Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=CrissyLynn2015;3331989]Ok, so I have been doing this for quite some time now & I've definitely had my ups and downs, more upset than downs, I'll be honest. I've met some really wonderful men & whether seeing me or not still remain friends! But when someone new tries to contact me, I'm very strict on who I see. My friends know that I work from my private residence so for me on THIS end of the hobby, I have to be. But usually what I request is for someone to write me on here to verify if they are a USA member, some get upset because maybe they can't log in right then and there to write me and then there's the men that are very new and have only seen one or even no one at that point! I understand but as much as I look out for my safety, I look out for my friends safety as well. I'd hate to meet the wrong friend and BOOM my phone's took. Things are looked at SMH. I mean, I use an app for friends I talk to, so I figure they take me, in uninstalling sappo LOL but STILL there are risks! I have two sons I take care of full time as well, that's a huge factor on why I kinda make yuh go the distance to o see me! I can't say I DO IT all the time but if I have even the slightest guy feeling, I do request a pm on here. Sorry for the rant, I'm just wondering. Am I being too careful. ? Can you even be Too careful? Most important things about our hobby is privacy! Idk. LOL sorry.[/QUOTE]We have spent several Magical moments together. Tho its been a while, because of your new hour available. You have to take care of you, just like we gentelman try to do. You have always had good thing said about you. Stand your ground. A couple of ben franklin aren't worth the risk. Take care sexy OBR.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;3332111]Hon, you should have said, "I sell faux fragrances and I tried to sell him some, but he said he would only buy the real thing for you. " Obviously he didn't have any text messages stored, one hopes, or else she was fishing.

Cheech.[/QUOTE]Guys, get cameras. Good ones.

Because if the SO asks about strange messages on your phone, you can always say you got paid taking the lady's picture. Wink!

However this will not work if you see one of the ladies from TN who are also professional photograpers outside the hobby. Sad face.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3331269]You text a girl Tuesday morning 10 am with something simple " are you available " they text back Wednesday afternoon at 3 pm with " yes I'm available ". Like you've been waiting for 32 hours by your phone chewing on your fingernails waiting for her return text. When you tell them you called yesterday they text back with the perfect excuse, " my phone died ". And when they text back it's usually at the wrong time, you're at work, talking to the wife, or at the kids or grandkids game. I just wish they would use common sense and see that if someone wanted to see you 36 hours ago and didn't get in touch with you the chances of them wanting to see you a day and a half later are pretty remote and you just might be doing something other than sitting at home hoping they will returned your text. Thanks rant over. HL29.[/QUOTE]I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".

This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.

Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.

[QUOTE=DNut;3332719]I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".

This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.

Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.[/QUOTE]I text 3 or 4 and let them race to see who answers first. But I did get burned by SincyCinnamon who double booked me so it cuts both ways.

[QUOTE=Hooter12;3329096]No TER is active and up to date. I review on there myself on occasion. Reviews there are no more or no less reliable than on here.[/QUOTE]I have found TER to be a pretty reliable tool, especially for trying to find info on traveling providers or providers that are not listing with USA. It in some respects easier to navigate than some sites as all of a girls' reviews are typically located in one place. Even if you are not a paying member of TER you can easily get contact info, posting site (s), physical description, and if they are real or scam. The 'general details' part of the review usually tells you if a reviewing monger would repeat or not and if the set up was easy or difficult. If a provider has several reviews listed you can easily ascertain if that they are legit. If you decide to pay the monthly fee (or post a couple reviews a month) you get to see the juicy details of the review which should tell ya whether they provide what you are interested in purchasing. USA is more up to date with current talent and certainly provides great info and valuable input about the local scene. When I see a post on USA that I find interesting I use TER as one of the tools to do further research. Be careful out there.

Just curious if anyone has ever partaken and how they would rate the experience. Seems kinda dodgy and legit, with it being legal in Germany, at the same time. Can see that it would only work for the divorced or single among us. Or if you can convincingly lie about a "business conference" you have to attend overseas.

Would be my luck that I would get into a vehicle at the airport and a hood immediately goes over my head with a Russian man saying "we make you our ***** now" LOL.

[QUOTE=DNut;3332719]I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".

This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.

Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.[/QUOTE]But I seriously doubt most of these girls think far or deep enough to catch on to any of that. The higher end or stable, reviewed ones already get it.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3332980]But I seriously doubt most of these girls think far or deep enough to catch on to any of that. The higher end or stable, reviewed ones already get it.[/QUOTE]Sorry that movie has so many funny quotes. You are right most girls follow the water analogy, meaning the path of least resistance or least effort. I have been told by many that if there are 3 of us texting them they pick the greatest reward for the least effort. The reason they are not honest, dare I say is that if the first plan does not pan out for them then they go to option 2. And even sometimes they get the first and then act like they had problems to get option 2 as a bonus. After all it is just like fishing for both sides of the game. When you weigh in at the end of the day you want to be the one with the most. Be safe.

[QUOTE=DickMorehead;3332886]I have found TER to be a pretty reliable tool, especially for trying to find info on traveling providers or providers that are not listing with USA. It in some respects easier to navigate than some sites as all of a girls' reviews are typically located in one place. Even if you are not a paying member of TER you can easily get contact info, posting site (s), physical description, and if they are real or scam. The 'general details' part of the review usually tells you if a reviewing monger would repeat or not and if the set up was easy or difficult. If a provider has several reviews listed you can easily ascertain if that they are legit. If you decide to pay the monthly fee (or post a couple reviews a month) you get to see the juicy details of the review which should tell ya whether they provide what you are interested in purchasing. USA is more up to date with current talent and certainly provides great info and valuable input about the local scene. When I see a post on USA that I find interesting I use TER as one of the tools to do further research. Be careful out there.[/QUOTE]I agree with you on this, I always search USASG first as you get more info. TER is another useful tool. As a matter of fact I will be posting a review on Jemma Jade today on TER.

[QUOTE=Twisted69;3333498]Sorry that movie has so many funny quotes. You are right most girls follow the water analogy, meaning the path of least resistance or least effort. I have been told by many that if there are 3 of us texting them they pick the greatest reward for the least effort. The reason they are not honest, dare I say is that if the first plan does not pan out for them then they go to option 2. And even sometimes they get the first and then act like they had problems to get option 2 as a bonus. After all it is just like fishing for both sides of the game. When you weigh in at the end of the day you want to be the one with the most. Be safe.[/QUOTE]I know I'm not in the greater majority here, but when I find one (or a few) I like, I tend to stick with them. I've never fucked most of the flavor of the week around here. As soon as I see "air mattress" or "basement" or anything like it I cross it out.

I know it sounds like a humble brag, but I'm a middle aged, fairly wealthy guy. I'm not fucking on a goddamn air mattress. Just saying, and I don't judge.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3334484]I know I'm not in the greater majority here, but when I find one (or a few) I like, I tend to stick with them. I've never fucked most of the flavor of the week around here. As soon as I see "air mattress" or "basement" or anything like it I cross it out.

I know it sounds like a humble brag, but I'm a middle aged, fairly wealthy guy. I'm not fucking on a goddamn air mattress. Just saying, and I don't judge.[/QUOTE]Just kidding, but I think you are locking down one that I really like. Nisha?

Why is it when you see someone for the first time or whatever the case may be that you try hard to accommodate them, whether it be seeing them on short notice, or wearing your makeup and hair how they ask for it, or anything else you can think of to appease the client and make the visit as lovely as possible and as you're getting ready to walk them out they say how much fun they had and that they'll give you a nice review and they leave and you think all is well. Until you get on here the next day and they have wrote a review but they completely trash you. I mean tear you apart and pick at every detail you can imagine and criticize you in the meanest way they can. And if we were to say anything after the client trashed us we look even worse because the rest of the guys on here think were just trying to start shit over the nasty review written about us. Why tell us you had a lovely time and then turn around and post you had a bad time and that we were awful. I'm more humble these days because I've lost everything and I'm trying to come back from it. If I don't work, I don't eat. And I always try to remember that not all people click and I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but still there's no reason to try and crucify me with a nasty review. It just seems that sometimes you guys go overboard with the hurtful comments and then nitpicking about everything about us. Were still human ya know.

[blue]It's because you are focusing on the few that do that, your reviews are ok overall. The answer to your question sugar is because some people are assholes. Shit like that is going to happen on this forum, either get used to it or stop reading.

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[QUOTE=FirstHalf;3334492]Just kidding, but I think you are locking down one that I really like. Nisha?[/QUOTE]Nisha? KeyLow's UTR girl from a while back? I tried to hook up with her again and she made it sound like she was out of the hobby. I'd love to see her again!

[QUOTE=JosiJames;3334536]Why is it when you see someone for the first time or whatever the case may be that you try hard to accommodate them, whether it be seeing them on short notice, or wearing your makeup and hair how they ask for it, or anything else you can think of to appease the client and make the visit as lovely as possible and as you're getting ready to walk them out they say how much fun they had and that they'll give you a nice review and they leave and you think all is well. Until you get on here the next day and they have wrote a review but they completely trash you. I mean tear you apart and pick at every detail you can imagine and criticize you in the meanest way they can. And if we were to say anything after the client trashed us we look even worse because the rest of the guys on here think were just trying to start shit over the nasty review written about us. Why tell us you had a lovely time and then turn around and post you had a bad time and that we were awful. I'm more humble these days because I've lost everything and I'm trying to come back from it. If I don't work, I don't eat. And I always try to remember that not all people click and I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but still there's no reason to try and crucify me with a nasty review. It just seems that sometimes you guys go overboard with the hurtful comments and then nitpicking about everything about us. Were still human ya know.

[/QUOTE]At the risk of sounding patronizing... Even the blind person who listens intently can see :)

In other words, no review is a bad review relative to a lesson that may be gleaned from it.

Good luck, stay safe doll.
TGM

She is off the market. Someone is giving her the 2 k a month she was seeking and is now their SB.

She was fun and has the finest ass I have ever had my hands on.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3335301]Nisha? KeyLow's UTR girl from a while back? I tried to hook up with her again and she made it sound like she was out of the hobby. I'd love to see her again![/QUOTE]