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I saw a message from SA that my profile was being deleted due to "soliciting sex in exchange for compensation".

My SA membership expired about 3 months ago (I used a prepaid credit card so the monthly dues wouldn't go through automatically). I really haven't been on there since it expired since it's useless without the ability to communicate. My profile was not even active, I had put it in non-active status.

Has anyone else had a similar issue?

I mean, I really don't care, I have used SA for several years and I can easily recreate a profile and matching email address. I am just being curious.

Did a provider report me? Did a pissed off ex report me (I had a few of those). Are they trying to show LE that they are aggressively policing their website? Are they just cleaning out the inactive profiles? Just wondering.

[QUOTE=WillieZee914;5552554]I saw a message from SA that my profile was being deleted due to "soliciting sex in exchange for compensation".

My SA membership expired about 3 months ago (I used a prepaid credit card so the monthly dues wouldn't go through automatically). I really haven't been on there since it expired since it's useless without the ability to communicate. My profile was not even active, I had put it in non-active status.

Has anyone else had a similar issue?

I mean, I really don't care, I have used SA for several years and I can easily recreate a profile and matching email address. I am just being curious.

Did a provider report me? Did a pissed off ex report me (I had a few of those). Are they trying to show LE that they are aggressively policing their website? Are they just cleaning out the inactive profiles? Just wondering.[/QUOTE]All of the above! Read the defacto USA SB board Richmond, VA SugarBabbies, to see what others have experienced. Lots of recent convo on this in last month or so, but you'll have to sift through the local reports. Reading others experiences can show you what to avoid and how to get reinstated or what to do to create a new profile!

GOOD LUCK!

Welcome to the club! I have been banned several times in the past for some of things you have mentioned. These bans were early on in my SA career. I have learned from my mistakes and have done my research and have been off and on SA now for years with no issues. There are many wise words on the board but the golden rule I follow is never directly or indirectly discuss money in exchange for anything sexual, virtual or irl on the site. Discuss all specifics off site as soon as possible with any prospects.

It seems like a simple rule but can be challenging to follow 100% of the time. I use terms like mutually beneficial, equally rewarding, symbiotic arrangement, etc etc to convey a give and take scenario and let them know if they are interested or want to learn more then specifics need to be discussed offline, no exceptions. I lose 50% of prospects this way but this method has served me well.

Best of luck and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=WillieZee914;5552554]I saw a message from SA that my profile was being deleted due to "soliciting sex in exchange for compensation".

My SA membership expired about 3 months ago (I used a prepaid credit card so the monthly dues wouldn't go through automatically). I really haven't been on there since it expired since it's useless without the ability to communicate. My profile was not even active, I had put it in non-active status.

Has anyone else had a similar issue?

I mean, I really don't care, I have used SA for several years and I can easily recreate a profile and matching email address. I am just being curious.

Did a provider report me? Did a pissed off ex report me (I had a few of those). Are they trying to show LE that they are aggressively policing their website? Are they just cleaning out the inactive profiles? Just wondering.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5553459]Welcome to the club! I have been banned several times in the past for some of things you have mentioned. These bans were early on in my SA career. I have learned from my mistakes and have done my research and have been off and on SA now for years with no issues. There are many wise words on the board but the golden rule I follow is never directly or indirectly discuss money in exchange for anything sexual, virtual or irl on the site. Discuss all specifics off site as soon as possible with any prospects.

It seems like a simple rule but can be challenging to follow 100% of the time. I use terms like mutually beneficial, equally rewarding, symbiotic arrangement, etc etc to convey a give and take scenario and let them know if they are interested or want to learn more then specifics need to be discussed offline, no exceptions. I lose 50% of prospects this way but this method has served me well.

Best of luck and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]This is another reason to move to a burner phone or texting app asap. I guess if you're obnoxious the woman can report you but at least they can't scrape the SA DMs for key words.

Fellow Mongers,

I am looking for intel on this one. We have moved to text from the site and she is saying all the right things except she needs to host at her place, which is typically a no go for me the first few times. She has a kid with some medical issues apparently. I have attached the link here, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5acc8b7-8902-466e-b435-81f8260dfd0f[/URL] . Unfortunately, I am unable to post her profile pic for some reason, but if she sends me a pic, I will post.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5565804]Fellow Mongers,

I am looking for intel on this one. We have moved to text from the site and she is saying all the right things except she needs to host at her place, which is typically a no go for me the first few times. She has a kid with some medical issues apparently. I have attached the link here, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5acc8b7-8902-466e-b435-81f8260dfd0f[/URL] . Unfortunately, I am unable to post her profile pic for some reason, but if she sends me a pic, I will post.

Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]A friend of mine was texting her. She eventually wanted him to buy some of her videos before she would meet him. He thought she was a scam.

Interesting, she hasn't even mentioned pics or vids yet. I will see if I can set some bait to see if she is a fraud or not.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;5565888]A friend of mine was texting her. She eventually wanted him to buy some of her videos before she would meet him. He thought she was a scam.[/QUOTE]

She reminds of a scammer I met back just before the COVID shutdown started. The first time I met her went perfect. Wild GFE and more. The second time she flaked out. She worked from her dumpy apt complex in Blackwood just off the pike. Gave the whole daughter story. If its the same girl her real job was a bartender and her real name starts with S. Back then her number ended with 3408. Love this board and the intel!

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5565804]Fellow Mongers,

I am looking for intel on this one. We have moved to text from the site and she is saying all the right things except she needs to host at her place, which is typically a no go for me the first few times. She has a kid with some medical issues apparently. I have attached the link here, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5acc8b7-8902-466e-b435-81f8260dfd0f[/URL] . Unfortunately, I am unable to post her profile pic for some reason, but if she sends me a pic, I will post.

Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]

Sounds pretty much the story. Another hard pass. Can usually count on this board for intel.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=Runner8;5566842]She reminds of a scammer I met back just before the COVID shutdown started. The first time I met her went perfect. Wild GFE and more. The second time she flaked out. She worked from her dumpy apt complex in Blackwood just off the pike. Gave the whole daughter story. If its the same girl her real job was a bartender and her real name starts with S. Back then her number ended with 3408. Love this board and the intel![/QUOTE]

As an FYI, I recently noticed that SA has removed the fwb tag from their list and replaced it with friends. Probably a good idea to stay away from any reference of fwb when dm'ing a prospect. Big brother is always watching and I have heard from some of the ladies the number of sd's has dropped significantly lately. Not sure if this is by choice or SA doing another crackdown. My subscription ends soon, thank god as this past month has been a total waste with only 1 short term success and so many scamming b's. Time to take another several month break until semester break to see if the lake gets restocked.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5573716]As an FYI, I recently noticed that SA has removed the fwb tag from their list and replaced it with friends. Probably a good idea to stay away from any reference of fwb when dm'ing a prospect. Big brother is always watching and I have heard from some of the ladies the number of sd's has dropped significantly lately. Not sure if this is by choice or SA doing another crackdown. My subscription ends soon, thank god as this past month has been a total waste with only 1 short term success and so many scamming b's. Time to take another several month break until semester break to see if the lake gets restocked.

Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Yeah noticed that FWB is missing. Also the girls that browse your profile can see how many items you ever bought on the store for girls. I tried to toggle it off but everything I sign on and its toggled on. I never bought anything for anyone. I may buy the cheapest sex toy on someones list. Just for the hell of it and atleast it won't show 0.

Any intel on this lady?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cbf0adde-b2d3-4021-9c25-eca52954fec3[/URL]

I will keep my zero, I have no intentions of buying anything for someone without meeting them first. It's just a "tangible" deposit to me and that's a definite red flag and hard pass. I would highly advise not to do it even if it's 10 to 15 bucks or whatever.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;5576602]Yeah noticed that FWB is missing. Also the girls that browse your profile can see how many items you ever bought on the store for girls. I tried to toggle it off but everything I sign on and its toggled on. I never bought anything for anyone. I may buy the cheapest sex toy on someones list. Just for the hell of it and atleast it won't show 0.[/QUOTE]

I texted with her offsite and eventually blocked her. I don't recall why but I know if I block someone it's for a good reason.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;5576631]Any intel on this lady?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cbf0adde-b2d3-4021-9c25-eca52954fec3[/URL][/QUOTE]

HELP!

Anyone have any recommendations for places on that cooridor.

Clean and no bed bugs would be nice. Doenst need to be hourly rates but the 2:30 checkin most places sell is complete bullshit.