[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3785887]What I have done in the past is place the tip out in the open with a hat. When the flip comes, look at the tip and smile at the girl. Nothing needs to be said. One can use hand gestures or mime to convey what one wants, in case there is sound recording. Most of the time, the girl will stop, after some LT, after the flip and ask if everything is OK or not. That gives an opening to negotiate for "extra time" or some other legal service.[/QUOTE]I agree with Ceph's approach, which has worked for me at a few in DE and PA. In some cases, like at VIP in Philly or Crystal in Wilmington, where I have been frequently, I usually give it all up front and they know. But if it's a new place, I give the house fee, but do something to show that I have more to spend, such as leaving it out, or letting them see that I have a bunch more cash in the wallet when getting out the house fee. Then I enjoy the TS / massage while giving hints. A subtle look, noises and gentle touches on her hands, arms or legs here and there during the massage (subtle. Don't get creepy). Then at the flip she may ask or motion for what else you want. That's your cue. I often say "everything" and provide the rest at that point, if not already given. I found that's a word that a few of them use. Some have pointed at a body part on them and I nodded when she got to the part I was interested in.
I will also say from personal experience that I get better service from these establishments if you look older, or wear a wedding band, and if you act comfortable. Remember, you are there to enjoy a massage, so try to do that.
As for establishments, I like Crystal in DE, but I'm a little wary of going there lately. It's uncomfortably close to where I work and I'd rather not be spotted going in. There is also a lot of LEO patrolling there and sometimes they hang out right out front. They are there to keep the street safe, and probably aren't there to to mess with the Spa, but they still make me nervous when they are standing right in front of the door. The girls are great at Crystal though, and I have never had a bad time. It's almost up there with VIP in Philly. Have been to 214 MD and Rainbow up on Naamans. 214 is gone, and Rainbow was okay, I may go back in a pinch, but the quality wasn't as good.
