Stay out of other people's business
[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2948922]Because a wedding planner would not suite you because you obviously don't understand etiquette. By the way I assumed nothing, I just read his original report in black and white in the Street Walker forum.
I'm finished so chatter on.[/QUOTE]Glad you are finished chattereing about what you know nothing about. What you claim is black and white doesn't match her description of what took place. It also doesn't conflict with his story.
So, you broke the rules you lecture about which is that there are always two sides to a story and different perspectives of the same events. You weren't there so you can't speak on the subject.
If your profession is overseeing etiquette on this board then please get out of the profession. Nothing I did invited her to the wedding. In fact there is a provider coming that I suggested might be good to invite. I asked about it in a pm weeks ago. I don't know what criteria was used to include her. I now have a better understanding based upon more recent private discussions regarding the new girl.
Also, the only way you would know when I pm'd someone is if they told you. While everyone is talking about discretion! Odd, that the rules don't apply to you regarding discretion and talking about others circumstances when you weren't there.
Is that logical enough for you?
Peace and love, peace and love
My cats breath smells like cat food. There, I said it.
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No M&G for Natalie she's tied up
A lot of us knew once Natalie left SB and saw the big city where the streets lights stay on past 9 pm and your sit-down restaurants we were going to have a hard time keeping her down on the farm. But we never expected some of you perks like Indyguy123 to be sneaking into town and whisking her away.
We posted sentries even built a wall but somehow you dug a tunnel to rival El Chap's.
Not this time! Noobie, I and the rest of the SB crew are keeping her confined in a secret location and under 24 hour watch until after your M&G. This time our security is impenetrable.
Not the biggest prick not the smallest prick but a prick never the less.
That's your opinion a x it's wrong
[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2949143]I made this same mistake once, long ago and it led to a very ugly situation. I still feel I was right, but I also understand why I was wrong. I was wrong because I didn't consider everyone's perspective.
The invite post wasn't a rhetorical question, it was an example of LHT (Little Head Thinking). It's common, we're all guilty from time to time. She just rocked your world and you think she could end up in the Hall of Fame and you wouldn't mind being one of the select few who introduced her to the world. The M&G is standing there saying "This is the perfect time. Some of the top mongers in the area, with some of the top providers, it's perfect. She'll walk out a big star. " I understand. In your shoes I would have been tempted to do the same thing.
LHT.
Now the other perspective:
Nobody knows her. DYoung described meeting her as a SW encounter, meaning she is in some way soliciting strangers in public places. Unless he makes a habit of asking random women for P4 P, the SW designation is appropriate. She might be sweet and innocent and awesome, but she was still engaging in very risky behavior, uncle isn't the worst danger.
Nobody knows about her mental state, or whether she's a kleptomaniac or a junkie (3 reports in 24 hours isn't enough to determine a pattern). What happens if her mental state does a flip at the M&G and she becomes violent or suicidal? I've seen it happen and it's not fun. What happens if she collects a bunch of names and numbers and gets pinched next week? How quickly will she roll over?
I'm not saying any of these things are likely, but they're possible. That's the other side's perspective. That's why, even though you're justified in thinking you were right, you were still wrong.[/QUOTE]Everyone has a right to there opinion and your's is wrong! See it works both ways. You are not the king and last word on opinions.
