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[QUOTE=Atlantan;3400885]So your long term provider texts you offering a freebie, what do you do?
Bail or hit that?[/QUOTE]Bring take out and a bottle of wine / booze. Fuck, eat, fuck again.
She is offering you her body for free. It is perfectly acceptable to use it (and abuse it), but have some class and offer something in return.
-nojudgment.
[QUOTE=Atlantan;3400885]So your long term provider texts you offering a freebie, what do you do?
Bail or hit that?[/QUOTE]I don't get that comfortable with a chick who sells butt so I guess I'll never know. I pay them to leave.
This is ridiculous. A few things I wanted to touch on. This has got to be the only hobby / job / service industry where the workers do not get any better. How can you be on backpage selling ass for 5 plus years and can't even suck a fucking cock?? You done had about 5,000 cocks in your mouth and your still using teeth? Freaking ridiculous. How the hell can these people be so sorry after all those years of practice. Like, what the fuck are they doing with all that experience. These are the most laziest backwards non-progressive people that I've ever seen in my life. It seems as if they get worse as time progresses.
I saw a chic who's been reviewed on backpage for 4 years now, use coconut oil for lube. WTF?? Are you fucking retarded? Chic didn't even have any condoms to begin with. When I got there, she asked if I wanted just oral or full service. When I said full service, she said, "hold up I got to go to the bathroom and wash first". WTF!! Are you retarded? Did you plan on not washing if I wasn't doing full service? It's like jumping in the shower and washing your ass is an option to these chics. Why would you not wash if a guy was coming for oral only? Were you planning on keeping your clothes on during the oral so the guy doesn't smell the funk from you body?
Then the same chic was dry as a biscuit and stopped me during mid-session to lube up with coconut oil. What a stupid mother sucka!! You've been in the business for over 4 years now and don't know not to use any type of oil for lube? The condom ending up breaking and she asked me how did I happen? What? I had to explain to her that coconut oil is not lube and should not be substituted for lube as it will cause the condom to break. She didn't seem to even know that and thought it was my "cheap" condom that broke. I mean how could you not know this from 4 plus years of taking cock. Like, what are these people doing with all this first hand experience.
Like how can a fucking chic at an AMP not know how to give a hand job when she's been giving hand jobs and working at the AMP for the past umpteen. Like, how many fucking cocks do you need to yank on before you can get it right. Do you not realize that you have to slow it down when you see a guy biting on his tongue and clenching the fucking sides of the massage table as you try to separate his cock from his fucking balls. Like what the hell is really wrong with these people. Its like they're just stuck on stupid. If you don't like your job and your not interested in what your doing, then get another fucking job!!
I'm so sick and tired of seeing these same tired ass chics posting on backpage night and day. They have shitty review after shitty review and continue to flood the boards with their shitty ass service. And when shit hits the fan and their shitty service gets exposed, they defer to a new alter ego with a new name and phone number and continuing with the same shitty service again. Its like nothing dawns on these fools to give better service, so you wouldn't have to keep changing your phone number every 2 weeks to stay ahead of the bad reviews. It's like these people are so fucking stupid, they don't have a clue as to how a basic service runs.
They think spamming a board with ads, trying to get as many guys in and out as quickly as possible, and just laying there like a dead fish is all a guy wants. I've had chics that dead fished me and played around on their phones the whole session, text me a few days later to let me know that they're available. I'm like, are you fucking stupid. Why would I want to see you again after that lame ass performance you gave me the last time. I had that retard, Pleasure, I recently reviewed, text me a few days ago with, "I'm available". I let her know why I wasn't coming back and she seemed to be in shock that I wasn't excited about her just laying there like a dead fish. That's just how these people are. They think guys are just happy with a woman standing infront of them. You don't really have to do anything and they will come back again is their thinking.
And that's really why alot of chics get no better and why those Asian chics in those AMPs don't get any better. They see guys coming in night and day and think those guys are content with their shitty ass service. That's why they have no incentive to get any better. Guys are steadily coming in so these retards believe their doing something good since they're still getting customers. Most guys are stupid anyways and will go to see a chic or go to an AMP although he sees the shitty reviews about them giving shitty service. How the hell can a chic get shitty review after shitty review and guys still going to see her. Some guys will even admit to seeing the shitty reviews and still go to see the chics knowing full well the chic gives shitty service.
Just cause a chic's got a nice ass or tits, this moron will still go knowing that he's going to get some shitty ass service. And this is why these broads never get any better and continue to give shitty service night and day because of you boneheads that continue too patronize their shitty service. And these Latin working houses that you see are inflated with their prices. These people are lucky that there is a such thing as backpage or the internet, if not $30-$40 max is all these people would be getting. These chics prices on the internet are over-inflated like a mother.
Without the internet, these people would only be getting $30-$40 tops and they know it. Who in their right mind is buying ass for $80 qv on the streets. If there was a working house with Latinas or any females without the internet who in their right mind would be paying $80 to buss a nut. These people would be out of business, just as fast as they got in. You even got former street walkers now on backpage with that $80 qv nonsense, knowing full well they weren't getting anymore than $15-$20 tops on the streets. On backpage, all your really paying for is looks and location. If performance and service were factored in, the rates would be $40-$50 tops. Most of these chics have $20 service.
They don't even have supplies for their jobs. No condoms, no lubes, no wipes and they want to charge $60-$80 for a qv. Gtfoh with that non-sense. Half of them don't even know how to wash their fucking ass before you get there. That's because they're nothing but some 40 dollar hoes running that con game on the internet with their inflated ass rates. Any chics on the south side should not be charging anything more than $50 for a qv. If they're charging anything more than that, they're trying to get over on you and they know it. Union City (Shannon Pkway), Old National, Forest Park, Old Dixie Hwy, Virginia Avenue- $50 tops. Anytime I paid more than $50 down that side the service was mostly terrible. When I got good or ok service, the price was at $50. $50 qv seems to be a humbling rate in my opinion.
I noticed I got better service at $50 qv than any other rate. $80-$100 qv are the chics who think their doing you a favor by offering it to you for such a low price. Usually, its just a hand job and go in with only 1 position or a position of their choosing. They usually don't get on top and just lay there until your done. Anything $80 qv or better on the south side is a definite rip off. Chic is definitely trying to get over on you. You pay that type of money on the south side, your definitely going to get shitted on. I've done it in the past and got ripped off with shitty service every time. I also noticed too, $80 qv in an affluent area is usually a humbling price. I'm talking about $80 qv originally, not when you negotiate it down to $80.
If they give you $80 originally in an affluent area, its usually the sign of a humble chic in my experience. If they're telling you $100 qv or better to start, most times its a rip off. Your not going to get much action out of a $100-$125 qv chic, especially if its a black chic. If she gives you $60 or lower in an affluent area, your most likely going to get hit with some foul ass odor as no chic with brains would do a $60 qv in Buckhead. You got to look at the prices compared to the location. No chic on the east side as well should be getting $100 for a half hour. Your going to get ripped off!! No chic on the south, east, west side is worth $100. None!! Unless they're well reviewed. More later.
Clearly, you have way too much time on your hands and way to much personal investment in this hobby.
Relax. Take a deep breath. Enjoy life. There's good and bad in everything.
And, let me add, the idea that there is any sense of professional pride by anyone in this hobby is ludicrous, particularly at the price points you describe.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;3406035]This is ridiculous. A few things I wanted to touch on. This has got to be the only hobby / job / service industry where the workers do not get any better. How can you be on backpage selling ass for 5 plus years and can't even suck a fucking cock?? You done had about 5,000 cocks in your mouth and your still using teeth? Freaking ridiculous. How the hell can these people be so sorry after all those years of practice. Like, what the fuck are they doing with all that experience. These are the most laziest backwards non-progressive people that I've ever seen in my life. It seems as if they get worse as time progresses.
I saw a chic who's been reviewed on backpage for 4 years now, use coconut oil for lube. WTF?? Are you fucking retarded? Chic didn't even have any condoms to begin with. When I got there, she asked if I wanted just oral or full service. When I said full service, she said, "hold up I got to go to the bathroom and wash first". WTF!! Are you retarded? Did you plan on not washing if I wasn't doing full service? It's like jumping in the shower and washing your ass is an option to these chics. Why would you not wash if a guy was coming for oral only? Were you planning on keeping your clothes on during the oral so the guy doesn't smell the funk from you body?
Then the same chic was dry as a biscuit and stopped me during mid-session to lube up with coconut oil. What a stupid mother sucka!! You've been in the business for over 4 years now and don't know not to use any type of oil for lube? The condom ending up breaking and she asked me how did I happen? What? I had to explain to her that coconut oil is not lube and should not be substituted for lube as it will cause the condom to break. She didn't seem to even know that and thought it was my "cheap" condom that broke. I mean how could you not know this from 4 plus years of taking cock. Like, what are these people doing with all this first hand experience.
Like how can a fucking chic at an AMP not know how to give a hand job when she's been giving hand jobs and working at the AMP for the past umpteen. Like, how many fucking cocks do you need to yank on before you can get it right. Do you not realize that you have to slow it down when you see a guy biting on his tongue and clenching the fucking sides of the massage table as you try to separate his cock from his fucking balls. Like what the hell is really wrong with these people. Its like they're just stuck on stupid. If you don't like your job and your not interested in what your doing, then get another fucking job!!
I'm so sick and tired of seeing these same tired ass chics posting on backpage night and day. They have shitty review after shitty review and continue to flood the boards with their shitty ass service. And when shit hits the fan and their shitty service gets exposed, they defer to a new alter ego with a new name and phone number and continuing with the same shitty service again. Its like nothing dawns on these fools to give better service, so you wouldn't have to keep changing your phone number every 2 weeks to stay ahead of the bad reviews. It's like these people are so fucking stupid, they don't have a clue as to how a basic service runs.
They think spamming a board with ads, trying to get as many guys in and out as quickly as possible, and just laying there like a dead fish is all a guy wants. I've had chics that dead fished me and played around on their phones the whole session, text me a few days later to let me know that they're available. I'm like, are you fucking stupid. Why would I want to see you again after that lame ass performance you gave me the last time. I had that retard, Pleasure, I recently reviewed, text me a few days ago with, "I'm available". I let her know why I wasn't coming back and she seemed to be in shock that I wasn't excited about her just laying there like a dead fish. That's just how these people are. They think guys are just happy with a woman standing infront of them. You don't really have to do anything and they will come back again is their thinking.
And that's really why alot of chics get no better and why those Asian chics in those AMPs don't get any better. They see guys coming in night and day and think those guys are content with their shitty ass service. That's why they have no incentive to get any better. Guys are steadily coming in so these retards believe their doing something good since they're still getting customers. Most guys are stupid anyways and will go to see a chic or go to an AMP although he sees the shitty reviews about them giving shitty service. How the hell can a chic get shitty review after shitty review and guys still going to see her. Some guys will even admit to seeing the shitty reviews and still go to see the chics knowing full well the chic gives shitty service.
Just cause a chic's got a nice ass or tits, this moron will still go knowing that he's going to get some shitty ass service. And this is why these broads never get any better and continue to give shitty service night and day because of you boneheads that continue too patronize their shitty service. And these Latin working houses that you see are inflated with their prices. These people are lucky that there is a such thing as backpage or the internet, if not $30-$40 max is all these people would be getting. These chics prices on the internet are over-inflated like a mother.
Without the internet, these people would only be getting $30-$40 tops and they know it. Who in their right mind is buying ass for $80 qv on the streets. If there was a working house with Latinas or any females without the internet who in their right mind would be paying $80 to buss a nut. These people would be out of business, just as fast as they got in. You even got former street walkers now on backpage with that $80 qv nonsense, knowing full well they weren't getting anymore than $15-$20 tops on the streets. On backpage, all your really paying for is looks and location. If performance and service were factored in, the rates would be $40-$50 tops. Most of these chics have $20 service.
They don't even have supplies for their jobs. No condoms, no lubes, no wipes and they want to charge $60-$80 for a qv. Gtfoh with that non-sense. Half of them don't even know how to wash their fucking ass before you get there. That's because they're nothing but some 40 dollar hoes running that con game on the internet with their inflated ass rates. Any chics on the south side should not be charging anything more than $50 for a qv. If they're charging anything more than that, they're trying to get over on you and they know it. Union City (Shannon Pkway), Old National, Forest Park, Old Dixie Hwy, Virginia Avenue- $50 tops. Anytime I paid more than $50 down that side the service was mostly terrible. When I got good or ok service, the price was at $50. $50 qv seems to be a humbling rate in my opinion.
I noticed I got better service at $50 qv than any other rate. $80-$100 qv are the chics who think their doing you a favor by offering it to you for such a low price. Usually, its just a hand job and go in with only 1 position or a position of their choosing. They usually don't get on top and just lay there until your done. Anything $80 qv or better on the south side is a definite rip off. Chic is definitely trying to get over on you. You pay that type of money on the south side, your definitely going to get shitted on. I've done it in the past and got ripped off with shitty service every time. I also noticed too, $80 qv in an affluent area is usually a humbling price. I'm talking about $80 qv originally, not when you negotiate it down to $80.
If they give you $80 originally in an affluent area, its usually the sign of a humble chic in my experience. If they're telling you $100 qv or better to start, most times its a rip off. Your not going to get much action out of a $100-$125 qv chic, especially if its a black chic. If she gives you $60 or lower in an affluent area, your most likely going to get hit with some foul ass odor as no chic with brains would do a $60 qv in Buckhead. You got to look at the prices compared to the location. No chic on the east side as well should be getting $100 for a half hour. Your going to get ripped off!! No chic on the south, east, west side is worth $100. None!! Unless they're well reviewed. More later.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;3406035]This is ridiculous. A few things I wanted to touch on. This has got to be the only hobby / job / service industry where the workers do not get any better. How can you be on backpage selling ass for 5 plus years and can't even suck a fucking cock?? You done had about 5,000 cocks in your mouth and your still using teeth? Freaking ridiculous. How the hell can these people be so sorry after all those years of practice. Like, what the fuck are they doing with all that experience. These are the most laziest backwards non-progressive people that I've ever seen in my life. It seems as if they get worse as time progresses.
I'm so sick and tired of seeing these same tired ass chics posting on backpage night and day. They have shitty review after shitty review and continue to flood the boards with their shitty ass service. And when shit hits the fan and their shitty service gets exposed, they defer to a new alter ego with a new name and phone number and continuing with the same shitty service again. Its like nothing dawns on these fools to give better service, so you wouldn't have to keep changing your phone number every 2 weeks to stay ahead of the bad reviews. It's like these people are so fucking stupid, they don't have a clue as to how a basic service runs.
They think spamming a board with ads, trying to get as many guys in and out as quickly as possible, and just laying there like a dead fish is all a guy wants. I've had chics that dead fished me and played around on their phones the whole session, text me a few days later to let me know that they're available. I'm like, are you fucking stupid. Why would I want to see you again after that lame ass performance you gave me the last time. I had that retard, Pleasure, I recently reviewed, text me a few days ago with, "I'm available". I let her know why I wasn't coming back and she seemed to be in shock that I wasn't excited about her just laying there like a dead fish. That's just how these people are. They think guys are just happy with a woman standing infront of them. You don't really have to do anything and they will come back again is their thinking.
[/QUOTE]Don't hold back brother, tell us how you really feel LOL. I have to agree with you on most point though. I've come to believe, a few things. I wouldn't know for sure, I'm not a Psychiatrist nor do I really give a shit one way or the other.
I imagine, however, if they are regularly on BP they are not going to give the best service, mostly because they go for volume. They are almost always willing to negotiate and as you said, many are not the sharpest pencils in the box. Not having worked in anything near a professional environment, usually the opposite, I. E. , dive bar waitress, McDonalds etc. Service is just not in their repertoire.
I can imagine it's a the same old routine for them day in and day out lay down, get pounded, get dressed, next. In their defense. They get between 40 and 100 bones a pop, depending on the experience and intestinal fortitude of their client of the moment. Their drug habit takes most of the money and their pimp takes the rest. I suspect, most of them started doing it for some quick party cash, or a car payment or two when they were younger. One thing led to another, time passed and they suddenly this is their occupation, they don't like it any more than any other day laborer. From what I can tell, most don't consider it a business, they consider it a temporary thing, even after 5 or more years. Let's face it, for most of them, this is a job like any other, certainly not a career. Certainly there are exceptions, I have actually stumbled across a few gems on occasion. They get rewarded by repeat business and referrals. If they provide a really good service, I'll usually give them a 25% tip or so and complement them on their service. Irrespective of the service or quality, her attitude or lack there of, I always treat them with kindness and respect. I try to remember, most of these ladies would rather be doing something else, but this is the easy money, or so they have convinced themselves and it has become their life. I just won't compensate them, or anyone for that matter for poor service. I don't tip well for shitty service in a restaurant, I don't compensate well for shitty service when I'm getting my d*ck sucked.
This is why I almost never donate more than 40, and that's just for the convenience of a hotel, If its car play, 20 is my max. I don't go for up sells or any additional with a BP advertiser. It has just never been worth it in my experience. I think I keep going back to BP because of the occasional Gem. I really enjoy finding them, I suppose, you could say I am as addicted to the hobby as any provider is addicted to whatever they do. I know going in I'm probably going to be disappointed, but there is that grain of hope that I'll strike gold one day. Every time I find a nugget, it renews my hope for the 15 times I don't. .
Anyways, great rant Johnny. I always enjoy reading your posts.
In the words of the genius and comedian Chris Rock "Damn, I got to come in early tomorrow and work on my project!" There ain't enough time when you got a career. When you got a job, there's too much time. You're looking at your watch, like "Ah, shit. It's 9:08. ".
Something I just typed made me remember to rant about this. Why do this site change words around or delete words that you write that aren't even curse words. For instance, I just typed something on the backpage review section and it came out totally wrong. I tried to type the dollar signs and when I previewed the message the dollar signs weren't there. Why? As a test, I typed $exiness with the dollar sign instead of "S" and it came out spelling Sexiness correctly. Right under it, I typed a few dollar signs and it came out as the word, "She". WTF. Now granted, I type on this stupid phone alot and it auto corrects words on me from time to time, which sometimes slips me, but most of the time it's the site here that keeps changing the words.
Just like I always say, "gots ta stroking ". Now, it's coming out as "got to stroking". Why? If I type Come on, it would come back as See'Mon and I didn't even use the c you m, cum. Other times, I would type exclamation marks before closing quotation marks and the closing quotation marks would be gone as well as the exclamation mark. Why? There are some others too. Why do why'all do that on this site? Is there a reason for this? Also, I don't know how this rant will look after I send it through as I believe some words will be changed.
Just a few site / apps that these chics use to check your phone number for reviews. There are some more, but most of them will verify if your a female before you're allowed to register on those sites. Next time a chic is not answering your numerous calls or text, this may be the big reason why. You can call them from different numbers so you can know for sure.
[URL]http://nationalblacklist.com/Default.aspx[/URL]
[URL]http://www.checkpunter.com/en[/URL]
[URL]http://www.verifyhim.com/[/URL]
Okay guys, not sure this is the right sections but I am trying to offer newbies some advice.
This is the best time of the month. The last 4-5 days of each month and the first 4-5 days. These girls need rent. This is when you can low ball them more than ever if you want.
This is when you have a couple of UTR's that start sending you crazy offers and will do whatever you want.
Take advantage of this time.
Let the desperate girls hit you up. Be nice to them. Tell them you are a little low. Their prices will come down and they will tell you they will do it this time. Then again next time it will happen.
Be smart and safe.
Good luck.
The day I have to browbeat girls on price at the end of the month to save a few bucks is the day I quit the hobby.
In fact, I've often padded the envelope without prompting.
Of course, that's the way I've run my personal business over the years, and I ain't changing now.
Have I been screwed over a time or two? Sure, but the positives have far outweighed any negative. Some girls, you'll never see again; others smoke or snort it away. But others, you see them a second time, they treat you very well. And a few, you might see a spark to get back to real life. I've seen girls go from backpage to a classroom teaching, another who is a very successful writer, and another who works in finance for a large company.
Conduct yourself as you like, but remember that while these girls are down and out, you're down in the slop with them. Newbies, rest assured, playing cheap will cost you in the long run.
Just my take, and I've had a ton of fun along the way.
[QUOTE=Barrytwins;3410427]Okay guys, not sure this is the right sections but I am trying to offer newbies some advice.
This is the best time of the month. The last 4-5 days of each month and the first 4-5 days. These girls need rent. This is when you can low ball them more than ever if you want.
This is when you have a couple of UTR's that start sending you crazy offers and will do whatever you want.
Take advantage of this time.
Let the desperate girls hit you up. Be nice to them. Tell them you are a little low. Their prices will come down and they will tell you they will do it this time. Then again next time it will happen.
Be smart and safe.
Good luck.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Allen981;3411324]The day I have to browbeat girls on price at the end of the month to save a few bucks is the day I quit the hobby.
In fact, I've often padded the envelope without prompting.
Of course, that's the way I've run my personal business over the years, and I ain't changing now.
Have I been screwed over a time or two? Sure, but the positives have far outweighed any negative. Some girls, you'll never see again; others smoke or snort it away. But others, you see them a second time, they treat you very well. And a few, you might see a spark to get back to real life. I've seen girls go from backpage to a classroom teaching, another who is a very successful writer, and another who works in finance for a large company.
Conduct yourself as you like, but remember that while these girls are down and out, you're down in the slop with them. Newbies, rest assured, playing cheap will cost you in the long run.
Just my take, and I've had a ton of fun along the way.[/QUOTE]So let me get this straight. You pay full price and sometimes more than full price (unsolicited) because it will gain you more favor over time? Where's parrotrange when we need him?
[QUOTE=Allen981;3411324]The day I have to browbeat girls on price at the end of the month to save a few bucks is the day I quit the hobby.
Have I been screwed over a time or two? Sure, but the positives have far outweighed any negative. Some girls, you'll never see again; others smoke or snort it away. But others, you see them a second time, they treat you very well. And a few, you might see a spark to get back to real life. I've seen girls go from backpage to a classroom teaching, another who is a very successful writer, and another who works in finance for a large company.
Conduct yourself as you like, but remember that while these girls are down and out, you're down in the slop with them. Newbies, rest assured, playing cheap will cost you in the long run.
Just my take, and I've had a ton of fun along the way.[/QUOTE]I am always amused at how sanctimonious hobbyist can get. I get it, they are humans with feelings etc. But business is business. Treat them with respect and courtesy always! But don't fool yourself, they are in it for the money, and the money only, they do not get up in the morning and think to themselves, I am looking forward to some old man fondling me today. I just love that fat slob with hair on his back trying to fuck me with his half limp dick and bad breath. Hell naw! 60 or 1000, it doesn't matter, it's the same for them. They get lucky from time to time and find some sympathetic simp willing to pay double what someone else will pay and they have done well that day. Other times, they get half for the same service. It is a transaction like any other nothing more, nothing less. You have a service or commodity I want I offer you what I think it is worth, you accept my offer or you do not. The negotiation starts there. It's really that simple. Question -- when is the best time to buy a car? Answer -- at the end of the month or even better the end of the model year.
Newbies and experienced hobbyist alike, do not think for one minute that you mean a damn thing to any one of these girls. That's what wives and girlfriends are for. If you negotiate a price, pay the price. If you get exceptional service, tip accordingly, if you get shitty service, tip accordingly. Do what you want, but if I can get a good hamburger for 2. 50 at one place, or the same hamburger across the street for 1. 50, I'm going for the 1. 50 every single time.
SMFH.
[QUOTE=Allen981;3411324]The day I have to browbeat girls on price at the end of the month to save a few bucks is the day I quit the hobby.
In fact, I've often padded the envelope without prompting.
Of course, that's the way I've run my personal business over the years, and I ain't changing now.
Have I been screwed over a time or two? Sure, but the positives have far outweighed any negative. Some girls, you'll never see again; others smoke or snort it away. But others, you see them a second time, they treat you very well. And a few, you might see a spark to get back to real life. I've seen girls go from backpage to a classroom teaching, another who is a very successful writer, and another who works in finance for a large company.
Conduct yourself as you like, but remember that while these girls are down and out, you're down in the slop with them. Newbies, rest assured, playing cheap will cost you in the long run.
Just my take, and I've had a ton of fun along the way.[/QUOTE]I am very cautious and can probably count on one hand the amount of truly bad experiences I have had. I treat these ladies with respect and we know upfront what the deal is and the agreed upon amount. If I get a call from a UTR on the 1st, like I did this morning, saying she is short 50 for rent that needs to be paid today and she will give me BBBJ and covered full if I can come by, I say I'll be there at lunch. I'm not going to give her more but I am going to be nice to her and then bend her over and get my nut. My guess, she'll contact me again at a discount.
I don't care what she does when I am not with her. Does she have a "real" job? Great. Does she have a boyfriend? I don't care. Does she get on her knees for me and take it how I want to give it? If that is a yes, let's do this. They don't care about me. I don't care about them. They are just someone to help keep my stress down.
[QUOTE=Barrytwins;3411727]I am very cautious and can probably count on one hand the amount of truly bad experiences I have had. I treat these ladies with respect and we know upfront what the deal is and the agreed upon amount. If I get a call from a UTR on the 1st, like I did this morning, saying she is short 50 for rent that needs to be paid today and she will give me BBBJ and covered full if I can come by, I say I'll be there at lunch. I'm not going to give her more but I am going to be nice to her and then bend her over and get my nut. My guess, she'll contact me again at a discount.
I don't care what she does when I am not with her. Does she have a "real" job? Great. Does she have a boyfriend? I don't care. Does she get on her knees for me and take it how I want to give it? If that is a yes, let's do this. They don't care about me. I don't care about them. They are just someone to help keep my stress down.[/QUOTE]I can appreciate how you operate Barry!
Rather than just a hamburger, my approach has often gotten me a nice steak. For what you're paying for hamburger.
I'm completely realistic about the hobby; most times, it's just a 'transaction' as you describe, done and gone, regardless of what is charged or paid. But not always, and it's those incredible encounters that make things interesting.
Have fun and stay safe.
[QUOTE=MrHobbyist;3411596]I am always amused at how sanctimonious hobbyist can get. I get it, they are humans with feelings etc. But business is business. Treat them with respect and courtesy always! But don't fool yourself, they are in it for the money, and the money only, they do not get up in the morning and think to themselves, I am looking forward to some old man fondling me today. I just love that fat slob with hair on his back trying to fuck me with his half limp dick and bad breath. Hell naw! 60 or 1000, it doesn't matter, it's the same for them. They get lucky from time to time and find some sympathetic simp willing to pay double what someone else will pay and they have done well that day. Other times, they get half for the same service. It is a transaction like any other nothing more, nothing less. You have a service or commodity I want I offer you what I think it is worth, you accept my offer or you do not. The negotiation starts there. It's really that simple. Question -- when is the best time to buy a car? Answer -- at the end of the month or even better the end of the model year.
Newbies and experienced hobbyist alike, do not think for one minute that you mean a damn thing to any one of these girls. That's what wives and girlfriends are for. If you negotiate a price, pay the price. If you get exceptional service, tip accordingly, if you get shitty service, tip accordingly. Do what you want, but if I can get a good hamburger for 2. 50 at one place, or the same hamburger across the street for 1. 50, I'm going for the 1. 50 every single time.
SMFH.[/QUOTE]
I completely agree with everything MrHobbyist stated here. Always respect the ladies but know this is a business transaction first and foremost.
[QUOTE=MrHobbyist;3411596]I am always amused at how sanctimonious hobbyist can get. I get it, they are humans with feelings etc. But business is business. Treat them with respect and courtesy always! But don't fool yourself, they are in it for the money, and the money only, they do not get up in the morning and think to themselves, I am looking forward to some old man fondling me today. I just love that fat slob with hair on his back trying to fuck me with his half limp dick and bad breath. Hell naw! 60 or 1000, it doesn't matter, it's the same for them. They get lucky from time to time and find some sympathetic simp willing to pay double what someone else will pay and they have done well that day. Other times, they get half for the same service. It is a transaction like any other nothing more, nothing less. You have a service or commodity I want I offer you what I think it is worth, you accept my offer or you do not. The negotiation starts there. It's really that simple. Question -- when is the best time to buy a car? Answer -- at the end of the month or even better the end of the model year.
Newbies and experienced hobbyist alike, do not think for one minute that you mean a damn thing to any one of these girls. That's what wives and girlfriends are for. If you negotiate a price, pay the price. If you get exceptional service, tip accordingly, if you get shitty service, tip accordingly. Do what you want, but if I can get a good hamburger for 2. 50 at one place, or the same hamburger across the street for 1. 50, I'm going for the 1. 50 every single time.
SMFH.[/QUOTE]