Jaxback, here is what I think happened:
When I called the young lady, she agreed on a certain amount and it seems, now, unwillingly. My thing is, if you are a provider and you really don't like the gift you're agreeing to then don't accept it. Some girls tend to unwillingly agree to a price and the unwillingness manifest itself through the service or performance. If a provider wants a positive review, she should make sure that gift is something she can live with and if not, just tell us and give us the amount that will make you happy. If we agree, you got a deal; if not, then we (clients) can just move on. No one should feel coerced into anything. And believe me, there was no compulsory on my part.
Perhaps they can be decent providers- not sure. But providing a substandard service will only get you a bad and / or mixed reports. Also, maybe you gave them exactly what they requested. If one wants to give a provider exactly what they ask for, that's fine but hopefully the provider realizes that others will probably want to negotiate.
I hate when a provider wants to clarify what will happen in a session once they have "taken and secured your donation." Can't stand that! Can you imagine if the car dealer revealed to you very limited information before you buy a car or someone you bought a house from gave you very limited information but then after you gave them the down payment then full disclosure? You'd be quite pissed! Anyway, like you said, YMWV and I will say that that is true especially depending on what you give them. Thanks man.
[QUOTE=Jaxback;1169614]I feel really bad. I had a truly positive experience and reported it, but man it seems like the ultimate proof of how experiences can vary so much.[/QUOTE]
Concur with previous remarks
[QUOTE=Jaxback;1170740]Can you be more specific on her looks? Bigger or more worn?[/QUOTE]I'd have to agree doesn't look exactly like the photo, and you can't tell from the photo, but she is a little chubby. No issues with that, however there was one bit of a turn off for me and that was a slight odor, almost like stale smoke from places you would not expect such an odor if you catch my drift. Action and control was nice, but can't say I would go there again. Don't take me wrong there everything was clean, just wasn't as pleasant a dining experience as I am used to.