Sugarbabies?

[QUOTE=SantaClause;2450296]What do you think about the Diamond Membership. I've heard this gives you a leg up over dudes with the Basic membership, and girls will give free sessions. I'm thinking if I can get just 10 free sessions over the course of a year it will pay itself off.[/QUOTE]Why would you try to get something for nothing. It ruins it for all involved. Be a man and spoil.

[QUOTE=EuroInCincy;2452070]Why would you try to get something for nothing. It ruins it for all involved. Be a man and spoil.[/QUOTE]Let me get this right. SClause is saying the membership gets you free sessions? Why and how?

And ECincy says, if you do get free, be a man and spend anyway. Why? LOL.

Instead of paying month by month, to achieve Diamond status, you pay a lump sum for the entire year. The rationale is that only a Rich Guy would have that type of money at his disposal.

Whenever girls on the site report going on dates w / fakers, SA's default response is "only go on dates with Diamond members".

ECincy has a good point. But then again, at the other side of the spectrum you have guys OD'ing with generosity. Booking flights for the girls, taking them on shopping sprees (on top of the agreed upon rate). So taking advantage of Diamond status would only normalize things.

I think it would be interesting if 3 or 4 of us come together and pitch in for a diamond account. Anyone with me?

[QUOTE=SantaClause;2454954]Instead of paying month by month, to achieve Diamond status, you pay a lump sum for the entire year. The rationale is that only a Rich Guy would have that type of money at his disposal.

Whenever girls on the site report going on dates w / fakers, SA's default response is "only go on dates with Diamond members".

ECincy has a good point. But then again, at the other side of the spectrum you have guys OD'ing with generosity. Booking flights for the girls, taking them on shopping sprees (on top of the agreed upon rate). So taking advantage of Diamond status would only normalize things.

I think it would be interesting if 3 or 4 of us come together and pitch in for a diamond account. Anyone with me?[/QUOTE]I don't see how this would work? How would you split the POT's?

[QUOTE=BradAM;2455402]I don't see how this would work? How would you split the POT's?[/QUOTE]I've *had* a diamond account on SA for the last year. The only thing that the diamond account really does is it gives you a way to pay for a year at a time and then they do some stupid 'identity verification' on you -- my guess is so that you can't chargeback the thing on your credit card -- and then you get the little badge / icon near your name.

It's. Not anywhere as glamorous as SA makes it out to be, and in all of the time that I've been on SA, I've only had one girl (who was a complete fucking trainwreck, mind you) come after me because I had the diamond.

Also, nothing good in this life is free. And that includes SA pussy.

MM.

[QUOTE=Babelover77;2453058]Let me get this right. SClause is saying the membership gets you free sessions? Why and how?

And ECincy says, if you do get free, be a man and spend anyway. Why? LOL.[/QUOTE]A SB does not really give it for free. They expect a reward. The next time it is not free. So you move on and that leaves the SB jaded and. The next guy has to deal with the attitude that everybody on sa wants it for free. Rad the profiles and you can pretty much tell which SB trusted a potential SD and did it for 'free' this way just ruins the hunting grounds.

[QUOTE=EuroInCincy;2458387]A SB does not really give it for free. They expect a reward. The next time it is not free. So you move on and that leaves the SB jaded and. The next guy has to deal with the attitude that everybody on sa wants it for free. Rad the profiles and you can pretty much tell which SB trusted a potential SD and did it for 'free' this way just ruins the hunting grounds.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, I've had it from both sides of the fence.

I've had the girls who have been burned so many times they're cautious. In situations like those, I'll generally give them enough $$ for gas, babysitter, and all of that fun stuff in the beginning, but, not really what I'd consider "sugaring. " If they haven't done anything by the second or third date, then I generally won't have another one with them and just cut off all contact.

For the girls who then say that they don't want to have sex with their SugarDaddy, my response is generally:

"I'm really sorry -- I'm not comfortable giving women I don't know money unless I'm completely convinced that they're going to be my Sugar Baby. I don't want to be taken advantage of when there are so many women who are comfortable with my requests. ".

The reality is (and I believe that I've mentioned this in my post) is that if you're the type of SD who wants to "kick the tires" for free to see if your SB is a right fit for you, then just go see an escort. We have plenty of them in Cincinnati who are amazingly great. I honestly don't want to deal with the crazy girls (and in one case, their inane brothers) who have been burned and who want unrealistic things, and I'm sure that the girls don't necessarily want to deal with guys who don't want to pay.

MM.

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;2459655]Unfortunately, I've had it from both sides of the fence.
The reality is (and I believe that I've mentioned this in my post) is that if you're the type of SD who wants to "kick the tires" for free to see if your SB is a right fit for you, then just go see an escort. We have plenty of them in Cincinnati who are amazingly great. I honestly don't want to deal with the crazy girls (and in one case, their inane brothers) who have been burned and who want unrealistic things, and I'm sure that the girls don't necessarily want to deal with guys who don't want to pay.

MM.[/QUOTE]Fully agree. It is much better to share info, as I have done in the past with a few here, by making our own private blog with the real info about the sb's we encounter.

I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.

I looking for a regular sugar baby.

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]Do not do that man! There are nice girls out there that want to be Sugarbabies, and they don't ask for $2000.00 up front like that.

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]Are you saying that you would actually CONSIDER giving upwards of 2,000 to someone you don't know, and even already suspect as someone TGTBT? Seriously?

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]I wish we all could share more info here. It might help us cut down on the number of flakes, etc we run into. To help you assess this situation, you should offer a bit more info. Can you tell us which website you used to meet her? You don't have to share a link but you might also consider sharing a photo. A lot of the women on SA, SD4 Me, etc use multiple profiles. One of us might have encountered her before.

In my experience, and I will bet it is true for most men here, when the SB asks for money right up front, a big warning sign goes off. They are either a ripoff or nando1 neither of which you want to get involved with. Good luck brother.

BAM.

No I'm not considering giving her 2000 up front. Never had a Sb so I'm looking for info on how it generally works. If its gift per visit it doesn't seem to be any different than any other encounter. And yes pics seem TGTBT but I'm not wiring / sending her anything so that part will work it's self out.

[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy;2506140]Are you saying that you would actually CONSIDER giving upwards of 2,000 to someone you don't know, and even already suspect as someone TGTBT? Seriously?[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]Look.

I'd have to sit and question why I'd want to spend 2 K on something. Let alone a piece of girl from SA.

I'm not telling you "don't do that," because, well, we're men and we're stubborn.

With that said, follow my simple checklist: 1.) does her initial email seem like a form email? 2.) Do her pictures come back on tineye or others? 3.) Does the name she give me and her phone number match up? 4.) is she hiding her relationship status on facebook? 5.) is there a constant stream of drama from her?

If the answer to ANY of the above is yes, drop all contact and move elsewhere. Period.