Ultimate Definition of GFE!
Found this on the web, embedded in a decent argument that wives should read & heed. But that is another story.
Here is what I consider to be the definitive, ultimate definition of Girl Friend Experience (GFE) - much more than just some alphabet soup.
[I]Now, I've never patronized a prostitute myself, but I have a lot of respect for those who treat it as a vocation, not a mere meal ticket. (If you haven't seen Firefly, and understood what a Companion is, then you might not understand the distinction.) But the bread-and-butter for these ladies of the evening is the GFE: The Girl Friend Experience.
When a dude gets caught going to a *****, it's usually for the GFE, at least at first. Most wives could care less just why he was paying for sex, or what kind of sex, or anything else but the name of a good divorce attorney. That's quite understandable -- and often those questions do come to mind, months afterwards, as both parties are trying to pick up the shards of their lives and figure out where they went wrong. For the dudes who turned to a pro, it's often the GFE that lures them in. And it would be instructive for some wives to understand just what the GFE is, and why it has such a potent attraction. And, perhaps, how you can put that into context of your own sex life.
[b]The Girl Friend Experience is just that: where a man pays a prostitute to act and behave the same way a new girlfriend does in the early-and-horny stage of infatuation.[/b] After the financial arrangement has been satisfied, then for the duration of the appointment the professional showers the client with physical affection -- hugging, kissing, holding hands, praising him, asking him about himself, and acting utterly fascinated by everything that falls out of their client's mouths -- no matter how banal. She is not just selling her body, here, she's selling her sexual interest in him.
The core of the GFE is the sex act, of course -- but often this is limited to a long blowjob or even a lengthy handjob. Sometimes there's penetrative sex later in an appointment, but the highlight of the experience is the way the woman leads her temporary boyfriend over to the couch, undresses him, and then crawls between his legs for an extended period of pure and unadulterated penis worship.
Now, this is the part that freaks some wives out: why would a dude pay up to $300 for a handjob, something he could ostensibly do himself, or even get at home? Or shit, even a blowjob? For $300 a woman would expect a full day at the spa, lunch AND sex, not an intense 90 minute session in a sleazy hotel room.
What they don't understand is that the draw is not the orgasm . . . it's the acceptance and emotional affirmation provided on the way to the orgasm.
A good GFE is't just a blowjob, it's all the bells and whistles leading up to it. It's about the attention. The attitude. The admiration. The interest. The respect. And the desire to want to please you. All of those things are part-and-parcel of the infatuation stage of a relationship as it culminates with sex. It shocks these poor wives to learn that their husbands were paying good money for stuff they didn't really mind doing at home -- and they can't understand why.
So why does a man crave this bit of intimacy -- even with a stranger -- so badly he will sometimes risk everything to enjoy it? You can blame pure lust, but that misses the mark. What the client is seeking here is acceptance. The fact that a woman is willing to tend to his sexual needs in a way that flatters his masculinity and sense of self so much that many men experience an unadulterated surge of Alpha testosterone. It's no secret why "sudden renewed interest in sex" is often listed as a sign your husband might be having an affair: a good GFE is like Popeye eating a can of spinach. You feel like someone really thinks you're worth a damn, even if you had to pay her to think it. And if that gives a dude enough juice to go home and royally take his wife to Pound Town, then if nothing else you can ascertain that something important happened during his GFE, something sexually and psychologically empowering.[/I]
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Important Point. Different Monger Styles
Hey, I see this definition of GFE has sparked some conversation.
What might be useful to note is that each guy has his own style. Some like the thrill and danger of scooping a girl from the streets. Some like variety and never see the same girl twice. Some like a soothing massage and whatever goes with it. Some just want a HE, others just a BJ. Some prefer a romantic encounter. Some want to replace the lost intimacy they aren't getting otherwise.
There is no wrong way, just whatever is right for you. So what works for you might not work for another. Neither is wrong. Just different.
From watching on this board it seems guys have their preferred style and stick with it.
But my point in posting the definition was to show a thorough definition of GFE. I think intuitively some guys agree with that definition and that is what they seek. But alas, it seems like there is a degradation of that definition, and what we really seek has been boiled down to a bunch of acronyms: DFK, DATY, BBBJ, etc. So while one might seek a "true" GFE experience (as defined in the article) a girl who just does the Alphabet Soup can be FAR from hitting those key points!
So do we need a new term for the article style of GFE?
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Incall / Outcall: Outcall &Incall.
Gender: Female.
Body type: Slim.
Accurate Pics?: Close Enough.
Name: Mya.
Phone Number: (856) 214-2563.
Ad Link: [URL]http://philadelphia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/stop-and-come-see-me-22/20739834[/URL].
Affiliation: Independent.
Age: 22.
Ethnicity: Black.
Skin Tone: Caramel.
Hair color: Black.
Hair Length: To shoulder blades.
Eyes: Brown.
Bust size: see Cup.
Bust Appearance: Better than avg.
Breasts: Real or Fake?: Real.
Tattoos: Many.
Piercings: Some.
Hedges: Partially shaved.
Feet: Better Than Avg.
Smoker?: No.
Activities (YMMV): CFS, GFE, HJ, DATY, BBBJ, COB, DT, 69, Toys.
Date of Meeting: 09/23/2014.
Recommended?: Hell Yes!
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(THIS IS A REAL PIC).
Mya is an absolute gem. A true provider. I almost don't want to write this review for the fear of having to share her with others.
But that would be selfish. Mya is using fake pics to protect her identity. She has several distinctive tattoos in time I might convince her into allowing me to take some photos and photo shopping out the tatts but I do understand her reluctance. That aside the photos that she is using are very close. Mya is model pretty and has a fantastic body. Full, natural see cups with incredible nipples. Flat abdomen. Nice ass not too big and perfectly toned. The woman has great legs. Most of all she has PERSONALITY. She is a pleasure to be around and talk to. Like most great providers she has the ability to put you at ease and make you comfortable within seconds of meeting her. She offers both incall and outcall I took advantage of her outcall services and she showed up on time looking incredible. Members read on.
This is my 4th time seeing Mya. She is quickly becoming an ATF of mine. Her services are top notch. My first session CBJ was what was offered but she has graduated to BBBJ. I supposed the BBBJ thing may be as she becomes more comfortable with you so that would be considered a YMMV kinda thing. BJ is worth the price of admission. Just watching her full lips engulf my cock with her pretty eyes looking up at you is enough to make most men bust. Thank goodness I have TDC (total dick control) .
After a great BJ with deep throat we headed up stairs where I returned her favor with DATY. Mya is very responsive and became very wet. I also treated her to a round of multiple "O's" with the help of my Hitachi. Mya soaked my bed (yes she is a squirter) When she was worked up to a nice sexual frenzy I wrapped up my love snake and plowed deep into her wetness. I like to say I banged away for an hr but truth is I came in about 10 minutes. We tried several positions, Dogggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and Miss. I have to admit I love MISS as she really gets into it and lets me go nice and deep.
A great time was had I will be seeing again soon.
Highly recommend.
Rates are very reasonable.
$100 SS.
$160 HH.
$220 HR.
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