Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=MosesBlackk;6655697]If only going for 8's or higher it will be an absolute shit ton of work since everybody and their father is going after the same ones. They get 100's of messages per day and more on other socials. Then add in compatibility and it's rare to find a long term thing. Also many of these girls have severe mental problems, so they'll ghost, fade, or zombie you when their current sugar daddy dumps them. I.

It's work either way with civilians, strippers, or sugaring. The days of just flashing money and getting what you want are over except with straight escorts and girls very desperate for money or low on the attraction scale. Of course that doesn't qualify if you're a celebrity or a pro athlete (who are also hitting up these hoes on their igs) but 99% of us aren't.[/QUOTE]I don't focus at all on the conventional 8-10's. I go for the girl next door type. Nerdy girls. But with rare exception they have to be reasonably fit. It's STILL a ton of work with all the same issues.

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6656100]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?[/QUOTE]I've always looked for the first meet and greet to be a 'meet me half way' with respect to when / where, and of course it's never compensated unless it's for an Uber to get there or parking in Boston.

If a girl won't be reasonable to arrange a meet and greet I assume she'll be way worse in any "arrangement" and so I quit while I'm ahead.

And again I personally don't aspire to the cheerleader / stripper types. I'm all about the normal girl next door.

[QUOTE=Bran001;6656195]I've always looked for the first meet and greet to be a 'meet me half way' with respect to when / where, and of course it's never compensated unless it's for an Uber to get there or parking in Boston.

If a girl won't be reasonable to arrange a meet and greet I assume she'll be way worse in any "arrangement" and so I quit while I'm ahead.

And again I personally don't aspire to the cheerleader / stripper types. I'm all about the normal girl next door.[/QUOTE]Glad to hear, Bran. Still always a lot of luck and work. Liked this, "If a girl won't be reasonable to arrange a meet and greet I assume she'll be way worse in any "arrangement" and so I quit while I'm ahead. " Nice common sense from you and a good practice.

[QUOTE=Bran001;6656194]I don't focus at all on the conventional 8-10's. I go for the girl next door type. Nerdy girls. But with rare exception they have to be reasonably fit. It's STILL a ton of work with all the same issues.[/QUOTE]Oh yeah bro, this Gen Z and millennial generation of women are full of complete entitlement. Even if you're paying them they can be a pain in the ass. Might be time to become passport bros. Not the same in other countries. Yet.

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6656100]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?[/QUOTE]Couldn't agree more. The chase is exciting and addictive. Good chemistry is rare, hence with most I don't move past the first intimate encounter. Overall I am relieved my membership expired, as all the texting, M&Gs and meetings were really putting a strain on me.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6656405]Couldn't agree more. The chase is exciting and addictive. Good chemistry is rare, hence with most I don't move past the first intimate encounter. Overall I am relieved my membership expired, as all the texting, M&Gs and meetings were really putting a strain on me.[/QUOTE]I'm starting to feel the same way. It's just so much work. Worst is spending a couple hours chatting with someone and then they drop their scammer line. But it is so hard to give up the feeling of that chase. It's almost like the idea of buying the lottery ticket. You know you're not going to win but at least you have a chance! LOL.

Man it's tough up here. I started messaging on SA over 3 weeks ago that I'm coming to town. Several women replied but almost all have ended up being flakes, scams or "per hour meets. " It is so irritating to find so many want to be escorts on SA. If I wanted a girl to rent for an for 500-1000 an hr there are many other options. Even the escorts don't look great up here and high prices to boot. If anybody wants to help me with some solid leads feel free to send me a message.

One reason I'll prob won't go back to SA for the foreseeable future is not just the usual virtual payment deposit scams or the ever rising rates and GPS, but it's actually the increased reports of IRL robberies. I don; t think it'd jumped the shark but prob coming to an end as a place to find an easy UTR.

This one gave me a bad review on Mr Number. Apparently she got the impression I was looking for a free date. It was a total misunderstanding. We even talked on the phone a couple weeks prior to my trip. I thought she wanted money just to make plans and I called her out. I got the feeling it wasn't going to work at that point and politely declined further communication. Would love to know if anyone has first hand experience with her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae16021c-f58a-46e6-8a40-267a4e668a0e[/URL]

[QUOTE=FosterWheatly;6657644]This one gave me a bad review on Mr Number. Apparently she got the impression I was looking for a free date. It was a total misunderstanding. We even talked on the phone a couple weeks prior to my trip. I thought she wanted money just to make plans and I called her out. I got the feeling it wasn't going to work at that point and politely declined further communication. Would love to know if anyone has first hand experience with her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae16021c-f58a-46e6-8a40-267a4e668a0e[/URL][/QUOTE]WTF is Mr Number?

[QUOTE=BigGuy3344;6657957]WTF is Mr Number?[/QUOTE]Here is an easy explanation on the Mr Number app:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/EscortClientsOnly/comments/owch4k/pro_tip_the_mr_number_app_is_used_by_sex_workers/[/URL]

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[QUOTE=BigCoolie;6658355]Here is an easy explanation on the Mr Number app:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/EscortClientsOnly/comments/owch4k/pro_tip_the_mr_number_app_is_used_by_sex_workers/[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FosterWheatly;6656954]Man it's tough up here. I started messaging on SA over 3 weeks ago that I'm coming to town. Several women replied but almost all have ended up being flakes, scams or "per hour meets. " It is so irritating to find so many want to be escorts on SA. If I wanted a girl to rent for an for 500-1000 an hr there are many other options. Even the escorts don't look great up here and high prices to boot. If anybody wants to help me with some solid leads feel free to send me a message.[/QUOTE]Are you staying in the area long term?

The highest caliber girls will oft have their pick and will choose reliable guys who are local, decently handsome, and rich.

[QUOTE=Jcette2;6658733]Are you staying in the area long term?

The highest caliber girls will oft have their pick and will choose reliable guys who are local, decently handsome, and rich.[/QUOTE]Only here a few days but I've made that clear.

Boston area, any info?