.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed48e68d/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2465215]"Hello I would love to meet & fuck for money. Let me kno if your interested. ".
Did she just offer to pay me to fuck her? It would have to be a lot.
As I developed a bad case of GCS after seeing her profile.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed48e68d/view?conversation-inbox[/URL][/QUOTE]Isn't GCS just another form of 'game?' By the way, she doesn't look like a "heavy smoker!
BAM.