Re: The Scruffy Babysitter (moved from the USA review thread)
[QUOTE=CincyRichard;3354422]Says guy was her babysitter, and now she is home crying, and paid himto watch her kids. I offer to reimburse her for the babysitter, either by dropping off cash, or mailing. Provider says "fine" and then texts that she is blaclisting me, and adding to the DNA list.
What would you guys have done?[/QUOTE]These days the more likely sad but true story is that the scruffy looking "babysitter" was her heroin connection. She had called him to say that you were on the way and if he would please just come over now to get her well she would have the money to pay him as soon as you arrived. Once things were not going according to plan leaving was the right choice and you owe her nothing. Unfortunately for her, she still owed the dope boy and that was the real reason for her tears.
A few suggestions for the ladies out there
Most of you do a good job of communication and interacting with mongers. However there are a chosen few who are still trying to figure it out.
I sent an email today to two ladies on this board, one with her email on her USASG profile one with a REPLY button on it. Have yet to hear from either. If you put the email on your site or ask us to text or hit the communications button TRY READING your contacts. No offense meant but if you take the time to help us with email or a reply button and we take the time to respond it could be a win win for us both. Have a good rest of the week ladies and thanks for reading.
We All Have Our Vices Don't We JH
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3353436]Hmm did she sign that under free will or duress? Did she have to sign it to get you to take her to her pharmacy? I can't change the channel cause I can't find my glasses to find the remote. Plus I love shows about whinny ass vengeful guys that complanies about women they can't control. It might be faster and easier if you just take your campaign on the road to Dr. Phil. I will be watching for the Capt save a Ho episode or instead of giving the addicts money that you know you will never get back I can see the Capt save a Ho foundation.[/QUOTE]I guess mine is being a whinny ass vengeful guy regarding addict providers and yours is trolling the SB forums all over the country giving your opinions and advice as you see fit. Call me what you want, makes no difference to me. I have lost money to some addicts but it is minimal and I can afford to lose it. What you don't seem to understand is the principles I try to live by. I believe in the goodness of humanity. We humans have a long way to go in our struggle with humanity but I give people the benefit of doubt and try to trust people until they give me solid reasons not to trust them. This in itself puts me in very precarious situations within the world I have come to know, the world of addiction. Let me give you some facts to ponder as you search out your next SB.
In 2015 drug overdose was the leading cause of accidental death in the US, with 52,404 lethal drug overdoses. Compare that with other 2015 statistics of the number of people who died in car crashes at 37,757. Gun deaths, including homicides and suicides, totaled 36,252. Or consider the 58,220 US soldiers who died in Vietnam conflict where riots broke out all over the US to condemn the inhumanity of the war.
There were 2,000 Heroin overdose deaths in 2002, 8,000 in 2013, and 12,990 in 2015. That's a 549 % increase from 2002 to 2015 and a 62.3 % increase from 2013 to 2015.
Addiction has become a plague in our country especially with opioids which include heroin and fentanyl a synthetic opioid. Ohio now leads the nation in the number of opioid related deaths. Compare the 20,101 US drug overdose deaths in 2015 to the Ebola outbreak in West Africa where, between 2014 and 2016, 11,310 people died and the US spent 2. 36 billion to stop the plague. How about spending money on the plague in Ohio?
So go ahead and chastise me about my whining and vengefulness. I really don't care. I like the hobby and the pussy it provides but my principles will still influence my choices for pussy. The one thing that I do every morning is look in a mirror and say I will do my best to be as humane as possible and try to save the life of at least one more addict like I have in the past.
So how many SB lives have you saved, JH?
You Haven't Saved a Single Life
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So go ahead and chastise me about my whining and vengefulness. I really don't care. I like the hobby and the pussy it provides but my principles will still influence my choices for pussy. The one thing that I do every morning is look in a mirror and say I will do my best to be as humane as possible and try to save the life of at least one more addict like I have in the past.
So how many SB lives have you saved, JH?[/QUOTE]Because it's really all about you anyway. Any provider in your world who has gotten better has done so despite you, not because of you. The bottom line is you get off on controlling and manipulating addicted women so you can look like a savior.
Not busting your ass just telling you for reals
[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3358932]Addicts who make the "Choice" to change and become clean deserve all the credit. It's their inner strength that made this choice and that strength carries them through the years to stay clean.[/QUOTE]I've been clean longer than most if these chicks have been alive and I'm telling you, not suggesting, not saying maybe I'm telling you 100% that if you believe this then you know nothing about addiction nor recovery.
I'm not saying your heart isn't in the right place nor that you are a bad person, just saying that you think you know something when you don't.
A2.