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[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6773226]Scheduled a dinner date with plans for some fun time afterward. A few hours prior to our date, she double-checked the allowance, insisting on receiving half of the allowance before dinner. This raised a red flag, and as expected, I decided to cancel.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/06e08fd5-a110-456f-9fd4-2d1ccec80e0a[/URL][/QUOTE]Classic scammer move. They hope you are feeling committed to going through with it.
[QUOTE=Np36781;6769829]These are her pictures.[/QUOTE]I met her a couple times a few years ago. She seems fun and friendly on the surface, but she's a total psychopath. Great body though LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2c9009d1-1677-4a98-902a-bb34c9c74881[/URL]
This girl sucks, hard to have her follow through, tried to up charge me when she got here, total rush job bad experience overall. Beware.
Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]Before sa back in the craigslist days I had a girl who refused to discuss money. I would leave her something but she said she felt too weird talking about it at all but she wanted it. That worked out if you can get her back.
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]I tell girls that feel icky about the money that I prefer an old timey style relationship without the toxic (I-own-you) masculinity. And I tell them that I love caretaking. So I avoid giving the money right after sex and try to have the end of sex NOT be the end of the date. I'll say "let me help you with rent" ". Day to day living" ". Student loans" And I really believe this so it works 90% of the time. Godspeed brother.
You can also tell that you would love to take her shopping. But that you so not have the time or that you would would love to buy her gifts. But do not know what to get. So please use the money to buy some gifts from you. Of course, this has to be carefully worded.
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]
I've had only one sugar baby that never asked for cash. She was 21, living at home, with no job and no bills. Another sugar daddy paid for her phone and rarely saw her (she was always with me). I think that was it. (By the way, paying for her phone is a great gig, because she can't easily walk away from that.) She did however ask for cigarettes, booze, clothes, toys (no, not those kinds, just LEGO sets), groceries, etc. , which I was happy to oblige with most of the time (sometimes I did say no and she pouted for a few minutes before moving on). So, I never felt the need to offer cash and never did. This went on for almost 2 years. But problems followed soon and these days I don't bother repeating with anyone because it always seems to be accompanied by increasing levels of drama. Many other sugar babies don't ask for cash either, but I always stuff it into their hands at some point to get them to leave (a la Charlie Sheen, and with a smile on their faces).
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6776754]I've had only one sugar baby that never asked for cash. She was 21, living at home, with no job and no bills. Another sugar daddy paid for her phone and rarely saw her (she was always with me). I think that was it. (By the way, paying for her phone is a great gig, because she can't easily walk away from that.) She did however ask for cigarettes, booze, clothes, toys (no, not those kinds, just LEGO sets), groceries, etc. , which I was happy to oblige with most of the time (sometimes I did say no and she pouted for a few minutes before moving on). So, I never felt the need to offer cash and never did. This went on for almost 2 years. But problems followed soon and these days I don't bother repeating with anyone because it always seems to be accompanied by increasing levels of drama. Many other sugar babies don't ask for cash either, but I always stuff it into their hands at some point to get them to leave (a la Charlie Sheen, and with a smile on their faces).[/QUOTE]Cigarettes, booze, clothes, toys (no, not those kinds, just LEGO sets), groceries, etc. .
Isn't that just being a SD? Like the whole spoil me kinda thing.
I mean your indirectly paying her.
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]That's tricky. Especially the younger ones who are still discovering themselves and if they never did anything like this before. I had a 19 yo girl. Met for 200 and she mentioned after this like wouldn't need pay anymore because she was into me (great for me!). Anyways after we finish ...I drop her home she says had a great night and wants to meet again. Next morning she's like everything is fine she just never did anything like that outside a relationship. You gutta realize the 18/19 yo they are still very young and inexperienced in life they don't know what they want yet. Maybe to experiment and never do again even if everything was fine. . if she still answers you. I'd just say let me take you out on a regular date again. No pressure for sex and if the sex was actually good she will be open to that again later down the line without payment.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eaede887-7c89-4d1f-9455-0501065e33dd[/URL]
Anyone partake? Seems like a pro / semi-pro. Any feedback?
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]KP, good strategy. Good luck. Plan B: tell her you agree, but that you can help her as needed. Or give her some space, see if the feeling grows. Good ones are rare nowadays. Hold on to this one. Hopefully guys have more advice for you.
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]You want to remove the act from the cash. Pay her monthly. Deposit instead of envelope. Give her a nice gift now with no expectations--do something now to show that it's not prostitution, it's just a guy who likes her. Take her shopping or on a trip. "You're hot and you deserve nice things. "I'm not paying you for sex--I'm spoiling you because without his benefit you might be dating some other guy instead of me. This pushes me to the front of the line is all. " Which is sometimes true.
[QUOTE=BigGuy3344;6777269][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eaede887-7c89-4d1f-9455-0501065e33dd[/URL]
Anyone partake? Seems like a pro / semi-pro. Any feedback?[/QUOTE][URL]https://twitter.com/1girlfewMs[/URL]
[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6776419]Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.
So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).
Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.[/QUOTE]Girls on sugar sites usually fall into these categories:
- scammers.
- girls who love money but hate sex.
- girls who love sex and need money.
- girls who love sex and money.
- nympho kinksters who view sugaring as a way to get a bonus for their vice (and in some cases, just looking for good dick and are on these sites bc CL/BP is dead).
I found a 22 yr old UTG on FL who started out as a SB, but now we just fuck on the reg as like you, she felt felt while the money is a bonus, it isn't why she enjoys our time together. I'd essentially just stress that you enjoy your time and friendship with her. And that providing her with an envelope / gifts / sugar after these good times are a token of appreciation for her spending time with you, and making those memories together. Hell, I'd even ask her if she likes you; stress friendship. As in my case, you may be able to reverse the arrangement's cost as supposed to thinking offering more would keep her around.