Finally got caught by wife
"I can't believe that you've been visiting prostitutes for sex," my wife screamed at me. "I'm really disappointed."
"You can hardly blame me," I answered. "It's not like I was getting any from you."
"Well, that's your own fault," she replied.
"You never told me you were willing to pay for it."
But you have been paying for it
[QUOTE=SoloCupgGuy;3450384]"I can't believe that you've been visiting prostitutes for sex," my wife screamed at me. "I'm really disappointed."
"You can hardly blame me," I answered. "It's not like I was getting any from you."
"Well, that's your own fault," she replied.
"You never told me you were willing to pay for it."[/QUOTE]Just not getting it from her? That be my defense. LOL.
Paying someone to do her job
[QUOTE=SoloCupgGuy;3450384]"I can't believe that you've been visiting prostitutes for sex," my wife screamed at me. "I'm really disappointed."
"You can hardly blame me," I answered. "It's not like I was getting any from you."
"Well, that's your own fault," she replied.
"You never told me you were willing to pay for it."[/QUOTE]I haven't been busted yet but I find it to be her fault if she was putting out regularly I wouldn't have to pay someone same for you.
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[QUOTE=KatieLovett;3451686]From a female perspective, "you never told me you were willing to pay for it," is pretty shitty. You shouldn't ever have to in marriage. It's kind of a package deal. You put up with the crazy woman hormones and she puts out. She stopped putting out physically, so you went elsewhere.
If you want to lessen the blow to your relationship though, it may help to appeal to her emotions and reassure her of your love, care (OK, I'm making myself nauseous here). You get the picture. By hiring an escort, explain to her you're cutting out the potential for emotional infidelity, which, in most women's opinions, is far worse. You can screw another woman, but if you're telling another woman you love her and vice versa, that's grounds for the "D" word and I don't mean the little head.
You're doing her a courtesy by not actually having a REAL affair because providers aren't going to want to end your marriage and take her place, as is sometimes the case with a side piece. We all care about each other's well being, yes. But ultimately, this is our second life. It's fun and naughty but at the end of the day, we all wake up. I hope this helps.
Xoxo,
Katie.
P.S.: Random thought, suggest a 3-way with her? Maybe she'll go for it? Worth a shot.[/QUOTE]Sage advice, Katie. You should host a Blog.
IMO, with women in a committed relationship, it's not about the facts. It's about how she feels about herself when she is with her man. A guy can get away with a lot if she feels safe, secure, valued and loved. If any of that is threatened, he is no longer desired or necessary.