Slight change in verbiage
[QUOTE=CameronB;3403478]Brilliant rant, Wielic. In my case I learned my BB lesson long ago where, fortunately, the solution was a single antibiotic shot in the ass and I was good-to-go. I call it lucky because it could have been much worse. Unless it's been with an SO, I've been covered ever since. However, unlike you, I have no CFS issue with an SP known for BB because it's no different than the same covered roll of the dice with a chick you picked up at a hotel bar on vacation (there's no way to know what's been uncovered inside her an hour ago). And honestly I've found many SP's practice better hygiene than civvies.
So who's bold enough to admit they got SP BB dosed? (Amon you can abstain from this answer since we already know how proud you are spreading your oozing SP-originated clap doses in various unknowing female orifices). Who's gotten SP BB dosed, lived to tell, and bold enough to admit it (other than Amon)?
Cam.
P.S.: unlike others, I'm totally entertained by Amon so fire away dude.[/QUOTE]After first seeing this debate on the boards a while ago, I was kind of surprised as up to that point I had never been offered BB. But I noticed something in the way a session went that probably kept this from happening. We all know the way a hhr session normally goes, typically it involves BBBJ, then intercourse. I usually let the girl suck me for 5 minutes or so then say something like "grab a rubber" Instead I started saying something like "you want to ride me?" Or something along those lines. Since I stopped mentioning the cover, not a single one reached for a cover before trying to climb on top. These aren't randoms off backpage. I will typically only see a girl if she has a lot of good reviews here or comes from a certain reliable source (hopefully I don't have to say what I mean by that).
First date bareback or no date at all hehehe
Taking time to to make them feel special and obtaining bareback is almost a guarantee, getting some girls to bb on the first date can be quite tricky. My policy is if no bb on first date then no date = no money for them at all. Contact them again when everybody else is broke after spending up all their social security checks, paychecks, disability, etc on drugs and hookers, etc. And your chances will be easier since business will have slowed and they are desperate for that money. Timing is half the battle when trying to get these hookers to respond promptly and be more opened minded to requests. Most of the times they will not respond because everyone is already competing to visit them them when they just got their paychecks and willing to pay top dollar since they just thinking about their "nut". Unless you are rich they will most likely outpay and outbid you and who do you think the hooker will set up the date with in that regard? BE PATIENT wait for it and prices will be more negotiable, menus will be more open and most importantly of all no more waiting 8 fucking hours before a hooker responds back, last but not least less chances of getting stood up since less chances of double booking.
[QUOTE=Wielic;3402685]All of them go bareback. I have seen my fair share, and they all offer it at some point. If you are half way decent looking and take the time to make them feel special, they will ask YOU for it.[/QUOTE]
Feels Strange to Say This
But I think I may be losing some interest in the hobby. There are some providers I'm interested in seeing, but none I have a really burning desire to see. Age (early 50's) may be a factor, but I still check out hot women in everyday life and can still get it up just fine without pills. Your reports of busts, providers with smelly snatches, and crazy boyfriends / pimps concern me, but those reports never kept me out of the hobby before. Money is tight now, but it has been before too.
I've "quit" the hobby before only to return after a few weeks or months. I'm not in a "quitting" mindset now though, the lessened interest in pursuing providers is kind of there on its own. I've been back in the hobby this time around for about 6 years. Maybe it's just running its natural course.
I think part of it is the hobby gives an adrenaline rush, but it's not really a challenge. I mean, when I show up in some crappy notel room to see a provider who's been reviewed here, it's about 99% guaranteed the panties are coming off. It's been about 6 weeks since I've had any. Last year at this time, I would have been climbing the walls. Now, I'd like to get some, but it's not the all consuming focus that it once was.
Maybe, hopefully, this means the hobby can be just an occasional indulgence for me without it being torture to stay out of the hobby for long. Finding a bed buddy in real life would help too, as that will be a challenge in a way that the hobby isn't.
Thanks for reading. I obviously can't talk about this stuff with anyone in everyday life, I figured some of you might understand. Stay safe out there.