Moving this where it belongs
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3495925]As far as A2; I'm not looking for the "hooker" type and disagree with his general assessment. Sure there are BP girls but many simply are trying this out, will not go through, do it once and bail out, or looking for one fwb type arrangement. To me, a far cry from a hooker. That's the site's charm.[/QUOTE]Seems to me you have a lot of contempt for guys working BP and other sites; "far cry from a hooker" "I'm not looking for the 'hooker' type. " If you give her money she might not look like Devine Brown but she has the same job and you are a john just like Hugh Grant was. Do whatever you need to do to delude yourself that you're somehow "better" than those guys but I'm telling you and will continue to tell you that you're a john.
Sorry if you think this is harsh, but some of you sugar guys come off as self righteous high hatters to me and that sorta irritates me.
One other thing, they turned into hookers the moment they put their profile on the site. The rest is just how much. This doesn't mean I don't like hookers, I fucking love hookers, just give it a fucking name is all and that name is prostitution.
Fairly new monger- slave to my d!ick- loves to munch box
Am I totally insane for daty on one of these BP girls? Are there any that might be worth the risk? I really don't want to try and explain to my kids why they have herpes after I kiss them goodnight.
Nothing to be confused about
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3507861]It goes both ways for mongers and providers. Where you confused me was your example of your UTR. Her original price for her smelly pussy was OK but when she doubled the price the smell became a problem? Its pretty simple, if we don't like the service then move on. We choose, they don't force us to drive to them. Also you know YMMV so providers are going to treat favorite mongers a little better than ones who show up every other month with no personality and poor hygiene.[/QUOTE]It was an issue I was going to mention to her because I thought she had potential but tried to figure out a diplomatic approach as, personally, I think it's a sensitive subject to bring up. However, I don't care if I'm a favorite or not, whether I'm paying big money or not, if a client is coming to see you, clean your coochie! Simple as that.
I make sure my hygiene is top notch and so should she or they! I'd be embarrassed going to see a provider with smelly privates. Another thing is this, when you ask your boss for a raise, you don't do such a thing if you have a history of being late, productivity is down, and you can't get along with your peers do you? You ensure (if you're smart) that you're the exact opposite. So if she wants an increased donation then, she too, must up the ante.
She refused to let me use a flashlight
[QUOTE=FloridaBiker;3507747]Use good judgement.
Smell it and examine in good lighting.
Does she seem generally healthy?
Still not the wisest thing, but our hobby comes with risks.[/QUOTE]I used whatever semblance of judgment I had left. She was coherent and seemed in good health. No evidence of candy, she had some rules that indicated she might have some standards. Smelled good, freshly showered- light not available, but virtually no taste and no tonugue-detectable bumps lesions or other concerns. I guess ill wait a couple weeks and see what develops.
Sure seemed worth the risk at the time- I haven't had a girl capable of 69 in years and years.
I always thought she was a great provider
[QUOTE=CantB1;3537798]Looks like another provider was lost yesterday. Maggie. I think she went by Kelly on BP.[/QUOTE]A really nice girl too. Really sad about her demise.
Hookers, hookers and more hookers
[QUOTE=Fishguy717;3551289]I agree, they are all hookers, A2. But I disagree on the quality. Although there are some 'BP level' girls on the SA site, most of the girls there are a couple of levels up, or higher. Some have been amazing, that you would never find on BP. To me, yes, they are hookers, but you get what you pay for. Going to the SA site didn't cost me more money (besides membership), the talent on that site is what cost me more money. Caveat, I've mentioned many times I'd be willing to pay for a membership to THIS site, I've always felt it would be well worth it.[/QUOTE]For once I'll disagree slightly with Fish. I've tried the SA sites and while I will agree the quality is somewhat better the hassle hasn't been worth the payoff, for me it's a zero sum gain. In either case once the initial deed is done and you actually like the provider enough, and of course she's of like mind, to enter into some sort on going beneficial arraignment is where the differences in my start to show up. It's been my experience over the long term that SA girls tend to command a higher price than BP girls. Now this insight is anecdotal, I have no hard statistical data to back this up and I'm strictly speaking from my many years of experience. That's not to say BP doesn't have it's it's own issues, scams, fakes, flakes, the list goes on and on. I'm not actually sure which initially costs more, having to weed through a number of providers on BP to find a keeper or spending extra on "upscale" providers through the SA sites with the hope that the site by its very nature weeds out a majority of the undesirables. Personally I'll stick with BP as I've found it to be cheaper and I've had a fair amount of success there. I continue to see providers I've been lucky enough to come across even after they've stopped advertising on BP and gone utr. As always a truer statement has never been said then this is strictly a YMMV game.
JD.