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[QUOTE=Cheech69;3771288][URL]http://madison.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/404-337-8115/30733057[/URL]
Made an appointment, yada, yada yada, etc. Don't feel like giving all the details right now, to wound up and pissed at myself for getting ripped off. Was at a inn near East Town.[/QUOTE]Nothing will get you madder than being ripped off no matter the situation.
She is still here, stay away.
[URL]http://madison.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/404-337-8115/30760057[/URL]
I'd recommend taking a screen shot of the ad and posting that as well. Usually those links dry up in a day or two, the screen shot with her pics and phone info stay forever.
[QUOTE=Cheech69;3780877]She is still here, stay away.
[URL]http://madison.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/404-337-8115/30760057[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HornyguyLif;3772708]Nothing will get you madder than being ripped off no matter the situation.[/QUOTE]Very true. I've had three ripoff experiences. In every case, I eventually found my way to the realization that it could have been so much worse. Of course, the real lesson would be to quit this nonsense.
[QUOTE=Popeyemadison;3784008]Very true. I've had three ripoff experiences. In every case, I eventually found my way to the realization that it could have been so much worse. Of course, the real lesson would be to quit this nonsense.[/QUOTE]Do you have the number on your phone? So we. Can research?
GS.
[QUOTE=Popeyemadison;3784008]Very true. I've had three ripoff experiences. In every case, I eventually found my way to the realization that it could have been so much worse. Of course, the real lesson would be to quit this nonsense.[/QUOTE]But what would we do with all our free time and extra money?
[QUOTE=GunSmoke;3784550]Do you have the number on your phone? So we. Can research?
GS.[/QUOTE]No, I do not. The two that happened in Madison happened a while ago. Different girls, but same MO: Got into the hotel room, handed over the donation. Soon after that and thankfully before I got undressed, there's a knock at the door. Girl opens the door, guy comes in, pretends to be the boyfriend, upset and surprised that I'm present. Demands that I leave. It was the same guy in both of these experiences. He used the same phrase, "You need to bounce. ".
When guys do nothing ripoffs continue to grow. Once the word gets out there is quick easy money to be made with little to no chance of being reported or caught. What more could low life's ask for? Easy fast cash with no risk. Once one crew gets started many more will follow because the word will travel fast in the sleazebag world. The Beloit girl who was doing this by pulling a gun on guys got caught because the victim fought back. Even though she fired a shot at him she only got probation. Good ole catch and release justice. No risk and easy money!
[QUOTE=HornyguyLif;3786071]When guys do nothing ripoffs continue to grow. Once the word gets out there is quick easy money to be made with little to no chance of being reported or caught. What more could low life's ask for? Easy fast cash with no risk. Once one crew gets started many more will follow because the word will travel fast in the sleazebag world. The Beloit girl who was doing this by pulling a gun on guys got caught because the victim fought back. Even though she fired a shot at him she only got probation. Good ole catch and release justice. No risk and easy money![/QUOTE]She is still posting and ripping people off in Rockford.
[QUOTE=MadJockey;3784554]But what would we do with all our free time and extra money?[/QUOTE]There clearly are many well established and reputable ladies in the Madtown area.
See them not the unknowns.
[QUOTE=HornyguyLif;3786071]When guys do nothing ripoffs continue to grow. Once the word gets out there is quick easy money to be made with little to no chance of being reported or caught. What more could low life's ask for? Easy fast cash with no risk. Once one crew gets started many more will follow because the word will travel fast in the sleazebag world. The Beloit girl who was doing this by pulling a gun on guys got caught because the victim fought back. Even though she fired a shot at him she only got probation. Good ole catch and release justice. No risk and easy money![/QUOTE]What course of action do you recommend?
I think I reported both Madison experiences on the forum as soon as they happened. The ads disappear and the throwaway number is discarded. It's one thing when a relatively established girl (e. G. , Native Shae) is reported. But when someone who's never been seen before and may not be seen again is reported, there's really not much to be done. But I appreciate any insight.
Of course, the best course of action (that's quite effective) is to stop doing this stupid shit. LOL. Effective, but also difficult.
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/tall-slim-but-perfect-assets-b/032505730372[/URL]
Came over. $$. 5 for hhr agreed to half up front. Said she needed water for her dog gave her a dish with water and she bolted with the $. 2.
Got in my car and tracked her for a bit she tossed. 2 out of the window so I grabbed that, tried to out flank her on a turn and lost her.
Have her Facebook name.
[QUOTE=TrueHater7;3805012][URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/tall-slim-but-perfect-assets-b/032505730372[/URL]
Came over. $$. 5 for hhr agreed to half up front. Said she needed water for her dog gave her a dish with water and she bolted with the $. 2.
Got in my car and tracked her for a bit she tossed. 2 out of the window so I grabbed that, tried to out flank her on a turn and lost her.
Have her Facebook name.[/QUOTE]Created a new TextNow number and reached back out to her, she invite me to Incall at comfort inn on e wash. Wouldn't let me in when I arrived. Almost got my money back LOL so close.
[QUOTE=TrueHater7;3805012][URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/tall-slim-but-perfect-assets-b/032505730372[/URL]
Came over. $$. 5 for hhr agreed to half up front. Said she needed water for her dog gave her a dish with water and she bolted with the $. 2.
Got in my car and tracked her for a bit she tossed. 2 out of the window so I grabbed that, tried to out flank her on a turn and lost her.
Have her Facebook name.[/QUOTE]
Username: YourRealDealxoxo
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/01e323b1-3078-4f45-a384-4930e8344e39[/URL]
In case she deletes her profile, here's a snapshot of it:
[URL]http://s000.tinyupload.com/?file_id=52783806897261829503[/URL]
I got a text from Joel D to post my rules for being ripped off, or rather, not being ripped off. Much of it is already posted in a FAQ, but I'll give it my spin, since he asked so nice.
1. Lock your wallet in the trunk of your car. Not the glove compartment, not the bolster between the seats, not under your seat: YOUR TRUNK.
2. Only have on you what you care to spend and / or get robbed for. Have the cash you want to pay in your pocket and the tip in your sock or some such arrangement as that.
3. For car dates: You pick the spot. If she picks the spot, you never know what's waiting there for you. If you're sitting there with your pants down and someone comes up and taps on the window with a 9 mm. Glock, your wallet's going to come out of the trunk pretty fast.
4. Half now and half when done is a pretty good rule. If she doesn't go for it, there're plenty of other providers to choose from.
5. NEVER EVER EVER have a provider come to your house and / or apartment. Motel / hotel room is okay, but remember, you're the one at risk. "Oh, they're from an agency or service. " Good, have them meet you somewhere besides your home. If you have an apartment with nothing worth stealing, and it's set up for these kinds of shenanigans, then fine. Otherwise [B]NO[/B]!
6. Have a plan for when things go wrong. I've found myself in really uncomfortable situations including parking behind a cop car after a provider threatened to call the cops on me. "Go ahead. They're right there. And if you don't go up to them, I will. " She got out and walked away. CHICKEN isn't my favorite game to play, and it dampened my erection big time.
7. Remember, you think this is about sex. It's not. It's about getting a fix, it's about being beaten by a gorilla pimp or worse, it's about being evicted, feeding her brats, or because she hates men to her core and this is a way to abuse, rob, or otherwise discomfort them. To find a provider who's truly into the sex part of it is rare.
8. She finishes the job. She doesn't leave the room / car until you're done. That's why you drive to a spot she's not familiar with, or at least a distance from where you picked her up. I'm not the violent type so punching a woman because she's ripping me off isn't in my realm. Too bad, because I've read about some guys before who have intimidated rip-offs and either got money, service or satisfaction.
9. Car dates: I forgot this. When you pull over, take your keys out of the ignition. Back in the day, I've had hookers grab my keys and hold them hostage. Today, with most ignition keys having a chip, you don't want to spend $200 + the clicker for the garage because some trollop didn't like your cheap ass. If you have two ignition keys, lock your key-ring with your house keys in your trunk with your wallet, and just have the lone ignition key with you. With the new electronic keys, this is less of a problem, but DO NOT keep that key in your pocket while you're doing your thing. You'll be unpleasantly surprised how easy it is to have your pocket picked when your pants are half way to your knees, while you're getting head or whatever. This is another reason to drive to a distant spot. You can't drive her back if she's got your key.
Anyway, remember, this is NOT about sex. It's about money, it's about mutual subjugation, it's about demeaning you. Now don't get me wrong, I love eating pussy and making a woman cum. I love the provider whose tits I abused until she had an orgasm. (A true masochist). I love the hooker / stripper I did the website for and threw parties with. But I learned over time that at best I'm someone they tolerate while they're getting something of value from me. You're a trick, I'm a trick, we're all tricks. Tricks are to be taken advantage of, and nothing more.
Coochie (If it's so fucking bad, why do I keep doing it? Fuck, I don't know) Eater.
God Bless You All.
[QUOTE=CoochieEater;3872723]I got a text from Joel D to post my rules for being ripped off, or rather, not being ripped off. Much of it is already posted in a FAQ, but I'll give it my spin, since he asked so nice.
1. Lock your wallet in the trunk of your car. Not the glove compartment, not the bolster between the seats, not under your seat: YOUR TRUNK.
2. Only have on you what you care to spend and / or get robbed for. Have the cash you want to pay in your pocket and the tip in your sock or some such arrangement as that.
3. For car dates: You pick the spot. If she picks the spot, you never know what's waiting there for you. If you're sitting there with your pants down and someone comes up and taps on the window with a 9 mm. Glock, your wallet's going to come out of the trunk pretty fast.
4. Half now and half when done is a pretty good rule. If she doesn't go for it, there're plenty of other providers to choose from.
5. NEVER EVER EVER have a provider come to your house and / or apartment. Motel / hotel room is okay, but remember, you're the one at risk. "Oh, they're from an agency or service. " Good, have them meet you somewhere besides your home. If you have an apartment with nothing worth stealing, and it's set up for these kinds of shenanigans, then fine. Otherwise [B]NO[/B]!
6. Have a plan for when things go wrong. I've found myself in really uncomfortable situations including parking behind a cop car after a provider threatened to call the cops on me. "Go ahead. They're right there. And if you don't go up to them, I will. " She got out and walked away. CHICKEN isn't my favorite game to play, and it dampened my erection big time...[/QUOTE]Thanks for following up Coochie it was great advice when you posted it quite awhile back and will benefit the newer guys. Good ol Coochie 's been around here along time, he and permanent wood had the greatest posts.
[QUOTE=CoochieEater;3872723]I got a text from Joel D to post my rules for being ripped off, or rather, not being ripped off. Much of it is already posted in a FAQ, but I'll give it my spin, since he asked so nice.
1. Lock your wallet in the trunk of your car. Not the glove compartment, not the bolster between the seats, not under your seat: YOUR TRUNK.
2. Only have on you what you care to spend and / or get robbed for. Have the cash you want to pay in your pocket and the tip in your sock or some such arrangement as that.
3. For car dates: You pick the spot. If she picks the spot, you never know what's waiting there for you. If you're sitting there with your pants down and someone comes up and taps on the window with a 9 mm. Glock, your wallet's going to come out of the trunk pretty fast.
4. Half now and half when done is a pretty good rule. If she doesn't go for it, there're plenty of other providers to choose from.
5. NEVER EVER EVER have a provider come to your house and / or apartment. Motel / hotel room is okay, but remember, you're the one at risk. "Oh, they're from an agency or service. " Good, have them meet you somewhere besides your home. If you have an apartment with nothing worth stealing, and it's set up for these kinds of shenanigans, then fine. Otherwise [B]NO[/B]!
6. Have a plan for when things go wrong. I've found myself in really uncomfortable situations including parking behind a cop car after a provider threatened to call the cops on me. "Go ahead. They're right there. And if you don't go up to them, I will. " She got out and walked away. CHICKEN isn't my favorite game to play, and it dampened my erection big time.
7. Remember, you think this is about sex. It's not. It's about getting a fix, it's about being beaten by a gorilla pimp or worse, it's about being evicted, feeding her brats, or because she hates men to her core and this is a way to abuse, rob, or otherwise discomfort them. To find a provider who's truly into the sex part of it is rare.
8. She finishes the job. She doesn't leave the room / car until you're done. That's why you drive to a spot she's not familiar with, or at least a distance from where you picked her up. I'm not the violent type so punching a woman because she's ripping me off isn't in my realm. Too bad, because I've read about some guys before who have intimidated rip-offs and either got money, service or satisfaction.
9. Car dates: I forgot this. When you pull over, take your keys out of the ignition. Back in the day, I've had hookers grab my keys and hold them hostage. Today, with most ignition keys having a chip, you don't want to spend $200 + the clicker for the garage because some trollop didn't like your cheap ass. If you have two ignition keys, lock your key-ring with your house keys in your trunk with your wallet, and just have the lone ignition key with you. With the new electronic keys, this is less of a problem, but DO NOT keep that key in your pocket while you're doing your thing. You'll be unpleasantly surprised how easy it is to have your pocket picked when your pants are half way to your knees, while you're getting head or whatever. This is another reason to drive to a distant spot. You can't drive her back if she's got your key.
Anyway, remember, this is NOT about sex. It's about money, it's about mutual subjugation, it's about demeaning you. Now don't get me wrong, I love eating pussy and making a woman cum. I love the provider whose tits I abused until she had an orgasm. (A true masochist). I love the hooker / stripper I did the website for and threw parties with. But I learned over time that at best I'm someone they tolerate while they're getting something of value from me. You're a trick, I'm a trick, we're all tricks. Tricks are to be taken advantage of, and nothing more.
Coochie (If it's so fucking bad, why do I keep doing it? Fuck, I don't know) Eater.
God Bless You All.[/QUOTE]I just wrote a post yesterday about someone with brains who will take all this raw material and write a book / memoir about the sex industry from the hobbiest perspective. Cochise Eater, buddy you are probably the one to do it.
Guaranteed Time best selle and million in the bank you can spend on all the pussy in the world.
Just remember I came up with the idea and buy me some top shelf Asian pussy when you are a millionaire.
8 years I've been in this Hobby and I had my first truly terrifying experience.
Desperation makes us do strange things. Arranged to meet Raine for a hh for $. 2 Got it all worked out and arrived at her east side notel. Once I came in the door she had another black provider there who she said was going to get in the shower while we had our session. Raine did not look well. I was sketched out by having other people in the room. And said that I would leave and come back later.
This is where it got scary. They both tried to force the door close on me and would not let me leave unless I gave them a $60 cancellation fee. I told him that was not going to happen and that they were falsely imprisoning me. I was able to force the hotel door open and while trying to leave they both started attacking me trying to grab stuff out of my pockets grab my phone grab anything they could get out of me. They were not successful in getting anything but they did tear my suit and pants.
After I left I started getting texts from Raine saying that she was calling the police and that I raped her. Which is completely and totally untrue. I didn't even get to see her tits. I have never been scared like this in this hobby before. But it was definitely a wake-up call.
Please everyone be very careful when we're out there doing what we do. You never know what's going to be behind that door.
[QUOTE=HappyCamperMan;3877434]8 years I've been in this Hobby and I had my first truly terrifying experience.
.[/QUOTE]Was thinking of giving a try despite the couple of negatives. This seals the deal on a big NO. Not much pickings these days.
I'm not saying this is connected to the hobby but we all know the drill. With everything that's going on people are getting desperate.
[URL]http://www.wkow.com/story/38747664/2018/07/27/madison-police-search-for-armed-robbery-suspects[/URL]
[QUOTE=AsiaPhileJake1;3880394]I'm not saying this is connected to the hobby but we all know the drill. With everything that's going on people are getting desperate.
[URL]http://www.wkow.com/story/38747664/2018/07/27/madison-police-search-for-armed-robbery-suspects[/URL][/QUOTE]Yep they know guys are carrying cash to come and visit girls who stay there. Know for sure the guy is carrying a 100 bucks at least for a half hour visit or maybe 180 for an hour. And they don't have to any connection to the girls at all. Just predators looking for easy prey.
[QUOTE=Free34;3880188]Was thinking of giving a try despite the couple of negatives. This seals the deal on a big NO. Not much pickings these days.[/QUOTE]I was ripped off by RaIne a few months ago. Total scammer with no intention of providing service negotiated. Stay away guys. Threatens to call the cops on you.
Contacted this one and was requested to send a pic, and they would send one. Sent a random pic and got a pic with a bag hanging from the panties, said sorry not my thing no hard feelings. Got a response that if I didn't want things broadcast I need to pay the donation. The information they tried to use to convince me wasn't mine so I told them to do what they wanted and I wasn't paying anything ok for nothing. They told me I should change my phone number which I advised them that that wasn't a problem since it was an internet mask anyways. Kind of entertaining but annoying at the same time.
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/bombshell-partygirl-kat-avail/313636452513[/URL]
[QUOTE=GoodKarma;3901066]Contacted this one and was requested to send a pic, and they would send one. Sent a random pic and got a pic with a bag hanging from the panties, said sorry not my thing no hard feelings. Got a response that if I didn't want things broadcast I need to pay the donation. The information they tried to use to convince me wasn't mine so I told them to do what they wanted and I wasn't paying anything ok for nothing. They told me I should change my phone number which I advised them that that wasn't a problem since it was an internet mask anyways. Kind of entertaining but annoying at the same time.
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/bombshell-partygirl-kat-avail/313636452513[/URL][/QUOTE]When ever you see (cash, visa / mc, amex, PayPal it's usually a scam. Huge red flag. It's a good thing you used an app number.
Very surprising. Still can't believe it happened to me and that too with Kayla!!
I had seen her 2 weeks ago. She offered incall at her Fitchburg apartment. Everything went well until I handed over the donation. She said she wanted to give it to someone for safekeeping and asked me to wait in her room.
15 minutes later got a text to meet her at a hotel in the neighborhood!! Damn! She dashed off with my donation.
I texted her saying I was upset. She replied that she could come and meet me if I got a room!! Can't trust her anymore!! Looks like she's turned to ripping us off. Be careful if you do plan to see her!!
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/have-a-good-time/055997934456[/URL]
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3919588]Very surprising. Still can't believe it happened to me and that too with Kayla!!
I had seen her 2 weeks ago. She offered incall at her Fitchburg apartment. Everything went well until I handed over the donation. She said she wanted to give it to someone for safekeeping and asked me to wait in her room.
15 minutes later got a text to meet her at a hotel in the neighborhood!! Damn! She dashed off with my donation.
I texted her saying I was upset. She replied that she could come and meet me if I got a room!! Can't trust her anymore!! Looks like she's turned to ripping us off. Be careful if you do plan to see her!!
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/have-a-good-time/055997934456[/URL][/QUOTE]Sorry that happened. I have seen her before also and had a really good time. I guess I didn't think she would do that, but if there is a habit involved it's not very surprising. Check another off the list.
[QUOTE=BrunoMadison;3919645]Sorry that happened. I have seen her before also and had a really good time. I guess I didn't think she would do that, but if there is a habit involved it's not very surprising. Check another off the list.[/QUOTE]Looks like guys may have resort to paying after service is delivered. She must of been in a real hurry to get that fix. Always say trust no one. Especially escorts / ho's.
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3919588]Very surprising. Still can't believe it happened to me and that too with Kayla!!
I had seen her 2 weeks ago. She offered incall at her Fitchburg apartment. Everything went well until I handed over the donation. She said she wanted to give it to someone for safekeeping and asked me to wait in her room.
15 minutes later got a text to meet her at a hotel in the neighborhood!! Damn! She dashed off with my donation.
I texted her saying I was upset. She replied that she could come and meet me if I got a room!! Can't trust her anymore!! Looks like she's turned to ripping us off. Be careful if you do plan to see her!!
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/have-a-good-time/055997934456[/URL][/QUOTE]Hope she gets the same treatment as Raine and Josie and gets put out of business fast. What you want to bet her phone is silent tomorrow after guys read the above post. Good ridence to the are. O. b.
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3919588]Very surprising. Still can't believe it happened to me and that too with Kayla!!
I had seen her 2 weeks ago. She offered incall at her Fitchburg apartment. Everything went well until I handed over the donation. She said she wanted to give it to someone for safekeeping and asked me to wait in her room.
15 minutes later got a text to meet her at a hotel in the neighborhood!! Damn! She dashed off with my donation.
I texted her saying I was upset. She replied that she could come and meet me if I got a room!! Can't trust her anymore!! Looks like she's turned to ripping us off. Be careful if you do plan to see her!!
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/have-a-good-time/055997934456[/URL][/QUOTE]Wow. Very surprising. I appreciate this report. I was trying to setup a repeat, but not now.
[QUOTE=Popeyemadison;3920384]Wow. Very surprising. I appreciate this report. I was trying to setup a repeat, but not now.[/QUOTE]At this point I wanted to say Kayla apologized to me (text) and offered a detailed explanation of why she couldn't see me the other day. She is struggling to get any calls and is in a difficult situation!!
She has offered to make up for the issue but I was unable to meet her today despite her offering several options.
So as of now, I don't have my money back but I'm guessing she wants to move on and go back to how it was earlier.
Just wanted to update everyone so that you don't block her off completely!!
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3921090]At this point I wanted to say Kayla apologized to me (text) and offered a detailed explanation of why she couldn't see me the other day. She is struggling to get any calls and is in a difficult situation!!
She has offered to make up for the issue but I was unable to meet her today despite her offering several options.
So as of now, I don't have my money back but I'm guessing she wants to move on and go back to how it was earlier.
Just wanted to update everyone so that you don't block her off completely!![/QUOTE]I tried to see her Friday night. She had me go to one of the worst east side notels and then stood me up. I guess I was the lucky one. Thanks for the report (s).
I've never successfully seen her.
Be careful if you give her another shot, and you might want to temper your expectations of her ever actually following through on making it up to you. I hope to hear that she makes it up to you, but that wouldn't exactly encourage me to give her another shot.
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3919588]Very surprising. Still can't believe it happened to me and that too with Kayla!!
I had seen her 2 weeks ago. She offered incall at her Fitchburg apartment. Everything went well until I handed over the donation. She said she wanted to give it to someone for safekeeping and asked me to wait in her room.
15 minutes later got a text to meet her at a hotel in the neighborhood!! Damn! She dashed off with my donation.
I texted her saying I was upset. She replied that she could come and meet me if I got a room!! Can't trust her anymore!! Looks like she's turned to ripping us off. Be careful if you do plan to see her!!
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/have-a-good-time/055997934456[/URL][/QUOTE]OK, if I understand correctly, you gave her the donation (while at her apartment) and she leaves with your money, but you are now alone in her apartment? She then texts you and says meet me at this motel etc.
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3921090]At this point I wanted to say Kayla apologized to me (text) and offered a detailed explanation of why she couldn't see me the other day. She is struggling to get any calls and is in a difficult situation!!
She has offered to make up for the issue but I was unable to meet her today despite her offering several options.
So as of now, I don't have my money back but I'm guessing she wants to move on and go back to how it was earlier.
Just wanted to update everyone so that you don't block her off completely!![/QUOTE]More like she is doing damage control since she realized she screwed up. If you meet her again, take nothing in with you.
[QUOTE=GMan25;3921275]OK, if I understand correctly, you gave her the donation (while at her apartment) and she leaves with your money, but you are now alone in her apartment? She then texts you and says meet me at this motel etc.[/QUOTE]You can imagine a few things from the report: She either has roommates and their schedule was in flux. Or there's management involved. Or she owes someone money. Or she needed a fix. Or some combination of the above. This is the fray that we enter when we call a girl desperate enough for cash that she's willing to spread her legs to random strangers. Not judging. Just encouraging us all to take this ripoff report as a healthy reminder of what we're doing. I suspect we hear less than 10% of actual ripoffs. So it's probably more common that you think.
Looks like Kayla has rebranded herself as Sydney. Can anyone confirm? Looks like her.
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/ready-to-have-a-good-time/315046222132[/URL]
[QUOTE=BooRadley72;3921477]More like she is doing damage control since she realized she screwed up. If you meet her again, take nothing in with you.[/QUOTE]Yeah she's definitely in damage control mode trying to salvage her business or lack thereof. Sounds like her phone went silent after what she had done. And the word got out what she had done. Her whole story sounds fishy as hell. I mean take your money leave the apartment and leave you standing there like an idiot please. It was a ripoff plain and simple and now she's sorry that no one is calling. If it had not been reported she would keep on doing it to other guys. And yeah she could of owned someone who wanted payment NOW or she was that desperate for a fix. Caution is the word always with any of these chicks cause you never know.
[QUOTE=Cs101;3921869]Looks like Kayla has rebranded herself as Sydney. Can anyone confirm? Looks like her.
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/ready-to-have-a-good-time/315046222132[/URL][/QUOTE]That is a good looking girl!
[QUOTE=Cs101;3921869]Looks like Kayla has rebranded herself as Sydney. Can anyone confirm? Looks like her.
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/ready-to-have-a-good-time/315046222132[/URL][/QUOTE]Pics are accurate. Very good looking.
[QUOTE=TommyMke;3919588]Very surprising. Still can't believe it happened to me and that too with Kayla!!
I had seen her 2 weeks ago. She offered incall at her Fitchburg apartment. Everything went well until I handed over the donation. She said she wanted to give it to someone for safekeeping and asked me to wait in her room.
15 minutes later got a text to meet her at a hotel in the neighborhood!! Damn! She dashed off with my donation.
I texted her saying I was upset. She replied that she could come and meet me if I got a room!! Can't trust her anymore!! Looks like she's turned to ripping us off. Be careful if you do plan to see her!!
[URL]http://madison.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/have-a-good-time/055997934456[/URL][/QUOTE]First, never part with your cash before playtime. If you do, assume it is a loss. If you actually get to enjoy playtime, consider that a bonus and expect it will never happen again. Use this approach even with ladies you have seen before. Conditions change and a good one can flip on you at any time. When she said she wanted to give it to someone for safe keeping, I would have told her that I'll keep it safe until we are done. If she balks at it, I tell her that she doesn't trust me, so now I don't trust her. I ask for my money back (saying I don't see ladies I don't trust) and tell her I'll leave. If she doesn't want to give it back, I tell her to give it back, NOW. Then, I leave with my money.
Second, always be prepared for things going wrong. Think through what you will do BEFORE you go in. Consider how you will handle potential cash & dash scenarios and what to do to block or counter-act them. What will you do if someone bursts in during session? What will you do if the provider does not want to fulfill parts of the agreement during the session? What about if she chooses to rush you? Everyone has their own approaches and tolerance levels for risk. When you read the forums (and I recommend doing so for cities other than your own) about fellow mongers' bad experiences, think about what you would do if it happened to you. It allows you to formulate a response plan that is consistent with your risk tolerance instead of reacting in the heat of the moment (and regretting it later).
Third, this lady stole your money and has not returned it or fulfilled her end of the agreement. Even after she refunds your money or provides service, you aren't "even". If you got that treatment from a hotel (refund your money later but can't stay here tonight OR keep your money and you can stay some other night), you would not be happy. So, additional reparations are needed to restore good faith in that hotel. This is no different. Deferred service or getting money back later still is poor customer service. Despite her "situation" or promises to make things "right", mongers are entitled (and I would encourage them) to steer clear until she demonstrates that she DESERVES to be trusted. I never advocate being cruel and hateful, but sob stories, promises, and tears are not "bankable".
Finally, here's how I would have handled the situation once she sent the text telling you she'd meet you in a nearby hotel. I'd immediately scour her room for any and everything of value that is portable. Then I would put it all in a bag (s) or pillow case (s). I'd walk out to my car and drive to a nearby parking lot. I'd then text her that it's no problem to meet at the hotel. I'd also add that I'll bring the things (list the stuff you have with you like clothes, jewelry, shoes, make-up, electronics, etc) that she asked me to bring before she left. Now, she has a choice to make. She can work it out where she trades the money for her belongings or ghosts you and has to buy new stuff. If she ghosts you, you can sell or donate the items to recoup some of your loss. One critical factor is the text to state she asked you to bring the stuff. If you have to deal with the police (highly unlikely), it's nice "evidence" in your favor to dispute theft. Also, if the room wasn't really hers (but someone she knows), you have "proof" she asked you to bring the things to her at the hotel. If her friend contacts you about her stuff, tell her friend she can have them back for your donation amount or to get the money from the cash & dash thief. Remember, stay calm and maintain the upper hand.
Hope some of you find this helpful.
TrippinTB.
[QUOTE=Popeyemadison;3922739]Pics are accurate. Very good looking.[/QUOTE]Yeah, but don't forget she may be waiting to steal your money LOL.