Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

I have been a member on SA on and off for years. I have made some very good contacts. Some months I may meet several, and some not make a connection at all. I also joined WYP for the first time. I could have met a few, but no one that has floated my boat enough to pull the trigger and go through with the date. It just seems to me that there is a lot of room to be scammed by the website. I did agree on a date with one hottie, but she then deactivated her profile, so I lost my credits and had not yet got any contact info. I asked the website if I was entitled to my credits back and they said no, since I didn't have the higher priced membership. I will just stick with SA. Seems a lot less complicated.

As far as the question as to why you just don't stick with BP gals and not have to pay a membership?? For me, I much prefer the sugar baby arrangement over that of being the 5th or 6th guy in line for the day seeing a hooker. If you are just wanting the cheapest sex that you can find, the sugar baby route is not for you.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2818547]I have been a member on SA on and off for years. I have made some very good contacts. Some months I may meet several, and some not make a connection at all. I also joined WYP for the first time. I could have met a few, but no one that has floated my boat enough to pull the trigger and go through with the date. It just seems to me that there is a lot of room to be scammed by the website. I did agree on a date with one hottie, but she then deactivated her profile, so I lost my credits and had not yet got any contact info. I asked the website if I was entitled to my credits back and they said no, since I didn't have the higher priced membership. I will just stick with SA. Seems a lot less complicated.

As far as the question as to why you just don't stick with BP gals and not have to pay a membership?? For me, I much prefer the sugar baby arrangement over that of being the 5th or 6th guy in line for the day seeing a hooker. If you are just wanting the cheapest sex that you can find, the sugar baby route is not for you.[/QUOTE]Correct. SA and WYP are not cheap. If you want cheap stick to streetgirls and backpage girls. And there's nothing wrong with that. I've done it all.

I'm using WYP and found one that is fun but she wants to be taken care of. That means financially of course but she wants someone to talk to and be with her. So it works for me.

Word of warning about WYP: Men pay, women don't. Men pay to communicate with the women. You offer an initial amount JUST TO MEET HER. Out of dozens of women on there in this area (with 100 miles of Charlotte. That's the search criteria I use), I've attempted contact with about 20. Half of those turn me down. Half of the rest don't respond. Leaving only 1 or 2 that actually message, text, or call you. So don't expect immediate results. You have to work hard to find one. Your chances could improve as more women sign up or you're willing to travel further.

Part of the fun for me is the thrill of the chase.

GB40.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2818547]I have been a member on SA on and off for years. I have made some very good contacts. Some months I may meet several, and some not make a connection at all. I also joined WYP for the first time. I could have met a few, but no one that has floated my boat enough to pull the trigger and go through with the date. It just seems to me that there is a lot of room to be scammed by the website. I did agree on a date with one hottie, but she then deactivated her profile, so I lost my credits and had not yet got any contact info. I asked the website if I was entitled to my credits back and they said no, since I didn't have the higher priced membership. I will just stick with SA. Seems a lot less complicated.

As far as the question as to why you just don't stick with BP gals and not have to pay a membership?? For me, I much prefer the sugar baby arrangement over that of being the 5th or 6th guy in line for the day seeing a hooker. If you are just wanting the cheapest sex that you can find, the sugar baby route is not for you.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. Much prefer the SB route. Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've met some pretty cool girls on SA. I'm back on after a break as my fave moved back to her hometown, bummer, but I kind of prefer that things only last a couple months. Don't want anyone getting attached.

[QUOTE=Bruco;2819450]Totally agree. Much prefer the SB route. Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've met some pretty cool girls on SA. I'm back on after a break as my fave moved back to her hometown, bummer, but I kind of prefer that things only last a couple months. Don't want anyone getting attached.[/QUOTE]I met 4 women on SA. Two of which I had dreams with. One I carried on a semi-regular thing for 6 months, but it carried a very high price. The idea was to be able to meet at least 4 x / month, but even then, the cost / meeting was high. I felt a real connection and the activities were great. She was nearly insatiable and at least acted like she enjoyed it (very vocal). Unfortunately she travels for her real job and was out of town for 1-2 weeks / month. Between our two schedules and the holiday season, it no longer made $ense.

I email her periodically, and may try to renegotiate. She had smoking body and can cook too, so she will probably move on to more conventional relationships.

I never found anyone who was looking for a per date thing but never really asked.

[QUOTE=Wildcat86;2819758]I met 4 women on SA. Two of which I had dreams with. One I carried on a semi-regular thing for 6 months, but it carried a very high price. The idea was to be able to meet at least 4 x / month, but even then, the cost / meeting was high. I felt a real connection and the activities were great. She was nearly insatiable and at least acted like she enjoyed it (very vocal). Unfortunately she travels for her real job and was out of town for 1-2 weeks / month. Between our two schedules and the holiday season, it no longer made $ense.

I email her periodically, and may try to renegotiate. She had smoking body and can cook too, so she will probably move on to more conventional relationships.

I never found anyone who was looking for a per date thing but never really asked.[/QUOTE]I have to say that I have had decent luck finding gals that are OK with a per date agreement. I try to explain that a per meeting basis is what I had in the past and it works best for me. It's less complicated, etc. A majority of the gals will go for it, but some are stuck on the idea of a monthly allowance.

Hi guys,

I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.

I must say that I agree with Dirty Dingus. Per date arrangement is the only way I'd go. I don't go for the monthly thing, because the most times those ladies have a GPS (Golden Pussy Syndrome) and I am not sure we would click.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2820409]I have to say that I have had decent luck finding gals that are OK with a per date agreement. I try to explain that a per meeting basis is what I had in the past and it works best for me. It's less complicated, etc. A majority of the gals will go for it, but some are stuck on the idea of a monthly allowance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2827310]Hi guys,

I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2827406]It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.[/QUOTE]Yes that certainly can be problem. I am not sure what to do. Motor home is not a bad idea, but what we should do is get 2-4 of us and split the cost of renting a 500 apartment or a small house. Or someone who has an extra room should make some extra money, buy renting it out. It would come out cheaper than always looking for a place LOL.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2827406]It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.[/QUOTE]Pretty much what I've done. Just call until I find a place. Luckily 6-8 pm typically works well for me as long as it isn't too often.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2827310]Hi guys,

I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]I came across an ad on CL coupe of months back about renting a room for. 025 per 2 hrs. Called up the owner he mentioned house used by his friends for swinger parties but mostly unoccupied during normal days. He shared even pics and seem to be decent for a 2 hr time. Will PM you his contact.

Fellow hobbyists, and SB lovers) I am just wondering if and how many of you in this group use KIK app to safely and confidentially communicate with your SB's, so that you don't have to give away your phone #? I am just trying to get the feel how popular is the app as the means of communication?

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2827513]Yes that certainly can be problem. I am not sure what to do. Motor home is not a bad idea, but what we should do is get 2-4 of us and split the cost of renting a 500 apartment or a small house. Or someone who has an extra room should make some extra money, buy renting it out. It would come out cheaper than always looking for a place LOL.[/QUOTE]An apartment to share would be OK, but maintenance and cleaning (sheets and towels) could become a problem to manage.

What if we found a hotel room, rented it like weekly. If 2 or 3 of us pitched in to get it started, then we could loan it out in 2 hour blocks for like $50 and just put the money into more nights rental. It could stay rented until the money stops. We should switch rooms or change the name occasionally to avoid detection. Any ideas on this? In a hotel we would not have to worry about cleaning etc. One person would need to manage the key to avoid double booking.

GB40.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2829051]An apartment to share would be OK, but maintenance and cleaning (sheets and towels) could become a problem to manage.

What if we found a hotel room, rented it like weekly. If 2 or 3 of us pitched in to get it started, then we could loan it out in 2 hour blocks for like $50 and just put the money into more nights rental. It could stay rented until the money stops. We should switch rooms or change the name occasionally to avoid detection. Any ideas on this? In a hotel we would not have to worry about cleaning etc. One person would need to manage the key to avoid double booking.

GB40.[/QUOTE]I see lots of potential problems. Who will get it in their name, and trust the others not to damage or steal the room supplies? I certainly wouldn't. Afterall, we are mostly strangers to each other on here. It is a great idea if all the participants adhered to the rules and didn't take advantage of the situation. Also, if 2 or 3 used it in a day, there would be no way to get sheets and towels changed between participants. I hate to be a pessimist, but I don't see it working out.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2828791]Fellow hobbyists, and SB lovers) I am just wondering if and how many of you in this group use KIK app to safely and confidentially communicate with your SB's, so that you don't have to give away your phone #? I am just trying to get the feel how popular is the app as the means of communication?[/QUOTE]I used it initially to make contact, but once we started seeing each other more, I used a hotmail acct too.