PaigeSweetStuf's Advice is Sexy-Smart!
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2394618]So of late I am reading a lot of posts that are complaints of poor communication . . .
. . .Courtesy goes a long way. . .
. . .Consistency. . .
. . .Stay safe all.
Xoxo.
Paige.[/QUOTE]PaigeSweetStuf:
Well said; and that is why you are the most respected lady on this Orlando board. New girls trying to figure this out would do well to consider you as a role model, to learn from your experiences, and listen to your sage advice. You are always level headed, on queue with your comments, and whether or not you fulfill every man's fantasy of their perfect woman, you are never the subject of a negative review. You say what you mean and do what you say; that has earned my admiration.
And the guys should consider your words and how they apply equally to us as well. If we don't show the ladies respect, how can we expect them to continue to satisfy our needs day in and day out. There is never any excuse for a guy to NCNS (Not Call, Not Show) for a date. Shit happens to us too, but call and let the lady know so she can take the next client that rings her phone. I read where some dudes actually use the tactic of making a date and NCNS to "get back" and some transgression and harm a lady; but two wrongs don't make a right and fighting among ourselves is not productive to making everyone safe and successful in whatever their pursuits here entail. It should never be Dudes vs Chicks on this board, it should be everyone sharing information to help each other find the proper matches, to safely exercise our free will, and to safely hobby as we choose.
Communication is an Art. I am often slightly put-off if not offended by the tone, brevity, or lack of reply to my innocuous PM's and texts of inquiry. I hate to generalize, but it is often the younger or less seasoned ladies, but sometimes even gals that have been at this for years, and even some that have met me before, that will treat me abruptly or badly and really turn me off from wanting to see them or repeat.
I understand that some gals learn to just get as much as they can in as short of a time as possible and move-on; don't worry about earning a client's repeat business, don't care what anyone says, just get a new name and number next month. Similarly, some guys figure a release is a release is a release; spend as little as possible and don't even think that the SP is a person just trying to get by in this world, like us. That's a poor business model for the ladies and a less than civil attitude by such guys. This board should be focused on identifying those who do not behave honorably, such as NCNS, ROB's, thugs, and those behaving dangerously. Secondly, information on offerings and skills are vitally important so that others can choose where to invest their time and treasure; but whether a gal is BBBJ or CBJ, DFK or no K, CFS or not, is just information on preferences and is not a criteria that should necessarily equate to a good or bad date, but rather levels of customer satisfaction. Not generally something to be ridiculed or punished for.
LOL, sorry, I guess I am rambling now. Thank you, Paige for doing what you do, helping others and stimulating appropriate dialogue on our common hobby. I look forward to stopping by to see you again soon; the only thing sexier than your writings is listening to you in person during a little time and companionship session - - whatever else may happen between two consenting adults is like gravy.
Thus goes hand in hand with.
Keeping appointments and not playing games for both the gentleman and sp. The worst is when you give your address and then they tell you they are on their way and then comes the crickets. Silence. Total creeper or LEO move, either way not cool. Keep the appointments and cancel in a timely manner.
Xoxo.
Paige.
[QUOTE=WilliamMstrs;2396710]Reply in a timely manner, and at a time of day that is not suspicious. (I. E. Don't reply three days after I texted and at midnight![/QUOTE]
You are right it isn't something turned on or off.
But to me it is all about how I vibe with someone. To some I may the most GFE chick on here, and to others they would not descrbe me as that in anyway. There are certain things I can't and won't do for anything. Thats why I don't advertise GFE.
There are some guys that no matter well I get to know them, how nice of guy they are, I am still not kissing them. I would much rather decline kissing than give some half ass forced kiss that is horrible. It is my policy to not do anything half ass.
At the same time tho kissing does not have to happen to be GFE but I know for some guys it is a must.
There is so many grey areas with this term so I try to avoid it. Most of all there has to an intimate and intellectual connection for it to happen tho.
Xoxo.
Paige.
[QUOTE=Alligator19;2397098]Thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion.
What, exactly does GFE mean. Or, at least, mean to you?
The following was posted on the Escort Classified Ads Thread recently:
"Come see me this toasty Friday!
NO FS!!
Also let me know before our dream if you would like the GFE experience. I thought that it was something specifically asked for during a dream. Sorry to those of you who came expecting GFE and didn't receive it!
Now, I've always been under the impression that GFE wasn't something that one turned on or off. That it was more of the overall vibe that a provider delivered along with their services.
For example. A GFE experience would be the illusion of intimacy or familiarity whereas a non-GFE would be just a straight business transaction or something like it. Again, I figured the whole FGE thing was just the general way an SP acted toward her clients, not something that could be requested or not requested.
Am I wrong?
Discuss.[/QUOTE]
Sisterhood vs. Competition
So I get it, technically as SPs we are in competition for business, nothing wrong with a little friendly competition, or new competition might make you have step your game up but there are few things of late that have been bothersome to me.
When a highly regarded SP reaches out to another new SP to introduce themselves I feel it is quite rude to ignore them. You probably won't get a second chance at that intro. The new SP may be the hot shit at the moment but with everything novelty wears off. There will come a point you may need referrals or references. You don't have to jump at their intro to you but acknowledgement of receiving would be more than cordial.
Lately there have been some new advertisers claiming to be THE BEST at whatever. Thats some big shoes to fill jumping on this board with some legends, women who have been providing A+ service for years in the hobby. I am not saying that these new SPs do not provide quality service but those are bold words. Not every SP is for everyone so there can't be any single one that is the best at everything everytime. I think reviews say more than your ads ever could.
With this being said white knighting average performance in hopes of getting discounts doesn't really help the community as whole. It may be good for the author and subject, but that is just selfish. An honest review is more beneficial to all involved. Constructive criticism can help an SP step up their game if needed. And after awhile when we all read these rave reviews by the same authors on those SPs that most either give average or subpar reviews the authors loose credibility within the community.
I don't claim to be the best at anything. I do claim to be a reliable, friendly, consistant, hot, smart SP that aims to please. I put safety an discretion at top of my list of priority for all those involved. SPs know that I am one of the most friendly and knowledgeable in this hobby, and very easy to approach. We need to look out for each other, its a sisterhood that may save one of our lives or from getting a new pair of shiny silver handcuffs. I am not saying we all have to be besties, as I do like a small hand full of you ladies better than the rest but as long as you have always treated me with respect I will do the same for you. There are plenty of mario coins and dicks to go around.
Just some food for thought.
Stay safe.
Xoxo.
Paige.
Now You Peaked My Curiosity
Me being curious is a bad thing for me and I all I can imagine is the transition from one to the other while doing (you LOL) doing shots. Hmmm what does my schedule look like in the next few days LOL
[QUOTE=MarinaGfe;2400093]THe difference for me between GFE and pse is I few extra shots of petron (LOL).[/QUOTE].
If you want to put it in that perspective.
I have a feeling that it would be the ladies in the 1 or 2 seeds that make it to the final four and if not for the S curve some wouldn't even make it on the brackets.
It would be impossible to crown THe BEST of The BEST but I know of many SPs that come extremely close. The best would be a combination of qualities and attributes that many of well regarded "legends" hold then encompassed into one being. I think you gentlemen are quite lucky to have so many wonderful well regarded SPs to choose from, In all my years I have never seen a hobby community that in general looks out for each other as much as Orlando does.
Actions speak much louder than words.
Stay safe.
Xoxo.
Paige.
[QUOTE=Alligator19;2401243]Also. To Paige's point, I do chuckle every time I see an SP tout themselves as "The Best".
Intimacy / sexuality may be the most subjective thing in the entire world. "The Best" for someone may be nowhere near for another person. So, you're the best at what, exactly?
That said, if any of the ladies in our literary club is interested in determining some way in which we could crown someone "The Best," I would be more than happy to serve as a judge / evaluator in some kind of NCAA tournament style competition.
Paige, your body of work has likely earned you a 1 seed.
I would love to see this bracket, by the way![/QUOTE]
Very well written and highly accurate
Paige,
Your post is right on!
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2400743]So I get it, technically as SPs we are in competition for business, nothing wrong with a little friendly competition, or new competition might make you have step your game up but there are few things of late that have been bothersome to me.
When a highly regarded SP reaches out to another new SP to introduce themselves I feel it is quite rude to ignore them. You probably won't get a second chance at that intro. The new SP may be the hot shit at the moment but with everything novelty wears off. There will come a point you may need referrals or references. You don't have to jump at their intro to you but acknowledgement of receiving would be more than cordial.
Lately there have been some new advertisers claiming to be THE BEST at whatever. Thats some big shoes to fill jumping on this board with some legends, women who have been providing A+ service for years in the hobby. I am not saying that these new SPs do not provide quality service but those are bold words. Not every SP is for everyone so there can't be any single one that is the best at everything everytime. I think reviews say more than your ads ever could.
With this being said white knighting average performance in hopes of getting discounts doesn't really help the community as whole. It may be good for the author and subject, but that is just selfish. An honest review is more beneficial to all involved. Constructive criticism can help an SP step up their game if needed. And after awhile when we all read these rave reviews by the same authors on those SPs that most either give average or subpar reviews the authors loose credibility within the community.
I don't claim to be the best at anything. I do claim to be a reliable, friendly, consistant, hot, smart SP that aims to please. I put safety an discretion at top of my list of priority for all those involved. SPs know that I am one of the most friendly and knowledgeable in this hobby, and very easy to approach. We need to look out for each other, its a sisterhood that may save one of our lives or from getting a new pair of shiny silver handcuffs. I am not saying we all have to be besties, as I do like a small hand full of you ladies better than the rest but as long as you have always treated me with respect I will do the same for you. There are plenty of mario coins and dicks to go around.
Just some food for thought.
Stay safe.
Xoxo.
Paige.[/QUOTE]
The Dallas saga continues!
Porkchopp just called out Rufus the Pimp on the unreliable, unprofessional, Dallas. See under Negative Escort reviews. When will ALL of you mongers get the message that this SP is bad news and that Rufus and Jazak are her pimps?
Welcome to the neighorhood, now get to work
Roman,
Welcome to the best damn literary club in the US of A, including half of Alabama. You will find a wonderful group of romance novelists who are happy to write about their imaginary experiences. You will also find some guys that are totally full of shit, guys that are total time wasters, guys that are really teenage boys that can't get a date and, of course, the finest ladies anywhere. Pardon us if we don't answer you directly and just give you a list, but, frankly, we don't know which one of these you are. Frankly, if you spend about a half hour just RTFF you will find more intel on more imaginary ladies than you can possibly take advantage of, no matter how much time you have on your vacation, or convention, or whatever.
I would go a step further and say, if you just read the ad thread and cross reference some reviews you will find good intel. I'll go two steps further. If you can't get fucked in Orlando (in at least a couple of different ways) it is YOU.
The only thing we ask is that you please join the club by writing about your imaginary experiences, good and bad. Help others.
Play safe,
C3. (with three stars)
[QUOTE=Roman97;2402937]Hey guys I will be in town Wednesday through Saturday wanted to know who is safe and reliable. I will be around international drive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Feel free to personal message me. Thanks again.[/QUOTE]
This is one of the scariest thing I have ever read
[QUOTE=Chris5;2403000]They are young, mostly in there early twenties and most have great spinner bodies and cute faces and they use what they have for the here and now. They are not concentrating on references and safety and all that other important real SP stuff. They could care less what you or I think.
[/QUOTE]If you are not concentrating on safety and important stuff then they are a liability. Idk about you but I sure have a hell of alot to loose so I think safety should be at the top of everyone's list.
I truly appreciate your insight on some of these new SPs. You shed more light on areas that I had no clue about, I am sure many of us didn't know how shallow their mentality is, and that they will compromise all of us just to get what they want.
Stay safe everyone.
Xoxo.
Paige.