Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[QUOTE=MrPlumber;6611884]Massage shop owners know and monitor what's said here and other review sites. Further, most own more than one shop, some multiple dozens of them. A ban at one shop could easily be applied to several others. Perhaps he was foolish enough to out himself. I'll leave the punditry on whether to post the letter or not to other members. The question I would ask myself is, "What value is there in posting the letter here?" It may out the guy and affect business at the affected shops. Might lead the guy to change monikers, if he hasn't changed it many times already.

In the end a dick will be a dick no matter whether the anonymity of this board protects him or not.[/QUOTE]If he is such a bad client that a shop is asking someone to post a letter for them about it, he most likely is doing the things that he is doing since he gets off on the power trip. He also may be doing what he is doing because he feels like he can get away with it. I would let the at op decide based on the information provided, since if the guy in question is posting fake information to get back at a girl or a shop, and continual does it, that's a pretty douche thing to do. It also doesn't help the other members, since other members may start visiting that establishment with expectations, and get upset with the girls when the girls do not offer what he claims they offer.

[QUOTE=MrPlumber;6611884]Massage shop owners know and monitor what's said here and other review sites. Further, most own more than one shop, some multiple dozens of them. A ban at one shop could easily be applied to several others. Perhaps he was foolish enough to out himself. I'll leave the punditry on whether to post the letter or not to other members. The question I would ask myself is, "What value is there in posting the letter here?" It may out the guy and affect business at the affected shops. Might lead the guy to change monikers, if he hasn't changed it many times already.

In the end a dick will be a dick no matter whether the anonymity of this board protects him or not.[/QUOTE]She doesn't care about "outting" him really. She just wants other clients to have realistic expectations of her shop rather than the fantasies and BS he has been posting. I'm pretty sure that anyone that has been reading the other threads already knows who we are referring to. She's not going to stoop to his childish behavior, just wants to let the truth be known and let us decide what we want.

[QUOTE=MrPlumber;6611884]Massage shop owners know and monitor what's said here and other review sites. Further, most own more than one shop, some multiple dozens of them. A ban at one shop could easily be applied to several others. Perhaps he was foolish enough to out himself. I'll leave the punditry on whether to post the letter or not to other members. The question I would ask myself is, "What value is there in posting the letter here?" It may out the guy and affect business at the affected shops. Might lead the guy to change monikers, if he hasn't changed it many times already.

In the end a dick will be a dick no matter whether the anonymity of this board protects him or not.[/QUOTE]It's honestly bothering me and some of her other regulars more than it is her. He is literally trying to send LE there constantly with his fake posts. One of his posts that I read talked about 3 FS providers that he sees there regularly, yet none of the 3 even work there. He is more dangerous to us than he is to her.

[QUOTE=VoodooChile;6611482]Curious if I can or should post this?

So apparently a member here has been harassing a particular spa and some of the girls that work here because the spa owner banned him and notified other spas in the area of what he did so they have banned him too. She asked me if I was a member here. When I told her yes she asked if I would post a letter from her to the rest of us explaining what he is doing. Fake reviews, fake accounts, fake posts, etc. Even leaving fake yelp reviews. I told her I would check here first.[/QUOTE]Yes please. Popcorns.

Testing testing 123.

[QUOTE=JamesD2004;6611981]Yes please. Popcorns.[/QUOTE]LOL, I tried but the post got rejected. I think if you have been following other threads at all, it's pretty obvious who is bitter. Just wish I could explain why he was banned. Oh well.

[QUOTE=Rakmis;6630755]Testing testing 123.[/QUOTE]We heard ya!

If you posted and it didn't show up, that is because all new members are moderated by the admins until you have posted a certain number of posts.

As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?

[QUOTE=Sticker;6633307]As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?[/QUOTE]For me its just guilt, LOL, years ago I was in the waiting room with a kids friend's dad, at the next soccer game he just kept asking me for details.

[QUOTE=Sticker;6633307]As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?[/QUOTE]Suppose, walk of shame, LOL. I rarely see any mongers coming / going, so can't really share in that experience. I would probably say something similar, enjoy, good luck, etc.

[QUOTE=Sticker;6633307]As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?[/QUOTE]Yep, I feel the same, we all know what we are going there for. No need to be embarrassed. I normally give the guy a high five as he leaves.

[QUOTE=OcAmper;6633659]Suppose, walk of shame, LOL. I rarely see any mongers coming / going, so can't really share in that experience. I would probably say something similar, enjoy, good luck, etc.[/QUOTE]Rarely is it ever reciprocated, however.

[QUOTE=Maxen;6633404]For me its just guilt, LOL, years ago I was in the waiting room with a kids friend's dad, at the next soccer game he just kept asking me for details.[/QUOTE]To further that comment, if either person was a coach on the team, or any other youth volunteer, AB506 comes into play. Background check, fingerprinting etc.

Those that have work security clearances.

Those that might feel they are more in the public eye and if they were seen visiting a place, it wold be harmful to their profession.

Easier to deny and say hey, it wasn't me if it ever comes up, rather than hey, I saw you at XXXX, who did you get & who would you recommend?

Might be good in some circles, not so much in others.

[QUOTE=Sticker;6633307]As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?[/QUOTE]Reminds me of an experience walking through a touristy area in Thailand with a hot young thai girl on my arm on the way back to my room to fuck, and some hag of a white girl giving me dirty looks. I just met her stare and smiled, thinking to myself and wanting her to read my mind. Yep I'm going to fuck this little hottie, and I wouldn't fuck your sloppy white pussy if your husband paid me to do it. After that I started looking for eye contact, just to let them know there was no shame in my heart. Bring it.

[QUOTE=Sticker;6633307]As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?[/QUOTE]A well run shop will manage foot traffic sufficiently to ensure two "strangers in the night" don't pass in the hallway or front door. The Korean shops were superb at this. Now my mantra is, "Don't get your meat where you get your bread. " Meaning play in someone else's back yard, not your own.