Wow. That gap!
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3267070]So the nurse ditched me tonite and I had to go with my backup plan. The local freshman.
She is 18 - 5. 7 - 125. Hard body and a chill nice girl.[/QUOTE]
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Wow. That gap!
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3267070]So the nurse ditched me tonite and I had to go with my backup plan. The local freshman.
She is 18 - 5. 7 - 125. Hard body and a chill nice girl.[/QUOTE]
ME.
Is all about the money?
HER.
No, it's more about the connection. The main reason that there's the financial is because I have to help pay for college.
My last daddy gave me an allowance of $750 per meet (and I've been offered more) and he was an attractive, young guy that (as I said before) I fell in love with. As much as I wish money didn't matter, my education is what matters the most right now. I appreciate your offer, though, and I wish you the best of luck. (I offered her a $).
$750 per meet?. This girl is at best a 7 in my book. I will keep her identity anonymous. She is a 20 year old, not in perfect shape, slightly above average looking mixed latina. I would happily do her for $ out of boredom. But this is the shit we are up against sometimes and worse. My advice, get them when they are new and unspoiled.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3269291]ME.
Is all about the money?
HER.
No, it's more about the connection. The main reason that there's the financial is because I have to help pay for college.
My last daddy gave me an allowance of $750 per meet (and I've been offered more) and he was an attractive, young guy that (as I said before) I fell in love with. As much as I wish money didn't matter, my education is what matters the most right now. I appreciate your offer, though, and I wish you the best of luck. (I offered her a $).
$750 per meet?. This girl is at best a 7 in my book. I will keep her identity anonymous. She is a 20 year old, not in perfect shape, slightly above average looking mixed latina. I would happily do her for $ out of boredom. But this is the shit we are up against sometimes and worse. My advice, get them when they are new and unspoiled.[/QUOTE]$750 per meet?? Foh LOL these hoes crazy.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3269291]ME.
$750 per meet?. This girl is at best a 7 in my book. I will keep her identity anonymous. She is a 20 year old, not in perfect shape, slightly above average looking mixed latina. I would happily do her for $ out of boredom. But this is the shit we are up against sometimes and worse. My advice, get them when they are new and unspoiled.[/QUOTE]I have seen the same thing. However, I think sometimes it is less GPS than the girl not wanting to be cruel and say "I'd *never* f at &k someone as old as you!" LOL I have tested it by occasionally saying "Yes, if we click. Let's try meeting first. " Of course, they never meet. I don't take it personally; there are a LOT more of them than there are of me and I prefer to avoid anyone who is not going to have fun with me. JMHO.
BAM.
[QUOTE=BamBam;3269817]I have seen the same thing. However, I think sometimes it is less GPS than the girl not wanting to be cruel and say "I'd *never* f at &k someone as old as you!" LOL I have tested it by occasionally saying "Yes, if we click. Let's try meeting first. " Of course, they never meet. I don't take it personally; there are a LOT more of them than there are of me and I prefer to avoid anyone who is not going to have fun with me. JMHO.
BAM.[/QUOTE]Age is rarely a factor. A friend of mine who is also an SB (but not my type)... never ever ever takes less than 5 bills a date. And she very plain jane. Some girls just know how to market themselves and hit their target audience.
This is tonites date. 21 - 5.7 - 118 - beautiful as well - now if this girl was asking $$ or $$$ i wouldn't be shocked, but she isn't.
[QUOTE=ChickenHawk88;3252758]Would help with link or pic 🤔.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4417cc7c-5623-261c-eaeb-3e87c0de14b4[/URL]
When they say.
I don't want this to feel transactional.
I just need help with my tuition.
My last sugar daddy.....
My girlfriend met her sugar daddy here and.....
I am not a prostitute or an escort.
They give you their number before you ask for it. Usually within a couple of exchanges or less.
They favorite you
All their pics are modeling pics. All of them.
Lists of 5 star restaurants in their profile.
If the About Me section is more than 5 paragraphs.
If the What I'm Looking for section is more than 3 paragraphs.
If they use the word Queen or King in their bio.
Thier profile is more than a year old (maybe even 6 months old).
They have blond hair and blue eyes. LOL.
And my all time favorite.
"I'm looking for a real sugar daddy".
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3270405]And my all time favorite.
"I'm looking for a real sugar daddy".[/QUOTE]Yeah, I've heard variations on this one as well. I've certainly run into a few who claim (and may even believe) that there is that pot o' gold at the end of the rainbow on SA. They say stuff like 'money shouldn't be a problem but it always seems to be w / men on this site' or 'I can't find a man on SA to make a connection with' but further probing reveals the main connection they are seeking is ridiculous amounts of $. Admitting some aren't the brightest bulbs, you can understand it. And you can't help people from their own ignorance, a motto that applies way wider than SA.
I am very content right now with two buxom African American girls 20, and 22. They are incredible passionate, orgasmic, and opened minded. But we know this game, there are always more out there. I have a question. For the girls who post, No sex or no sex until I get to know you, has anyone every got these girls to FC in a reasonable time? I wouldn't mind a few makeout sessions but I am spoiled and have little patience. Also would love to bang a white girl or an Asian. Can they be had for $$? I have been enjoying free fun except for dinners, hotels and the like, so I am spoiled. Thanks for any insights.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3270601]I am very content right now with two buxom African American girls 20, and 22. They are incredible passionate, orgasmic, and opened minded. But we know this game, there are always more out there. I have a question. For the girls who post, No sex or no sex until I get to know you, has anyone every got these girls to FC in a reasonable time? I wouldn't mind a few makeout sessions but I am spoiled and have little patience. Also would love to bang a white girl or an Asian. Can they be had for $$? I have been enjoying free fun except for dinners, hotels and the like, so I am spoiled. Thanks for any insights.[/QUOTE]The model from tonite was a bit standofish. I did get a topless makeout session with a HJ. But she wasn't down for more than that. I was the first guy she met off the site and maybe she would be willing to go for it on a second date. She smelled and looked devine. Really fresh for 21. It sounds cruel but even at that age they can be pretty used up. But she was a real NP first timer. No tats, very smart, working, has her own place but I took her to mine.
Would I be willing to go to a third date to get the goodies. IDK.. I dont think so. I will ask her in a few days and see what she thinks. Tomorrow is vday. So its my x's day to come and stay over. I still have two more interviews to do this week. So I guess I am on a tiny roll. I just need one or two really down for anything regulars right now. New girls. The last awesome girl I met was months ago and I can't pry her away from her BF to save my life. I offered her once a month, just to keep the ball rolling. Hope she takes it. Pictured below. 19 and omg sexy. Our chemistry was off the charts. I actually begged her to see me again.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3270639]The model from tonite was a bit standofish. I did get a topless makeout session with a HJ. But she wasn't down for more than that. I was the first guy she met off the site and maybe she would be willing to go for it on a second date. She smelled and looked devine. Really fresh for 21. It sounds cruel but even at that age they can be pretty used up. But she was a real NP first timer. No tats, very smart, working, has her own place but I took her to mine.
Would I be willing to go to a third date to get the goodies. IDK.. I dont think so. I will ask her in a few days and see what she thinks. Tomorrow is vday. So its my x's day to come and stay over. I still have two more interviews to do this week. So I guess I am on a tiny roll. I just need one or two really down for anything regulars right now. New girls. The last awesome girl I met was months ago and I can't pry her away from her BF to save my life. I offered her once a month, just to keep the ball rolling. Hope she takes it. Pictured below. 19 and omg sexy. Our chemistry was off the charts. I actually begged her to see me again.[/QUOTE]Like a sexy Rhianna thang EY HG?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3d08f8d3-257e-45aa-b2a6-4b072f41109d[/URL]
I see what your motives are I'm looking for more of a discrete meet up once or twice a week for at least 45 min to an hour of fun, where we arrange an allowance and I say goodbye until next time. It would be like a fwb SD / SB Relationship? I'm usually looking for 650-700 when we meet. Would you be up for that?
These girls have balls.
She claims that she is still a Virgin. Perhaps she is thinking that should fetch her premium dollar. LOL.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3271976][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3d08f8d3-257e-45aa-b2a6-4b072f41109d[/URL]
I see what your motives are I'm looking for more of a discrete meet up once or twice a week for at least 45 min to an hour of fun, where we arrange an allowance and I say goodbye until next time. It would be like a fwb SD / SB Relationship? I'm usually looking for 650-700 when we meet. Would you be up for that?
These girls have balls.[/QUOTE]
Her lifestyle expectation is blank? I haven't seen this being blank before.
[QUOTE=SA2222;3270205][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4417cc7c-5623-261c-eaeb-3e87c0de14b4[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Lebruno;3272023]She claims that she is still a Virgin. Perhaps she is thinking that should fetch her premium dollar. LOL.[/QUOTE]She is no virgin. LOL. And you can leave any field blank in your profile. On an 18,19 or 20 year olds profile you can pretty much disregard almost anything it says in terms of expectations. You have to read between the lines. Sometimes there is something there and sometimes there isn't. Prospecting on SA is a fishing expedition. Sometimes my bait works and most often it doesnt. But I am sticking to budget for the foreseeable future.
Today I have four solid POTS to interview (all on board for a $). But I feel kinda down because the only great sex I get is from my ATF. She is a great gal, but I have been seeing her for like 2.5 years. The no or low sugar is great also, but without that I don't think I would even see her. I need to make a real connection with someone. My x stayed over last night, but thats far from what it used to be with her. The whole process of finding someone new and awesome is tiring for me these days. I know it can change on a dime, but for now, I am feeling sort of alone.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3272654]Today I have four solid POTS to interview (all on board for a $). But I feel kinda down because the only great sex I get is from my ATF. She is a great gal, but I have been seeing her for like 2.5 years. The no or low sugar is great also, but without that I don't think I would even see her. I need to make a real connection with someone. My x stayed over last night, but thats far from what it used to be with her. The whole process of finding someone new and awesome is tiring for me these days. I know it can change on a dime, but for now, I am feeling sort of alone.[/QUOTE]HG, we didn't know you had a philosophical bone in your body. Yeah, the bowl is great until it isn't. I had a day earlier this week I was supposed to do 2 M&Gs and maybe even 1 FC, but a last-minute cancel put me into a funk and all I really wanted to do was go home and watch the dog show. LOL. Luckily that mood was gone by morning and I have FC w / a *hot* 19 YO personal trainer tomorrow.
The perfect example of why its important to get there first.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f05edf96-65df-455f-9494-12b085c551c0[/URL]
I had a sugar daddy who gave me 100 per meeting and that is chump change money to me now. I am looking for regular meetings with only one person but I haven't found that one person yet which is why I'm still on here.
1. Find out what she is really looking for and what her expectations are in a general way. (I don't care what it says in her profile, if she is new, she probably doesn't have a clue).
2. Find out if she is looking for an ATM. (let her know you are not an ATM, but you do provide monetarily and otherwise).
3. Let her know what your budget is for a "date". (Do not specify what constitutes a date).
4. Ask her to email or txt you so you can send her a legit pic of yourself. (never ask to see a girls pics unless you are only working with a headshot).
5. Once she has txted or emailed you... reply and explain what is expected of her to go on a paid date. Give her the option to go on an unpaid date as well.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3274214]1. Find out what she is really looking for and what her expectations are in a general way. (I don't care what it says in her profile, if she is new, she probably doesn't have a clue).
2. Find out if she is looking for an ATM. (let her know you are not an ATM, but you do provide monetarily and otherwise).
3. Let her know what your budget is for a "date". (Do not specify what constitutes a date).
4. Ask her to email or txt you so you can send her a legit pic of yourself. (never ask to see a girls pics unless you are only working with a headshot).
5. Once she has txted or emailed you... reply and explain what is expected of her to go on a paid date. Give her the option to go on an unpaid date as well.[/QUOTE]Thanks HG. I was looking for this. Should somehow make it a sticky so easier for new guys.
Hit the trifecta. A girl 1/3 my age, and this one's a spinner. Stripper body, perky boobs, fine ass, 19 YO personal trainer. Her nipples and belly button are pierced and she has a big tattoo. She's kindof skittish, perhaps a newbie, so I agreed before-hand only to mutual oral, but as HG always says, be prepared. I was. I had her blow me and she's real vigorous so I've got to slow her down. Some of these young ones think they know how to give head if they can DT, and she did that a bit, but she was just OK overall. I'm sucking her tits, which are *fine, but I'd probably prefer no piercing. I ask her to lick my balls, she does and she's OK, but nothing special. I go back to eating and fingering her and that seemed to be her highlight. Very very wet, lots of vocals. I ask if she wants to fuck and she's all in. I started her mish and got her ankles up on my shoulders. She's wet, her pussy is very hot. I flip her, and that's a great view of her perky little tits. She asks for doggie, which isn't my fave. We compromise. Spooning her from behind. I wrap her in a couple of pillows so I can grab her tightly w / my arms as I'm plunging her. The damage was 300.
[QUOTE=ChickenHawk88;3274241]Thanks HG. I was looking for this. Should somehow make it a sticky so easier for new guys.[/QUOTE]And if that doesn't work just offer $$$ per date.
UPDATE: No offence to anyone, as I just read the post below. But truthfully a 9 or a 10 is gonna cost you in most cases.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3274314]And if that doesn't work just offer $$$ per date.
UPDATE: No offence to anyone, as I just read the post below. But truthfully a 9 or a 10 is gonna cost you in most cases.[/QUOTE]Hey, man, if you are referring to me, I didn't take offense. I know you, you're not ranking on us most of the time, and you've helped us all tremendously. That girl was about an 8 face, definitely a 10 body, and perhaps an 8 on skills. If you've read my posts, you also know I'm not a budget buyer.
A while back I posted about a certified Russian fashion model I M&Ged. Anyone can easily find her on the SoCal SA site. You'll know. She was very stunning but kinda cold, though she did have a nice apartment. I offered her 800 and she said no, 1000 was her minimum. Well, today I get 'hi, how are you doing?' from her, along w / a hot lingerie photo. I guess she has gotten lonely at those prices. HG always says you can have anyone on SA for 500. I'm not sure she would come down to that, but if I took her to a nice dinner, who knows what would happen. I still have far more POTs from a month on SA than I have time to pursue (given I have to keep off the SO radar).
Was it a full moon tonite. I don't think so, but the girls were online in full force. I managed to make offers to like half a dozen and even broke down and offered one $$. She is my version of a dime and I haven't treated myself in so long. She is a smoking hot fem lesbian. Mixed black and latina. I may only do her once. But I need some super sweet pussy to suck on since I lost my UTR. She was the best I have had maybe ever. Too bad her personality outside the FC was so rancid. I had to block her on my cel. The model from a couple days ago said she was down for anything if I was willing to pay more. I may also do a one off with her just to get a taste.
The rest were your typical $ girls. Young, curious and fresh, but not dimes.
Well this weather is really an FC killer. Can't drive in it. Maybe I can get one of them to drive here tonite. Got an M&G tomorrow for sure.
My SA lunch date and I went back and forth. She wanted more than $$ for "a couple hours of quality time. " But she would not name her price.
She was wearing loose clothing. So I suspected she was flabby.
I will let her stew over her missed opportunities while I spend my time and money on young and nubile Tijuana girls with straight forward deals.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3274846]Was it a full moon tonite. I don't think so, but the girls were online in full force. I managed to make offers to like half a dozen and even broke down and offered one $$. She is my version of a dime and I haven't treated myself in so long. She is a smoking hot fem lesbian. Mixed black and latina. I may only do her once. But I need some super sweet pussy to suck on since I lost my UTR. She was the best I have had maybe ever. Too bad her personality outside the FC was so rancid. I had to block her on my cel. The model from a couple days ago said she was down for anything if I was willing to pay more. I may also do a one off with her just to get a taste.
The rest were your typical $ girls. Young, curious and fresh, but not dimes.[/QUOTE]
What annoys me most of all is the 18-20's on the site who state strictly platonic. Like they have anything to offer me of their years of wisdom or their companionship that I can't get from a peer of any gender. I of course just move on, but I resent even the micro seconds they have wasted my time with the delusion! LOL.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3276366]What annoys me most of all is the 18-20's on the site who state strictly platonic. Like they have anything to offer me of their years of wisdom or their companionship that I can't get from a peer of any gender. I of course just move on, but I resent even the micro seconds they have wasted my time with the delusion! LOL.[/QUOTE]One little point. Having read these SD threads for many months, I recall some people taking a flyer approaching girls who state that. And when they did so respectfully and with some wit and humor, the girls eventually admitted that they put that on their profiles to deter the boorish mongers who treat them like hookers. There were also examples where a POT admitted she knew how sugar worked and they were not opposed to eventually going to the FC, just that they were looking for a real arrangement. So, if you're a P4 P guy, sure, skip those. If you are in the market for an ongoing girl, I wouldn't let that deter me. Likewise, their $ expectations. Its true, they are often clueless when they are so young. That can be good and bad.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3270216]When they say.
I don't want this to feel transactional.
I just need help with my tuition.
My last sugar daddy.....
My girlfriend met her sugar daddy here and.....
I am not a prostitute or an escort.
They give you their number before you ask for it. Usually within a couple of exchanges or less.
They favorite you
All their pics are modeling pics. All of them.
Lists of 5 star restaurants in their profile.
If the About Me section is more than 5 paragraphs.
If the What I'm Looking for section is more than 3 paragraphs.
If they use the word Queen or King in their bio.
Thier profile is more than a year old (maybe even 6 months old).
They have blond hair and blue eyes. LOL.[/QUOTE]The word "Princess" ANYWHERE in their profile.
The phrase "spoil me" ANYWHERE in their profile.
I've also noticed an increase in these platonic profiles and am also irritated. I have spent some time in polite conversation getting to know a couple of these girls in the last week, and found they really do want platonic. One of them talked a poor sucker to a $1. 5 dinner date but he was so wierd and demanding, she didn't see him again. I think Tumblir and Instagram blogs are giving these girls false impressions of what it takes. My opinion is that it is not the worth the time talking to them or going to a meet and greet with these girls and hope you can change their mind. A good arrangement needs someone sexually adventurous and the chances are not high with someone who writes platonic. Just next them and move on. Plenty of fish in the bowl.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3276483]One little point. Having read these SD threads for many months, I recall some people taking a flyer approaching girls who state that. And when they did so respectfully and with some wit and humor, the girls eventually admitted that they put that on their profiles to deter the boorish mongers who treat them like hookers. There were also examples where a POT admitted she knew how sugar worked and they were not opposed to eventually going to the FC, just that they were looking for a real arrangement. So, if you're a P4 P guy, sure, skip those. If you are in the market for an ongoing girl, I wouldn't let that deter me. Likewise, their $ expectations. Its true, they are often clueless when they are so young. That can be good and bad.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Raslan;3276501]The word "Princess" ANYWHERE in their profile.
The phrase "spoil me" ANYWHERE in their profile.[/QUOTE]I actually like princess. This is one of those words where you need to read between the lines. In my intro letter I actually ask them if they are a princess (because that is what I am looking for). A certain type of princess. Because the word princess has many connotations... and some of them are very condusive to submissive behavior and wanting a "Daddy". Just my 2 cents.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3276483]One little point. Having read these SD threads for many months, I recall some people taking a flyer approaching girls who state that. And when they did so respectfully and with some wit and humor, the girls eventually admitted that they put that on their profiles to deter the boorish mongers who treat them like hookers. There were also examples where a POT admitted she knew how sugar worked and they were not opposed to eventually going to the FC, just that they were looking for a real arrangement. So, if you're a P4 P guy, sure, skip those. If you are in the market for an ongoing girl, I wouldn't let that deter me. Likewise, their $ expectations. Its true, they are often clueless when they are so young. That can be good and bad.[/QUOTE]I always tell them I am fine with platonic. I just don't pay for it. LOL.
[QUOTE=SupDaddy;3276657]I've also noticed an increase in these platonic profiles and am also irritated. I have spent some time in polite conversation getting to know a couple of these girls in the last week, and found they really do want platonic. One of them talked a poor sucker to a $1. 5 dinner date but he was so wierd and demanding, she didn't see him again. I think Tumblir and Instagram blogs are giving these girls false impressions of what it takes. My opinion is that it is not the worth the time talking to them or going to a meet and greet with these girls and hope you can change their mind. A good arrangement needs someone sexually adventurous and the chances are not high with someone who writes platonic. Just next them and move on. Plenty of fish in the bowl.[/QUOTE]Why even bother with those profiles. Just go straight to the ones that want to get busy. When shopping for a new car do you get irritated if you don't like the options, the color, or the price? Or do you just keep shopping?
I just get sad when i see a 10 in my demographic, that knows she is a ten and I will never get her for a $, most likely not even $$. But irritated? Never. I am grateful that I have some good enough girl next door types that are 18-20 that want to spend time with someone the age of their grandpa. lol
But lately I have been longing for some 30+ minute oral so I found a latina BBW total sub (with a car) that only wants to please her daddy. I had an amazing one a couple of years ago that was good for 60+ minutes. I should have never let her go.
So far this year I have interviewed five new girls. Only one has made it past the first date. And she isn't all that, but we have a bit of a friendship going that may lead to something else. I know if I keep going, eventually I will find the next keeper, but it hasn't happened yet. And I ditched all my old girls except my ATF and one of my X's (both sugar free) thats more of a friendship relationship as well, so its like I am starting from scratch. I am saving a lot of money, but spending a lot of time alone. My goal is to get rich at work this year so that next year I can offer $$ and get some better quality girls. But until then I will keep on keepin on. Todays date is txting me now, another GND type, mixed, 20, and eager.
Just finished my date with the skater GND. She was 19 (just turned 19) and was way cuter than her pics with a tiny sexy body. We didn't get past the HJ, but she said she wanted to see me again and she acknowledged that she would have to step up her game to do that. She actually was a very cool girl from a middle class / working class family that still lives at home. Really cute. Not totally what I am looking for but maybe the best new girl I have met this year. I am supposed to see the $$ hottie tomorrow. Not sure I am really up for it physically. Because that isn't a HJ date. LOL. Not for $$ no way. So I may have to take a day of rest. I know she will be pissed if I cancel because she has been txting me repeatedly. And my date with the sub girl is supposed to be on Tuesday.
I suppose these are quality problems most guys dont have to think about. But we are not most guys.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3277133]Just finished my date with the skater GND. She was 19 (just turned 19) and was way cuter than her pics with a tiny sexy body. We didn't get past the HJ, but she said she wanted to see me again and she acknowledged that she would have to step up her game to do that. She actually was a very cool girl from a middle class / working class family that still lives at home. Really cute. Not totally what I am looking for but maybe the best new girl I have met this year. I am supposed to see the $$ hottie tomorrow. Not sure I am really up for it physically. Because that isn't a HJ date. LOL. Not for $$ no way. So I may have to take a day of rest. I know she will be pissed if I cancel because she has been txting me repeatedly. And my date with the sub girl is supposed to be on Tuesday.
I suppose these are quality problems most guys dont have to think about. But we are not most guys.[/QUOTE]Isn't that a quantity problem? LOL.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3277156]Isn't that a quantity problem? LOL.[/QUOTE]When you seriously work SA, quantity is always going to be a problem. I am reasonably sure anyone with the time and money and physical ability, could easily have one new girl a day 365 days a year. And I hope the girl from today does decide to step it up, without the upsell, like the last girl. And the truth is, she is better than the last girl. And I do believe she will step it up, because she is not looking for a ton of cash thanks to mommy and biological daddy. And she was a lot more comfortable by the time she left. For date number two I will tell her she can get off easy by just stepping up to oral. And that she doesn't have to fuck me... Yet. Her only negative was that she wasnt into kissing. So many girls are not, or worse yet they are but they are no good at it. It might be easier to get anal than awesome kissing. Its one of the main reason I have stayed with my ATF, she is awesome in that dept... and a few more. Props to any girl that can keep me coming back for more after 2 years. And 2 years is usually my limit even with girls I am in love with... figuratively speaking.
Which brings me to a quick aside. I have fallen in love with two of my sugar babes over the years. Not a smart move. Because to think they could love me back in every demanding way I require is a fantasy. But I can't control my emotions, so its a risk thats still looming... What do they say, the greater the risk, the greater the reward. And that love (or sex) that burns the brightest, flickers the fastest. lol...I'll take that flicker any day. Those are memories that will last a lifetime.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3277162]When you seriously work SA, quantity is always going to be a problem. I am reasonably sure anyone with the time and money and physical ability, could easily have one new girl a day 365 days a year. And I hope the girl from today does decide to step it up, without the upsell, like the last girl. And the truth is, she is better than the last girl. And I do believe she will step it up, because she is not looking for a ton of cash thanks to mommy and biological daddy. And she was a lot more comfortable by the time she left. For date number two I will tell her she can get off easy by just stepping up to oral. And that she doesn't have to fuck me... Yet. Her only negative was that she wasnt into kissing. So many girls are not, or worse yet they are but they are no good at it. It might be easier to get anal than awesome kissing. Its one of the main reason I have stayed with my ATF, she is awesome in that dept... and a few more. Props to any girl that can keep me coming back for more after 2 years. And 2 years is usually my limit even with girls I am in love with... figuratively speaking.
Which brings me to a quick aside. I have fallen in love with two of my sugar babes over the years. Not a smart move. Because to think they could love me back in every demanding way I require is a fantasy. But I can't control my emotions, so its a risk thats still looming... What do they say, the greater the risk, the greater the reward. And that love (or sex) that burns the brightest, flickers the fastest. lol...I'll take that flicker any day. Those are memories that will last a lifetime.[/QUOTE]Agreed there is limitless potential on SA, and working or the SO is all that keeps me from spending 24/7 on POTs when I have a membership. I will have a 2 week hall pass in May and I am already anticipating how I'm going to handle that. Lots of pharmaceutical help for sure.
I also agree about the kissing. However, I recall a couple of POTs (I always try to get a kiss at the M&G, on your advice) who were excellent. Inland white girls both, never took either to the FC. One was GPS (and a little questionable - UTR or a webcam girl), the other a suicide girl w/ a sob story (but very sweet).
I have a pretty good kisser in my InlandRed baby, and also OCHottie. The former is a MILF, the latter 22 YO. There may be a correlation of oral skill to generation. Supposedly the millenial guys are no good at eating pussy, and we can step in there and provide a service. Maybe the girls are also not oral enough. Their generation is so affirmed, w / trophies for participation. It may have gotten them past oral fixation, Dr. Freud. lol
I have never been able to figure out who is going to be good at what. I guess that's why I have to take a lot of test drives. Usually I have a few girls and each one is a pro at one particular thing or maybe two. So between all of them you get the whole menu. As far as eating pussy, I would say its every girls biggest complaint. The lack of skills and the unwillingness of guys their age to just dive right in. I doubt I was much better myself back then. Especially when they were all hairy and scary back in the day.
Anyway after the date I figured I would have a quiet evening at home wondering if I could recuperate in time for the $$ girl tomorrow. But my X the dancer (pictured) just called me and says she wants to come over after work in about an hour. She was tipsy and giggling, which is usually a hint that she is in a good mood, probably because she did well at the club, and that she is horny. She will never just come out and say she is horny or want to fuck me. She just drops little hints as she is actually a bit shy about sex generally speaking.
So IDK if I am even up for it, but I am going to uber her over in a few. Either way at least I will get to sleep next to the only girl that I have real feelings for and the only girl thats currently allowed to sleep in my bed. Too bad she only wants sex at 2 am and is not a morning girl. So if I don't partake tonite there won't be a second bite at the apple tomorrow. Never fall in love with a lesbian stripper. It will break your heart for sure.
Getting better at this the more I do it. I renewed my original profile since the lady I met there deleted her profile and I've been seeing her for over a year (no $) so I think she's not checking. My 24 yo is about 45 min drive, no car, so a bit a PITA to schedule but will let me do or have her do ANYTHING we've agreed on! She even has things she wants to do the I am shocked at! I banged the 30 yo I knew from before on Friday and she had so many no's (Doesn't like getting oral, I need to trim Charlie (not going to happen due to SO), etc) that I left wanting to find a lady on HX to grudge fu at #.
I think I was texting 5-7 ladies at any one time yesterday. Trying to find someone much closer so it doesn't fade between the times I'm in their area. Think I may have a few that could work out. The hottest is a 26 yo mix of black, Japanese, and Mexican. Thin, B cups, GORGEOUS butt, really exotically cute face. She is actually married. To a woman. But very bi and her spouse is gone traveling most of the year and this girl really has missed being with a guy. We got worked up and exchanged naked pics. Wow. She thought Charlie was "pretty"! Going to meet her (very local) today just to make sure and see how it goes.
As has been said, the choices are a good problem to have!