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A girl that had became my regular is in the process of burning me. Basically I paid up front with the promise of a visit later that afternoon and then radio silence. I have seen her for years. My question is how long should I wait to put up the review?
[QUOTE=ItsTimeToEat;3293158]A girl that had became my regular is in the process of burning me. Basically I paid up front with the promise of a visit later that afternoon and then radio silence. I have seen her for years. My question is how long should I wait to put up the review?[/QUOTE]I'd send her a text, telling her you're giving a reasonable time period (say a day) to respond, and that if she doesn't you'll announce the details. Finis.
The good dr.
[QUOTE=ItsTimeToEat;3293158]A girl that had became my regular is in the process of burning me. Basically I paid up front with the promise of a visit later that afternoon and then radio silence. I have seen her for years. My question is how long should I wait to put up the review?[/QUOTE]If she's screwing you over, it's not like it will get worse. I imagine you've warned her. Just do it. What would you lose?
[QUOTE=ItsTimeToEat;3293158]A girl that had became my regular is in the process of burning me. Basically I paid up front with the promise of a visit later that afternoon and then radio silence. I have seen her for years. My question is how long should I wait to put up the review?[/QUOTE]They all have phone problems, I'd give her two days max, and that would give her the benefit of the doubt, then I'd post in the Rip Off Reports, so I and other monger's don't go near her.
I'll give her until tomorrow afternoon and then I'll post how much of a dumbass I am. There is a silver lining to the story though. I got a text from an ex (like highschool era ex) and the second photo was of her boobs so the money I'll save on her will offset the funds I lost to my old ATF. When life gives you lemons make.
And remember kids: don't pay until after you play!
I was very disturbed to read the ripoff alert on Crissee. There are few providers I would have recommended based solely on reviews. But I guess this proves that once the monkey is on their back, stellar reputations built over years are not worth that one hit.
She traded her good standing and the guaranteed business that brings, for nothing.
[QUOTE=DNut;3294456]I was very disturbed to read the ripoff alert on Crissee. There are few providers I would have recommended based solely on reviews. But I guess this proves that once the monkey is on their back, stellar reputations built over years are not worth that one hit.
She traded her good standing and the guaranteed business that brings, for nothing.[/QUOTE]Addendum: Seems Crissee finally called (after he posted a ripoff alert; make with that what you wish) and made it right.
Hey guys! Been a long while since I have wrote but I've been very busy with the kiddos lately but I have a question? I'm sure most of you k ow that when us providers post our information and number. A bunch of other sites take the info and put it on they're site. What I don't like is that stupid site that always says one of us or all of us is affiliated with the police and shows all of our charges even of prostitution is not on there. Then when a guy Google's your number boom site pops up and freaks them out thinking your a cop. A man I have even seen before didn't see me because of this site. I was pretty upset that he even thought that because he has seen me before and told him to not bother txting or calling me again, specially since he has seen me recently and should know better. He just left me hanging. I told others no because I thought he was coming then I get an email this morning telling me about he found me on the site smh. How can I get my info off them sites!. I could understand how someone might get the wrong idea but not someone I have already met with. Just grrrr LOL hope everyone is having a great new year and hopefully they post my question because I'm really bothered by it!
[QUOTE=ItsTimeToEat;3293158]A girl that had became my regular is in the process of burning me. Basically I paid up front with the promise of a visit later that afternoon and then radio silence. I have seen her for years. My question is how long should I wait to put up the review?[/QUOTE]I'm sorry but I really believe that if you give any, and I mean any, provider money with no service provided you should consider that money a gift. You are shocked that she didn't provide the service later? Really? These girls don't want to do this for a living. Vast majority do it to support a drug habit. Others for a guy and a very very few as a simple occupation. Yeah ok maybe you got away with it in the past by prepaying for future services. You were lucky. This isn't a business. These girls are prostitutes and we are johns. Yeah we call them "providers" and us "clients" like its a legit business with guidelines and regulations and laws. Yes we should treat them with respect and expect the same. But its still an underground illegal "business" that yes, has street rules. But giving money in advance for future services is just dumb. The only thing more dumb is expecting that service to happen. It worked in the past? Lucky.
I've been following the recent posts and reviews about Crissee with some alarm. I feel I owe it to the forum and my fellow mongers to post a warning given her history.
Do those of you who see her know about the situation from last summer with her? There was quite a public "interaction" with her and some associates that may warrant your attention. If you are seeing Crissee without this knowledge, you are taking quite a chance in my opinion.
Do yourselves a favor and look back through the post history to last summer. Forum rules state that I am not to post certain kinds of online reports. I really liked Crissee and saw her often over the last few years but would not go near her today due to the those events. Now that I am seeing reports about questionable behavior in forum posts for the last few days, I can only think she's going back downhill again and a monger could get caught up in an unfortunate mess.
I realize this might be an overreaction and I only wish Crissee the best. She's a great and fun person if she's clear-headed. But I am not naive and even if some of you guys think she's turned it around, I've been there done that. My gut tells me things are awry again.
Again, this is my opinion and rant. And it's my personal rule to stay away from providers who have proven records associated with substances. You might feel ok with that risk. But keep your eyes and ears open, and your sixth sense sharp. Safety first, always safety first!
[QUOTE=CrissyLynn2015;3295390]Hey guys! Been a long while since I have wrote but I've been very busy with the kiddos lately but I have a question? I'm sure most of you k ow that when us providers post our information and number. A bunch of other sites take the info and put it on they're site. What I don't like is that stupid site that always says one of us or all of us is affiliated with the police and shows all of our charges even of prostitution is not on there. Then when a guy Google's your number boom site pops up...How can I get my info off them sites!. [/QUOTE]Bottom line is, you can't. These sites trawl places like Backpage for ads, and inject it into their own site using a template to make it seem like it's an "Alert". It isn't. You can contact the site, but they will only remove it if you pay them an "administrative fee" ranging from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars. That's how they make their money; "they" are normally people in Europe, Asia, or Africa.
If you are pissed off, remember that the source of their information is your own ad that you posted at one time or another. The rule of the internet is that once you post, it's there, forever, in one form or another. It sucks, but it's just another aspect of the business.
Those sites will turn some people off. But those guys who have been around a bit know the real deal and ignore the scare tactics and USE the sites as just another source of ads. You might actually get a customer from one of those sites so there is that.
Good luck.
I want to make this perfectly crystal clear if a provider calls or ask me for a reference I always do my nest to answrr to the best of my knowledge a few days ago I accidentally hit the wrong button and deleted everyone of my contacts I'm also a full time student and work a 3rd shift job.
I have limited time in my day and if given a reference I always check it now understand not every provider will reply that is not my fault but for the one particular provider feels the need to pass bad things about me saying I'm a liar blah blah blah grow upand get a life andkeep my name out of your mouth I'm really a nice person but for christ sake you obviously know nothing about me or youd know how full of crap you soundim tired of always having to defend myself to some people of I do something you disagree with then say your peace and move the hell on don't continue to sit and question me I don't have time for it.
[QUOTE=DrBnode73;3295636]I've been following the recent posts and reviews about Crissee with some alarm. I feel I owe it to the forum and my fellow mongers to post a warning given her history.
Do those of you who see her know about the situation from last summer with her? There was quite a public "interaction" with her and some associates that may warrant your attention. If you are seeing Crissee without this knowledge, you are taking quite a chance in my opinion.
Do yourselves a favor and look back through the post history to last summer. Forum rules state that I am not to post certain kinds of online reports. I really liked Crissee and saw her often over the last few years but would not go near her today due to the those events. Now that I am seeing reports about questionable behavior in forum posts for the last few days, I can only think she's going back downhill again and a monger could get caught up in an unfortunate mess.
I realize this might be an overreaction and I only wish Crissee the best. She's a great and fun person if she's clear-headed. But I am not naive and even if some of you guys think she's turned it around, I've been there done that. My gut tells me things are awry again.
Again, this is my opinion and rant. And it's my personal rule to stay away from providers who have proven records associated with substances. You might feel ok with that risk. But keep your eyes and ears open, and your sixth sense sharp. Safety first, always safety first![/QUOTE]When I met her in 2012 she was snorting 6 grams of H a day, the recent arrest over the summer was also for the the same substance. She has been a user for over 5 years now and gets arrested over and over again for it. There were some well founded information a few years ago that she was working for LE.
Now I will say first and foremost I continued to see her over the years because I knew the risks and felt I could minimize them. Furthermore, Crissee is not doing anything more than most of the girls we see that are substance abuse users. Furthermore girls that are busted are foolish not to work for LE if it gets them a break, and all girls that are users need to be paid after a session not before a session and never advanced money.
That being said, I finally quit seeing her because she had the attitude that she was invincible and therefore she took greater chances. Her perspective was, what the hell if I am busted I spend a few days in jail get a fine and I m back at it. Of course for those of that are mongers, we don't want any publicity at all.
The situation this summer shows how bold they had become and how many risks they felt they could get away with, and in the end, Crissee is back on the street doing what she does, and her sisters husband is out a 23 year career.
I don't believe that she worries about how the risks affect others other than herself. That's simply too risky for many of us.
But I will say the same thing KC did, she is very talented, very charming, and if you pin her down she will delver the goods. The hobby we are in is risky, it is up to us to figure out how to minimize the risks with any provider we see.
But if she is telling you she is off the stuff and clean, its not the truth, believing Crissee will change her personal habits is a pipe dream.
There are many talented girls in this area, but not all of them feel they are above the law because of their connections, personally I am more interested in girls that are as concerned about the risks as I am and are as careful as I am. I don't want my wife and kids or my employer to question my judgement because I was stopped in a car with Crissee with H on her.
That's my rant, do what you want but know the facts before you pull the pin with her.
Safety first always safety first.
This is Manda, from Wednesday. Like most Glockgirls, she swallows.
[QUOTE=DNut;3295683]Bottom line is, you can't. These sites trawl places like Backpage for ads, and inject it into their own site using a template to make it seem like it's an "Alert". It isn't. You can contact the site, but they will only remove it if you pay them an "administrative fee" ranging from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars. That's how they make their money; "they" are normally people in Europe, Asia, or Africa.
If you are pissed off, remember that the source of their information is your own ad that you posted at one time or another. The rule of the internet is that once you post, it's there, forever, in one form or another. It sucks, but it's just another aspect of the business.
Those sites will turn some people off. But those guys who have been around a bit know the real deal and ignore the scare tactics and USE the sites as just another source of ads. You might actually get a customer from one of those sites so there is that.
Good luck.[/QUOTE]Yes, I have personally dealt with them more than just once! Drives me crazy because for newer friends that join our hobby get totally sketched out by them. Once things are explained and understood after, they usually feel horrible and want to make it up to the woman he stood up! . Just wish there was an easier way to go about removing the information. But your correct when you say, once you post it, it's posted forever LOL. Hope everyone has had a lovely weekend and can't wait to see my friends this week xoxo.