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[QUOTE=ErnestLl;5824819]I've known several undergrads who list Bachelors since that is what they are in school for. "Some college" is often considered "never finished a degree" vs. "in college now".[/QUOTE]I've always interpreted "some college" for a SB under 22 to be "in college". High School diploma or something like that is a choice if I remember correctly. Having said this, I don't remember ever having a conversation with a potential SB about education unless she had a PhD (or said she had a PhD).

I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?

Also on SB.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a0eb5dd3584262ad[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tophat31;5825302][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15a7b94a-6b6a-40f0-8caa-5c8305bb822e[/URL]

This one was slow to develop. Initially talked and didn't respond for awhile. Finally responds that she was suspended from the site but was now back. Interesting.

Anyways she looks good enough, 21 good body but face isn't great. She can only meet Tuesday and Thursday. That's fine. Asks what I had in mind for financial and I asked to take the convo to text. Once in text she said she wanted 500. I said I'm looking for 400 and unprotected. She then says and I quote:

"Unprotected, absolutely not I ain't risking my sexual health, safety, or pregnancy for anything. Plenty of other SDs on the site that aren't that stupid. Goodbye."

I think she meant "are the stupid" but clearly she doesn't know. Maturity and anger issues for sure so be careful. Seems unstable.

Good luck.[/QUOTE]

Well, you are not saying what you expect to pay weekly. But at a minimum you need to see twice a month if not 4 times a month. If you can't afford that, you need to let them know you can only do X amount a month but they could find another SD. Or drop your rotation down to what you can afford. I have 7 SB's but obviously don't see each one every week. Some are fine with once a month but I have been seeing them for over a year so they are comfortable with me.

[QUOTE=Arty33;5826193]I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?[/QUOTE]

It's not affordability that's the main issue, but keeping the interest alive and the level of enjoyment. I need a few days in between these days, and after two back to back weeks I need a week or two in between to see same person again. The break in between keep the flame alive for me, otherwise I just get burnout. So, twice a month is ideal, with one of the them I have the understanding it's an on / off and she's the same. With other 4 I need to establish that I cannot see them weekly. I'd like others who do this also to chime in.

[QUOTE=InSearch69;5826343]Well, you are not saying what you expect to pay weekly. But at a minimum you need to see twice a month if not 4 times a month. If you can't afford that, you need to let them know you can only do X amount a month but they could find another SD. Or drop your rotation down to what you can afford. I have 7 SB's but obviously don't see each one every week. Some are fine with once a month but I have been seeing them for over a year so they are comfortable with me.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TomFordModel;5824463]This one is on SA. Here's her face pic. Damn, women really drop off hard after 25. That youth glow is gone.[/QUOTE]Talked to her. She wanted like seven or eight per meet. Ummm no.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;5826630]Talked to her. She wanted like seven or eight per meet. Ummm no.[/QUOTE]Fuck for an old crusty! Nah! LOL.

This one is also on SA. Looks hot as fuck.

[QUOTE=InSearch69;5826343]Well, you are not saying what you expect to pay weekly. But at a minimum you need to see twice a month if not 4 times a month. If you can't afford that, you need to let them know you can only do X amount a month but they could find another SD. Or drop your rotation down to what you can afford. I have 7 SB's but obviously don't see each one every week. Some are fine with once a month but I have been seeing them for over a year so they are comfortable with me.[/QUOTE]I have a reg girl (not a SB) that I'm seeing which we only meet on weekends. Got 3 SB in my rotation now which I meet on weekdays bi-weekly. Dropped my 4th as I wanted to sprinkle in 1-2 new face per week. Pretty much see 2-3 SB on weekdays and chill with the reg girl 1-2 days on weekends. Full time job in it self.

I'm not saying the girl you connected with wasn't real. I'm sure she was, and why would you lie?

I'm just saying that in general if you put in some random middle of nowhere location on the site there will be lots of matches. I tried it with a very remote town I am familiar with. SB has like 20 matches. SA only had 3. It makes sense, because my experience is that it is a lot harder to find real people on SB than SA. Too bad, SA needs some competition.

[QUOTE=Itfcd;5825989]Phone number area code was local, though, so believe what you want.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tophat31;5825302][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15a7b94a-6b6a-40f0-8caa-5c8305bb822e[/URL]

This one was slow to develop. Initially talked and didn't respond for awhile. Finally responds that she was suspended from the site but was now back. Interesting.

Anyways she looks good enough, 21 good body but face isn't great. She can only meet Tuesday and Thursday. That's fine. Asks what I had in mind for financial and I asked to take the convo to text. Once in text she said she wanted 500. I said I'm looking for 400 and unprotected. She then says and I quote:

"Unprotected, absolutely not I ain't risking my sexual health, safety, or pregnancy for anything. Plenty of other SDs on the site that aren't that stupid. Goodbye."

I think she meant "are the stupid" but clearly she doesn't know. Maturity and anger issues for sure so be careful. Seems unstable..[/QUOTE]Nah, she's correct on it. She is saying that there are plenty of other daddies on the site that aren't that stupid, I. E. Don't ask for unprotected sex. She actually seems to be very stable in her viewpoint but she could have handled it a lot better and not added in the snide remark at the end.

[QUOTE=Arty33;5826193]I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?[/QUOTE]Even with 5, that's 3 on the 1st and 3rd week of the month, 2 on the 2nd and 4th week. 3 girls a week seems plenty doable? Pun intended.

[QUOTE=SRH59;5826205]Also on SB.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a0eb5dd3584262ad[/URL][/QUOTE]She's out on Gainesville. Definitely dtf but not enough for 300. That's the most I'd pay for her butter ass.

I was in the same boat 2 months ago. Same number of SBs, age range, and all very attractive and cool women (each took some time investment with texting and platonic M&G's to get to an arrangement). I was averaging 2-3 dates a week to keep up with them. Also doing occasional gifts on top of allowance. It was too much. On my schedule and wallet. I ended one. One faded on me when I stopped suggesting dates to meet and just chatted about BS. Down to 2 regular with one occasional. Much more manageable. And I have some much needed time back for other things.

I wasn't trying to have several SBs. It just worked out that way when you reach out to several, expecting a high flake rate. Even the ones that faded I suspect I could probably get going again, so kind of glad they cooled on me. What I do know is that in the span of a few weeks, a robust rotation can thin out on its own, and then come roaring back. I don't ask my SBs if they have other SDs but assume they do. Even when they act like or say they don't. So the really good ones have the same problem when they have too many of us in their rotation.

[QUOTE=Arty33;5826193]I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Arty33;5826193]I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?[/QUOTE]I always meet with the pretense that we will meet a few times a month but I know that is not going to be the case. It's really just about doing one or two successful meets then even if you "can't" meetup they are unlikely to say no when you want to even if it is one every few months.

Also SBs come and go. One moved away but when she visits she always hits me up to meet which is nice. My little 20 year old Asian spinner was gone for about 5 months bc she got a boyfriend but surprise they broke up and I fucked her a few days ago for about 2 hours. I signed up again and I have no new successful meets. My rotation from over the years and the contacts I already have gets me by. I'm sure others have similar experiences.

Seeking doesn't appear to be what it used to be. But maybe it's just a dry spell.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6a74499-12aa-4a03-8320-da49998a753d[/URL]

Met up with Baby99_ for a dinner M&G, then a couple weeks later for intimacy. She's real, very beautiful except her boobs are a little saggy. In the bedroom she asked me if I had a condom, and I said no. She started getting cold feet, but we were already in bed at that point and I told her I had clean tests I could show her, which caused her to relent. Had a great time in bed and gave her the agreed amount of 500. She's very submissive.

A week later, I'm asking when she wants to meet up again and she tells me she's not happy with what she got. She says she assumed I'd double it for bare sex, but she didn't ask in person because she was caught up in the moment. I told her I can't do double, is she cool with either:

1. 500 for sex with a condom.

2. 1000 for 2 nights and a day, meet Friday evening through Saturday, part ways Sunday morning.

She says yes to both, so I say let's do #2 and I'll let her know when I'm free. Then she asks if I can send her the other 500 for our previous bare date, so she wouldn't feel upset. I tell her I can't pay for things in the past. She immediately tells me thanks, best of luck. I tell her if she really wants it, I can give 1500 next time we do the weekend date, which she says she's happy with.

Then she asks if I meant that she'd have to stay overnight Friday and Saturday night, which I said yes to. She says she can't spend that much time, so it wouldn't work. Now I'm pretty fed up, and tell her okay, we can do 1000 for 4 hours in a hotel room. Still a great hourly rate for bare with someone with her looks compared to agencies. She said that's fine, but she'd really like me to "fix" what happened with the last date so she's not upset. Pretty sure she's scamming at this point, hoping to get more money before ghosting. Told her I can't send money unless I see her again, and she responds that she can't see me until I send more money, so I tell her good luck.

Just a heads up for anyone talking to her.