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I'm done with the fear mongering over the Florida thing. Those guys are all being offered deals. Krafts case (I think he's going to end up going for major damages civilly) could end up redefining commercial sex law in the US.
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[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4212992]Been out of town in assignment and can't wait to get back to SD and to my favorite spots, but have been enjoying some of company of some of the wonderful girls in the Northeast.
I have found a hidden plethora of very nice AMP establishments that have a full menu for those that want it at a decent price where both parties are happy when leaving. But I have a question that I need to ask my hometown crowd as the forum scene here is lackluster at best.
I have had this problem before but under different circumstances, I'll explain.
The problem I have is not reaching full release, not bragging or trying to boast but I think it may be a problem. If I go to a HJ only place, rarely do I reach release unless the girl is very beautiful or allows more skin to skin contact like breast sucking or DATY. It seems if they allow this I reach my explosion point sooner, but typically after 30-45 minutes if my mushroom tip has not become numb yet.
If strictly HJ, my tip becomes numb but still retains full sensation making it feel like I going to cum but not reaching it.
This is usually not a problem when I partake with FS, but now it seems that it has come to that as well, especially if I return to a good provider for a repeat visit.
2 of the providers I have visited here I have repeated this problem where I reach no "O" face.
Both girls are very fine, 1st girl is 28 athletic build flat stomach and a lovely set of A's with gum ball nips not erasers and a really nice set of big lips down there.
The 2nd girl is really good looking, very sophisticated looking, a solid 8 any day, about 30-35 athletic build, flat stomach and a really nice ass that I can eat for days.
1st girl does everything covered, but is really good and she squirts and I can make her cum several times over.
2nd girl give a spectacular BBBJ, probably one of the best I have had and also will orgasm several times over.
Though I thoroughly enjoy making a girl cum, sometimes that is all I need to cum, but I have run into this a few times more than I like.
Is this a common thing?
The only time this has happened to me is if I take care of myself earlier in the day rubbing one out then partake with entertainment with the AMP girls.[/QUOTE]
Holy crap, I thought you were describing my issue. I think with me is because I masturbate every night if I’m not going to an AMP, etc...
If I am going to a HJ joint and want a good massage with my HJ I have to schedule a 90 minutes session. I need at least a 30- 45 minutes fun play and build up before the HJ release. There has to be lots of teasing, mutual touching, kissing, sucking on her tits, pussy in my face, or my masseuse needs to be hot, etc.
With FS play, I burst fairly quickly. Maybe seeing those bouncing tits and ass is what does it for me.
RC.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;4213058]Holy crap, I thought you were describing my issue. I think with me is because I masturbate every night if Im not going to an AMP, etc...
If I am going to a HJ joint and want a good massage with my HJ I have to schedule a 90 minutes session. I need at least a 30- 45 minutes fun play and build up before the HJ release. There has to be lots of teasing, mutual touching, kissing, sucking on her tits, pussy in my face, or my masseuse needs to be hot, etc.
With FS play, I burst fairly quickly. Maybe seeing those bouncing tits and ass is what does it for me.
RC.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I feel your pain man.
I met up with my girl #2 earlier today, she gives a decent massage, which I needed, but wound up paying for an extra half hour because of this problem. Totally not her fault, she did everything right, it's just me.
To give some background, I just turned 50, so I'm not a young stud, but my little man is acting like he's 25.
I have had times where I go in and pop early like most of us probably do, but when this happens, like today, over an hour and still no pop.
I still leave happy, as most providers try to do what they can within their time limits, but with no pop.
This past week I've enjoyed Carrie and JoJo at V spa. Carrie is a young spinner. Not much up top, but a real sweetie that knows how to please! Okay massage and if she likes you, you'll know it! JoJo is older and provides a stronger massage though not really her area of expertise. JoJo is more personable and I like the way she teases and flirts! Carrie's is the hotter of the two and has a tight little body. JoJo has a nice body for a MILF, is more sensual and seems to really get into it. Full disclosure, I suggested several spas to a member that PM'd me and he saw Carrie at V with a less favorable experience. As always YMMV!
Went to A Spa for some blue balls relief from Helen, but she complained I hurt her pussy last time so suggested a new girl, Joanna. I was flattered and hurt at the same time! A blessing in disguise! I'm a pushover when a pretty girl flashes me a smile and pulls me close! She suggested an hour and I was quick to agree. Her massage was decent and she claims she normally doesn't put much effort into a massage, but Helen told her I'm a good guy and to take care of me. Solid thirty minute massage, followed by solid thirty minutes of fun! I'm not into tats, but she has beautiful Asian floral tattoos on her left shoulder that she would coo when I kissed and nibbled around them. It always amuses me when a gal can barely speak English but can say fuck me, fuck me, fuck me, right there, harder and don't stop, perfectly! Good times for $60 hour house fee and no complaints of a sore pussy. Yet!
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4213095]Yeah, I feel your pain man.
I met up with my girl #2 earlier today, she gives a decent massage, which I needed, but wound up paying for an extra half hour because of this problem. Totally not her fault, she did everything right, it's just me.
To give some background, I just turned 50, so I'm not a young stud, but my little man is acting like he's 25.
I have had times where I go in and pop early like most of us probably do, but when this happens, like today, over an hour and still no pop.
I still leave happy, as most providers try to do what they can within their time limits, but with no pop.[/QUOTE]
Deja vu again. I too saw one of my regular provider earlier today and she tried very hard to make me cum but junior wasn't having it. He was hard for almost the entire hour but was happy with just being teased and played with. My provider felt bad because she wanted to make me happy and was willing to extend more time for me but I had to end the session because I had a meeting to attend.
About 30 minutes ago, I just left one of my favorite AMP joint and had a nice HE massage. I asked for soft / light touch and 45 minutes of the hour session was all sensual massage. Junior released a huge load that required 6-7 tissues to clean up before the warm washcloths. At the end I had a great release to end my day.
I think I will schedule 90 minutes sessions from now on, or ask for soft touch if a HJ massage is my goal.
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4213095]Yeah, I feel your pain man.
I met up with my girl #2 earlier today, she gives a decent massage, which I needed, but wound up paying for an extra half hour because of this problem. Totally not her fault, she did everything right, it's just me.
To give some background, I just turned 50, so I'm not a young stud, but my little man is acting like he's 25.
I have had times where I go in and pop early like most of us probably do, but when this happens, like today, over an hour and still no pop.
I still leave happy, as most providers try to do what they can within their time limits, but with no pop.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/delayed-ejaculation/symptoms-causes/syc-20371358[/URL]
Delayed ejaculation can result from medications, certain chronic health conditions and surgeries. Or it might be caused by substance misuse or a mental health concern, such as depression, anxiety or stress. In many cases, it is due to a combination of physical and psychological concerns.
Psychological causes of delayed ejaculation include:
Depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions.
Relationship problems due to stress, poor communication or other concerns.
Anxiety about performance.
Poor body image.
Cultural or religious taboos.
Differences between the reality of sex with a partner and sexual fantasies.
Medications and other substances that can cause delayed ejaculation include:
Some antidepressants.
Certain high blood pressure medications.
Certain diuretics.
Some antipsychotic medications.
Some anti-seizure medications.
Alcohol — particularly drinking too much (excessive alcohol use or alcoholism).
Physical causes of delayed ejaculation include:
Certain birth defects affecting the male reproductive system.
Injury to the pelvic nerves that control orgasm.
Certain infections, such as a urinary tract infection.
Prostate surgery, such as transurethral resection of the prostate or prostate removal.
Neurological diseases, such as diabetic neuropathy, stroke or nerve damage to the spinal cord.
Hormone-related conditions, such as low thyroid hormone level (hypothyroidism) or low testosterone level (hypogonadism).
Retrograde ejaculation, a condition in which the semen goes backward into the bladder rather than out of the penis.
For some men, a minor physical problem that causes a delay in ejaculation might cause anxiety about ejaculating during a sexual encounter. The resulting anxiety might worsen delayed ejaculation.
Risk factors.
A number of things can increase your risk of having delayed ejaculation, including:
Older age — as men age, it's normal for ejaculation to take longer.
Psychological conditions, such as depression or anxiety.
Medical conditions, such as diabetes or multiple sclerosis.
Certain medical treatments, such as prostate surgery.
Medications, particularly certain antidepressants, high blood pressure medications or diuretics.
Relationship problems, such as poor communication with your partner.
Excessive alcohol use, especially if you're a long-term heavy drinker.
Complications.
Complications of delayed ejaculation can include:
Diminished sexual pleasure for you and your partner.
Stress or anxiety about sexual performance.
Marital or relationship problems due to an unsatisfactory sex life.
Inability to get your partner pregnant (male infertility).
Lot of good info.
I usually have the opposite problem -. Too excited and is faster than I would like.
[QUOTE=DogRice;4213893]Lot of good info.
I usually have the opposite problem -. Too excited and is faster than I would like.[/QUOTE]So do most men, but there are advantages: Less costs for shorter sessions. The gals appreciate you more! Many gals tell me they prefer the norm as opposed to the self proclaimed studs!
[URL]https://www.webmd.com/men/features/sex-fact-fiction[/URL]
A study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found, a median IELT (intravaginal ejaculation latency time) of 5. 4 minutes.
Ian Kerner says a common cutoff time used to define premature ejaculation is two minutes, but he adds that many of the men he works with "are not guys who can last a few minutes; they're having orgasms during foreplay, or immediately upon penetrating. They have a hard time lasting past 30 seconds. ".
But a quick trigger is normal, says Kerner. "Men were wired to ejaculate quickly -- and stressful situations make them ejaculate even more quickly. It's been important to the human race. If guys took an hour to ejaculate, we'd be a much smaller planet. ".
Sunflower spa massage.
Did a quick 1/2 hr visit, which definitely last over the 1/2 hr. Tall, 27 yo Chinese girl. Beautiful face, smile. Let me do some OTC roaming but honestly I was just feeling the massage and damn near fell asleep. She wore all black, with jeans and from the start used a bed sheet to massage. Knew right then and there this might have been a legit no xtras spot. After a while she strips the sheet and asks if oil is ok. After that a great elbow and arm massage on my back. More physical contact after that (which was suttle and a huge turn on) and wiped the oil down after for the flip. On the flip, tried to coax and get some lip service but she pretended to not understand and went straight for the HJ with oil.
30 to rhe house, 60 tip for "star". All in all a good experience with xtras. I'd go back just to test the waters again d / t her being younger and having a cute face. English was good and mamasan was nice. Next to a barbershop and a diner located in Lemon Grove. Plenty of parking. Enjoy guys.
Has anyone else visited Fine Touch Wellness on Palm, at least that's what I remember the name was on the sign, but street view says Golden Touch Wellness. I visited this past Wednesday scoping out new MPs in the area and realized it was a FS place when I asked the mamasan how much hhr and 1 hr were; 60 and 100 respectively. I opted for the hhr since this was my first time at a FS place.
The mamasan was an older asian lady and was very friendly as she led me to a room. She asked if I've been there before and I answered that it was my first time. She then asked how old I was, explaining that I looked like a teenager; asking for my I'd. Now I have gotten that before, people thinking I am younger than I usually am, but I'm thinking she was doing some sort of check when I showed her my I'd. She then asked for a name and a four digit code to reuse the next time I visited the establishment explaining it as one of those repeat customer punch cards; the 10th visit has no house fee. She left the room and told me a pretty girl will come in soon.
I undressed and laid on the bed; a few minutes later Jenny comes in asking if I was the name I had given. Jenny was a 5'5 girl wearing a pink top and tight grey leggings. She was prettier than all the other providers I've had before with a fit body and soft b cups. She started giving a perfunctory massage on my back and lower legs asking me if I've been to other MPs before. I was vague in giving descriptions of FS places I remember reading about on here on Convoy and Ronson. She asked what service I wanted and I said everything; She then asked how much were the other places I've been to before and I quoted 120 since I couldn't really remember the standard price I've read. She responded by saying come again and at first I thought she didn't hear me, but just repeated come again. I got it that time and quoted 140 and she was happy with that.
She undressed and started gliding her body and breasts all over my back and asked me to turn over. She repeated the maneuver and used a disinfectant on my genital region and started sucking on my balls while putting the cover on. CBJ was alright; some teeth. After a bit of time she started cowgirl, moaning and kissing me all the while. She asked to switch positions so we started doing doggy, a few minutes later I finished in missionary. She asked me to lay back down as she cleaned me up. After the clean up she laid next to me stroking my chest and the boys. The mamasan yelled something a few minutes later and she told me the session was over. She got dressed and went out for the water bottle and I gave her the 140 agreed upon. She thanked me and asked to come visit her again soon.
So this was longer than I expected but my main question is if this experience the norm for FS places? The I'd thing, price, and name and code thing mainly.
[QUOTE=DogRice;4213893]Lot of good info.
I usually have the opposite problem -. Too excited and is faster than I would like.[/QUOTE]Soon after my divorce a few years ago I slowly got back into the dating game and I was a masterbation champion, if you saw my pornhub account, it would confirm this, LOL.
My inner "man" fear was that I would meet a girl and feel completely inadequate if I came too early. My ex hadn't given the cookie up for some time and I'm not the cheating type, especially when there is propert and such on the table to lose. No kids, so that was a plus in our favor, but I could choke that chicken like it was my job.
I started meeting "real" women and I could perform what they thought was normal so I weened off of self pleasure so I didn't create another issue or wear out my manhood.
I do appreciate all the good info, it really helps and there is a doctor visit in the near future for a check up. I'm just glad that there is a place like this that we can share info about to help each other even if it's not exactly where to go for fun and a massage.
By the way, saw both my girls yesterday #1 (my squirrel girl) around noon, no problems, my orgasm was like an earthquake, sorry for the tremors you may have felt. My #2, gave me a really great session, she is leaving in 2 days so she gave me a big going away bang. She told me that I gave her an explosive orgasm, I believe her, because the taste changed during DATY. If your any good at giving DATY, you know exactly what I mean. She almost ripped my ears off.
I came as well, but little fuel was left in the tank from earlier.
Read reports that she's moved on to another spot.
Best FS experience I've ever had! Mediocre massage, teasing without cover, ball play, CBJ, CFS. Joked that I should take her home with me, and I was tempted!
[QUOTE=TwoBlueBalls;4213009]Interesting post so I Googled Delayed or Impaired ejaculation. Your girlfriend or wife might appreciate this problem, but gals in the business, not so much. Too much wear and tear on the puss.[/QUOTE]It is a curse and a blessing to say the least.
Looking at it from the girls point of view, if every customer was this way, not good for them, like you say, too much wear and tear and too much effort for the money.
The blessing, it feels great the entire time and some of the girls tell me #1, but only if they have orgasmed multiple times or they were able to have a big body shaking orgasm.
The curse, is when you go and go but don't reach the goal line and then she feels bad. Sometimes this can be a blessing as well if the girl feels determined to help you out but that doesn't always work.
Overall, I thank the girls for what they do and provide.
Thanks guys and good luck, be safe.
[QUOTE=Doe4646;4214359]Has anyone else visited Fine Touch Wellness on Palm, at least that's what I remember the name was on the sign, but street view says Golden Touch Wellness. I visited this past Wednesday scoping out new MPs in the area and realized it was a FS place when I asked the mamasan how much hhr and 1 hr were; 60 and 100 respectively. I opted for the hhr since this was my first time at a FS place.
The mamasan was an older asian lady and was very friendly as she led me to a room. She asked if I've been there before and I answered that it was my first time. She then asked how old I was, explaining that I looked like a teenager; asking for my I'd. Now I have gotten that before, people thinking I am younger than I usually am, but I'm thinking she was doing some sort of check when I showed her my I'd. She then asked for a name and a four digit code to reuse the next time I visited the establishment explaining it as one of those repeat customer punch cards; the 10th visit has no house fee. She left the room and told me a pretty girl will come in soon.
I undressed and laid on the bed; a few minutes later Jenny comes in asking if I was the name I had given. Jenny was a 5'5 girl wearing a pink top and tight grey leggings. She was prettier than all the other providers I've had before with a fit body and soft b cups. She started giving a perfunctory massage on my back and lower legs asking me if I've been to other MPs before. I was vague in giving descriptions of FS places I remember reading about on here on Convoy and Ronson. She asked what service I wanted and I said everything; She then asked how much were the other places I've been to before and I quoted 120 since I couldn't really remember the standard price I've read. She responded by saying come again and at first I thought she didn't hear me, but just repeated come again. I got it that time and quoted 140 and she was happy with that.
She undressed and started gliding her body and breasts all over my back and asked me to turn over. She repeated the maneuver and used a disinfectant on my genital region and started sucking on my balls while putting the cover on. CBJ was alright; some teeth. After a bit of time she started cowgirl, moaning and kissing me all the while. She asked to switch positions so we started doing doggy, a few minutes later I finished in missionary. She asked me to lay back down as she cleaned me up. After the clean up she laid next to me stroking my chest and the boys. The mamasan yelled something a few minutes later and she told me the session was over. She got dressed and went out for the water bottle and I gave her the 140 agreed upon. She thanked me and asked to come visit her again soon.
So this was longer than I expected but my main question is if this experience the norm for FS places? The I'd thing, price, and name and code thing mainly.[/QUOTE]Never been to Fine Touch Massage, but it sounds like text book Korean Spa. I'm usually not that far South, but I've flagged it in my Google maps if I'm ever in the area. Good report!