[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653339]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.[/QUOTE]I remember reading an escort review of her stating she has an attitude and is not GFE.
Printable View
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653339]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.[/QUOTE]I remember reading an escort review of her stating she has an attitude and is not GFE.
A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing.
In total, I met around 15 women and had intimate dates with 9 out of those. Lowest PPM was 400, highest 600. Looks like the sweet spot is 500, at least for the demographics I targeted. But damn, it's a lot of work. Many scammers, many profiles that just go silent after a while. And many GPS! It's even worse for me as work and family keep me really busy, so scheduling even a coffee meet was a nightmare. Pretty sure I lost couple of potential good dates because of that.
Talking about logistics, I usually try to meet during the day and book a day room (cheaper! I check these sites for good deals:
[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.hotelsbyday.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.daybreakhotels.com/[/URL]
And for nighttime hotels:
[URL]https://www.hotwire.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.priceline.com/[/URL]
Sex ranged from bellow average to mind blowing. I ended up with two regulars, and I can't freaking decide which one to drop. Don't have the time or money to keep meeting both LOL.
On the BBFS topic, 75% of the girls ended up offering it. Most not on the first date though. However, the appalling aspect for me is that most of them are not on BC. One of them literally told me to go ahead and CIP, as she's not in the fertile time of the month. Smh! This is a crazy slippery slope, someone needs to talk some sense into me.
Some interesting profiles:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc6ab93c-04d7-4f4e-81df-ac832dd88786[/URL]
Really good looking, $500, but super PRO.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/16d69aa7-426a-4c45-b65d-5bb1a64ac356[/URL]
Looks hot, didn't meet her, as she wanted $800.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7139ce83-bfa2-4fe3-b052-eb4cf70d4bd9[/URL]
Seems PRO, wanted $300, ok with BBFS from first meet. Something felt off about it and although seemed a good thing, I didn't go for it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6719cdc2-41cd-4d57-8e8f-bb6b5b0f9d51[/URL]
Pro or semi-pro. Can only meet in a limited time window during the day. Asked for $500. I passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9fb33f19-4f4b-453d-88e9-f9d31db9f8d9[/URL]
Asked for $500, but said no kissing and that's a big turn off for me. Passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40a44d42-58d0-4247-93d7-316ed9fff71b[/URL]
Didn't get the chance to meet this one. Curious if anyone did meet her. She was asking for $500, but probably can be negotiated down.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ef1ae54-f61c-4a74-b666-5a15952e8511[/URL]
Really strange interaction with this one. She seemed a scammer at first, asking for gas money and help with bills before we even met. I kind of ignored her for a while, but then she pinged me wanting to meet. I was 90% sure she won't show up, so I had a backup date scheduled, but she did! Sex was bellow average though, she's really amateur in that department.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4469a1f-2f29-41ba-83e4-d98e21268930[/URL]
Wanted drinks and then hookup in the car. Asking $500. I countered with $300, she went silent.
I didn't like Maria (second from the bottom) based on our interaction, so moved on.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6653725]A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing.
In total, I met around 15 women and had intimate dates with 9 out of those. Lowest PPM was 400, highest 600. Looks like the sweet spot is 500, at least for the demographics I targeted. But damn, it's a lot of work. Many scammers, many profiles that just go silent after a while. And many GPS! It's even worse for me as work and family keep me really busy, so scheduling even a coffee meet was a nightmare. Pretty sure I lost couple of potential good dates because of that.
Talking about logistics, I usually try to meet during the day and book a day room (cheaper! I check these sites for good deals:
[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.hotelsbyday.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.daybreakhotels.com/[/URL]
And for nighttime hotels:
[URL]https://www.hotwire.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.priceline.com/[/URL]
Sex ranged from bellow average to mind blowing. I ended up with two regulars, and I can't freaking decide which one to drop. Don't have the time or money to keep meeting both LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6653725]A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing...
[/QUOTE]Great review, you didn't miss much with this one:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6719cdc2-41cd-4d57-8e8f-bb6b5b0f9d51?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]
I got her for 400, CFS, BBBJ but no CIM, which was disappointing because the BBBJ was actually really good but it was an absolute no on CIM. Her behavior was a bit off, spent a lot of time in the bathroom multiple times, I don't know if it was a result of drug use or what but I wasn't interested in seeing her again.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6653725]A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing.
In total, I met around 15 women and had intimate dates with 9 out of those. Lowest PPM was 400, highest 600. Looks like the sweet spot is 500, at least for the demographics I targeted. But damn, it's a lot of work. Many scammers, many profiles that just go silent after a while. And many GPS! It's even worse for me as work and family keep me really busy, so scheduling even a coffee meet was a nightmare. Pretty sure I lost couple of potential good dates because of that.
Talking about logistics, I usually try to meet during the day and book a day room (cheaper! I check these sites for good deals:
[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.hotelsbyday.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.daybreakhotels.com/[/URL]
And for nighttime hotels:
[URL]https://www.hotwire.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.priceline.com/[/URL]
Sex ranged from bellow average to mind blowing. I ended up with two regulars, and I can't freaking decide which one to drop. Don't have the time or money to keep meeting both LOL.
On the BBFS topic, 75% of the girls ended up offering it. Most not on the first date though. However, the appalling aspect for me is that most of them are not on BC. One of them literally told me to go ahead and CIP, as she's not in the fertile time of the month. Smh! This is a crazy slippery slope, someone needs to talk some sense into me.
Some interesting profiles:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc6ab93c-04d7-4f4e-81df-ac832dd88786[/URL]
Really good looking, $500, but super PRO.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/16d69aa7-426a-4c45-b65d-5bb1a64ac356[/URL]
Looks hot, didn't meet her, as she wanted $800.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7139ce83-bfa2-4fe3-b052-eb4cf70d4bd9[/URL]
Seems PRO, wanted $300, ok with BBFS from first meet. Something felt off about it and although seemed a good thing, I didn't go for it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6719cdc2-41cd-4d57-8e8f-bb6b5b0f9d51[/URL]
Pro or semi-pro. Can only meet in a limited time window during the day. Asked for $500. I passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9fb33f19-4f4b-453d-88e9-f9d31db9f8d9[/URL]
Asked for $500, but said no kissing and that's a big turn off for me. Passed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40a44d42-58d0-4247-93d7-316ed9fff71b[/URL]
Didn't get the chance to meet this one. Curious if anyone did meet her. She was asking for $500, but probably can be negotiated down.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ef1ae54-f61c-4a74-b666-5a15952e8511[/URL]
Really strange interaction with this one. She seemed a scammer at first, asking for gas money and help with bills before we even met. I kind of ignored her for a while, but then she pinged me wanting to meet. I was 90% sure she won't show up, so I had a backup date scheduled, but she did! Sex was bellow average though, she's really amateur in that department.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4469a1f-2f29-41ba-83e4-d98e21268930[/URL]
Wanted drinks and then hookup in the car. Asking $500. I countered with $300, she went silent.[/QUOTE]Hype, thanks for that report. I haven't been on SA for 6 yrs. Or so. I am older than you, so I would seek older women. Your report is disheartening, but I am glad you could find two that you liked, keepers. That yield is very good. IDK how you do it; it is a mountain of work. I think the least surprising was that that girl knew her fertile period, LOL. But the prices, not allowing BBFS on first meet, no kissing, etc. Is disappointing. I had found it very good when I used it.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653339]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.[/QUOTE]There are a lot of wealthy guys in Boston who don't care about spending thousands and the girls know this. Think Harvard / MIT nerds / socially awkward but intelligent guys without experience / and the finance bros. Many Providence strippers advertise in Boston for this reason.
What happens when someone logs into their scam accounts one after the other.
[QUOTE=MosesBlackk;6653968]There are a lot of wealthy guys in Boston who don't care about spending thousands and the girls know this. Think Harvard / MIT nerds / socially awkward but intelligent guys without experience / and the finance bros. Many Providence strippers advertise in Boston for this reason.[/QUOTE]I think this trend extends to the population here in general of guys earning well. Also, new guys to the scene, younger than 45, pulling down very good salaries spending 500 plus on meets for stripper bodies, covered, mechanical, non GFE service. This initiation sticks with them and becomes the norm. We all have different standards and predilections that are informed by how much coin we can dispose of.
[QUOTE=Corrado58;6654800]I think this trend extends to the population here in general of guys earning well. Also, new guys to the scene, younger than 45, pulling down very good salaries spending 500 plus on meets for stripper bodies, covered, mechanical, non GFE service. This initiation sticks with them and becomes the norm. We all have different standards and predilections that are informed by how much coin we can dispose of.[/QUOTE]And we move to seeking. With effort I'm able to pull the full GFE (except BB which I wouldn't do with a dancer) from above average strippers, but a lot of time and effort is wasted. Really hate the mechanical bullshit that qualifies for service these days.
[QUOTE=DougF;6651956]Just got my account locked and can't get it unlocked without verifying identity. This site seems to be going downhill fast. No chance I'm sending them a photo of my I'd.[/QUOTE]I emailed seeking threatening a refund if I had to verify and they actually said they would refund me. Not sure if I'll ever see it because I used a virtual card, but that's not the point. The much more interesting thing is that they refereed to me having to verify as a "suspension" I'm guessing I got reported for something and this verification thing is a new suspension process.
[QUOTE=Corrado58;6653800]Hype, thanks for that report. I haven't been on SA for 6 yrs. Or so. I am older than you, so I would seek older women. Your report is disheartening, but I am glad you could find two that you liked, keepers. That yield is very good. IDK how you do it; it is a mountain of work. I think the least surprising was that that girl knew her fertile period, LOL. But the prices, not allowing BBFS on first meet, no kissing, etc. Is disappointing. I had found it very good when I used it.[/QUOTE]His report is very accurate in my experience. You're right. It's a ton of work and even when you get all the way to the bedroom / hotel room, a big percentage of the time it's "well that was a release but I'd not see her again" result.
I had quit SA, then went back over the past 4 months, and honestly made 0 new long-term interests. Had coffee with several young women who'd have seen me again but I was just meh about them the next day. And a few sessions that were ok but just not worth repeating to me Maybe I'm just getting old and / or tired of it! LOL.
For many it's a lot about the chase, not the catch. That's called a compulsion and it applies. Over these past 4 months the chase was way more interesting than the catches. So time to quit it again.
[QUOTE=Bran001;6655629]His report is very accurate in my experience. You're right. It's a ton of work and even when you get all the way to the bedroom / hotel room, a big percentage of the time it's "well that was a release but I'd not see her again" result.
I had quit SA, then went back over the past 4 months, and honestly made 0 new long-term interests. Had coffee with several young women who'd have seen me again but I was just meh about them the next day. And a few sessions that were ok but just not worth repeating to me Maybe I'm just getting old and / or tired of it! LOL.
For many it's a lot about the chase, not the catch. That's called a compulsion and it applies. Over these past 4 months the chase was way more interesting than the catches. So time to quit it again.[/QUOTE]If only going for 8's or higher it will be an absolute shit ton of work since everybody and their father is going after the same ones. They get 100's of messages per day and more on other socials. Then add in compatibility and it's rare to find a long term thing. Also many of these girls have severe mental problems, so they'll ghost, fade, or zombie you when their current sugar daddy dumps them. I.
It's work either way with civilians, strippers, or sugaring. The days of just flashing money and getting what you want are over except with straight escorts and girls very desperate for money or low on the attraction scale. Of course that doesn't qualify if you're a celebrity or a pro athlete (who are also hitting up these hoes on their igs) but 99% of us aren't.
[QUOTE=MosesBlackk;6655697]If only going for 8's or higher it will be an absolute shit ton of work since everybody and their father is going after the same ones. They get 100's of messages per day and more on other socials. Then add in compatibility and it's rare to find a long term thing. Also many of these girls have severe mental problems, so they'll ghost, fade, or zombie you when their current sugar daddy dumps them. I.
It's work either way with civilians, strippers, or sugaring. The days of just flashing money and getting what you want are over except with straight escorts and girls very desperate for money or low on the attraction scale. Of course that doesn't qualify if you're a celebrity or a pro athlete (who are also hitting up these hoes on their igs) but 99% of us aren't.[/QUOTE]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?
[QUOTE=Gkastanza99;6654317]What happens when someone logs into their scam accounts one after the other.[/QUOTE]Glad I'm not paying money for this BS subscription. Tried it once, had pretty good luck and it went downhill from there. They kept sending me subscription discounts. But I didn't take the bait.
In my many years of mongering, I've never ever paid for a meet and greet beyond a cup of coffee or a sandwich. I still have vivid memories of this absolute knockout Latina from Panama I picked up one fine morning in the Lawrence area. I bought her a Starbucks sausage, egg, and cheese breakfast sandwich or some such. She was famished and had this romantic twinkle in her eyes as she gobbled up her breakfast during the drive to my spot. Needless to say, the amateurs appreciate even small gestures and the payback is immeasurable. Whereas the pros are ungrateful no matter what you do for them.
[QUOTE=Corrado58;6656100]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?[/QUOTE]