Sugarbabies?

[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7083280]Yeah, there's obviously a risk she'll bail with the cash, but not everyone's like that. If you've known her a few months and can actually trust her, that's different. But if you've only met her once or twice, there's a 99% chance she's gone with the money. Stick to pay-per-meet for the first few months, and only switch to monthly once she's proven she's legit. If she knows she's guaranteed a set amount every month, why wouldn't she stay? Plus, with a monthly setup, you can score a better deal: pay for four meets, get six. Just be smart and make sure you know who you're dealing with. There are different types of girls, toosome you can trust after a couple of months, and some I wouldn't trust even after a year. It's all individual.[/QUOTE]The individual in this case is you. You are thinking like a man; you are not thinking like a woman who is having sex for money. The group has already told you the correct answer. You don't like the answer. Maybe you think you know better and we are all too cynical. I would suggest we might be cynical for reasons. In any case, I suspect you are going to do it anyway. It's your money. Just don't come back later saying the chick ripped you off. If you pay in advance, the money is a gift. You should not complain when that is how she treats it.

BAM

[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7083280]Plus, with a monthly setup, you can score a better deal: pay for four meets, get six.[/QUOTE]You clearly understand human nature way better than all of us. Sarcasm even further extended, and now directed at you.

[QUOTE=BamBam;6920546]This is good advice. There are multiple women in the bowl who are called "rinsers. " They specialize in getting paid just to out to dinner, etc. They even have videos and forums where they advise and encourage each other. Any time you hear "All my other...." That's a sign she has gone on multiple dates and never closed the deal with any of them. The profile in questions even includes "Don't worry about desert." That is a come-on. The reason you shouldn't worry about it is because there isn't going to be any.[/QUOTE]I realize this is controversial and I am in the minority, but I do pay at meet and greets if they ask for it, in addition to covering the cost for coffee (I prefer coffee over lunch). However I will only pay 40-60 bucks and I consider this payment "token" (only paid in-person with cash, of course). For some SB's, it shows you are a serious SD. I will only do this for 1 platonic date, and very rarely will I do this for 2 dates. In my experience if things don't get intimate after 1-2 platonic dates they very rarely will be. If they balk about 40-60 bucks, I just say that in the past I've been lied to / ripped off.

When I first started as a SD I got rinsed more than a few times. The young ladies watch TikTok influencers who are selling them BS about platonic SD's.

[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7083280] If you've known her a few months and can actually trust her, that's different. [/QUOTE]I've tried this on half a dozen arrangements. One of them kept going for over a year. Every other one ended the next month.

They spend the money and then feel like you're meeting for free and it shows in various ways that ruin the arrangement. Or like others have said, they bail.

I always dangle the carrot out there, but I haven't moved an arrangement to monthly in 5 years. It was something that only happened early in this life when "trust" and having a guy provide was part of this at all. Now every lady has multiple guys and monthly WILL REDUCE YOU AS A PRIORITY.

[QUOTE=WiscoMN;7084242]I realize this is controversial and I am in the minority, but I do pay at meet and greets if they ask for it, in addition to covering the cost for coffee (I prefer coffee over lunch). However I will only pay 40-60 bucks and I consider this payment "token" (only paid in-person with cash, of course). For some SB's, it shows you are a serious SD. I will only do this for 1 platonic date, and very rarely will I do this for 2 dates. In my experience if things don't get intimate after 1-2 platonic dates they very rarely will be. If they balk about 40-60 bucks, I just say that in the past I've been lied to / ripped off.

When I first started as a SD I got rinsed more than a few times. The young ladies watch TikTok influencers who are selling them BS about platonic SD's.[/QUOTE]This is near identical to what I do. I'm not looking for "pros," I want someone to build something with. I don't mind a small token to show I'm serious.

I dipped back in for another month with a couple hits and many many scammers. Hopefully This will save you some time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87f2ddd5-d2f3-43c1-b9b4-b9ca40f86258[/URL]

Throws out a low number to meet up and then while you're on the way there starts with the CashApp BS.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18111820-9285-430f-ad71-cf2f64d701e9[/URL]

Says she is local but location keeps changing. Another CashApp only person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db7f26e0-76b9-4c4b-b5f2-329bc7ae71a0[/URL]

Was cool to meet for activities, but then brought up CashApp so I blocked.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bfa112-def4-4b91-a0ae-aa37ac055c43[/URL]

This one is real and local, gave me her number and reads messages right away but never responds. Not really sure what her deal is.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/acd7f50e-c43b-4bc9-ab1d-6c2672401c6b[/URL]

Seems to be a pro and will harass you constantly.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc802bc1-6551-4f1a-85c6-1c8aaaff915a[/URL]

Agreed to meet and a donation and gave me her location. When I arrived she upped the price by $$ and told me I had to CashApp her 25% down.

Did she want allowance prior to MnG?

Or, say you can Cashapp her after meetups?

[QUOTE=AlanDodson;7088583]
Was cool to meet for activities, but then brought up CashApp so I blocked.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bfa112-def4-4b91-a0ae-aa37ac055c43[/URL][/QUOTE]

Sorry for any confusion, it goes.

Link THEN.

Summary.

[QUOTE=AlanDodson;7088583]I dipped back in for another month with a couple hits and many many scammers. Hopefully This will save you some time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87f2ddd5-d2f3-43c1-b9b4-b9ca40f86258[/URL]

Throws out a low number to meet up and then while you're on the way there starts with the CashApp BS.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18111820-9285-430f-ad71-cf2f64d701e9[/URL]

Says she is local but location keeps changing. Another CashApp only person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db7f26e0-76b9-4c4b-b5f2-329bc7ae71a0[/URL]

Was cool to meet for activities, but then brought up CashApp so I blocked.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bfa112-def4-4b91-a0ae-aa37ac055c43[/URL]

This one is real and local, gave me her number and reads messages right away but never responds. Not really sure what her deal is.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/acd7f50e-c43b-4bc9-ab1d-6c2672401c6b[/URL]

Seems to be a pro and will harass you constantly.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc802bc1-6551-4f1a-85c6-1c8aaaff915a[/URL]

Agreed to meet and a donation and gave me her location. When I arrived she upped the price by $$ and told me I had to CashApp her 25% down.[/QUOTE]

Sorry the description for Clare was under the link not above it. I should have spaced it out a little better. She gave me her Snapchat, and posts locally identifying pics, but everytime I message her she immediately reads but doesn't respond. No idea why she is on the site if she won't engage in conversation at all.

[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;7088801]Did she want allowance prior to MnG?

Or, say you can Cashapp her after meetups?[/QUOTE]

Has anyone actually met her? She's online every day, but I'm not sure if she's real. Her profile makes it seem like she's not originally from around here. I tried messaging her, but she didn't respond.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3a64124-0927-48b5-818b-6d54a6f1f5cb[/URL]

Here are some of my latest conquest I have moved on from or am not interested in. As always YMMV. [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24aff5be-207e-42f3-8dd0-5918a4031c00[/URL]

Met this one. Photos are accurate. Has some great fucking tits. Is a stripper at a local club. Is definitely a looney or on something though. Has dreams of being a YouTube star or something. Wanted 500 ppm for an evening. For that rate you can do much better. Offered her a lower amount to go back to the car and bang out a quickie. She declined. I will not be seeing her at the 500/ ppm rate.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/41ed6796-b20c-4f54-b802-ab5857f9559e[/URL]

Met her for a meet and greet. Pics are accurate and very sexy young thing. Is asking 500 ppm. As per usual with my sugar babies I am fine with that as long as I get 4-5 hours of whatever I want out of it. She wants to do a couple of dates before getting to that point which I am fine with and she does not expect to get paid until we are sexual. Will report back once it gets to that point.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e890b0b1-05ae-4f19-87f3-3fb71f091bb0[/URL]

Is very real. Is much better looking in person. Fucked in my car in a parking lot on the meet and greet after a few drinks. Fucked her 3 or 4 more times since then. Again $500 PPM for the whole evening including over night if you work it out ahead of time as she has a child. Will let you hit it raw and cum in her. Has a stripper pole in her bedroom.

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Do you remember what I told you would happen if I had to put you back on moderation?

Thank you for fucking me over like this so that from now on I will never give guys a second chance. When they ask I'm going to say "you need to PM BamBam and ask him why you should have one.

Jax used to always tell me: "don't give guys second chances, assholes never stop being assholes." I fucking hate it when he's right.

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1. Ask questions.
2. Share info on SB you passed on, fakes, scams, rinsers, GPS.
3. Never discuss current / potential SB's until #2.
4. Loose lips sink ships.

[QUOTE=BamBam;7089845]You are wasting your time complaining. This has been a perennial problem on this board. For this reason, experienced guys do not share info on positive outcomes or current SB's. Or if they do share, they only share privately and selectively. I use the forum as a way to get out warnings quickly.

BAM.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7088865]Has anyone actually met her? She's online every day, but I'm not sure if she's real. Her profile makes it seem like she's not originally from around here. I tried messaging her, but she didn't respond.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3a64124-0927-48b5-818b-6d54a6f1f5cb[/URL][/QUOTE]You have asked about her before. The consensus answer was that this is a scammer profile. Time will not change the answer. However, just to close things out, here is the proof:

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/p/C7f_WPpO1NE/?img_index=1;[/URL] [URL]https://www.instagram.com/wowmiami_;[/URL].

I recommend you start a searchable list so you do not keep coming back to the same profiles.

BAM.

I haven't renewed my Seeking subscription for a few months now, but today I noticed that my usual intro message had gone out to a SB about 2 hrs ago, and the SB had responded which shows as "Upgrade to read". Then I checked my other past messages to see if there had been some sort of time reset, but no. Also, this message doesn't show up in my Sent folder. So, very interesting that Seeking is now sending out messages on my behalf!