Seeking Arrangements

I wouldn't read into it too much. Its a #s game, just like other apps / dating in real life. And women can and are often very flaky in general.

Looks do matter in many cases, but so does money. Being decent looking and not crude or vulgar when messaging with them goes a long way.

I'm not on SA at the moment, but I don't get too deep into conversations with them. If there is mutual interest, I get them to text / communicate off the app and set up a time to meet or a time to fuck if possible. Obviously with a price in mind beforehand.

Perhaps you are doing too much chit chat. Women generally lose interest with too much chit chat, vs. Making a plan.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;6597109]For the experience Seeking. I'm getting a lot of flakes and they stop texting me afterward when conversation went pretty well. Is that common? I'm guessing they stop texting me when they found someone better looking.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OkWhatever;6597628]I wouldn't read into it too much. Its a #s game, just like other apps / dating in real life. And women can and are often very flaky in general.

Looks do matter in many cases, but so does money. Being decent looking and not crude or vulgar when messaging with them goes a long way.

I'm not on SA at the moment, but I don't get too deep into conversations with them. If there is mutual interest, I get them to text / communicate off the app and set up a time to meet or a time to fuck if possible. Obviously with a price in mind beforehand.

Perhaps you are doing too much chit chat. Women generally lose interest with too much chit chat, vs. Making a plan.[/QUOTE]Valid points. PlayT, don't put too much stock into them valuing any one trait as a reason to stop the chat. Sometimes women just like to fill the time that way and will just stop for any reason. I agree with OK. Just use good manners and form, and I hear as in the dating world, women like the man to make a plan. Take the lead that way. SA takes time and patience.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6593680][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d08470f0-a819-4763-b1e4-5c9244793943[/URL]

She's been around for a long time, I think she used to work as a stripper. Seems pro, wants 700 ppm. There is no way I'm doing that much.

Just wondering if someone met her and was able to negotiate lower.[/QUOTE]Don't see her, she's so not worth it. Can provide further details by PM.

[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6594969]Any info on this one? Looks familiar not sure if she was on seeking before.[/QUOTE]She's a stripper in Boston. Nice girl but doubt she will do much.

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6597819] SA takes time and patience.[/QUOTE]It takes time and patience with even the most legit and well-meaning women. Add in all the non-legit / scammers / platonics / chatters-only and it really takes a lot of time and patience!

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;6597109]For the experience Seeking. I'm getting a lot of flakes and they stop texting me afterward when conversation went pretty well. Is that common? I'm guessing they stop texting me when they found someone better looking.[/QUOTE]I would say they got a better rate more so than finding someone better looking.

Also many women join the site "on the fence" about doing it (just looking syndrome). And of course, the scammers who eventually get found out and pivot to new account/number.

[QUOTE=ClPost045;6598130]She's a stripper in Boston. Nice girl but doubt she will do much.[/QUOTE]She tells me she usually gets 2 k ppm. I surely hope not.

Any info on this one? Wouldn't confirm if it's her so I blocked and moved on.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6598516]She tells me she usually gets 2 k ppm. I surely hope not.[/QUOTE]She wouldn't verify if it's her. If she's getting 2 k it makes sense LOL.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6598339]I would say they got a better rate more so than finding someone better looking.

Also many women join the site "on the fence" about doing it (just looking syndrome). And of course, the scammers who eventually get found out and pivot to new account/number.[/QUOTE]Yes, I agree with you. They are probably going for a better rate but add your other observation about being on the fence which could fuel the idea of if they are going to do this, it better be worth their while. It's not the worst factor because it implies a freshness to the scene. Moreover, if you find the right one who will travel to you and spend several hours, it could be very nice. Enjoy.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6598339]I would say they got a better rate more so than finding someone better looking.

Also many women join the site "on the fence" about doing it (just looking syndrome). And of course, the scammers who eventually get found out and pivot to new account/number.[/QUOTE]I thought about the rate also. I did the meet and greet on the 2 women's and they stopped responding when I confirm with the appointments. I one person we schedule something for next day for the arrangement and I agree with her on the price. I did not negotiate lower. You probably seen her before. She's Judy from Malden. I messaged her to confirm. Doesn't respond and blocked me. Strange interaction.

800 ppm for those who are interested.

[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6599199]800 ppm for those who are interested.[/QUOTE]She might be worth the 800 just by looking. There is no link to her profile.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;6599584]She might be worth the 800 just by looking. There is no link to her profile.[/QUOTE]If she is under 30, don't expect more than what you can get for 200, GPS will undoubtedly be in play with a bunch of don'ts and very few do's.

She very well might. There are people that make a lot of money, especially in the greater Boston area. Downtown Boston is a very expensive place to live & hang out.

I casually dated a stripper once that also had a few sugar daddies. We met through a mutual friend and we became friends first. She never charged me anything for anything. She was just looking to hang out and hook up with someone she could trust and that wasn't in the game.

At the time that I was seeing her, she told me that there were months where she would make 10-15 K with all her activities' and I believe it. She owned a really nice condo, BMW, and had other investments including wads of cash. Crazy how much they can make.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6598516]She tells me she usually gets 2 k ppm. I surely hope not.[/QUOTE]