"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

So I have been pretty active in the Parlor seen and pretty much been through everyone that is worth going through. For the same money I am looking for a little more 'fresh' scene so to speak so after reading here I am signed up to SA now. A couple of questions.

1. posting a pic helps or do they still respond without one?

2. any legit Asian spinners on here or is it all Chinese scammers?

3. Any recommendations for light brown skin spinners that are active and under $5 for meetups pm me (any race is cool I just am attracted to Caramel skin so you know the types).

[QUOTE=DreamHound;5476864]So I have been pretty active in the Parlor seen and pretty much been through everyone that is worth going through. For the same money I am looking for a little more 'fresh' scene so to speak so after reading here I am signed up to SA now. A couple of questions.

1. posting a pic helps or do they still respond without one?

2. any legit Asian spinners on here or is it all Chinese scammers?

3. Any recommendations for light brown skin spinners that are active and under $5 for meetups pm me (any race is cool I just am attracted to Caramel skin so you know the types).[/QUOTE]1. You don't have to have a public pic. It's a good idea to have a private pic though and you can give permission for someone to see it. Personally, I don't use my actual pic. I found one on the internet that's close enough that no one will be disappointed when I show up but also means some random SB doesn't have a real pic of me.

2. Use the search function to find what you're looking for. You'll get a feel pretty quick for the ones that are real or not. TGTBT means just that.

3. Same as 2.

I'm curious, how did you use Parlor? I never signed up since they were requiring a real phone number. So I don't really know how it's organized. Is there a section for hookups, etc?

As Austin Powers would say. That's a MAN baby!

[QUOTE=Ngasub20;5476597][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8000341b-dc41-4127-87e6-a56caa18ed30[/URL]

This one reached out and approached me promising the world. I noticed she had a full Bush of armpit and leg hair, and casually inquired about it. She then proceeded to go on a tirade about how mentally and emotionally draining it is for her to shave, and that shaving armpits is a luxury reserved for rich women. After pointing out that a razor costs a buck, I was informed that I'm not good enough for a "real woman". Her pronouns are she / they / he, if you'd like to know.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DreamHound;5476864]So I have been pretty active in the Parlor seen and pretty much been through everyone that is worth going through. For the same money I am looking for a little more 'fresh' scene so to speak so after reading here I am signed up to SA now. A couple of questions.

1. posting a pic helps or do they still respond without one?

2. any legit Asian spinners on here or is it all Chinese scammers?

3. Any recommendations for light brown skin spinners that are active and under $5 for meetups pm me (any race is cool I just am attracted to Caramel skin so you know the types).[/QUOTE]Private photos, I have my profile hidden so it's not searchable. I message them first, & make my private photos available with the message.

My advice is to have 5 to 7 photos of you, not selfies, you can hire someone off the internet for a couple of hundred $$'s to take professional photos of you. Make sure one or 2 of the photos has you in a power suit or dressed up. This is to give the babies an image of you being an are upscale executive "pretty women fantasy". You want to come off more as Don Draper not comic book guy, image is important to a lot of the 20 to early 30's something girls on seeking. Dad bodies are fine with them, I've actually found they are hot for dad bodies, as most girls on seeking like older guys.

Quite a few legit Asian girls on seeking, I have a bit of yellow fever fix I need scratched from time to time. Only bad thing is they do command a bit of a premium usually $300 to $400.

Opening message, I have a standard message I edit & add to based upon their profiles & what they are seeking. Make sure you add something off of their profile & mention it in the message. This will get you a response 50% of the time. In my message I am respectful & polite, I mention when they feel comfortable we should switch to text. Then in a couple of messages mention we should switch to text for privacy as seeking can read the messages. Long term is another thing I always put in there, none of the girls want to be a pump and dump unless they are a pro. When your texting get an idea of what they are looking for in an allowance. Something which works for me is if a girl wants $400 ppm, agree to $400 for the first meet & then $250 going forward. This way if they are a keeper you lock in at a lower price, I've done this over 20 times & it always worked. My current girl I did the first 2 dates at $300 & now its $200 all bareback with CIP.

I always do a meet & greet as lunch at a casual dining place, most girls go for Mexican. This gives them some security & safety. If the date goes well, ask them if they want to start the relationship that day, this works about 50% of the time. I've gotten head in the Lenox mall garage by 3 different girls & brought quite a few back to the crib for a afternoon romp.

[QUOTE=Ngasub20;5476597][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8000341b-dc41-4127-87e6-a56caa18ed30[/URL]

This one reached out and approached me promising the world. I noticed she had a full Bush of armpit and leg hair, and casually inquired about it. She then proceeded to go on a tirade about how mentally and emotionally draining it is for her to shave, and that shaving armpits is a luxury reserved for rich women. After pointing out that a razor costs a buck, I was informed that I'm not good enough for a "real woman". Her pronouns are she / they / he, if you'd like to know.[/QUOTE]Fucking trannies, really wish seeking had a searchable box which we could use to eliminate them.

[QUOTE=SeekingHead;5478018]Fucking trannies, really wish seeking had a searchable box which we could use to eliminate them.[/QUOTE]You can exclude some things in your search. There's a box "Don't show members seeking" and Seeking trans friendly and seeking Transgender are both options. I frequently include platonic and marriage minded in that section as well. I have seen some SBs include Trans friendly and platonic in their profile when it's clear they aren't Trans and are DTF. We're interested in them for reasons other than their logic.

I actually created a service ticket this past month complaining about Trans being included in the Female SB section. They should have their own category. The more people that make the same complaint, the more likely SA will make a change.

Most likely fake, but also really weird. Even after I told her what I'm seeking, FWB, she was talking about wanting a LTR and marriage. I'm pretty sure its just someone fake talking shit. Either way, not for me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/55b6010e-6e5c-4eef-a4c6-970c6efa24dd[/URL]

[QUOTE=SoonerFan72;5479204]Most likely fake, but also really weird. Even after I told her what I'm seeking, FWB, she was talking about wanting a LTR and marriage. I'm pretty sure its just someone fake talking shit. Either way, not for me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/55b6010e-6e5c-4eef-a4c6-970c6efa24dd[/URL][/QUOTE]I messaged with her too. She did seem a little off, but when I told her I just wanted something discreet, she said that wasn't what she was looking for.

[QUOTE=Ngasub20;5476597][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8000341b-dc41-4127-87e6-a56caa18ed30[/URL]

This one reached out and approached me promising the world. I noticed she had a full Bush of armpit and leg hair, and casually inquired about it. She then proceeded to go on a tirade about how mentally and emotionally draining it is for her to shave, and that shaving armpits is a luxury reserved for rich women. After pointing out that a razor costs a buck, I was informed that I'm not good enough for a "real woman". Her pronouns are she / they / he, if you'd like to know.[/QUOTE]Someone else mentioned she was a trannie, but that's not the case. I haven't met her in person, but we have messaged and video chatted and I had a good interaction. I don't have an issue with body hair though. She seems to be into a lot of kinks and BDSM.

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;5479223]Someone else mentioned she was a trannie, but that's not the case. I haven't met her in person, but we have messaged and video chatted and I had a good interaction. I don't have an issue with body hair though. She seems to be into a lot of kinks and BDSM.[/QUOTE]Seriously, what's wrong with some of you on this board? This woman literally has satan in her screen name and she looks like a man. Some of you need to seek help.

This is the quote from her / his profile. I am looking for stability as I "transition" into a new stage in my life.

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;5479223]Someone else mentioned she was a trannie, but that's not the case. I haven't met her in person, but we have messaged and video chatted and I had a good interaction. I don't have an issue with body hair though. She seems to be into a lot of kinks and BDSM.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;5479223]Someone else mentioned she was a trannie, but that's not the case. I haven't met her in person, but we have messaged and video chatted and I had a good interaction. I don't have an issue with body hair though. She seems to be into a lot of kinks and BDSM.[/QUOTE]She's definitely a chick, and used to be really freaking pretty. But, appears she went off to college a few years ago and got indoctrinated with the social justice crowd. Now spends her days railing against capitalism, the rich, the police, and the perpetual victimhood of marginalized people, yada yada yada. It's a phase, she'll grow out of it.

[QUOTE=Ngasub20;5480807]She's definitely a chick, and used to be really freaking pretty. But, appears she went off to college a few years ago and got indoctrinated with the social justice crowd. Now spends her days railing against capitalism, the rich, the police, and the perpetual victimhood of marginalized people, yada yada yada. It's a phase, she'll grow out of it.[/QUOTE]She / He. If someone is not going to TOFTT, let's just move on.

A few people have PMed so I figured what the hell. Here's the link. They now have a joint account, I guess the friend realized she had been fucking for free all this time and liked having some extra cash hahaha. They're always online so chances are they've seen quite a few folks already. I might see the friend one on one before moving on to the next one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e2a5f3fe-4f1a-463b-bf7a-3e7a50d98039[/URL]

[QUOTE=LuvStJohn;5475066]Not sure you want to but thought I'd ask. You willing to share the link? We're good either way.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6d5242f3-6a18-47c3-989c-8090727271ef[/URL]

And I quote. "LOL every guy I've met so far does 300 for a meet and greet. When I've been asked for sex they're throwing like 6-800. I've said no bc I'm not looking for a quick fix".

Rightttttt.