You are kidding me right?
My Advice.
It it obvious she cannot handle the realities of the situation. I understand your sense of honesty, but in this case, you don't gain anything by being honest. There isn't a reason to bring these items up. Enjoy the moment and enjoy the time with her. It's important that she believe the dream and is able to fully get herself into the fantasy that comes with this type of relationship. So either avoid talking about certain topics or lie about them.
You are not trying to marry her and who wants to know the exact end date of relationship. Even if you know, you will have much more fun the happier she is and the more blissfully ignorant you keep her. I'd rather have months or years of great awesome sex with a young hottie and just deal with the fall-out of a sudden break-up. If you are smart, it doesn't even have to be sudden, once she graduates, she may drop you. But always consider the words and the positives and negatives that come with them. In this case a happy blissfully ignorant SB will keep you happier longer.
On the first part, why the hell do you care what other people think? Dude get over it. Especially since the age difference is so small. I'd rather people that don't know me think I'm up to something as opposed to the negatives that come with giving a SB my credit card. I'm guessing that also means you are not using a pseudo either. So, now she has your information, credit card info, real name, etc. You are no longer in a position of control and that's not a good place to be with certain SBs. My money and my private life are much more important to me than what some people I don't know think about me. And even if they were right, that's cool too!
Ditto HollyWood!
BigTigg...out!
[QUOTE=HappyKampr75; 1594280]Ok I'm new to the world of SB. When I was a few years younger I made the smart choice of investing the money I earned in the military. Now that I'm out, I have been using the returns to buy a few extra's in life. One of them is a SB. It's nice to have a girl, in her 20's letting me use her as my personal toy. Please help me in a few things.
1st.
I took her to the mall a few days ago to buy a new dress for a road trip and dinner. This was supposed to be a nice outing that quickly turned awkward. After 30 min or more of standing in the store holding dresses she picked out to try on, I noticed several people looking at us. I am in my late 30's and she is 21. After a few min I excused myself with a "phone call" and told her I would meet her in the eatery area of the mall. I left her with the credit card and waited till I saw her then we left.
2nd.
She gets jealous of other girls. I explained to her that this is a short term thing, that when she graduates college, she also graduates me. I would seek a new SB and she would go her own way. Also that during her time of the month I would seek entertainment elsewhere. At first she was ok with this. Now she is growing upset when I either go to an outcall, or incall with an escort.
Do any of you guys have advice for me on this?[/QUOTE]
Update. And then there was one.
It's been awhile since I've posted an update on my own SB activities. I've been heavily involved with my 6/6 SB (yeah I upgraded her). She managed to be a keeper. We've met several times and keep in almost daily contact. She's hot, has a great personality, and very sexual. I decided that I'm pretty much going to devote 80-90% of my sugar resources toward her. I definitely could see the possibility of getting e-involved with her at some point but I'm still just enjoying things now. She's also bi, so although she hasn't brought it up, I'm sure there's a possibility of some additional fun down the line. I'm looking forward to seeing this last a while. She's not only great in bed, but we have excellent conversations on long car rides and such. So it's easy to be around her.
Even though I've been mostly focused on my 6/6 SB, I still had some outstanding business to take care of. I had a local "hookup" SB who was still on my payroll. We would basically meet late at night for car dates once a week. However the past month, she kept calling me to setup late-night meets, but she kept falling asleep at the last minute. My work days are already long, so after 3 consecutive failed / delayed meets because she fell asleep, I finally told her the next time I see her I wouldn't be giving her an allowance as penalty for wasting my time too many times. I told her she would just have to meet me once "on the house" and then things would go back to normal if she could not fall asleep anymore. But she balked at this, so I gave her her walking papers. She was a 19 year-old I had been seeing since the summer, but it was time to end it. I was only seeing her out of obligation mostly lately. She had zero passion in our romps. She's at school and lives at home, but in a couple of years if things don't go well for her, I could easily see her on BP. She already has the mechanical mindset needed.
So I'm down to one SB and I think that's how want it to be for now. I don't have any active accounts on any sugar daddy sites either. Let's see how long this lasts.
Taking your SB out in public with you
[QUOTE=John G Smith; 1595473]Interesting conversation.
I'm in my 30s and I can still pass for late 20s on a good day, so it doesn't look too out of place when I'm in public with a young 20 something SB.
However, since I'm married I do have to be careful about being out in public with a young women too close to home. You guys heard me complaining a month or so ago about wanting a SB in my local area. But now I appreciate having a SB that's over a hour away in a city I have no ties to. It means I can take her out without having to stress about being spotted by someone I know.[/QUOTE]Hell I know a guy that's a little over 50 and he takes his 19 and 20 yr old SB's shopping and out to eat. He doesn't worry what other people are thinking because they can easily pass as his daughters, niece, or even GRANDDAUGHTERS! But he does prefer to go out of town where nobody will recognize him.
Another site. Considerably different than the rest.
Check out WhatsYourPrice. Com. Interesting concept. You offer attractive females cash to go out on a date with you. I have zero experience in connecting with anyone on there, have only setup a profile with private pics. Wondering how well it might work. I recognized some of the girls I have talked with on SA by their profile pictures.
Anyone here using this for baiting in the SB's? They also have a variety of types of encounters you might be looking for. Married but looking, Open relationship. Etc.
What is so bad about her banging another.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1599350]If you can't provide enough dough to keep your sb from bangin other guys thats her fault? I will never understand this line of thinking. The only way around this is to make sure your girl has a real job. Have you done her bills? If not this is petty in my book. This is the kind of provincial thinking that breeds resentment in girls. How can a girl have a good time if in the back of her mind she is worried about bills? Your girl is working dude. For you. If you can't pay enough of course she is going to look for some OT or another job to make up for what you can't or won't provide.[/QUOTE]I don't see the problem here actually. It is quite fun if you have a good enough relation. The one I have does it, and each time it means she loves to come back to me and she mentions,"no need for sugar this time I already have enough". I even had it during a long weekend. Got a nice hotel suite and the 2nd day she had another guy over, he was willing to pay more for 2 hours with there than I could for the whole weekend. (she got paid pro GPS LOL). Her comment afterwards "what a sucker and yes daddy I climaxed once, thinking it was you, can we have some gal sex please"
