Rants, Raves, and Stupid Tinfoil Hat Wearing Conspiracy Bullshit

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3353304]It's not "courting" to only respond to texts that are more detailed than "are you available". An introductory message with at least a short description of yourself denotes a level of serious interest in booking with you. We are often plagued by time wasters or "shoppers" so a well thought out text message jumps out from the huge number of texts one typically gets. I assure you such a text message will only take up 15-30 seconds more of your time.

As for a "simple transaction", you do realize this isn't like ordering a pizza right?[/QUOTE]No, it's not like ordering a pizza. But there has to be a balance between busy gentlemen trying to schedule an appointment amidst work and family life, and providers who understand our situation and value our time. As long as there is mutual respect by both parties, I don't see what the issue is with short and sweet communication. In my mind, that just gets both parties together quicker, right? Be good to one another and all will be well.

I think a lot of it is specific to the provider. If I haven't met the girl personally yet I always err on the side of using more words. That being said, there are some providers that I know well and can literally text "2?" And she'll respond "yes" and I'll show up at her place at 2. It just takes two words, but obviously that is the exception. Oh, and "Hi Breanna!" It's always nice to have a provider weigh in with their opinions!

[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;3353444]No, it's not like ordering a pizza. But there has to be a balance between busy gentlemen trying to schedule an appointment amidst work and family life, and providers who understand our situation and value our time. As long as there is mutual respect by both parties, I don't see what the issue is with short and sweet communication. In my mind, that just gets both parties together quicker, right? Be good to one another and all will be well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3353304]It's not "courting" to only respond to texts that are more detailed than "are you available". An introductory message with at least a short description of yourself denotes a level of serious interest in booking with you. We are often plagued by time wasters or "shoppers" so a well thought out text message jumps out from the huge number of texts one typically gets. I assure you such a text message will only take up 15-30 seconds more of your time.

As for a "simple transaction", you do realize this isn't like ordering a pizza right?[/QUOTE]To all in this conversation: If you look back, I recently asked a similar question here about how to get a provider's attention. When work is busy, I get few play-days. So I make sure I am ready (many ads say, don't call unless you are ready). Then approaching the top of the hour I would call and leave a VM, then follow up with text. No answer. Would wait for the bottom of the hour and call / text again. No answer. Ok. Try another. Same process, no answer. One gal answered on my second attemp but stayed silent like she did not mean to answer, then hung up. And I usually try to leave a more detailed text, but thought maybe I needed to leave short texts (thank you BB for info). One reader suggested I send a picture of cash, which I thought would be taken as an insult. Another said to text three girls together, but I can't even find three girls I really want to see and the popular ones need pre-book. I got some suggestions from members but not much info from the ladies in this forum, and more would still be appreciated if you can PM me. But I guess if every ass hole had the majic text message that would get a girl's attention, she would not be able to weed them out. So I just communicate with a new provider with the same respect I would any potential date. So far, it worked once to help me reach a provider who is generally known to be hard to reach. However, it still did not work out so my next adventure was with an agency so I could avoid any difficulty and last minute cancellation.

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3353675]To all in this conversation: If you look back, I recently asked a similar question here about how to get a provider's attention. When work is busy, I get few play-days. So I make sure I am ready (many ads say, don't call unless you are ready). Then approaching the top of the hour I would call and leave a VM, then follow up with text. No answer. Would wait for the bottom of the hour and call / text again. No answer. Ok. Try another. Same process, no answer. One gal answered on my second attemp but stayed silent like she did not mean to answer, then hung up. And I usually try to leave a more detailed text, but thought maybe I needed to leave short texts (thank you BB for info). One reader suggested I send a picture of cash, which I thought would be taken as an insult. Another said to text three girls together, but I can't even find three girls I really want to see and the popular ones need pre-book. I got some suggestions from members but not much info from the ladies in this forum, and more would still be appreciated if you can PM me. But I guess if every ass hole had the majic text message that would get a girl's attention, she would not be able to weed them out. So I just communicate with a new provider with the same respect I would any potential date. So far, it worked once to help me reach a provider who is generally known to be hard to reach. However, it still did not work out so my next adventure was with an agency so I could avoid any difficulty and last minute cancellation.[/QUOTE]I don't know the types of providers you are going for but it's important to remember we aren't available 24/7 and many can't be available at the drop of a hat. You can buy ads on BP that go to the top of the list every hour for x amount of hours. I wouldn't suggest sending pics of cash, wannabe handlers send those too you know?

It also depends on the time you are trying to schedule (provided she takes on last minute appointments). The most popular windows of time for us are 10 am-2 pm, and 4 pm-7 pm.

You are more than welcome to PM me.

Guys, what would you do if you booked an appointment with a provider, she calls to cancel 2-3 hours prior. You show up anyway and see her with another client?

[QUOTE=FrankenFurter;3357459]Guys, what would you do if you booked an appointment with a provider, she calls to cancel 2-3 hours prior. You show up anyway and see her with another client?[/QUOTE]Treating this as a for real.

If she canceled you why would you go anyway? Is this someone you are a regular with or are you a new client?

Never forget, this is pay for play. Choose to let it slide and reschedule if you want to still see her or move on. She gave you notice.

Showing up is weird and just looking for trouble in an illegal business.

[QUOTE=FrankenFurter;3357459]Guys, what would you do if you booked an appointment with a provider, she calls to cancel 2-3 hours prior. You show up anyway and see her with another client?[/QUOTE]Happened yesterday. Made an appt bypassing her scheduler. Her scheduler made an appt at same time. I got bumped. I knew this was a risk and all part of business. She called and said I could come a little later but sloppy (kinda since everything is covered.) seconds aren't my thing. So I met another provider I'll see the other one first thing another day.

Sounds like you might be getting a little emotionally attached, but there are lots of reasons to get bumped. Remember this is a business. How do you know she was with another client?

Med.

[QUOTE=MedJohnson;3357698]Happened yesterday. Made an appt bypassing her scheduler. Her scheduler made an appt at same time. I got bumped. I knew this was a risk and all part of business. She called and said I could come a little later but sloppy (kinda since everything is covered.) seconds aren't my thing. So I met another provider I'll see the other one first thing another day.

Sounds like you might be getting a little emotionally attached, but there are lots of reasons to get bumped. Remember this is a business. How do you know she was with another client?

Med.[/QUOTE]Not me. I was the "other" client and was confronted. Fool.

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The clarification crossed into being a threat. I couldn't tell if the OP was the "other guy" or not.

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[QUOTE=FrankenFurter;3357459]Guys, what would you do if you booked an appointment with a provider, she calls to cancel 2-3 hours prior. You show up anyway and see her with another client?[/QUOTE]Why would you be jealous? Let it go, she gave you notice.

[QUOTE=FrankenFurter;3357459]Guys, what would you do if you booked an appointment with a provider, she calls to cancel 2-3 hours prior. You show up anyway and see her with another client?[/QUOTE]It is a business. Without knowing your particular situation, its hard to say. Here's an even easier idea. Obtain a temporary burner number, and text the provider. That's how I caught my formerly ATF lying to me. Its one thing to cancel. Theres nothing wrong with that. But when they say they are NOT AVAILABLE, then post an ad its time to call BULLSHIT. When they get caught in a lie they get PISSED! But alas, they all lie! MegaWatt out!

[QUOTE=FrankenFurter;3357459]Guys, what would you do if you booked an appointment with a provider, she calls to cancel 2-3 hours prior. You show up anyway and see her with another client?[/QUOTE]I would definitely not show up. Whatever her reasons for cancelling, she did let you know even if the notice was fairly short. Would you show up at the dentist if they cancelled your appointment? Remember, it's an appointment, not a date. It's business, like any other appointment. Showing up while she's with another client would be awkward for everyone, and a lot of these girls talk to each other. If you going to build a rep, don't build a bad one. Move on, book someone else and try her again some other time. Call in a favor for the short notice cancellation if you can.

I explained this wrong. I was the "other client" the other fool confronted me. Me??

[QUOTE=Purple45;3355715]
Scams can come in ways you might not expect so have rules to protect your hard earned cash and your manhood![/QUOTE]There is a difference between a dude with tits and a transgendered person who has gone through the complete process of becoming the other sex. Including an operation (or many operations) to 'change' their gender assigned sexual organs into an approximation of their currently identified gender's sexual organs.

I have to admit, I have never had relations with someone in this situation, but in a previous life as a surgical nurse I have assisted with the operations to do both MTF and FTM conversions and if they are willing to go through the screening, preparation, pain and recovery from such, then they deserve the respect from anyone else to identify as what ever they choose.

And as for being fooled. 1: The woman in question is not fooling anyone. She admits freely to what her history is. 2: If someone who has had a MTF conversion done in the US in the last 20 years chose to not tell you, you would not know unless you were a damned gynecologist or just KNEW the details that can give it away. And occasionally even I have been fooled by patients that were of what we called 'ambiguous genitalia' at birth and had elected to have their anatomy altered to more fit a male or female identification. Children are born often with parts from both, missing a part or a combo of sort of parts that defies definition. Most often at a young age doctors and parents determine which way the anatomy is 'leaning' and what is more fitting for the child personality and proceed with surgery to move them more towards that 'leaning'.

So no, I do not think that having sex with a person who has undergone gender reassignment surgery makes you gay. It makes you brave at best or at least curious about the world at worst.

[QUOTE=MegaWattMaker;3357777]It is a business. Without knowing your particular situation, its hard to say. Here's an even easier idea. Obtain a temporary burner number, and text the provider. That's how I caught my formerly ATF lying to me. Its one thing to cancel. Theres nothing wrong with that. But when they say they are NOT AVAILABLE, then post an ad its time to call BULLSHIT. When they get caught in a lie they get PISSED! But alas, they all lie! MegaWatt out![/QUOTE]They all lie. If they cancel move on to the next. Once you get so involved with one that a cancelation pisses you off its time to rethink your status. Whether its a valid reason or better offer it happens. When you get so involved that you confront them its time to revaluate your situation.