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How can I scout them in advance?
[QUOTE=Bachelor1234;5044054]Buy a Visa Vanilla Gift Card and use that. If you do it right, you probably won't need to be on the site month after month after month. Scout the ones that interest you in advance. Message them all as soon as you sign up. Collect phone numbers. Work through that list. Repeat when you need a new set of contacts.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Pubb69;5044953]You can save yourself some money but much more importantly your time by not subscribing. The site had limited value up into about 2018 and now it's totally useless.[/QUOTE]SA is still a gold mine, IMO. You just have to work it and weed out the fakes and flakes. It takes work to find quality SB's. Typically for me it runs in waves. I'll spend hours on there messaging the sugar babies and then suddenly I have too many at once to pick from. It's kind of a feast or famine type scenario. For example I've went days at a time without being able to score anything concrete and then suddenly on day three or four I've got six girls are wanting to meet at the same time. LOL My best experiences of my life have originated off that website.
[QUOTE=VincentLeMec;5047770]How can I scout them in advance?[/QUOTE]You can look but you can't send pms.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;5047859]SA is still a gold mine, IMO. You just have to work it and weed out the fakes and flakes. It takes work to find quality SB's. Typically for me it runs in waves. I'll spend hours on there messaging the sugar babies and then suddenly I have too many at once to pick from. It's kind of a feast or famine type scenario. For example I've went days at a time without being able to score anything concrete and then suddenly on day three or four I've got six girls are wanting to meet at the same time. LOL My best experiences of my life have originated off that website.[/QUOTE]I agree with DirtyDeeds. I get the same wave. Right now I have from Fayetteville through Greeenville to Charlotte that want to meet. I can't even count them. So SA is good if you can be patient.
[QUOTE=VincentLeMec;5047770]How can I scout them in advance?[/QUOTE]I think he meant read their profiles.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;5048299]I agree with DirtyDeeds. I get the same wave. Right now I have from Fayetteville through Greeenville to Charlotte that want to meet. I can't even count them. So SA is good if you can be patient[/QUOTE]I agree with both of you. It comes in waves. Now is a hot time on SA. I think since it's the end of the month, you get the girls who need to pay rent or a payment. You also have the holidays coming up. Every since my college days, I've always noticed that the best time to find something new is the spring and the first of November. The November time is when girls just don't want to be alone for the holidays. It's cold and dark at 5, so they need the comfort of actually having someone. In my college days you had to go out and scout for women. There was no internet to just sit at home and look around. You actually had to go out and earn it.
[QUOTE=Bedevil;5048806]I agree with both of you. It comes in waves. Now is a hot time on SA. I think since it's the end of the month, you get the girls who need to pay rent or a payment. You also have the holidays coming up. Every since my college days, I've always noticed that the best time to find something new is the spring and the first of November. The November time is when girls just don't want to be alone for the holidays. It's cold and dark at 5, so they need the comfort of actually having someone. In my college days you had to go out and scout for women. There was no internet to just sit at home and look around. You actually had to go out and earn it.[/QUOTE]I don't know about waves, but there is still quality of girls here, if you want a quick fuck you can find that as well. I wanted something long term so I found one and she didn't want an allowance she just wanted to be together. Sometimes if she wants to get her hair done I pay for that and take her to nice dinner. It really depends on what you are looking for.
Indigopixie.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/353bf5ac-4e49-4092-8cc1-dabb1f98546c[/URL]
She is the one that I was trying to save as a back up. Did M&G all was fine she is few pounds heavier than the picture. But get this. She wants only $650 per month. She's only doing this because of her rent. So good luck guys.
Happy Hunting.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;5047859]SA is still a gold mine, IMO... My best experiences of my life have originated off that website.[/QUOTE]I'd seen people say the same kind of negative things about Craigslist in the past as you're responding to regarding SA. Prior to 2017, I met some beauties and had some fantastic relationships thanks to Craigslist (and the widest sex of my life) . Since I moved to NC, SA has filled the same role. And while that's only been 6 ladies since July 2017, there's been a two year relationship followed by an 8 month relationship during that time period with women devoted and sexual and kinky enough that I didn't feel like I was missing out by not playing the field.
[QUOTE=TheDistance;5051557]I'd seen people say the same kind of negative things about Craigslist in the past as you're responding to regarding SA. Prior to 2017, I met some beauties and had some fantastic relationships thanks to Craigslist (and the widest sex of my life) . Since I moved to NC, SA has filled the same role. And while that's only been 6 ladies since July 2017, there's been a two year relationship followed by an 8 month relationship during that time period with women devoted and sexual and kinky enough that I didn't feel like I was missing out by not playing the field.[/QUOTE]Craigslist was free. On SA your paying money to go on a 95% scam site.
Been wading through the instagram profiles in the area as an alt to SA on the reach of a senior member. Has anyone else gone this route? Been pinging girls based on their pics and got a hit back asking for 5 $ for a kitten. I was very clear in my message SD 4 SB. Any thoughts? New to this. How do I pursue? Tips and tricks to the instagram game? All ears.
J.
Are students of today having more work in college than I did when I was in college. I had a double major in EE and CS. Never once in the 5 years it took me to complete those 2 majors did I once complain or say I was very busy. I had time to have some fun. But still managed to get into Graduate school for a Masters EE. I Do read a lot on SA about people being very busy with school work. Also the few that I have been lucky to date make it known how stressful college work is. Did I have it easy during my time in college.
Super GPS. She wants 800. My jaw dropped.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15f170c8-c41b-46fb-9146-ba421d465aad[/URL]
[QUOTE=Hiamey;5058436]Super GPS. She wants 800. My jaw dropped.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15f170c8-c41b-46fb-9146-ba421d465aad[/URL][/QUOTE]By the pound. Fat chicks are not cheap these days.
The link:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f0fcec7-d8b5-4aed-a170-4488943f5b1d[/URL]
She gave me a Southern California number, told me she lived there for a long time, but then didn't know anything about the area (she told me two different city names but neither had the right area code).
I have greatly enjoyed my time with a local SB while in the area, but I'm moving on to another State. Perhaps one of you gentlemen can benefit from my misfortune at being reassigned. I do mean gentleman. Believe me when I say if your not gentlemanly you would be wasting your time and hers. Treat her like a GF and she is very affectionate and attentive. I'm well past 60 so maybe my view of what is gentlemanly differs from a younger guy. If so, talk to a boomer on the subject.
She is an early 30's, AA, a smaller BBW, very sweet, great kisser, multi-orgasmic & low maintenance. She was an enthusiastic sex partner, bi-curiou and ready to act on it. She is smart And witty so conversation was fun. She was very much like a hot vanilla GF. I met her from SB. She lives an hour away from Raleigh. Due to work and kids she is only available evening and nights; so I would get a room near her, grab dinner together and then steam up the hotel windows until midnight, leaving me pleasantly exhausted.
I just left her company for the last time and it is bittersweet. I'm confident I will find a SB at my next assignment but this has been one of my best. She has never mentioned money, and neither did I. Not once. I worked on a PPM where I slipped a couple Franklins discreetly Into a card the first time And then into her purse on subsequent meetings.
Please know I'm not going to share her information indiscriminately but will provide via DM to a respectfully oriented potential SD.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;5058436]Super GPS. She wants 800. My jaw dropped.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15f170c8-c41b-46fb-9146-ba421d465aad[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/928230d8-e749-4384-b7bc-87ec97131253[/URL]
This one said "I typically received $1000 per meet", "but I'm somewhat negotiable".
Oh, well thanks, honey. Aren't you sweet?
Lmfao.
I talked with her about 4 months ago and agreed at 400. Plus my cost of hotel. I did not meet her because considering a decent hotel it would be around 550 for me per meet.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5067032][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/928230d8-e749-4384-b7bc-87ec97131253[/URL]
This one said "I typically received $1000 per meet", "but I'm somewhat negotiable".
Oh, well thanks, honey. Aren't you sweet?
Lmfao.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5068905]I talked with her about 4 months ago and agreed at 400. Plus my cost of hotel. I did not meet her because considering a decent hotel it would be around 550 for me per meet.[/QUOTE]That was 4 months ago, times have changed and she needs a cost of living raise. Lmao. She is throwing her line into the pond of fools so eventually some sucker will bite.
Sorry, but she Just told me she is not available, and took her profile down. Ours was an intense connection and she just isn't ready for another. She has been calling me. Reluctantly, I blocked her. In the end, we pay them to leave, not for the sex.
[QUOTE=Parboil;5065834]I have greatly enjoyed my time with a local SB while in the area, but I'm moving on to another State. Perhaps one of you gentlemen can benefit from my misfortune at being reassigned. I do mean gentleman. Believe me when I say if your not gentlemanly you would be wasting your time and hers. Treat her like a GF and she is very affectionate and attentive. I'm well past 60 so maybe my view of what is gentlemanly differs from a younger guy. If so, talk to a boomer on the subject.
She is an early 30's, AA, a smaller BBW, very sweet, great kisser, multi-orgasmic & low maintenance. She was an enthusiastic sex partner, bi-curiou and ready to act on it. She is smart And witty so conversation was fun. She was very much like a hot vanilla GF. I met her from SB. She lives an hour away from Raleigh. Due to work and kids she is only available evening and nights; so I would get a room near her, grab dinner together and then steam up the hotel windows until midnight, leaving me pleasantly exhausted.
I just left her company for the last time and it is bittersweet. I'm confident I will find a SB at my next assignment but this has been one of my best. She has never mentioned money, and neither did I. Not once. I worked on a PPM where I slipped a couple Franklins discreetly Into a card the first time And then into her purse on subsequent meetings..[/QUOTE]
Anyone know anything about this lady.
She is DTF. Asked 500 agreed to 300. Doesn't want to meet in public.
Yournewbestfriend25.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b9203541-c04f-466e-a641-1b744b9391e5[/URL]
[QUOTE=Gatttaca;5075131]Anyone know anything about this lady.
She is DTF. Asked 500 agreed to 300. Doesn't want to meet in public.
Yournewbestfriend25.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b9203541-c04f-466e-a641-1b744b9391e5[/URL][/QUOTE]If she's hosting (saving you the hotel cost), I'd say that's not entirely out of line. If she's willing to give you the time to get your money's worth.
I always wanted to do one of the Hurricanes' "Storm Squad" - so here's your chance.
[QUOTE=JanisDr00;5056021]Been wading through the instagram profiles in the area as an alt to SA on the reach of a senior member. Has anyone else gone this route? Been pinging girls based on their pics and got a hit back asking for 5 $ for a kitten. I was very clear in my message SD 4 SB. Any thoughts? New to this. How do I pursue? Tips and tricks to the instagram game? All ears.
J.[/QUOTE]You're taking a risk on Instagram / Facebook. If you ask the wrong girl, you could regret it. They will post your name & pics and try to shame you online. That being said, I will reach out to strippers or "only fans" girls & ask if they are available for a dinner date or more.
[QUOTE=SandPiper540;5076847]You're taking a risk on Instagram / Facebook. If you ask the wrong girl, you could regret it. They will post your name & pics and try to shame you online. That being said, I will reach out to strippers or "only fans" girls & ask if they are available for a dinner date or more.[/QUOTE]Yeah, no WAY should you ever use your actual social media with real names to contact a girl.
Burner account, always. Fake name, slightly fake location, etc.
If you go that route, you are fine.
I'm having way more success on IG than on the sugar sites, recently.
[QUOTE=SandPiper540;5076847]You're taking a risk on Instagram / Facebook. If you ask the wrong girl, you could regret it. They will post your name & pics and try to shame you online. That being said, I will reach out to strippers or "only fans" girls & ask if they are available for a dinner date or more.[/QUOTE]Do you have to pay to join these girls onlyfans sites in order to contact them?
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5077487]Yeah, no WAY should you ever use your actual social media with real names to contact a girl.
Burner account, always. Fake name, slightly fake location, etc.
If you go that route, you are fine.
I'm having way more success on IG than on the sugar sites, recently.[/QUOTE]Care to share some of your successes from IG.
This Nikki recently popped up on SA. Anyone know her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc30e220-aeac-4d39-98c9-5fc3edfabb4b[/URL]
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5078097]Care to share some of your successes from IG.[/QUOTE]Brother SAC, you know if any of these girls were the shareable type, I'd DM you.
You've been a great connection and always willing to trade info.
I'm talking WAY UTR girls that I'm trying to talk INTO the sugar game that aren't even on sites. That's where I'm spending most of my trolling time, these days.
Also, my idea of "success" is way different than most. I like to have a lot of lines in the water (at least 10-20 conversations going) at a time in search of that elusive whopper Blue Marlin.
I cancel a ton of dates, because if I feel like the second date isn't going to go where I want it to go, it's just wasted time and $.
If there are any on my radar that want to see multiple guys, I'll absolutely reach out.
Stay safe, why'all.
[QUOTE=Bachelor1234;5079189]This Nikki recently popped up on SA. Anyone know her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc30e220-aeac-4d39-98c9-5fc3edfabb4b[/URL][/QUOTE]You can find a review / discussion of her in late January this year beginning with post number 1414 from AzBadger, I think.
as of me typing this most discussion and review is page 57, with further discussion page 56...page numbers will change as more posts are added to forum.
I think he meant your success story, not the girls.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5079598]Brother SAC, you know if any of these girls were the shareable type, I'd DM you.
You've been a great connection and always willing to trade info.
I'm talking WAY UTR girls that I'm trying to talk INTO the sugar game that aren't even on sites. That's where I'm spending most of my trolling time, these days.
Also, my idea of "success" is way different than most. I like to have a lot of lines in the water (at least 10-20 conversations going) at a time in search of that elusive whopper Blue Marlin.
I cancel a ton of dates, because if I feel like the second date isn't going to go where I want it to go, it's just wasted time and $.
If there are any on my radar that want to see multiple guys, I'll absolutely reach out.
Stay safe, why'all.[/QUOTE]
Dam these cameras these days do miracles. This one has demons and a pot belly. She is at street walker level when I saw her and declined the meet. Good news is you can get her for SW prices if that's your thing.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f3a45be4-19f8-439f-b158-23508c2e608b[/URL]
[QUOTE=Sobe69;5082791]Dam these cameras these days do miracles. This one has demons and a pot belly. She is at street walker level when I saw her and declined the meet. Good news is you can get her for SW prices if that's your thing.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f3a45be4-19f8-439f-b158-23508c2e608b[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks for the info. She left me her number but I have not followed up yet.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;5083041]Thanks for the info. She left me her number but I have not followed up yet.[/QUOTE]Can you PM me her contact info??
Is that possible. Someone help me. LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9dba5a1a-1083-44c4-8b51-a7efde449e36[/URL]
[QUOTE=Hiamey;5088857]Is that possible. Someone help me. LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9dba5a1a-1083-44c4-8b51-a7efde449e36[/URL][/QUOTE]I saw that one also. WTF? Maybe somebody should just send her cash. It costs them nothing to post and send messages. Why not go fishing?
[QUOTE=Reggie212;5089048]I saw that one also. WTF? Maybe somebody should just send her cash. It costs them nothing to post and send messages. Why not go fishing?[/QUOTE]Their definition of NSA and ours are usually very different, based on my conversations with many SBs.
What they mean: "Not looking for a boyfriend or husband or commitment". This may or may not involve anything physical. They just use the term to keep guys at a distance, imo.
What many SD's mean: "Sex without attachment. ".
Platonic:
What we sometimes assume they mean: "Nothing physical".
This isn't always the case; again -- sometimes, they just use it interchangeably with "not wanting a commitment", or "FWB", IMO.
TLDR: just ignore anything they've written and if you like her look, take a swing for the fences. All they can do is say no and stop being vague if you ask the right questions.
Met her on Tinder when she was 18 and staying in college dorms. Took her to dinner and proceeded to my hotel. No money was exchanged. Did the deed and it was just awkward. The next day got even more awkward and I believe she may have some kind of personality disorder. We got into some ridiculous disagreement through texts after we parted ways and I forgot about her. Funny enough she contacted me recently on Seeking and I played along as if we had never met. She wanted to do PPM but I would not spend any money on her.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5076432]If she's hosting (saving you the hotel cost), I'd say that's not entirely out of line. If she's willing to give you the time to get your money's worth.
I always wanted to do one of the Hurricanes' "Storm Squad" - so here's your chance.[/QUOTE]
I'm very close on all these and wanted to see if anyone had experience before I pulled the trigger.
Sweetj77.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0bea4cad-7f35-ec8d-f8fb-028ce1db16e8[/URL]
Diva1 cute.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1045ffe4-afae-459e-ae11-e04d19def38c[/URL]
[QUOTE=DWooderson;5092426]Met her on Tinder when she was 18 and staying in college dorms. Took her to dinner and proceeded to my hotel. No money was exchanged. Did the deed and it was just awkward. The next day got even more awkward and I believe she may have some kind of personality disorder. We got into some ridiculous disagreement through texts after we parted ways and I forgot about her. Funny enough she contacted me recently on Seeking and I played along as if we had never met. She wanted to do PPM but I would not spend any money on her.[/QUOTE]I'd agree with your comments here. I was going to meet this week but she was really sweet one minute and then a nightmare the next. Glad I blocked her.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5091786]Their definition of NSA and ours are usually very different, based on my conversations with many SBs.
What they mean: "Not looking for a boyfriend or husband or commitment". This may or may not involve anything physical. They just use the term to keep guys at a distance, imo.
What many SD's mean: "Sex without attachment. ".
Platonic:
What we sometimes assume they mean: "Nothing physical".
This isn't always the case; again -- sometimes, they just use it interchangeably with "not wanting a commitment", or "FWB", IMO.
TLDR: just ignore anything they've written and if you like her look, take a swing for the fences. All they can do is say no and stop being vague if you ask the right questions.[/QUOTE]Word spread around that the site is an easy way to make money for these college kids with various schemes and it seems almost all involve not having sex but finding other ways to get at your money. I am sure you know what your doing in the way of being careful but others may not so I would be extremely cautious about propositioning anyone on there if they have a way to actually identify who you are. Blackmail schemes run abundant on that site.