Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Cintixtreme;3392262]If they have mutual friends, his profile could have popped up on her page as "People you may know". Facebook does that with friends of friends. So she may have simply seen the picture from that and recognized him. Ain't the internet great?[/QUOTE]Facebook links with your contacts. If you have a hookers number in your phone book and their number is linked to their FB account, at some point, FB will suggest them as a friend. Works the same for the hooker. If she has your number in her address book and you use your real number (the same number you have linked to your Facebook account) for your hobby activities, her FB will eventually suggest you as a friend for her.

If you access the recommended friends list on your cell phone, it would be very easy to accidentally hit the send friend invite. I've done it before. If your realize that you invited someone by accident, you can quickly undo it. If you don't realize it, and keep scrolling, the invite is out there.

If you get an invite from some chick you payed to fuck, I'd say decline and move on. Odds are it was an accidental invitation. Perhaps she didn't even remember you as a paying customer. Maybe she saw you on the common friend's friends list and was like this guy is hot. Look if these girls had as many sticking out of them as they have had stuck in them they'd look like a porcupine. I can't imagine they remember every face that fucks them. He'll accept the invite and try to get some free pussy out of the deal.

Even though I use a texting ap for my activities, any saved hooker phone numbers and names are still in my address book. I have found many girls on my suggested friends list.

As far as common friends go, I've seen quite a few girls that I've had common friends with. I don't believe it is that uncommon to have a friend or to in common.

Maybe, but if they have mutual friends as per your example and she sends a request I fail to see the harm?

It would be helpful for the OP to clarify exactly what happened. E. G. He told her his real name or used his real phone or made some statement about someone and she drew a connection that she tracked him down with. Not trying to be argumentative or slag the guy, just trying to understand the exposure point.

I'm relatively sure I've never told a girl my real full name, mostly because it has never come up.

Speaking of ain't the internet great, I just screwed up and I think posted half of my question by mistyping. Or I sent it to my entire address book.

Sorry for the half duplicate post if it comes through.

[QUOTE=Cintixtreme;3392262]If they have mutual friends, his profile could have popped up on her page as "People you may know". Facebook does that with friends of friends. So she may have simply seen the picture from that and recognized him. Ain't the internet great?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Cincy;3391727]You are not.

Some gals have it. Some don't.[/QUOTE]Cristen cremes does dirty talk real good if you ask her to.

I'm not sure how she found me. That would be a question for her.

I don't have her number saved in my phone, and while I use my real first name when dealing with most people I meet, I sure didn't provide my last. If I had to guess, I'd say it was through mutual friends. Besides the possibility of a "people you may know" thing, a couple of those dudes are people I actually have a real friendship with. So, say one of them posts on facebook, and I say something back to them, then that post they made shows up on her feed with my reply, and a picture of me right next to my response. Then. Oh, I know that guy too, maybe I should connect. I just personally feel that this is a terrible idea. Not only are we not actually friends, but after this impropriety, what comes next? I'm not looking to find out. Discretion is a must in this business, and unless it's mutually agreed upon, personal lives should not meet. I have a life that could be seriously negatively impacted by any number of scenarios that involve being friends with a provider. Just imagine the possibilities.

On a similar note, I know a certain red haired provider in real life. She did lose those teeth in a bicycle accident BTW. I know her brother, I know her father, and I would NEVER contact her for a session. I would NEVER indicate to her that I know what she is up to in conversation, or her family. It would effect her entire family negatively, could ruin her Dad's career, an at the very least would start a storm of shit for her that I'm not going to be responsible for.

[QUOTE=WyldeChild99;3393006]I'm not sure how she found me. That would be a question for her.

I don't have her number saved in my phone, and while I use my real first name when dealing with most people I meet, I sure didn't provide my last. If I had to guess, I'd say it was through mutual friends. Besides the possibility of a "people you may know" thing, a couple of those dudes are people I actually have a real friendship with. So, say one of them posts on facebook, and I say something back to them, then that post they made shows up on her feed with my reply, and a picture of me right next to my response. Then. Oh, I know that guy too, maybe I should connect. I just personally feel that this is a terrible idea. Not only are we not actually friends, but after this impropriety, what comes next? I'm not looking to find out. Discretion is a must in this business, and unless it's mutually agreed upon, personal lives should not meet. I have a life that could be seriously negatively impacted by any number of scenarios that involve being friends with a provider. Just imagine the possibilities.

On a similar note, I know a certain red haired provider in real life. She did lose those teeth in a bicycle accident BTW. I know her brother, I know her father, and I would NEVER contact her for a session. I would NEVER indicate to her that I know what she is up to in conversation, or her family. It would effect her entire family negatively, could ruin her Dad's career, an at the very least would start a storm of shit for her that I'm not going to be responsible for.[/QUOTE]Has a program that pushes out notifications to phone numbers that are connected to the account, using phone numbers associated with other facebooks that may have been used with each other. Such as texts, emails.

Very possible Facebook did this, not her.

[QUOTE=BengalMan;3393091]Has a program that pushes out notifications to phone numbers that are connected to the account, using phone numbers associated with other facebooks that may have been used with each other. Such as texts, emails.

Very possible Facebook did this, not her.[/QUOTE]For this reason I NEVER associate a phone number with my social media accounts. This did it stop 3 providors from showing up in my "people you may know" feed on Facebook after texting with them. At least I learned their real names.

[QUOTE=BengalMan;3393091]
Very possible Facebook did this, not her.[/QUOTE]This is not how that works.

Who are the woman offering BBFS? Would like to avoid them due to potential health risks. This info may help others with same concern. Please share names of woman known to allow BBFS.

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;3398616]Who are the woman offering BBFS? Would like to avoid them due to potential health risks. This info may help others with same concern. Please share names of woman known to allow BBFS.[/QUOTE]You do not mention BBBJ in your post, but only BBFS. I could be wrong, and it may not be at the same level, but doesn't a BBBJ also open one up for the same (or similar) potential health risks that BBFS does?

While it is a useful piece of information to know, It is my opinion that some members aren't always truthful when reporting about providers that allow BBFS.

Take care and be safe!!

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;3398616]Who are the woman offering BBFS? Would like to avoid them due to potential health risks. This info may help others with same concern. Please share names of woman known to allow BBFS.[/QUOTE]I bareback every girl I see. So to me that's all of them.

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;3398616]Who are the woman offering BBFS? Would like to avoid them due to potential health risks. This info may help others with same concern. Please share names of woman known to allow BBFS.[/QUOTE]I'm not saying you are, but I'm always suspicious when someone pops up asking about who does BBFS because they want to "avoid" them. I normally get the feeling that they really want to make like the roadrunner to see them.

Anyway, for the purposes of answering your question, you should assume 90% or more will. If not the first date, they will eventually with regulars.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3398964]I'm not saying you are, but I'm always suspicious when someone pops up asking about who does BBFS because they want to "avoid" them. I normally get the feeling that they really want to make like the roadrunner to see them.[/QUOTE]

Sir your assumption is incorrect. The word 'Avoid' is clearly stated.

Even if protection is used some people would rather avoid anyone who doesn't consistently play safe especially if they offer BBFS.

This request arose after a friend saw someone. Practiced safe sex. Then learned later they offered other people BBFS and wasnt clear about it with this friend. Rather avoid these people.

Facebook friend requests can ONLY be sent perso ally. AND ANY WOMAN in this hobby knows better than to try to involve herself in they're personal life facebook or anything else for that matter. Its the first golden rule of ouR WORLD! Discretion is an absolute MUST. Everybody have fun and be safe.

Xoxo.

[QUOTE=WyldeChild99;3391618]That's what I was saying. I met her one time, and she had to actually see my profile and think to herself, "Hey, I should send this dude a friend request. " My question is, "Why in the fuck would she do that?" In this discretion based hobby, she just lost herself any repeat business that might possibly have come from me, and got blocked from my social media. Then, there's the 5 mutual friends.

I don't discuss this activity with my buddies, so for all I know, Cincyfunguy, you and I might be friends in real life. Not that I'm passing judgement, it's just that I'd imagine you would like to keep your real name a secret, and if she ever gets outed as a professional, everybody on her friends list becomes suspect, which again begs the question, "Why the fuck would she do that? Don't smart people keep their personal lives separate from this hobby?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;3398987]Sir your assumption is incorrect. The word 'Avoid' is clearly stated.

Even if protection is used some people would rather avoid anyone who doesn't consistently play safe especially if they offer BBFS.

This request arose after a friend saw someone. Practiced safe sex. Then learned later they offered other people BBFS and wasnt clear about it with this friend. Rather avoid these people.[/QUOTE]Just go on the assumption for the right amount of $$ they all will. The ones that won't are probably the exception. Then consider do they make bf's wear protection?

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;3398987]Sir your assumption is incorrect. The word 'Avoid' is clearly stated.

Even if protection is used some people would rather avoid anyone who doesn't consistently play safe especially if they offer BBFS with anyone.

This request arose after a friend saw someone. Practiced safe sex. Then learned later they offered other people BBFS and wasnt clear about it with this friend. [b]Rather avoid these people[/b].[/QUOTE]If you are going to play in this hobby you simply can't avoid it unless you are making the assumption that they are truthful when they say no BBFS. Just use whatever level of protection works for your risk level. I mean, if you visit a girl that is known for BBBJWCIM, and then you kiss her an hour after seeing another dude, are you assuming all the other guy's baby chowder is all dissipated?

This is why I hardly ever DATY personally, but given that I've smooched a few, I'm probably just being delusional.