[QUOTE=EmtPirate;2406959]I keep seeing mention of "checks". So far I've only had one provider scrutinize me in a manner I think would be effective. The rest just asked me if I'm a cop a few times. Is this the standard for the checks? If you were unaware the police are legally allowed to lie to you. What I've done is remain vague, and wait until they offer services that if they were illegal and if are police it is entrapment. I'm still a bit new, so feel free to correct me.[/QUOTE]I think checks are mostly for yourself to make yourself feel safe, when in reality there is always a chance it's LE. However we can be smart about our business or we can be foolish. I myself (minus a year binge of self destructive behavior I engaged in.) I only see girls that either have a history that I can track. Or come suggested to me through a trusted member on this site. I have a few 'friends' on here that throw me a bone once in a while.
I often won't do incall. Why? I've never ever in my life heard of a sting via outcall. Does this mean it doesn't or wouldn't happen? No of course not. However, I have an idea of what risks LE are willing to take to bust a 'john' and putting their agents in a high risk factor in a private home or hotel. Just isn't likely. Rarely ever will I goto an incall. Only when I get a nod from someone who I hold in high regard will I engage in an incall. Every bust or robbery I've heard of takes place during an incall.
I also do a bit of a physical check once the girl arrives. I greet with a hug and an ass grab or a bit of wandering hand to gauge their reaction. Pretty sure tho I'm no legal expert you'd get cuffed fairly quickly for touching an undercover in this fashion. I've never had one legit provider in all the years I've done this object to this either. Most grab back.
When it comes to texting or talking over a phone. If they say anything detailed, sexual, graphic etc. I instantly get offended explain in plain terms that what they are discussing is illegal and I am only calling to book an appointment for time and companionship not for sexual services or any other illegal acts. Then I hang up. If they are a legit provider they will be behind bars soon enough so not worth my time. The world is too dangerous of a place to be so blunt over a phone which is so easy to track if you have the proper tools. And trust me LE does. You could also just say your booking for a massage. I don't believe it's illegal to pay for massages AGAIN I'm NO LEGAL EXPERT.
I never pay up front ever. Never. I never hand money to them. Once I know them I will ease up about handing them money but not at first. Ever. I keep it in a drawer under something until after the session is over and will at some point expose the $ and let her take it count it etc. I've never had a complaint about this either. Most seem to like it. No money is actually exchanging hands.
I personally don't pick up walkers. I can't advise anyone about that. The risk is greater than the reward to me. However I will admit I admire the 'hunters' out there as I call them. It just isn't for me.
I always use protection. ALWAYS. I want to maintain the health that I have. I have went unprotected. But it was with a provider I saw for 2 plus years and we had become personal. I never suggest doing that. It's a mess and requires HIV Testing. LOL.
This is just what I do. No one out there has to like it or agree. This is just how I handle my business if you don't like it fine. I don't care. I've had great outcomes using this system of mine and it's never failed me yet. I hope it never does.
I also want to add that technology is our biggest friend and enemy. It can be used against us. It can also be used to help us. For those of you wishing to shelter yourself or parts of your life from others the burner app could work wonders for you. I am personally too cheap to do it (though it isn't much) and don't really have a need to use it. There isn't anyone in my personal life who could be used as blackmail or whatever against me from engaging in this hobby. Some of you may have things like that to worry about...then I suggest the burner app.
Stay safe guys.
EDIT: I know this wasn't exactly on topic with what EMT was asking. His was more based on the provider checking the customer. Mine is more us checking them, however I feel mine MAY set the pace for both parties to feel at ease.
