"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Nice! This makes me miss the old days. I had one for about a year up in the DC area. 18 and going to ballet school to be a professional dancer. It was nice. One of the bests. Seems like yours has a good attitude so you'll have a good time. The flexibility! Hopefully you can lower the allowance after she feels comfortable with you and meet up again. If not, please pass on her info! I'm sure there are a handful that might be able to afford it if you're one and done.

[QUOTE=Tidad;7125492]I'm meeting ballet professional for "drinks, dinner and sex, then sex and breakfast" next week. Those were her words when we finalized the details. Its going to cost but I cannot pass this opportunity. She has a soft southern accent and rail thin, taut body that I cannot wait to snack on. Post date / recovery review to follow.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;7126195]Inquiring minds want to know. How much??[/QUOTE]Agreed. I am a big fan of ballet, and obviously have had those fantasies myself.

YK, I just did a date w / a complete non-pro makeup artist (a common LA occupation) and she asked for 800. She's been celibate for a while, I really knew how horny she would be, and I was right. Gorgeous Swedish blond, perky tits, 28 YO, extremely enthusiastic (about sex, and me), loved banging from behind in as many attitudes as you could find (K9, RCG, etc.). Giving her that was a Christmas present for both of us.

[QUOTE=Tidad;7125492]I'm meeting ballet professional for "drinks, dinner and sex, then sex and breakfast" next week. Those were her words when we finalized the details. Its going to cost but I cannot pass this opportunity. She has a soft southern accent and rail thin, taut body that I cannot wait to snack on. Post date / recovery review to follow.[/QUOTE]What's the estimated donation and how far are you traveling to meet her? I got one out of state that is in college and wants to meet but wants donation for meet and greet at our first meeting. She is fine with doing more after that but what do I say to convince her there's no donation for a meet and greet? She seems legit so I want to pursue this one.

Safe hunting.

[QUOTE=AmpLove;7126335]What's the estimated donation and how far are you traveling to meet her? I got one out of state that is in college and wants to meet but wants donation for meet and greet at our first meeting. She is fine with doing more after that but what do I say to convince her there's no donation for a meet and greet? She seems legit so I want to pursue this one.

Safe hunting.[/QUOTE]I'm going to DC for a work trip and extending my stay to patronize the performing arts. I've been searching for the right company for my DC trip and once we talked, things came together quickly. We decided on a noon meet and greet for lunch and a drink then if we get along, bar hopping, sex, dinner, sex, ect. Until noon the next day. I'm staying in a Capitol Hill airbnb so it's perfect for walkabout. She suggested 1 k and I jumped on it.

[QUOTE=AmpLove;7126335]What's the estimated donation and how far are you traveling to meet her? I got one out of state that is in college and wants to meet but wants donation for meet and greet at our first meeting. She is fine with doing more after that but what do I say to convince her there's no donation for a meet and greet? She seems legit so I want to pursue this one.

Safe hunting.[/QUOTE]I try to be flexible if someone seems very interested, real and not a scammer. Offer to cover an Uber (gift card) or gas (cash at the meeting) or other actual costs she has for meeting up (babysitter). Or you can be more general and say 'I always have a gift for a girl if the meeting is successful and we're moving forward with an arrangement', and you can be evasive about what that actually is. It can be cash, but I also like to use gift cards ($25-$40) from Sephora or Victoria, you can say something flattering, like "IK pretty girls like. ".

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7126209]Agreed. I am a big fan of ballet, and obviously have had those fantasies myself.

YK, I just did a date w / a complete non-pro makeup artist (a common LA occupation) and she asked for 800. She's been celibate for a while, I really knew how horny she would be, and I was right. Gorgeous Swedish blond, perky tits, 28 YO, extremely enthusiastic (about sex, and me), loved banging from behind in as many attitudes as you could find (K9, RCG, etc.). Giving her that was a Christmas present for both of us.[/QUOTE]Looks like this girl. I usually keep all the profile pix of girls, and can put them into a conquest gallery. But this girl, no. At the FC the other day, I pulled out my phone, she was nervous about me taking pix, eventually declined. Too bacd.

[QUOTE=Tidad;7118715]I have no idea what the situation is now but when I treated myself to her before I had a fantastic time. I don't remember the numbers but the rates on that website do not seem out of line w my experience. She was very comfortable with herself and that made her a real pleasure to spend time with not to mention the sex, the body. All that. She's smart, charming and a great lay; w a current test all bare was available but I would be surprised if that's still the case.[/QUOTE]Yea had fun with her before she got more into. Modeling and agree fun time. Most recently tried to set something up and that email didn't get a response so reached to her agency and was quoted similar amount for public date. Did not accept as that's steep to have dinner LOL however maybe she allowed more but did not take the risk. Instead just scratched the itch with her agency teammate. Newcomer Alexa James who is very fun.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;7032743]Any info?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d140bc39-bfdb-40bf-888a-9d4d23b51eda??locale=en_USS[/URL][/QUOTE]She is real and from my experience not very expensive. Is hard to connect with at first. Once she sees that you are serious she probably will give you her real number. When I saw her she was in Northside. Has a young baby. Imo seems to be an ex stripper type.

Lists being in Richmond but actually in Harrisonburg. Will gladly drive to RVA if you Cashapp her the gas money first LOL.

We all know how that will work out.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9f4fd3d-82fe-42c9-bea4-d1b216f2dac9[/URL]

Now in Billings, MT. She gets around! LOL.

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;7136571]Lists being in Richmond but actually in Harrisonburg. Will gladly drive to RVA if you Cashapp her the gas money first LOL.

We all know how that will work out.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9f4fd3d-82fe-42c9-bea4-d1b216f2dac9[/URL][/QUOTE]

I've seen this SB a few times in the past, always a good time. I reached out again (simple Hi how you doing types message) after like 3-4 months. Interestingly she wants to meet in person for a few minutes. It didn't sound like she wanted a date mert, but wants to meet at a public place, not sure why.

Any suggestions?

TIA.

[QUOTE=AshWink;7139468]I've seen this SB a few times in the past, always a good time. I reached out again (simple Hi how you doing types message) after like 3-4 months. Interestingly she wants to meet in person for a few minutes. It didn't sound like she wanted a date mert, but wants to meet at a public place, not sure why.

Any suggestions?

TIA.[/QUOTE]Conversation around a pay raise or "this is the last time". Until the next time. Or "this is my boyfriend, he wanted to tell you to leave me alone. " or any of 50 things. If YOU don't know then how could anyone here do anything but guess? Go have the talk. Or don't.

[QUOTE=AshWink;7139468]I've seen this SB a few times in the past, always a good time. I reached out again (simple Hi how you doing types message) after like 3-4 months. Interestingly she wants to meet in person for a few minutes. It didn't sound like she wanted a date mert, but wants to meet at a public place, not sure why.

Any suggestions?

TIA.[/QUOTE]If you think you can trust her (and it is a public place, so that's pretty safe), I'd go ahead and meet. She likely wants to say something personal that she doesn't want to do by texting or phone. I guess you could call her and say you're willing to meet but what's this about? Finally, if I had to guess, it's about money. She wants some.

[QUOTE=AshWink;7139468]I've seen this SB a few times in the past, always a good time. I reached out again (simple Hi how you doing types message) after like 3-4 months. Interestingly she wants to meet in person for a few minutes. It didn't sound like she wanted a date mert, but wants to meet at a public place, not sure why.

Any suggestions?

TIA.[/QUOTE]Second worst case: "I've got an STD and so do you". Worst case: "You're going to be my new baby daddy, see you in family court".

I don't see anything good coming out of this. Disappear. That's why you practiced tight OPSEC.

[QUOTE=AshWink;7139468]I've seen this SB a few times in the past, always a good time. I reached out again (simple Hi how you doing types message) after like 3-4 months. Interestingly she wants to meet in person for a few minutes. It didn't sound like she wanted a date mert, but wants to meet at a public place, not sure why.

Any suggestions?

TIA.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tidad;7125492]I'm meeting ballet professional for "drinks, dinner and sex, then sex and breakfast" next week. Those were her words when we finalized the details. Its going to cost but I cannot pass this opportunity. She has a soft southern accent and rail thin, taut body that I cannot wait to snack on. Post date / recovery review to follow.[/QUOTE]I extended a work trip to her area so we could spend a day together if we clicked. We did and spent a full 24 hours shop-looking the city, grabbing coffee, drinks and meals between fuck sessions and inside joke laughter. She's a professional dancer and instructor with exactly the body you'd expect: if big soft tits are your thing pass on this one. Expensive? Yes. Prohibitively so? No. We have decided on a once a month 1 or 2 day hangout for the next while and we will revisit if either one of us wants a change. Here are 2 very surprising things I learned: #1 ballet dancers either smoke and drink ENORMOUSLY or not at all. #2 She has had "patrons"(sugar daddys) since she was a teen and and almost every ballet professional she knows has supplemented their income that way because rarely does dance pay well. Eye opening. The lesson: start going to ballet fund raiser events but know you are treading into expensive waters.

Any info on this one. Just started taking to her. Looks like she can host doesn't talk much but wanted to meet first.

Any info appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d140bc39-bfdb-40bf-888a-9d4d23b51eda[/URL]

[QUOTE=Vince2000;7146708]Any info on this one. Just started taking to her. Looks like she can host doesn't talk much but wanted to meet first.

Any info appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d140bc39-bfdb-40bf-888a-9d4d23b51eda[/URL][/QUOTE]Made a post about her a few days back. Definitely is an escort b / c she gives 15/30/60 min prices.

[QUOTE=SkidMarks;7147893]Made a post about her a few days back. Definitely is an escort b / c she gives 15/30/60 min prices.[/QUOTE]How's the experience though? Worth a trip? Chill or rushed? Does she look like her photos or are they ancient pics?

Someone on reddit made a post about how the quality (especially in terms of beauty) of SBs has dramatically gone down; he claimed that the best he see on there now are 7's and I totally agree. I have never had a problem shelling out top dollar for beautiful women with sweet attitude, but I'll be damned paying top dollar for average at best women. Ugly women are now demanding 5 Benjamins and up, LOL.

The link is below:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/1hqemyo/anyone_else_notice_the_look_of_sbs_has_declined/[/URL]

If anyone ends up working something out with this one let me know. I would love to see some sex videos.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97e90528-e251-438d-bb0d-161a85124583[/URL]

[QUOTE=Uncountable;7148276]Someone on reddit made a post about how the quality (especially in terms of beauty) of SBs has dramatically gone down; he claimed that the best he see on there now are 7's and I totally agree. I have never had a problem shelling out top dollar for beautiful women with sweet attitude, but I'll be damned paying top dollar for average at best women. Ugly women are now demanding 5 Benjamins and up, LOL.

The link is below:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/1hqemyo/anyone_else_notice_the_look_of_sbs_has_declined/[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm fortunate as my SB is a solid 9 at $300.00 a pop. Starting our 2nd year together.

[QUOTE=AshWink;7139468]I've seen this SB a few times in the past, always a good time. I reached out again (simple Hi how you doing types message) after like 3-4 months. Interestingly she wants to meet in person for a few minutes. It didn't sound like she wanted a date mert, but wants to meet at a public place, not sure why.

Any suggestions?

TIA.[/QUOTE]Curious to know how it played out.

Hard to believe this isn't just someone trolling for fun. In what world would this person think a man would pay them for any type of arrangement?

[QUOTE=CrimsonMan;7154832]Hard to believe this isn't just someone trolling for fun. In what world would this person think a man would pay them for any type of arrangement?[/QUOTE]Single mom, maybe lonely maybe desperate for $$ probably figures she has nothing to lose.

[QUOTE=SkidMarks;7147893]Made a post about her a few days back. Definitely is an escort b / c she gives 15/30/60 min prices.[/QUOTE]She is legit, used to strip at local club and is definitely dtf. She used to sell videos too and offer 3 somes with a friend, she could host but has to arrange for a sitter bc she has a kid. She's attractive and good in bed, not the best but still a fun time.

So a previous secretary (about 21 years old) of mine and I regularly meet up for drinks. She is single, knows I am married and we had a discussion in the past about her dislike for cheaters because of what her bro in law did to her sister. However, she sometimes discusses her casual dating and her sexual exploits. Not sure if she is giving me hints that I could get some if I play my cards right. Any ideas on how best to prod to see if something more is available without jeopardizing our casual meet ups. Don't want to blatantly tell her what I want, but want to subtly drop hints. Thanks

[QUOTE=HuslIslander;7161154]So a previous secretary (about 21 years old) of mine and I regularly meet up for drinks. She is single, knows I am married and we had a discussion in the past about her dislike for cheaters because of what her bro in law did to her sister. However, she sometimes discusses her casual dating and her sexual exploits. Not sure if she is giving me hints that I could get some if I play my cards right. Any ideas on how best to prod to see if something more is available without jeopardizing our casual meet ups. Don't want to blatantly tell her what I want, but want to subtly drop hints. Thanks[/QUOTE]If you want to stay married it seems like a horrible idea to try and sugar up someone who used to work for you and knows your personal background / contact info.

After taking a long break for being a SD I recently tipped my toes back in and immediately the first person to messaged me was Savannah but I knew her as OhBabySav. Saw that she moved from Richmond to VAbeach but she told me she will drive to see me. Asked her about the menu and ppm and finally came to the same arrangement as before a year back $300. Now, not sure if it's bc she still remembered the fun times we had but she wanted to meet up the next day. She can't host and will come to you or your hotel.

She is definitely my type cute, petite, tattooed, pierced and wild. I was already tipsy from all the football games so you know what that means Horny as can be. We drink some more when she arrives so we can get caught up since we haven't seen each other in a year. I couldn't even finish my sentence when she started to take my pants off to grab jr, here's the catcher she told me she does everything covered but not sure if it was the drinks or if she was as horny as me she started licking and sucking me bare. It's her eyes as she looking up towards me as she was sucking like she was on a mission. I had to pull her off before I bust load in my kitchen yes we haven't even made it upstairs yet. She is petite enough that I picked her up, left my pants in the kitchen floor and took her upstairs for the real fun. She begged me if she could sit on my face, love when they beg.

She is a squirter so if that's not your thing she can control herself but for me please do, boy I felt like she was waterboating so had to stop before I drowned. I did try to sneak in bare but she wasn't having it, put the glove on and after a few positions I had to finish in doggy. She told me no anal, so you know I tried to also sneak a thumb in but she pushed my hand away. She has her rules on does and don't but she did break a rule or two with me so YMMV. I already have a few UTR so I asked if she would love to meet some of my friends and she was games along as they can host.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/30854c0d-9f2c-4b36-9f5d-b06c42c86013[/URL]

Bird out enjoy.

I had messaged her and gotten a lot of interest at first, but she's gone silent. Seemed like a decent prospect, but who knows what games these girls are playing.

[QUOTE=GhillsBasbll5;7153312]If anyone ends up working something out with this one let me know. I would love to see some sex videos.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97e90528-e251-438d-bb0d-161a85124583[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Rvaguy2000;7102085]I met a girl who ended up sucking me off and giving me her clam for free repeatedly. Our meet and greet was a walk in carytown and the only thing I paid for was my time and gas to meet her. They are out there, but just not too many.[/QUOTE]I've been pretty active on Seeking for a good bit. A majority of my arrangements usually transition into non-pay status. My current roommate is one of my former SB's It does happen.

Pics are best case scenario; she is very photogenic but loses something meeting IRL. Half as hot as her photos, quarter as hot as she would need to be to justify the price / attitude. On the other hand, seems perfectly willing to play weekend fuck toy, trophy bride or anything in between for the right sized pile of cash. Very large pile.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f0ea16fafa9315c1[/URL]

[QUOTE=LostCajun00;7168616]I've been pretty active on Seeking for a good bit. A majority of my arrangements usually transition into non-pay status. My current roommate is one of my former SB's It does happen.[/QUOTE]Do you feel like Seeking is the best choice these days? I've signed up for free profiles on a few of the other sites, but haven't pulled the trigger on paid membership for any of them yet. I'm just wanting to make sure there are as many real people as possible.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8987f9c6-ec0e-4142-a12d-c3f651cd7485[/URL]

Has anytime sampled her. Been texting a day and she is directly to meet for FS?

I am curious what is the going price for SB now a days. I met a girl and she wouldn't go below 5 $. It used to be 3 $ last year so not sure if things have changed. Also, please share an arrangement with be best $ to hotness value you have got. I am just curious as to who has gotten the best catch.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/913f9a44-e5d0-4ba1-9c5d-1e1416e6071a[/URL]

Pics are accurate, a lot of drama, but you will have a good time. She's a talker, open minded.

She will be happy with 3 coins. Be respectful. Seniors pm for more details. Contact her through seeking.

Any info available on this one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/63a90bda-7a99-46f5-8a04-f40aa6654758[/URL]

[QUOTE=Eagle7415;7174966][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/913f9a44-e5d0-4ba1-9c5d-1e1416e6071a[/URL]

Pics are accurate, a lot of drama, but you will have a good time. She's a talker, open minded.

She will be happy with 3 coins. Be respectful. Seniors pm for more details. Contact her through seeking.[/QUOTE]She looks like Saraboo22.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3728375-e5f1-4f22-bca2-dd8ddc28afee[/URL]

And if so then I guess you're lucky, Saraboo22 is a widely known time waster and flake.

[QUOTE=Flfcsr;7168804]Do you feel like Seeking is the best choice these days? I've signed up for free profiles on a few of the other sites, but haven't pulled the trigger on paid membership for any of them yet. I'm just wanting to make sure there are as many real people as possible.[/QUOTE]Seeking isn't what it was before Covid but I've haven't been able to find anything better.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;7177490]She looks like Saraboo22.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3728375-e5f1-4f22-bca2-dd8ddc28afee[/URL]

And if so then I guess you're lucky, Saraboo22 is a widely known time waster and flake.[/QUOTE]She is Saraboo, but she is real and will show you a good time! She was a flake she has her stuff together now.