Surely some one's seen her?
She's been around for at least the past year and a half, and over on STG, she advertises as:
- Olivia.
- Mandy.
- Jenny.
- Montana.
The name (s) used seem to depend on the service (s) advertised, as best as I can figure. Has anyone actually seen her? PM me if you've got any info.
I got sucked in to one of her management ads for another girl (who was advertising as 24, but was likely double that) but actually wasn't that bad. I've gotten curious as to some of the stuff she seems to offer.
A little more on the FB suggestion (s)
It seems it may get overlooked, but privately talk (here) to other guys that share the same tastes (girls, menu, etc) to share the right info. I was set on the right path on FB thanks to a guy here that I'd been talking to & built up a trust after finding out we'd see the same handful of girls and shared info. After he helped me get my FB profile going, I connected to girls I'd seen, and through looking at friend lists, girls I wanted to see. After enough people were convinced I was real I started getting invited to the right groups.
But the key has always been looking at how profiles are connected.
And scanning jailview for name suggestions (and how profiles are connected) doesn't hurt either.
Msg Limit + some more FB tips
Gareth. Holler when you've cleared up some message space.
And here are some other FB tidbits:
While my FB profile has the same name, very few guys I know use their name. Most of the profiles that get reported for proof of identity are girls (with other girls reporting them, thinning out the competition).
Some groups are hobbyists + providers, with an ever evolving lingo for advertising that tries to get by automated flagging by FB. 90% of these groups turn into meme-sharing posts that aren't worth wasting time on. Eventually someone will post something that gets flagged and FB will take down the group, and the same people will go start a new one. There's also men-only groups were a little more detail is shared, which always has some guy blab back to whatever girl is being talked about negatively.
You may need to bite the bullet and see someone who advertises (STG, here, whatever) that you know has a FB account just to set up initial links with a profile. I've seen girls I really didn't care to just because I knew they would give me references when asked.
To bail or not to bail. That is the question.
So who's all bailed on a meeting and why? Where are some lines drawn that make you say "Nope, I'm out. ".
It's been twice for me. One was at one of the roach motels on the parkway. It started ok. Showered with her and things seemed to be looking good. Then she grabbed her phone and actually asked if I minded if she called her dealer to score. Sorry. Out. She advertised on BP and haven't seen her around lately. Can't even remember the name.
The second was just recently. Thought I was going to meet a hot UTR from FB. She was asking for a fairly big donation but by the looks of her profile pic I thought maybe worth it. Well, pics can be deceiving. Also met at a very shitty apartment building that smelled strongly of human piss in the entryway. The apartment was filthy, there was some sick old lady in the only bed in the place, the other room she brought me to had a small couch with an even filthier blanket on it. She asked if I was PoPo like 4 times and when she asked for the donation up front that was the last straw.
So where do you draw the line and tap out?
To satisfy your curiosity.
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I've thought about what it must be like when providers I've seen mentioned boyfriends. Many questions that I never bothered asking. I'm curious about relationship dynamics and whether or not it would be considered an "open" relationship. Is it only ok to get down with someone else if you're getting paid? Would it ever be considered a "committed" relationship? Are the guys just happy to get freebies from a chick that other guys have to give gifts to? If he got with another chick, would she be mad about it? If he got with another provider would she be offended? Do guys ask them to stop and find a legit job?
Like I said. Too many questions and the answers will all be different depending on the situation.[/QUOTE]I can only answer for myself and my circumstances but here ya go.
Open relationship?
No at least not in the usual sense. There isn't some preconceived notion that its ok to have intimate / romantic encounters with whomever you please and it be an acceptable affair. However I just happen to have a partner with a very openminded outlook who at the same time remains respectful of me and my boundries. This career choice was made in light of the relationship I have not in spite of it.
Is it only ok when there is payment?
No, other examples of times its ok is if its requested by your partner or something your partner and you choose to participate in together in a situation where there is no pressure or self-serving intent.
Committed relationship?
Absolutely. 100% for the past 8 years. There are many factors that make up a relationship. Sex is not a relationship though a relationship will almost always include sex. There are deeper aspects and an overall connection that binds two individuals together in a committed relationship.
Are guys gloating on their "all access pass" vs. "general admission"?
Ummm. This is a rather disturbing thought. What kind of ignorant fool would think that this would be a worthy enough reason to pursue a relationship with someone. I can only assume that this type of immature behavoir would only come from someone trying to overcompensate due to low self esteem. Thinking it would earn you "bragging rights" or make you look "cool" just screams "uneducated thug. " I mean say I came across a Crocodile Hermes Birkin, just by chance. Does that make me feel superior to someone who took their hard earned cash and purchased one? HELL NO. I'm the motherfucker who just got lucky and that's the mf who can afford to drop 25 k on a handbag and enjoy the finer things in life because they got their shit together. If I ever came accross a man with this type of mentality. I can guarantee that hed not be included in this picture, inciting any curiosities about relationship dynamics. For my more direct answer: doubtful seeing as he has said "I know who your coming home to. It just wouldn't seem right to keep your talents all to myself. I think its something other people should get to experience at least once" plus its not really applicable since we were already 6 years into our relationship when I made this career choice.
Him with another chick=anger?
You bet your ass I would be pissed that's called infidelity without without precedented exceptions. I came into the relationship with my unique interests / fetishes / perceptions and he came into the relationship with his. That does not mean that just because something excites me it has to excite him and vice versa. Nor does it mean that just because I might feel comfortable giving him something that he desires that suddenly I'd be turned on if he were to want the same thing. When its becomes his turn it would not be a case of swapping the roles of his vision, it would be a case of him catering to a fantasy of mine. Given that there have never been any misconceptions about how although I want to appeal to his desires, if the shoe was on the other foot, I would not find the situation pleasurable then should be no expectations or assumptions stating otherwise. An exception would be if I were to invite another female to enjoy him with or without me.
Offended by another provider?
😆 let me find out the man I'm in a committed relationship with pays another provider to take care of his needs. First off he never has any needs left. I chose sexwork because I thoroughly enjoy what it entails so why would I not present that same eager enthusiasm at home within my relationship. ? Trust me I'm the one that's insatiable when it comes to bedroom endeavors not him. Now the thought has been tossed around that we might hire a provider together to avoid the hassle of picking up a chick who doesn't have ulterior motives and we can send packing when the fun is over.
Stop and find a legit job?
No. I always had a "legit job" prior to this and I am quite capable and qualified to find another. He's aware of this and frankly could care less what I do as long as it isn't making me miserable or affecting our relationship. He has made it clear that if I'm at any time not happy with what I'm doing that he wouldn't want me to continue. He respects me the same whether I'm entertaining or holding a corporate position somewhere.
But as you said there'd be a different answer every time.
Facebook Etiquette Question
I'm thinking of reaching out to a couple of ladies via Facebook. What is the proper etiquette with which to approach this? Obviously you make sure that your info is protected, and you make sure that you are contacting the right person. Do you reach out by Messenger? Do you "friend" them? Please & Thanks!
